Trivial things that totally turn you off someone

OutlawPete

Darlughda wrote: »

Hate to say it OutlawP, but maybe you are gettin a bit jaded & tired in yer women hunting methods?

maybe you have just seen the end of one cycle and the beginning of another?

I am not making my comments based on dating at all.

I think your reading something into my comments that isn't there in fairness.

Just from being in today's society even at just an observational standpoint, what women want now and what they seemed to want 10 - 15 years ago is vastly different.

Back then (and up until very recently) you couldn't turn on the TV or read a magazine without reading about how women are trying to get their guys to be more romantic, attentive etc

Women's magazines (I read them at the Dentists :cool:) would be full of "Ten tips to get your guy to notice you, 25 ways to make your man fall in love you .. etc tec.

Now when I read them (in the Doctor's surgery :cool:) they are totally different lists. You are more likely to read: "Top ten ways stop your man being possessive" or "How to decide which of the guys your shagging is the right one.." :pac:

By the way I am not saying that any of this is bad, I like it.

I'm just pointing out that the game be changing.

I also think / know that a lot of what women used to say was a lot of poppy cock and they really just went along with the tide as society would look down on women who did / said any different.

So, women today have freedom to be more honest and can say that they just wanna have sex without all the lovey dovey nonsense, whereas 10 -15 years ago they would been called a tramp for saying such things.

I guess what I am really saying is that Women owe Men an apology for judging them so harshly for their behavior all this time.

As now that women are starting to have the same 'freedoms', they too are now starting to behave and express themselves just like Men always did.

I myself would like this apology in writing, laminated if possible

/legs it

Thomas828

False fingernails, excessive make-up... And if I go to kiss a girl and I discover she has a tongue stud -- Or if she takes off her shirt and reveals tight leather or PVC underwear or tattoos, that would turn me off. And if she revealed that she's into kinky sex, I would flee.

chocgirl

Dirty Nails
Smoking
Too short trousers on guys

Smokers, txt spk, tattoos and opinionated people.

Darlughda

OutlawPete wrote: »

So, women today have freedom to be more honest and can say that they just wanna have sex without all the lovey dovey nonsense, whereas 10 -15 years ago they would been called a tramp for saying such things.

I guess what I am really saying is that Women owe Men an apology for judging them so harshly for behaving as they have, as now that women are starting to have the same 'freedoms', they to are start to behave and express themselves as Men always did.

I myself would like this apology in writing, laminated if possible

/legs it

It will be a cold day in hell indeed before any such apology would be issued. :pac: Though I still think women have been excersising these freedoms since the 70's, with the usual time delay for Ireland to catch up.

Nulty

Dark nail polish on fingers and especially on toes. Looks dirty or just ****.

Clear nail polish is fine, same goes for lipstick actually

bronte

Nulty wrote: »

Dark nail polish on fingers and especially on toes. Looks dirty or just ****.

Clear nail polish is fine, same goes for lipstick actually

*Hides black "Lady Gaga" Lipstick* :eek:

4zn76tysfajdxp

I just don't like people.

Piste

OutlawPete wrote: »

things like they don't like touchy feely guys, quite the opposite.

Back then you would hear women expressing that they wish their guys would open up more and buy flowers occasionally and would talk to them after sex etc etc

This became a cliche as it was said so much by women - comedians, movies etc etc would refer to it.

However, this now seems to be not the case.

Wait, what?? Is it normal for guys to completely ignore women after sex? That seems awfully strange.

4zn76tysfajdxp

Piste wrote: »

Wait, what?? Is it normal for guys to completely ignore women after sex? That seems awfully strange.

During too, if you're a selfish lover.

Larianne

small hands.

epgc3fyqirnbsx

I fucking hate patronisng pr1cks!! :mad: ( patronising - (used of behavior or attitude) characteristic of those who treat others with condescension)

inforfun

Nail biters

dark crystal

Pious Non-smokers. *shudder*
(Just thought I'd stand up for all us smokers consigned to the scrapheap here!)

Jewellery on men - don't mind watches, but rings, chains and bracelets turn me right off for some reason.

Mammy's boys. Not talking about men with good relationships with their mams, more the ones that still rely on them to do their washing, cooking, underwear shopping etc. If a guy still lives at home in his late 20's/early 30's, I would seriously question his maturity.

