Discos and Disco Related "Stuff"....

Jackobyte

I'm not a frigid but i have only met one person. It was the same in my primary school as yours m&s* many people looked at being a frigid as bad but i still was one going into second year. I was asked to a couple of times before i did but i didn.t want to meet someone just for the sake of it.

Luno

Much better off not being pressured into it!
I remember my first time It was horrible we were in 4th class? (I think)
Me and a few of my friends were sitting on a cirb and loads of boys were playing soccer in the grass next to us. One of them came over and was saying how much one of them liked me . . . I was completly mortified and just said no I don't want to, all my friends were then saying come on Mary just do it you'll be so mean if you don't and anyways I did, went home straight after feeling sick! It was just horrible!

Little bit of an over exaggeration there but it really wasn't nice although I was kinda glad it was done with and I wouldn't be bothered by anyone about it again.
Until school when everyone would come up to me saying did you meet him blah blah blah!!

WanderingSoul

I actually haven't "met" anyone yet: tbh, I couldn't be bothered. I don't really see the point of "meeting" a total stranger and I don't like parties etc. . . .

I don't think I'm "frigid" though, I just would prefer to "meet" someone I actually know/like as opposed to a random stranger.

Just because I haven't met someone yet doesn't mean I don't know someone I would like to "meet".

Luno

Meeting strangers is stupid to me! Going out for a night just to meet loads of people is not what I'd find fun!
Having said that, I'd much prefer to just have the one person then a whole load of people to meet.

WanderingSoul

Exactly.

suitcasepink

Tbh I didnt think this thread would stay open here, yee're all alot more mature then I thought. :P

WanderingSoul

Why thank you Caroline.

Jackobyte

deise_girl wrote: »

Tbh I didnt think this thread would stay open here, yee're all alot more mature then I thought. :P

The most immature forum on boards tends to be the adult discussion one, ah. Teenage ones are way ahead.

Luno

I like your thinking Jack!

I find the immature people I know, like people in my school would probably be bored after a minute on boards, not enough shiny things I guess!

Fad

This thread is barely staying open, I dont think this is the appropriate forum for it, but it'd be trolled too much in C&H, and the C&Hers wont come here because they know I'll ban them* >_>

I'm surprised I didnt lock it after a certain user's contribution tbh, that was just out of order.

*ie they're far too lazy, that's just what I tell myself sometimes......

Basically guys, tread carefully.

WanderingSoul

Alright Fad, duly noted.

Luno

Where would this be appropriate?
I know it hasn't much to do with the JC and all that but I don't see where you could pop it in, it'll disappear eventually.
I feel more comfortable posting with people who are my age here and makes it easier than if it was somewhere else!

WanderingSoul

It is kind of one of those threads which doesn't really fit anywhere. Usually they would shipped off to AH but I don't think that would be right for this thread.

I also feel more comfortable talking with you guys because there aren't many of us so we know each other fairly well.

Luno

Completly agree with ya there WanderingSoul!

suitcasepink

Fad wrote: »

This thread is barely staying open, I dont think this is the appropriate forum for it, but it'd be trolled too much in C&H, and the C&Hers wont come here because they know I'll ban them* >_>

I'm surprised I didnt lock it after a certain user's contribution tbh, that was just out of order.

*ie they're far too lazy, that's just what I tell myself sometimes......

Basically guys, tread carefully.

*coughs*

bevan619

I honestly have no idea why people 'meet' each other. Isn't it kind of pointless?

And before anyone says it, I'm not complaining because girls don't want to meet me (I've been asked a few times and the girls were pretty decent).

Closed ac

bevan619 wrote: »

I honestly have no idea why people 'meet' each other. Isn't it kind of pointless?

And before anyone says it, I'm not complaining because girls don't want to meet me (I've been asked a few times and the girls were pretty decent).

Raging hormones and all that?

WanderingSoul

That was my earlier point, bevan619.

WanderingSoul

My school is big enough that it's easy enough for stay away from those sort of people and I tend to be very private (in real life not online) about this sort of stuff. About 60% of my friends are of the opposite sex so a lot of people just presume (incorrectly!). And thank-you.

bevan619

DKZ wrote: »

Raging hormones and all that?

Isn't that what the internet is for?

I can barely even talk to girls lol.

WanderingSoul

Jeez, that sounds so . . . just wow, getting friends to ask.

*Not meant to be offensive by the way.

Luno

Talking can be more funner!

Luno

WanderingSoul wrote: »

Jeez, that sounds so . . . just wow, getting friends to ask.

*Not meant to be offensive by the way.

I don't like the whole friends thing really :rolleyes:
Any guy who can come up to you and ask (nicely)
Wins in my books, when they are wrote that is!

Grindylow

WanderingSoul wrote: »

Jeez, that sounds so . . . just wow, getting friends to ask.

*Not meant to be offensive by the way.

Well your hardly going to ask yourself. :P

bevan619

DKZ wrote: »

Haha.

It's not really a requirement at a disco, a friend will ask her to meet you and then you let your tongue do the talkin' lol.

Wait, so do you even want to meet her?

Closed ac

WanderingSoul wrote: »

Jeez, that sounds so . . . just wow, getting friends to ask.

*Not meant to be offensive by the way.

None taken, that's what happens though! It's very rare for someone to ask for themselves.

WanderingSoul

Noel2k9: And why not?!

DKZ: I know but I think it is so ridiculous! It's not that hard to talk to girls/guys (whatever's applicable!).

bevan619

DKZ wrote: »

Yeah, I'll ask my friend to ask her.. as pathetic as that sounds lol

I'm way too socially awkward. I don't like discos anyways.

My friends wouldn't go either. My best friend doesn't like dance music either, one friend is gay, the other barely talks about girls or music or stuff hat isn't comedy or video games.

Luno

DKZ wrote: »

How can you ask nicely? 'Will you meet me please?' lol.

Well yeah, & if you reject them they walk away and accept it!

Grindylow

WanderingSoul wrote: »

Noel2k9: And why not?!

DKZ: I know but I think it is so ridiculous! It's not that hard to talk to girls/guys (whatever's applicable!).

@WanderingSoul Because then if s/he says no, it'll save you the bother of rejection. :P
Anyway, first post in this forum. Hi my name's noel and I'm an internet-a-holic. :pac: