Are Irish women picky?

arsenallegend

if your not Irish they love you and if your Irish its like you speaking to a brick wall. I'm not saying all of them are picky but damn they make you work for it.
When i was in England a few years back the women over there were great and not too hard to score with.

Even in a poll a few years back Irish women were chosen as the pickest women in Europe.

So why are they so picky?

i.e i'm not ugly before you say it:D

biko

Hmmm, it's either all of them - or it's you

SomeFool

Don't think they're picky, one's going out with me.....

arsenallegend

biko wrote: »

Hmmm, it's either all of them - or it's you

No i'm not bragging but i get a fair few women;)
But sometimes i've been in the firing line of some pretty rude irish women who don't like it when your nice to them:D

--LOS--

I don't think they could be any more picky than women anywhere else

arsenallegend

--LOS-- wrote: »

I don't think they could be any more picky than women anywhere else

But i travelled to a few places and women like it when your outgoing and fun but with irish women its about looks and what money you make. I might get hate with that comment but thats what i've seen a lot.

L.Jenkins

Yeah!!! Another one of those, I'm single threads and no fucking Irish women will look at me. Try going out chatting up women. It's not that there picky, they just don't fancy you, but sadly you'll find one that does!

jkrowling

I don't think their picky, they're just not as easy as English girls

biko

Well, one of them is going out with me - and I'm no beauty.

--LOS--

arsenallegend wrote: »

But i travelled to a few places and women like it when your outgoing and fun but with irish women its about looks and what money you make. I might get hate with that comment but thats what i've seen a lot.

Ah I think that's just coz you're viewed as more exotic to women elsewhere

arsenallegend

--LOS-- wrote: »

Ah I think that's just coz you're viewed as more exotic to women elsewhere

Its the irish accent

jkrowling

arsenallegend wrote: »

But i travelled to a few places and women like it when your outgoing and fun but with irish women its about looks and what money you make. I might get hate with that comment but thats what i've seen a lot.

I actually agree and I'm a woman so think I'm allowed to say that!!

Wags have a lot to answer too - a lot of girls I know are wag wannabe's and won't even look at a guy if his clothes/shoes are the right labels, hasn't got a nice car, or good job to keep them in hair extensions, fake tan/sunbeds and bicardi breezers!

L.Jenkins

There is a good point being made in this thread, Irish lads can get a ride very easily in any other country. Irish women would seriously want to tone it down a bit though, wag wannabes will find themselves 60 years old and still single with an attitude like that.

arsenallegend

jkrowling wrote: »

I actually agree and I'm a woman so think I'm allowed to say that!!

Wags have a lot to answer too - a lot of girls I know are wag wannabe's and won't even look at a guy if his clothes/shoes are the right labels, hasn't got a nice car, or good job to keep them in hair extensions, fake tan/sunbeds and bicardi breezers!

Yep sadly you can see it in Dublin night clubs right now every friday and saturday night. My friend wore a suit out one night as he was coming home from a wedding and i swear he was surrounded by these girls thinking he was a big somebody:D

--LOS--

arsenallegend wrote: »

Its the irish accent

You need to tan up and adopt an Italian accent so

But seriously I do think it is a case of being attracted to someone that stands out, be it an accent or a look or whatever.

These girls in foreign lands you speak of are probably as picky towards their own nationality as we irish are.

BigDuffman

Definitely, there tends to be a nasty attitude that I have not seen anywhere else. Groups of girls (from one side of the liffey in particular) tend to get off on besting each other in bitchy comments to any poor young fella that plucks up the courage to go over and say hello.

These little cliques of girls are usually seen tucked into a corner on the dance floor or hogging the bar. Any attempt by a male to A) Try have a chat / score Innocently get to the bar / casual conversation, may result in bitchy comments much to the pleasure of the rest of the simpering muppets.

They are also usually seen tottering around like baby giraffes on roller skates with smudged mascarra and holding back their BFF's hair whilst they puke.

You may hear the usual boards replies of "we just want to go out for a good time with out female friends without being bothered and drooled over". Yeah thats fair enough, its also fair enough to assume that just because you are female and in a group that it does not give you the god given right to be as bitchy as possible!

I had the displeasure of working in a nightclub that used to harbour such female groups and funnily enough you notice that those particular wimminz who practice this behaviour regularly tend to be the gals who end up all alone spinsterish!

