Personality or looks?! Come on be honest!

Anonomyte · 14-09-2009 2:06am #1

Its the question that no one answers truthfully, but since we are all on this interweb gadget posting our "honest opinions" what is the verdict? Me? Honestly its 70% personality 30% looks, this used to be the other way round but when you get older you realise there are idiots out there!

Let the games(kinky optional) begin;)

EDIT No offense was meant from option 3, please think of it in a metaphorical sense.....and that I dont know how to edit polls:(

Insect Overlord · 14-09-2009 2:08am

Wow, I've never been asked that question before!

seanybiker · 14-09-2009 2:09am

same answer as the last 50 threads about this

m5ex9oqjawdg2i · 14-09-2009 2:12am

Looks... a personality can be worked on...

4zn76tysfajdxp · 14-09-2009 2:12am

None, in my case.

Paddo81 · 14-09-2009 2:33am

Both if possible. I want the mind of Stephen Fry and the body of Megan Fox. Never to be vice-versa'd!

Kinetic^ · 14-09-2009 2:36am

Anonomyte wrote: »

Honestly its 70% personality 30% looks

You're not being honest there Ted!

seanybiker · 14-09-2009 2:38am

Yara Melted Waltz wrote: »

None, in my case.

You dont have looks or personality lol.

Sea Sharp · 14-09-2009 2:47am

Personality - 35% important
Looks - 65% important.

In fairness though there's a bit of overlap.
Confidence is a positive aspect of a persons personality and can be largely related to one's looks. So I'm gonna need to make a more complicated mathematic model.

(I'll settle for whatever I can get though

)

GLaDOS · 14-09-2009 2:50am

I'm extremely picky, I actually want both.

Crazy, I know!

minidazzler · 14-09-2009 2:51am

Depends what I am looking for out of the particular girl.

I won't date a girl with a bad personality and good looks.
I would Fcuk a Girl with a bad personality and good look.
I won't Date a girl with good personality and bad looks.
I would Fcuk a girl with good personality and bad looks
I won't Date a girl with Bad Personality and Bad looks
I would Fcuk a girl with bad personality adn bad looks
I wonld Date a girl with Good personality and Good looks.
I would Fcuk a girl with Good personality and good looks.

tl;dr I would fcuk any girl I will only date a girl with a nice personality and moderately good looks.

indough · 14-09-2009 2:53am

it takes a lot of personality to make up for bad looks, but only slightly good looks to make up for a bad personality

Pygmalion · 14-09-2009 2:58am

1. Great personality and looks.
2. Great personality, mediocre looks.
3. Mediocre personality, great looks.
4. Mediocre personality and looks.

I guess that puts me in the personality side.
I didn't leave anyone out, if you're much less than average on either you're not considered, no point going with someone you aren't even remotely attracted to no matter how great they are, or someone you hate no matter how hot they are.

4zn76tysfajdxp · 14-09-2009 2:59am

seanybiker wrote: »

You dont have looks or personality lol.

Yup!

TestTransmission · 14-09-2009 3:00am

No need to look at the mantelpiece while poking at the fire

14-09-2009 3:02am

indough wrote: »

it takes a lot of personality to make up for bad looks, but only slightly good looks to make up for a bad personality

Ah, but someone with slightly above average looks and a great personality will have a better life than someone with great looks and a slightly above average personality

indough · 14-09-2009 3:20am

994 wrote: »

Ah, but someone with slightly above average looks and a great personality will have a better life than someone with great looks and a slightly above average personality

yeah but i thought this thread was about who youd rather have as a jump off, not who will have the 'better life'

FearDark · 14-09-2009 3:26am

Hmm...

Id say personality... but then I thought would I go out with the soundest girl ever if she looked like the elephant man...and no, no I wouldnt.

So its got to be a balance of both, probarbly 60/40 in favour of personality.

liah · 14-09-2009 3:27am

Frankly? A split of the two, but I really couldn't tolerate a total idiot so I've definitely erred on the side of personality moreso than looks.. although my last one was lucky, had both, so I'm not complaining.

But I can be damn superficial when I wanna be.

A_SN · 14-09-2009 3:31am

Anonomyte wrote: »

Its the question that no one answers truthfully, but since we are all on this interweb gadget posting our "honest opinions" what is the verdict? Me? Honestly its 70% personality 30% looks, this used to be the other way round but when you get older you realise there are idiots out there!

Let the games(kinky optional) begin;)

For me that's 100% personality 100% looks.

What I'm saying is, with me, your personality score doesn't add up to your looks score, it multiplies. With 0% personality you can be hot as hell I won't even bother, and with 0% looks you can be more witty than Oscar Wilde trying to impress Doogie Howser (oh yeah, you know he'd just have to go for him!), it just won't cut it.

So yeah, I don't like compromises anyway, which is perhaps why I'm single, but I'd rather be on my on than with an overall "just ok" girl. I just wish my fellow men would understand that they don't need women, they want them.

Tar.Aldarion · 14-09-2009 3:53am

They need both or I'm not interested. Of course tehir personality can make them more attractive to me though.

DamoDLK · 14-09-2009 5:42am

Looks, initially, but personality is probably more important in the long run..

speedboatchase · 14-09-2009 8:49am

You sign up for mainly the looks, you stay for the personality. Although your decision to have a one night stand or whichever is based purely on looks, your decision to go into a relationship will be looks/personality on an 70/30 scale

magicianz · 14-09-2009 8:57am

Looks are the hook me, personality is the difference between being thrown back or kept in the keep bucket

FutureTaoiseach · 14-09-2009 9:03am

I like cuddly men but I don't want a relationship I just want man-hugging okay-to-gorgeous fellos and then see you later. Nice personality is a bonus though. I want a cuddly friend with extra's but only casually.

Handsome Bob · 14-09-2009 9:06am

I've never been more mad about a girl than I was with a supposed plain jane. Her personality was just infectious. So I think if I really click with you mentally, looks can be overlooked to a certain extent.

cruiser178 · 14-09-2009 9:09am

jackncoke wrote: »

No need to look at the mantelpiece while poking at the fire

Still, i like to have a nice mantelpiece.Couldnt sahg a minger just because shes sound.

walshb · 14-09-2009 9:14am

Initially it's looks, but who really would be bothered with a good looking girl with a crap
personality. I think a combination of both. For example, imagine having to wake up every morning to listen to the likes of Cheryl Cole?:eek: Okay, good looking girl, but man, what an absolute headache to have to listen to. So, I would settle for decent looking with great personality as opposed to great looking and a crap personality. Although, I do have the best of both:)

But, for one night only, definitely a hot chick...

Porkpie · 14-09-2009 9:38am

Most often you have to compromise on one. It's very rare to find a beautiful, sound woman.

AnonoBoy · 14-09-2009 9:52am

jackncoke wrote: »

No need to look at the mantelpiece while poking at the fire

While that's solid household chore advice I fail to see what it has to do with the discussion.......

It's Monday morning, metaphors are beyond me until I get my third cup of coffee.

Pyr0 · 14-09-2009 10:13am

I'd say for me it'd be 60/40 in looks/personality.

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