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Which profession do you find most attractive?

  • 01-12-2009 10:47pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 283 ✭✭b12mearse


    If you met the man of your dreams what kind of profession would you want him in? :)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    A successful writer...pick their own hours, well paid, write a couple of best sellers & retire early....all good. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    A successful writer...pick their own hours, well paid, write a couple of best sellers & retire early....all good. :)

    Hank Moody??? :D The Best kind of writer! :D

    I wanna marry a doctor!! :) (I know it's about mens professions, and that I never wanna get married, but a doctor would be good)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,240 ✭✭✭Iron Hide


    What about the whole men in unform thing? Surely Army or Navy wins then!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,503 ✭✭✭✭jellie


    i thought this thread would be about what women would like to do themselves, not what they want their men to do :(:rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,390 ✭✭✭The Big Red Button


    My OH is a carpenter, does mostly roofing, is very macho and lives in steel toe boots, Snickers trousers and a toolbelt ... I must say, the accountants I work with every day seem like total pansies in comparison!!! :D


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 902 ✭✭✭Cows Go µ


    I don't know exactly what I want him to be, I just want it to pay lots and have few hours :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,584 ✭✭✭✭Creamy Goodness


    profession does nothing for me.

    they could be a rocket scientist but be as dense as a door knob and it wouldn't matter that they are a rocket scienctist.

    similarly they could be - ohh i don't want to degrade anyones job so i won't mention anything here but think polar opposite to rocket scientist and insert here - and be great to be around and it wouldn't matter what they work at.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,021 ✭✭✭LadyE


    Someones profession doesn't define them as a person and make them more dateable:rolleyes::confused:.

    I prefer the person, as who they are, not what they earn, wear to work or what they do.

    Think its pretty darn shallow to think otherwise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,016 ✭✭✭Blush_01


    IMHO as long as he's happy and the bills are paid, I couldn't care less whether he's a drag queen, an accountant, a plumber, a painter, a candle stick maker or anything else.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    If i found out a girl was dating me because of my profession being attractive/lucrative she's be dumped quite quickly

    I wouldnt care if my girlfriend cleaned the toilets in Mcdonalds, your job doesnt define you


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    When I meet the man of my dreams, I'll get back to you and let you know what he is. :)

    I don't care what he is or what he does as long, 'cause if he's 'The One', he'll be perfect regardless.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 636 ✭✭✭cute_cow


    Red Storm wrote: »
    Army

    +1 million on this.....
    friend of mine is in the army, and i swear i've had a crush on him for as long as i could remember.
    sent me apic of him in uniform from Chad and sweet mother of mercy......i swear i still fantasise about him :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,036 ✭✭✭Shelga


    Paediatrician :D

    Shows he's intelligent, empathetic, caring, good with kids and earns lots of money. Yes I'm thinking of George Clooney in ER :o

    Not that I'm that shallow or anything...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,115 ✭✭✭✭Nervous Wreck


    LadyE wrote: »
    Someones profession doesn't define them as a person and make them more dateable:rolleyes::confused:.

    I prefer the person, as who they are, not what they earn, wear to work or what they do.

    Think its pretty darn shallow to think otherwise.

    Disagree to an extent. Sure, a person's personality isn't defined by their profession but often it is reflected in their profession. For example, one could assume that a psychotherapist is generally quite empathetic, a pediatrician quite benevolent, a kindergarten teacher fond of children etc. I don't see anything wrong with being attracted to that part of someone's personality in the slightest.


    For me, I'm fond of creativity. I'd like to sit around on the couch and listen to a girl read me a poem or play me a song or show me a painting or whatever the hell. If she can make some cold, hard cash from it then awesome but she could shovel shít down a well for a job for all I care (cos it'd defo show a humbleness that I'd find very attractive :D).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,183 ✭✭✭✭Will


    Stripper. They have to be.

    Serious part of post though, I echo LadyE and Cremo's posts.
    Men in uniform always seem to have an allure about em so I'm told, wonder if the same can be said for male nurses or care assistants? :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Ninja Assassin.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,021 ✭✭✭LadyE


    Disagree to an extent. Sure, a person's personality isn't defined by their profession but often it is reflected in their profession. For example, one could assume that a psychotherapist is generally quite empathetic, a pediatrician quite benevolent, a kindergarten teacher fond of children etc. I don't see anything wrong with being attracted to that part of someone's personality in the slightest.


    For me, I'm fond of creativity. I'd like to sit around on the couch and listen to a girl read me a poem or play me a song or show me a painting or whatever the hell. If she can make some cold, hard cash from it then awesome but she could shovel shít down a well for a job for all I care (cos it'd defo show a humbleness that I'd find very attractive :D).

    We'll have to agree to disagree.

    In some cases, your profession doesnt reflect your personality, you could fall into the career line/job...could love it or hate it, do your job well but have no passion for it.