I've always had bucket loads of confidence (and I'm a bleedin royid too). But I can only imagine the negative effect it would have on a bloke lacking confidence.

arsenallegend

--LOS-- wrote: »

You need to tan up and adopt an Italian accent so

But seriously I do think it is a case of being attracted to someone that stands out, be it an accent or a look or whatever.

These girls in foreign lands you speak of are probably as picky towards their own nationality as we irish are.

My brother in law is italian i might get a few tips from him:)
i just feel Irish women just probably want to escape their normal life and escaping it isn't going to happen with the Dublin guys they see every day of their life.

L.Jenkins

BigDuffman wrote: »

Definitely, there tends to be a nasty attitude that I have not seen anywhere else. Groups of girls (from one side of the liffey in particular) tend to get off on besting each other in bitchy comments to any poor young fella that plucks up the courage to go over and say hello.

These little cliques of girls are usually seen tucked into a corner on the dance floor or hogging the bar. Any attempt by a male to A) Try have a chat / score Innocently get to the bar / casual conversation, may result in bitchy comments much to the pleasure of the rest of the simpering muppets.

They are also usually seen tottering around like baby giraffes on roller skates with smudged mascarra and holding back their BFF's hair whilst they puke.

You may hear the usual boards replies of "we just want to go out for a good time with out female friends without being bothered and drooled over". Yeah thats fair enough, its also fair enough to assume that just because you are female and in a group that it does not give you the god given right to be as bitchy as possible!

I had the displeasure of working in a nightclub that used to harbour such female groups and funnily enough you notice that those particular wimminz who practice this behaviour regularly tend to be the gals who end up all alone spinsterish!

I've always had bucket loads of confidence (and I'm a bleedin royid too). But I can only imagine the negative effect it would have on a bloke lacking confidence.

You don't see too many men at it unless they're gay. In any case most men just want a ride, so none of this crack of taking the piss out of women or groups of them unless there ridiculously ugly!

arsenallegend

BigDuffman wrote: »

Definitely, there tends to be a nasty attitude that I have not seen anywhere else. Groups of girls (from one side of the liffey in particular) tend to get off on besting each other in bitchy comments to any poor young fella that plucks up the courage to go over and say hello.

These little cliques of girls are usually seen tucked into a corner on the dance floor or hogging the bar. Any attempt by a male to A) Try have a chat / score Innocently get to the bar / casual conversation, may result in bitchy comments much to the pleasure of the rest of the simpering muppets.

They are also usually seen tottering around like baby giraffes on roller skates with smudged mascarra and holding back their BFF's hair whilst they puke.

You may hear the usual boards replies of "we just want to go out for a good time with out female friends without being bothered and drooled over". Yeah thats fair enough, its also fair enough to assume that just because you are female and in a group that it does not give you the god given right to be as bitchy as possible!

I had the displeasure of working in a nightclub that used to harbour such female groups and funnily enough you notice that those particular wimminz who practice this behaviour regularly tend to be the gals who end up all alone spinsterish!

I've always had bucket loads of confidence (and I'm a bleedin royid too). But I can only imagine the negative effect it would have on a bloke lacking confidence.

Well said.

I've seen guys crushed by these girls nasty comments but if you offer them a drink they will use you as far as your money runs out. I always found as i worked in a nightclub too that they will chose the guy they been using all night or pick the nearest guy near them who would seen as he's so drunk he'd meet a broom stick:D. its become more seen now then it was a few years back

Noffles

They must be, mine had to come to Wales to find me....

topper75

arsenallegend wrote: »

But i travelled to a few places and women like it when your outgoing and fun but with irish women its about looks and what money you make.

Places such as? do Ryanair go there? the ladies there seriously don't care what you look like or what your economic status is?!

jkrowling

arsenallegend wrote: »

My brother in law is italian i might get a few tips from him:)
i just feel Irish women just probably want to escape their normal life and escaping it isn't going to happen with the Dublin guys they see every day of their life.

I know quite a few italians myself who would also say irish women are picky. As previously mentioned. It's not where your from it's about how you portray yourselves to them and how you can benefit them. Ridiculous I know but it seems to be the way it is.

I was in McGowans a few weeks ago and there was this fugly bloke in his 40's, flashing the cash, fancy suit letting it be known he owned a bar and basically bul****ting out of him. BUT, fugly as he was, he was fighting the wag wannabe's off with a brush

L.Jenkins

Me thinks we should form our own social group of men who go out and be nasty to women in clubs!!!












Knows this is a childish idea!

arsenallegend

djhunter30 wrote: »

Me thinks we should form our own social group of men who go out and be nasty to women in clubs!!!












