Cave men??

jenny4385

ok ok i actually give up... where are all these nice men that we get fooled by tv and films into believing actually exist!?!?!
are they all hiding in a cave somewhere?

Black Swan

TURNS ON LIGHT IN CAVE ... There are a few in there, some putting on their aftershave for the next audition.

MrStuffins

jenny4385 wrote: »

ok ok i actually give up... where are all these nice men that we get fooled by tv and films into believing actually exist!?!?!
are they all hiding in a cave somewhere?

There's your problem right there!

jenny4385

lol
they should start making some realistic films... none of this boy meets girl falls in love at first sight rubbish... they should start telling it like it is.... girl goes out thinking she looks pretty gets absolutely nowhere... some drunk yolk who looks like he may throw up or fall over is the only thing (thing used as the nicest possible word i can use to describe it) that comes anywhere near you....
rant over

Lu Tze

They are all out playing tag rugby and such, try a few different social channels as opposed to just nights out.

MrStuffins

jenny4385 wrote: »

lol
they should start making some realistic films... none of this boy meets girl falls in love at first sight rubbish... they should start telling it like it is.... girl goes out thinking she looks pretty gets absolutely nowhere... some drunk yolk who looks like he may throw up or fall over is the only thing (thing used as the nicest possible word i can use to describe it) that comes anywhere near you....
rant over

So are you approaching guys and getting knocked back?

kiwi123

If i wanted to meet a guy, a night club is definitely not the place i would look or even want to find one!
Sure with a few drinks on them, guys literally lose all inhibitions. Despite their thinking, if some guy comes over to me, slaps my ass on the dance floor, I am not going to swoon and start eating face (gross term, sorry) nor would i even consider him relationship material! Like A fine example of this is Coppers, boys r are all about the touching and it's just not a desirable quality in a man. Much rather meet someone through friends of friends etc.

jenny4385

nope i fear mass rejection

Silverfish

Seriously, there's loads of them out there. You just have to stay away from the nightclub / pub thing to find them usually, you're not getting an accurate representation of people when there's drink involved, I think.

MrStuffins

jenny4385 wrote: »

nope i fear mass rejection

So you go out and don't talk to guys..........maybe thats why you dont meet any?

jenny4385

MrStuffins wrote: »

So you go out and don't talk to guys..........maybe thats why you dont meet any?

so any one any suggestions as to where to meet these nice boys??

and yep i do talk to them.. you know the verbal diarrhoea ya get when you dont know what to say.. i think i should have a degree in it

Lu Tze

Silverfish wrote: »

Seriously, there's loads of them out there. You just have to stay away from the nightclub / pub thing to find them usually, you're not getting an accurate representation of people when there's drink involved, I think.

At a guess, the type you are looking for isn't likely to be among the brash attention seekers who will use a "tried and trusted" chat up line on you in a nightclub.

With the summer coming up there is far more opportunity for other social activities to meet people through

MrStuffins

jenny4385 wrote: »

so any one any suggestions as to where to meet these nice boys??

and yep i do talk to them.. you know the verbal diarrhoea ya get when you dont know what to say.. i think i should have a degree in it

I dont think there's one right answer as to where you can meet a nice guy.

After Hours? :P

jenny4385

yea i tried speed dating there recently might give that another go...

and who know net dating may turn up a normal person

billybigunz

The pub/club is still a decent spot. You just need to approach it in the right way.

SugarHigh

It depends what you consider a nice guy to be I suppose. I'm sure most people would describe themselves as nice but maybe you wouldn't agree with them.

princess-lala

I met mine in D2! Ok its only a few weeks but hes lovely so far!!

No he didnt slap my ass either! Nor would he dare!

MrStuffins

jenny4385 wrote: »

yea i tried speed dating there recently might give that another go...

and who know net dating may turn up a normal person

Did you get any matches from Speed Dating?

I'd find it very humiliating if my matches didnt match me back

(I think thats how it works?)

Silverfish

Actually, saw a good one today in the park while I was being nosey.

There was some fitness meetup thing going on, groups of people lepping and jumping. Afterwards, they were walking off, and one of the girls turned to one of the guys and said 'Do you want to go for a coffee?' and he said '...oh! yeah! Okay!' and they both had a little smiley moment.