    Hence, I judge my ideal partner on them, and not what they do for a living.:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,875 ✭✭✭Seraphina


    I would previously have agreed that a man's profession is irrelevant, but I recently met a man who custom builds and repairs guitars. I have to say I find it very attractive. He makes beautiful instruments which make amazing music, and he's very artistic and good with his hands in general :D


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    Doesn't matter to me, so long as he's happy and can support himself - and before everyone jumps on that, I mean himself, not me as well.

    That said, that would be the ideal, but if he didn't have a job at all, I can't say that would ever have put me off either. I've been the sole earner lots of times.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    The question in the title of the thread & the first post are slightly different...I certainly wasn't suggesting that IRL, my partners profession has any bearing on how attractive I find him. I was going on the hypothetical question of finding a particular profession more attractive than others :)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,264 ✭✭✭Cookie Jar


    Once he wears snicker trousers I dont mind:rolleyes::D


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    Cookie Jar wrote: »
    Once he wears snicker trousers I dont mind:rolleyes::D

    I work with 20 or so blokes in snickers trousers. The odds are good ......but the goods are odd.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,115 ✭✭✭✭Nervous Wreck


    LadyE wrote: »
    We'll have to agree to disagree.

    In some cases, your profession doesnt reflect your personality, you could fall into the career line/job...could love it or hate it, do your job well but have no passion for it.

    Hence, I judge my ideal partner on them, and not what they do for a living.:)

    My point being, no one implied judgement until you did...... Anyway, agree to disagree sounds good yeah.
    Novella wrote: »
    I don't care what he is or what he does as long, 'cause if he's 'The One', he'll be perfect regardless.

    http://www.rtb.gov.bn/RTBCity_Promo/rtbcity/the_one.jpg


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,115 ✭✭✭✭Nervous Wreck


    Silverfish wrote: »
    I work with 20 or so blokes in snickers trousers. The odds are good ......but the goods are odd.


    Post of the week.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    never really thought about it.

    Tho as long as shes forfilled doesnt bring her work home with her, and can live out side what happnes in her working enviroment well then sweet as.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,850 ✭✭✭FouxDaFaFa


    Will wrote: »
    Men in uniform always seem to have an allure about em so I'm told, wonder if the same can be said for male nurses or care assistants? :pac:

    They'd be the same to me. If I see a guy helping a little old lady or a sick person he instantly becomes more attractive.
    Cookie Jar wrote: »
    Once he wears snicker trousers I dont mind:rolleyes::D

    Forgive me for being dense but what the hell are snicker trousers??:confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    The only profession I'd want my future partner to be in is the one that made him happy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,115 ✭✭✭✭Nervous Wreck


    FouxDaFaFa wrote: »
    Forgive me for being dense but what the hell are snicker trousers??:confused:

    Cockney slang for shorts. People wear them when they're running Marathons....!





    Yep... I'm that tired.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,264 ✭✭✭Cookie Jar


    FouxDaFaFa wrote: »

    Forgive me for being dense but what the hell are snicker trousers??:confused:

    You know the worker trousers. Blue... electricians, plummers, etc wear them


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,477 ✭✭✭✭Raze_them_all


    Cookie Jar wrote: »
    Once he wears snicker trousers I dont mind:rolleyes::D
    Damn
    *throws away dickies*

    Ah well.

    Pffft I don't care what she does for a living tbh, I don't know anyone who's job actually reflects them, I know people in the army who do anything possible to get around working, A financial consultant who is in a pub more than the bar staff, I know someone who minds kids and is usually off their face every night.



    Though if I had a choice.... Physio therapist or doctor would be grand


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 36 vitalic


    I always seem to be attracted to engineers! Whatever it is about logic, problem-solving and mathematical skills it works for me :rolleyes:

    +1 on profession not mattering but intelligence is definitely attractive!
    Although if the roles are reversed, I find guys can be intimidated by a woman they perceive as more successful than them... I tend to invent a "dumbed down" job on a night out!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    FouxDaFaFa wrote: »
    Forgive me for being dense but what the hell are snicker trousers??:confused:

    Shiny work trousers with loads of pockets. I have a pair somewhere. They're cut with a low rear so the crack of your arse shows over the top when you're hanging aimlessly around holes in the road in town.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,264 ✭✭✭Pretty_Pistol


    I wouldn't go out with someone just because of ther job but some jobs can make people more attractive by what they wear and by the power they have.

    I love guys who wear a tool belt. Don't know why. Uniforms are always good (army, police, firemen). When a surgeon I had came in with scrubs he became more attractive. I met a detective a few weeks ago and he was attractive but I think him being a detective helped a bit too.

    I'm not money orientated so I wouldn't go out with someone because of how much they earn.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Dragon slayer.