Knows this is a childish idea!

we just continue been gentlemen and they will come to us:D

pikachucheeks

djhunter30 wrote: »

Irish women would seriously want to tone it down a bit though, wag wannabes will find themselves 60 years old and still single with an attitude like that.

Not every Irish woman's objective is to find a man. Personally, I'd rather be 60 and single than 60 and with someone I'd settled for!

arsenallegend

jkrowling wrote: »

I know quite a few italians myself who would also say irish women are picky. As previously mentioned. It's not where your from it's about how you portray yourselves to them and how you can benefit them. Ridiculous I know but it seems to be the way it is.

I was in McGowans a few weeks ago and there was this fugly bloke in his 40's, flashing the cash, fancy suit letting it be known he owned a bar and basically bul****ting out of him. BUT, fugly as he was, he was fighting the wag wannabe's off with a brush

Sadly its Ireland in the 21st century, these girls think money will buy them happienesss. Even if it means loving a fugly but i blame the papers and shows like Big Brother for thinking sexy women only need to bag a rich man and thats all their good for.

L.Jenkins

pikachucheeks wrote: »

Not every Irish woman's objective is to find a man. Personally, I'd rather be 60 and single than 60 and with someone I'd settled for!

Ah finally, a woman scoured! Did men do something to you or treat you in an unfavourable way!

GavRedKing

arsenallegend wrote: »

Yep sadly you can see it in Dublin night clubs right now every friday and saturday night. My friend wore a suit out one night as he was coming home from a wedding and i swear he was surrounded by these girls thinking he was a big somebody:D

Theres your answer.

arsenallegend

pikachucheeks wrote: »

Not every Irish woman's objective is to find a man. Personally, I'd rather be 60 and single than 60 and with someone I'd settled for!

did a man treat you bad cheeks

arsenallegend

gavredking wrote: »

Theres your answer.

But it isn't:D

L.Jenkins

http://doodoolicious.com/img/350-million-dollars.jpg

Here ladies, if ye want a rich bloke, this lads got 350 million dollars, he lives in sunny Zimbabwe and his got a big spanner! Win win situation.

--LOS--

arsenallegend wrote: »

My brother in law is italian i might get a few tips from him:)
i just feel Irish women just probably want to escape their normal life and escaping it isn't going to happen with the Dublin guys they see every day of their life.

You could say the same for women anywhere though.

I just really detest this attitude that Irish girls are stuck up and are only interested if you're ****t hott and rolling in cash, if you're only in a nightclub to get laid, you can't but expect the attitude you describe, unfortunately.

I have a friend who is endlessly ranting about how easy it is for girls to meet guys/ get laid and I would agree to a certain extent so maybe it has more to do with Irish people being more old-fashioned in their courting ways in general, rather than just an issue with Irish girls.

arsenallegend

--LOS-- wrote: »

You could say the same for women anywhere though.

I just really detest this attitude that Irish girls are stuck up and are only interested if you're ****t hott and rolling in cash, if you're only in a nightclub to get laid, you can't but expect the attitude you describe, unfortunately.

I have a friend who is endlessly ranting about how easy it is for girls to meet guys/ get laid and I would agree to a certain extent so maybe it has more to do with Irish people being more old-fashioned in their courting ways in general, rather than just an issue with Irish girls.

I'm not old fashioned but just bought up not to see girls as sex objects:p
sadly that didn't work

L.Jenkins

arsenallegend wrote: »

I'm not old fashioned but just bought up not to see girls as sex objects:p
sadly that didn't work

We're taught not to see them as sex objects and they're thought not to view us as ATMs!

jkrowling

arsenallegend wrote: »

i blame the papers and shows like Big Brother for thinking sexy women only need to bag a rich man and thats all their good for.

Yeah but a lot of these girls of them aren't even really good looking. I mean they put on a bit of fake tan, some hair extensions, false eyelashes and a greyhound skirt and with the right lighting they "look" sexy. I call it the shallow hal complex

Obviously I'm a sexy mofo and don't need any of the above mentioned products

HalloweenJack

In my experience, yeah, they are. It's much easier to get with foreign girls than Irish ones, foreign ones are hotter too so it's no loss for me.

arsenallegend

jkrowling wrote: »

Yeah but a lot of these girls of them aren't even really good looking. I mean they put on a bit of fake tan, some hair extensions, false eyelashes and a greyhound skirt and with the right lighting they "look" sexy. I call it the shallow hal complex

Obviously I'm a sexy mofo and don't need any of the above mentioned products

Jkrowling i wouldn't doubt you are;)

L.Jenkins

jkrowling wrote: »

Obviously I'm a sexy mofo and don't need any of the above mentioned products

Pics or GTFO!

arsenallegend

HalloweenJack wrote: »

In my experience, yeah, they are. It's much easier to get with foreign girls than Irish ones, foreign ones are hotter too so it's no loss for me.