Simple as that.

jenny4385

all hints and tips welcome
on another note i just did something that made my top toolbars go away so now webpage goes up to top of screen.. help!?! how do i fix??

MrStuffins

jenny4385 wrote: »

all hints and tips welcome
on another note i just did something that made my top toolbars go away so now webpage goes up to top of screen.. help!?! how do i fix??

What do you look for in a guy? apart fron being "nice"?

Lu Tze

F11 button?

jenny4385

someone whos a good listener i gues... i never know how to answer that q... ya ever just get that feeling that you ll know them when you meet them... that they re your type..
yep i got a match on speed dating and a few friend ones good result if you ask me

MrStuffins

jenny4385 wrote: »

someone whos a good listener i gues... i never know how to answer that q... ya ever just get that feeling that you ll know them when you meet them... that they re your type..
yep i got a match on speed dating and a few friend ones good result if you ask me

So what happened to him?

jenny4385

i decided to break the ice n send him a message he didnt write back ah well

MrStuffins

jenny4385 wrote: »

i decided to break the ice n send him a message he didnt write back ah well

Thats bizarre!

Well there's guys all over the place, there's no Golden Rule to meet anyone. As you say, you'll just know when someone is your type. When you DO meet people like this, don't be shy and see if they're interested back!

jenny4385

i ll try my best

cheers

Wibbs

Well Im hairy of face and head, have some primitive skull features, can hunt and fish, am pretty handy on the oul flint knapping and according to recent research have 4% Neandertal DNA, so we're still out there.

jenny4385

LOL!!!!
thats good to know!!! altho im looking for more of a hunter gatherer type neanderthal while i stay in the mud cave and paint pretty eyes and spirals on the walls

Novella

If you wanna come over to mine, there's a man who lives opposite to me and likes to exercise half naked in front of his window! Seems like a winner to me! :pac:

Naw, seriously, there are nice guys all over the place. Things tend to work out better if you don't approach every man with the idea of making him your boyfriend in your head though, imo. It's better to concentrate on having a fun time and who knows what'll happen along the way?!

ztoical

jenny4385 wrote: »

all hints and tips welcome

Meeting guys in clubs all you really know about them is they like drinking and dancing or more likely are just trying to pull someone for a quickie. Why not go to events related to things your interested in and meet guys who are also interested in the same topic? Least you know you'll have one thing to talk about.

MrStuffins

Wibbs wrote: »

Well Im hairy of face and head, have some primitive skull features, can hunt and fish, am pretty handy on the oul flint knapping and according to recent research have 4% Neandertal DNA, so we're still out there.

:eek:

TAKE ME NOW WIBBS!

jenny4385

oh dear god what have i started

Wibbs

I dunno, but he's MRstuffins so frankly Im scared

jenny4385

we all are jenny runs back into cave rolling boulder door behind her

MrStuffins

Wibbs wrote: »

I dunno, but he's MRstuffins so frankly Im scared

Don't be......... i'll be gentle

4zn76tysfajdxp

Wibbs wrote: »

I dunno, but he's MRstuffins so frankly Im scared

Who'd a thought he'd be into stuffin' misters?

Nervous Wreck

billybigunz wrote: »

The pub/club is still a decent spot. You just need to approach it in the right way.

Good call. Tbh, I'm sick of people saying "Don't think you're ever gonna find a nice guy/girl in a pub/club cos it won't happen" or any of that crap. Clubs especially are not the most ideal place to meet someone, given their very nature but this notion that "nice guys/girls" don't go to clubs and spend their time instead lounging about coffee shops or playing casual sports in the park is ridiculous. I'm a pretty nice dude and I've got some amazingly nice friends; guess where we go on a Saturday night... Yep, to a club. As billybigunz said above me, it's all about the way you approach it. Paying attention only to the sleaze-ball slapping your ass and ignoring anyone else does not in any way prove that there are no nice people in clubs.

Silverfish wrote: »

Actually, saw a good one today in the park while I was being nosey.

There was some fitness meetup thing going on, groups of people lepping and jumping. Afterwards, they were walking off, and one of the girls turned to one of the guys and said 'Do you want to go for a coffee?' and he said '...oh! yeah! Okay!' and they both had a little smiley moment.

Simple as that.

I've fallen in love with that post.
/adds one more to the 'how many times' thread.

Panthro

Go to Mass.
Thats where the real talent is these days im telling ya.

MrStuffins

papagormo wrote: »

Go to Mass.
Thats where the real talent is these days im telling ya.

Must.... surpress..... joke.......

Stheno

Wibbs wrote: »

Well Im hairy of face and head, have some primitive skull features, can hunt and fish, am pretty handy on the oul flint knapping and according to recent research have 4% Neandertal DNA, so we're still out there.

Tsk, unless you are African, then this article suggests you are only 2% Neanderthal Feel free to refute

Wibbs wrote: »

I dunno, but he's MRstuffins so frankly Im scared

You should be, I reckon his real life name is Bubba

OP there are lots of nice guys everywhere, in work, out socially, amongst your friends or your friends friends, just relax and you'll find them.

There are some lovely gentlemen frequenting pubs and clubs, we're not all in there to have a one night stand, in fairness we don't expect to meet the woman of our dreams either but you never know

Daisies

Novella wrote: »

If you wanna come over to mine, there's a man who lives opposite to me and likes to exercise half naked in front of his window! Seems like a winner to me! :pac:

Can I come over. There's binoculars in my apartment somewhere!!!

the_syco

kiwi123 wrote: »

Like A fine example of this is Coppers, boys r are all about the touching

In Copper Faced Sluts, this seems the thing to do to get a slapper. You goto a butchers to get meat, you goto Coppers to get a slapper I'm told. Never been to Coppers personally, though.

jenny4385 wrote: »

someone whos a good listener i gues... i never know how to answer that q... ya ever just get that feeling that you ll know them when you meet them... that they re your type..
yep i got a match on speed dating and a few friend ones good result if you ask me

Where does one do speed dating? Internet has failed so far, so meh. Why not.

papagormo wrote: »

Go to Mass.
Thats where the real talent is these days im telling ya.

Nein!!!11!!

Novella

Daisies wrote: »

Can I come over. There's binoculars in my apartment somewhere!!!

Go for it, he deserves to be appreciated! :pac:

MrStuffins

Daisies wrote: »

Can I come over. There's binoculars in my apartment somewhere!!!

I was walking down the street with my girlfriend a while back and there was a woman, brazen as you like, completely naked in her bedroom window with the blinds all the way up pretending to be picking out cclothes to wear.

She turned and saw us and quickly turned back to look at the wardrobe, putting her hand to her chin as if to be in thought!

Maybe they're related?

Carlos_Ray

Two good friends of mine, lets call them Rita and Audrey, had a similar outlook on life and they decided to avail of the services of a male escort. He wasn't an escort in the sexual sense. He was a man of style and grace. A man who knew his wines, theatre, and his cutlery. Certainly no "Caveman". Perhaps you should try this angle??

MrStuffins

Carlos_Ray wrote: »

Two good friends of mine, lets call them Rita and Audrey, had a similar outlook on life and they decided to avail of the services of a male escort. He wasn't an escort in the sexual sense. He was a man of style and grace. A man who knew his wines, theatre, and his cutlery. Certainly no "Caveman". Perhaps you should try this angle??

Jaysus........ i got that reference!

I'm so ashamed!

miss5

There are some lovely guys out there, Don't lose faith!

I think guys really like being approached instead of being expected to do it
all the time. I think you would be pleasantly surprised if you talked to
a guy you like.

Nervous Wreck

miss5 wrote: »

There are some lovely guys out there, Don't lose faith!

I think guys really like being approached instead of being expected to do it
all the time. I think you would be pleasantly surprised if you talked to
a guy you like.

Defo. It's like being the little spoon. We don't do it as often so we like it a little bit extra.

Novella

Nervous Wreck wrote: »

Defo. It's like being the little spoon. We don't do it as often so we like it a little bit extra.

I would actually thank that a million times if I could.