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It was gay then but now it's not.

  • 09-02-2010 01:08AM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭


    First off let me just say this tread doesn’t have anything to do with actually being homosexual but merely what was once seen as something that a straight man just wouldn’t do but now is socially acceptable for them.

    The idea of the metro sexual man is still relatively new and I can remember a time when certain things would be viewed as for women only or “gay”. For example a man admitting to waxing any part of his body now is fine but in the not too distant past would have been viewed totally differently.

    It seams to me that the two sexes are getting closer and that there are less and less things outside of the physical differences between the two that are limited to one sex.

    So what do people think? Is this a good thing? Are there still taboos for men or women when it comes to something only the other sex should do? Or is society now totally open to men behaving in ways previously reserved for women and visa versa?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,159 ✭✭✭✭phasers


    Well a guy shagging another guy is still gay, besides that it's pretty open


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,808 ✭✭✭✭chin_grin


    Anal sex.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,798 ✭✭✭Mr. Incognito


    Spend a week in a rural town and then come back to me with that opinion


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    chin_grin wrote: »
    Anal sex.

    Oh child you have so much to learn. ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,315 ✭✭✭✭amacachi


    Doc wrote: »
    For example a man admitting to waxing any part of his body now is fine

    Where did you carry out that survey?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    Doc wrote: »
    For example a man admitting to waxing any part of his body now is fine but in the not too distant past would have been viewed totally differently.

    Waxing (chests, arms or legs), make-up and having 50 pots of stuff in the bathroom to perform every possible "-ise" and whatever else is still a no-no in my book, as are sunbeds.

    If some guys want to turn themselves into poncy Daivid Bek-em clones, let 'em off! :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,217 ✭✭✭✭m5ex9oqjawdg2i


    Women only gyms, sexist fcuks, yet the same women bítch and whine about not getting into golf clubs. I hope they never let the same bítches into the golf clubs, EVER. :)

    Men waxing is not normal, do not be deluded.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,572 ✭✭✭✭brummytom


    Penis up the arse.


    Read in another thread on here that is wasn't 'neccessarily' a 'homosexual act'. Yeah.. it is if you're a bloke


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,320 ✭✭✭Teferi


    Doc wrote: »
    It seams to me that the two sexes are getting closer and that there are less and less things outside of the physical differences between the two that are limited to one sex.

    O rielly?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,677 ✭✭✭staker


    Man hugging, what's wrong with a handshake or nod?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭Doc


    amacachi wrote: »
    Where did you carry out that survey?

    So if a man waxed his back in this day and age it would not be considered fine by most people?

    I haven’t done any survey it was a pure assumption.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    brummytom wrote: »
    Penis up the arse.


    Read in another thread on here that is wasn't 'neccessarily' a 'homosexual act'. Yeah.. it is if you're a bloke

    Well if it's a man's penis in my arse I suppose it's kinda gay. However if it's one of them new fangled women's penises that you can buy in the Ann Summer's then that ain't gay at all now is it? After all, it's strapped onto a purty fine lady.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,316 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    Homosexuality used to be punishable by death in England, then by prison sentence, then by flogging, then they made it legal. I'm getting out before they make it compulsory.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,300 ✭✭✭✭ejmaztec


    staker wrote: »
    Man hugging, what's wrong with a handshake or nod?

    And definitely no eye-contact:eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    Ok so if your dream woman said to you "If you get your chest waxed ya can have me anyway ya want me" You're saying you wouldn't do it for fear of being branded gay :confused:

    I'd do it in a heartbeat :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,526 ✭✭✭m@cc@


    Doc wrote: »
    For example a man admitting to waxing any part of his body now is fine

    For me, it's still only the back that is allowed and even then, it's the end result of the missus nagging.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 35,070 ✭✭✭✭The_Kew_Tour


    We are still not as comfortable about people's sexuailty compared to other countries still in my view.

    i was in Hardcourt St Saturday night and two guys were kissing. The looks they got from some blokes you swear they had two heads each.

    EVENFLOW



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,038 ✭✭✭Seloth


    Spend a week in a rural town and then come back to me with that opinion

    You must have a veyr dim view on "The wild peoples of the country"

    My mam told me once of a gay couple that lived in the village by her childhood home,nothing wwas ever said against them and they fitted in with everyone quie well...and bear in ind that was 50's-60's Ireland.

    People dont mind if somones gay,But not long ago a friend of mine was found out to be in the closet and people began to take the piss out of him...Not because he as gay but because he ws embarased about it,they wouldnt have bothered otherwise heh.

    But yeah guys like chickflicks,obssed with their hair etc..Its always been that case I'd say,but we were more secret about it:pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,859 ✭✭✭✭Sharpshooter


    i was in Hardcourt St Saturday night and two guys were kissing. The looks they got from some blokes you swear they had two heads each.

    Well now, in fairness...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,415 ✭✭✭The Pontiac


    We are still not as comfortable about people's sexuailty compared to other countries still in my view.

    i was in Hardcourt St Saturday night and two guys were kissing. The looks they got from some blokes you swear they had two heads each.

    I bet they'd have no problem with two girls kissing.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,526 ✭✭✭m@cc@


    <Ollie> wrote: »
    I bet they'd have no problem with two girls kissing.

    Depends if they're good-looking or not. Ugly lesbians are just awful to look at.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 35,070 ✭✭✭✭The_Kew_Tour


    Well now, in fairness...

    what?

    im just really responding to general asked overall.

    EVENFLOW



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    What ponders me is do some girls get the same buzz off watchin' 2 lads goin at it that some lads get watchin' 2 girls goin' at it?

    TBH I wouldn't give a second glance to either situation

    (I've probably just given someone an epic thread idea but meh)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,173 ✭✭✭✭kmart6


    AnonoBoy wrote: »
    Oh child you have so much to learn. ;)
    Paedo alert!!!!!!!!!!!!:eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    kmart6 wrote: »
    Peado alert!!!!!!!!!!!!:eek:
    snyper? where?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    Bonito wrote: »
    What ponders me is do some girls get the same buzz off watchin' 2 lads goin at it that some lads get watchin' 2 girls goin' at it?

    Some girls do. Definitely.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,983 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    Smoking cigarettes

    Wearing wristwatches

    Foppish hair

    All considered unmanly at one stage, yet people don't bat an eyelid at the above these days.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    AnonoBoy wrote: »
    Some girls do. Definitely.
    One could make a lot of money out of that revelation.....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    kmart6 wrote: »
    Peado alert!!!!!!!!!!!!:eek:

    Quick look out! It's the spelling police!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    Bonito wrote: »
    One could make a lot of money out of that revelation.....

    I'd post a link but I don't fancy a ban this early in the morning.


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