A guy that thinks hunting animals for fun is an acceptable pastime.

4zn76tysfajdxp

Selfish lovers and shellfish lovers.

OutlawPete

Piste wrote: »

Is it normal for guys to completely ignore women after sex? That seems awfully strange.

You tell us.

I'm not talking from experience of sleeping with men or anything.

I'm purely referring to the fact that women for many many years have been complaining about guys "going straight to sleep" after sex.

I have no clue if it's true or not, I just presumed it was, due to the strenuousness of the complaints

DamoDLK

I'm not into chicks that are cocky. that really bugs the $hite out of me..

Piste

OutlawPete wrote: »

You tell us.

I'm not talking from experience of sleeping with men or anything.

I'm purely referring to the fact that women for many many years have been complaining about guys "going straight to sleep" after sex.

I have no clue if it's true or not, I just presumed it was, due to the strenuousness of the complaints

Oh I thought you meant guys just not talking to women and ignoring them completely, which seems pretty odd.

OutlawPete

Piste wrote: »

Oh I thought you meant guys just not talking to women and ignoring them completely, which seems pretty odd.

God no, men be loving the wimminz

Holsten

Hmmmm.. Trivial....

Red lipstick/red nail polish.

Those ballet shoes too... horrible.

Tar.Aldarion

OutlawPete wrote: »

You tell us.

I'm not talking from experience of sleeping with men or anything.

I'm purely referring to the fact that women for many many years have been complaining about guys "going straight to sleep" after sex.

I have no clue if it's true or not, I just presumed it was, due to the strenuousness of the complaints

It's true a lot due to chemical reaction after orgasm making men sleepy. Or so I tell them.


Yeah read that somewhere..

OutlawPete

Tar.Aldarion wrote: »

It's true a lot due to chemical reaction after orgasm making men sleepy. Or so I tell them.


Yeah read that somewhere..

Yes, apparently oxytocin and melatonin get released simultaneously and it causes drowseyness in males.

Wimminz be not understanding how complicated men's endocrine system be :cool:

Local-womanizer

Annoying laughs I cant stand! No matter how hot the women is.

bigeasyeah

Being of the same species.

jdooley28

girls with bad manners.
stuck up or ignorant girls.
clueless
cocky

Latchy

Originally Posted by OutlawPete
I'm purely referring to the fact that women for many many years have been complaining about guys "going straight to sleep" after sex.

From personal experience ?.yes ...not everybody but perhaps it might be down to how the women feels ....for want of a better word ' performed ' as much as the guy .

upandcumming

jkrowling wrote: »

ok, these might sound weird but here we go!

1. If a guy hasn't got nice shoes it's a major turn off! Scuffed shoes are a sign of someone who doesn't take pride in their appearance and if they let their shoes get like that I can only imagine what their personal hygene is like. Also scobie shoes like kickers, dubes and the likes are a major turn off.
2. Ben Sherman shirts, any bloke that thinks this looks good is wrong. It's the scobie uniform when combined with said shoes above.
3. Men wearing excessive gold jewlery - it is not a sign of how rich/hard you are it's sad.
4. Hillbilly tuxedos - need I say more?
5. Men that drink G&T's
6. Coke Heads
7. Blokes that go about their criminal mates and gangster buddies
8. d4 blokes (real or wannabes) I'm talking about the Ross O'carroll Kelly wannabes of this world
9. Skanger Banger drivers
10. Blokes who are too lazy to work and scrounge of us hard working tax payers
11. Blokes who wear blazers with jeans on a night out
12. Blokes who wear wife beats

And then there's what turns me on

1. Facial hair and shaved heads, dunno why but this really floats my boat, think it's the whole neanderthol man thing?
2. Nice body, not talking pumped up here just nice and toned
3. Personality - last when looks are gone
4. Gentleman

Girls that say scobie.

upandcumming

Girls that lie. Aul bitches! I'm sure its the same for men. But I don't care about them.

merengueca

Men who live on their own but have a pet cat. It's either a left over from an ex or a sign he's gonna be touchy feely!

OutlawPete

merengueca wrote: »

.. touchy feely!

That's another nail in the coffin for "touchy feely".

It's a revolution I tell ya, they'll be buring their g-strings in the street soon.