Foreign girls are hot cause they are so fit:p
but Polish girls are stuck up

--LOS--

arsenallegend wrote: »

we just continue been gentlemen and they will come to us:D

Good idea! You don't need the suit though.

arsenallegend wrote: »

I'm not old fashioned but just bought up not to see girls as sex objects:p
sadly that didn't work

I'm not saying you're old-fashioned but I think it is generally accepted girls swim, guys fish, unfortunately that's the problem.

AssaultedPeanut

pikachucheeks wrote: »

Not every Irish woman's objective is to find a man. Personally, I'd rather be 60 and single than 60 and with someone I'd settled for!

djhunter30 wrote: »

Ah finally, a woman scoured! Did men do something to you or treat you in an unfavourable way!

arsenallegend wrote: »

did a man treat you bad cheeks

Here we have the answer to your question OP. It simply must be Irish men that're the problem not Irish women
/generalisation

She merely stated she would rather be alone than stuck with someone she didn't really want to be with, which imo is fair enough and I'd be the same, but straight away she hates all the mens because someone hurted her feelings:rolleyes:

dearg lady

seems like a particular type of idiot girl you're referring to, maybe change the places you go to??

I'll admit if soemone is really bothering me I will them to f*ck off, but that's only if tehy haven't responded to repeated hints and being asked politely.

WindSock

No, you're just all ugly :P

arsenallegend

--LOS-- wrote: »

Good idea! You don't need the suit though.



I'm not saying you're old-fashioned but I think it is generally accepted girls swim, guys fish, unfortunately that's the problem.

I wouldn't wear a suit:)
Women have always been a mystery to men and will continue to do so until the end of this world. But i've had a few reltionships which have been great and some that sucked but thats life i get on with it.

jkrowling

arsenallegend wrote: »

Foreign girls are hot cause they are so fit:p
but Polish girls are stuck up

Yeah they are fit but no fashion sense what so ever - you know what I'm talking about

But i disagree with you on the polish being stuck up. I work with quite a few different nationalities and out of all the ones I work with, the french are actually more stuck up than any of the others!

TheZohanS

arsenallegend wrote: »

I'm not saying all of them are picky but damn they make you work for it.

Sure you wouldn't appreciate them if you didn't have to put in a bit of effort.

So why are they so picky?

Because they're worth it if you get a good one.

i.e i'm not ugly before you say it

It's not all about the looks.


Irish girls are the best in the entire world.

arsenallegend

dearg lady wrote: »

seems like a particular type of idiot girl you're referring to, maybe change the places you go to??

I'll admit if soemone is really bothering me I will them to f*ck off, but that's only if tehy haven't responded to repeated hints and being asked politely.

but its like that in college where i was told you meet smart girls different to the types you meet in Clubs but they were exactly the same:D. I agree if a guy who can't take the hint tell you F*ck off but if your leading them on then thats a different matter.

Augmerson

I have to say I don't think Irish women are any more picky than any other women. For a start, you can't label all Irish women as picky when your barometer for women starts in pubs, bars and nightclubs and levels them up against English women (who are notoriously easy when it comes to Irishmen), that's a bit stupid.

If you go to a one of those places, the people you meet there are going to consider and judge you externally and usually in very shallow terms - what you look like, what are you wearing etc. because clubs are really a meat factory.

I would recommend OP stops trying to score with girls and maybe take a different approach to meeting women that doesn't involve sexual gratification and try and find the mellow, down-to-earth girl's that are out there*

*Actually OP I've tried and failed. Just look up Porn all day and you should be alright.

arsenallegend

TheZohan wrote: »

Sure you wouldn't appreciate them if you didn't have to put in a bit of effort.





Because they're worth it if you get a good one.




It's not all about the looks.


Irish girls are the best in the entire world.

Sadly in this date and time its all about looks:(

L.Jenkins

WindSock wrote: »

No, you're just all ugly :P

Irish women can't say much either on that note, so we're all screwed. On saying that we may as well just all get it on.

ocokev

So is this the kind of girl you are looking for?

arsenallegend wrote: »

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