    Seriously if this is about the fantasy and turn on perieved from a person working in a profession then Dragon slayer is as valid as any of the other replies.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,443 ✭✭✭Fink Goddie


    As long as he makes lots of money it doesnt matter to me :D


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 737 ✭✭✭Morgase


    For me, it's got to be something nerdy. My bf started an IT degree this year but I swear I didn't push him into it, he's really nerdy already :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,791 ✭✭✭ash23


    Obviously don't care so long as he's happy yada yada.....

    I always thought uniform yum yum. But then I was seeing a fireman for a bit and after a month I wanted to shove his beeper up his arse and not in a kinky way! :D

    Day or night, mid date or mid session, it didn't matter the damn beeper went off and the clothes went on :rolleyes:. Hence one very frustrated ash!

    My sister is married to an garda dude and I don't think I could deal with the moving around :(

    So I'd be happy out with the local hardware shop assistant (who is hot!) because no emergency calls, no working late, steady hours and no moving. (no sexy uniform either but I can live with that! Thats what Ann Summers is for!) :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,312 ✭✭✭Kooli


    LadyE wrote: »
    In some cases, your profession doesnt reflect your personality, you could fall into the career line/job...could love it or hate it, do your job well but have no passion for it.

    Well even that is a reflection of someone's personality.
    A job is something you spend about 50% of your waking hours doing, so I would want a guy to have put some thought into it, same as I have.

    I don't think the typical 'finance' jobs are very attractive, cos unless a guy is a geek accountant who just loves maths (which would be quite cool), it would make me think they were too motivated by money. And I don't like that whole lifestyle of suits and boozy lunches and networking on the golf course.

    I have no idea what job I would find attractive though - maybe an architect or engineer or something like that? Or something that requires creativity (e.g. graphic designer or ad creative).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 644 ✭✭✭Mackleton


    An artist, I've always been in awe of artistic talent that I could never equal. A gifted artist would be a major turn on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,276 ✭✭✭Alessandra


    Physically most attractive profession for me is a paramedic.
    I don't care about the profession someone has as long as they work hard and enjoy it. A little ambition is always good also.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,060 ✭✭✭Niamho!


    anything in Snickers trousers!!! Haha.
    A Mechanic - they wear Snickers don't they?? snickers trousers, smelling all manly, a bit dirty.....

    I've close enough now but he's not a mechanic he's a shopfitter.
    By the time i get to see him though he's normally changed and cleaned up. Boooo!!! good job i dont work there any more...i'd be sneaking off alot.;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,060 ✭✭✭Niamho!


    ash23 wrote: »
    Obviously don't care so long as he's happy yada yada.....

    I always thought uniform yum yum. But then I was seeing a fireman for a bit and after a month I wanted to shove his beeper up his arse and not in a kinky way! :D

    Day or night, mid date or mid session, it didn't matter the damn beeper went off and the clothes went on :rolleyes:. Hence one very frustrated ash!

    My sister is married to an garda dude and I don't think I could deal with the moving around :(

    So I'd be happy out with the local hardware shop assistant (who is hot!) because no emergency calls, no working late, steady hours and no moving. (no sexy uniform either but I can live with that! Thats what Ann Summers is for!) :D

    Ballyfermot by any chance?? :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    As long as he makes lots of money it doesnt matter to me :D

    Dragons have hordes don't you know ;)


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 16,397 ✭✭✭✭Degsy


    Dominatrix would be cool :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,178 ✭✭✭thirtythirty


    krudler wrote: »
    I wouldnt care if my girlfriend cleaned the toilets in Mcdonalds, your job doesnt define you

    No, but it gives an insight into the type of person they are and how their mind works.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,443 ✭✭✭Fink Goddie


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    Dragons have hordes don't you know ;)

    Dragons?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,739 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    Dragons?

    Thaed wants a Dragon Slayer.....They slay the Dragon's, take the Horde!! :)


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,443 ✭✭✭Fink Goddie


    No, but it gives an insight into the type of person they are and how their mind works.

    Exactly, i couldnt go out with someone with no ambition, someone willing to just stay in the same dead end job for the rest of their lives.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,115 ✭✭✭✭Nervous Wreck


    Exactly, i couldnt go out with someone with no ambition, someone willing to just stay in the same dead end job for the rest of their lives.

    Now this, I would take issue with. "Dead end job" is a relative term to each individuals aspirations. I know people that worked at what some people would call 'dead end jobs' for 40+ years and never looked back because it afforded them and their families comfort, stability and the ability to live happy, interesting lives. Not everyone reaches for the stars in their careers. Some would rather their professional lives remain grounded so their personal lives can soar. The two are not mutually exclusive.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭xoxyx


    profession does nothing for me.

    they could be a rocket scientist but be as dense as a door knob and it wouldn't matter that they are a rocket scienctist.

    similarly they could be - ohh i don't want to degrade anyones job so i won't mention anything here but think polar opposite to rocket scientist and insert here - and be great to be around and it wouldn't matter what they work at.

    I don't know that I care for your lack of faith in our nation's rocket scientists, and, by extension, our nation's rockets. :D


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