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31-07-2009 11:47pm#1
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Never been a problem, Only ever had one and I am married to her! Thats one for sex,handjobs,blowjobs,bobitjobs
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Now there is honestly!
and before someone asks no I am not curious! When you have what I have one is truly enough!0 -
Intercourse.
The implication in "had sex" is obvious. "Had sex" does not equal "gave a hand job". Not in any way. If someone said to me that they'd "had sex" with someone and it later turned out that they got a hand job or some youngfella got his hand down her knickers and they counted that as "had sex" I would _laugh_my_ass_off_ at them.
"I did not have sexual relations with that woman!" 0 -
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chatterpillar wrote: ».
I wouldn't tell just anyone though. It's a very personal thing.
Ahem........you just did
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minidazzler wrote: »I know in the grand scheme of things it doesn't count, but I do know girls who would be put out by a low number, so I pad my bra a little so to speak.
Interesting. I haven't slept with a lot of people but I wouldn't be arsed hiding it. Of course I don't have to hide it any more so it's easy for me to say that. Anyone who would think that I'm crap in the sack because I haven't slept around (I'm dynamite in the sack) is probably riddled. 0 -
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Well anything that could possibly transfer sti's I would consider the number. And this would be the number that I would tell my doc, but I've never told anyone else simply as I never have been asked. Is that weird? :rolleyes:
If a guy asked I'd tell him, it's part of me and if he thinks less of me because of it then I know he won't be added to the list. 0 -
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itsallaboutheL wrote: »
Sarcastic Khannie... well i never...
GTFO!
I just wouldn't really consider oral an STI risk. Not _really_ like. Not the same way that penetrative sex is for example.0 -
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GTFO!
I just wouldn't really consider oral an STI risk. Not _really_ like. Not the same way that penetrative sex is for example.
For a change Khannie I am going to disagree with you on this.....oral sex is also risky If someone has ghonnorea(sp?)....do you really wanna go there.....0 -
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Cold sores are herpes!
My understanding, which may be wrong, but I don't think so, is that fanny / willy herpes and mouth herpes don't mix.
Logging off for the night, so don't abuse me and expect a response.
generally speaking, most herpes occuring in/on the mouth are herpes simplex type 1 and those occuring down below are type 2.
but you can get either type in either place.0 -
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This would include kissing then. Cold sores are a sexually transmitted disease.
kissing would included in my kissing number clearly:rolleyes:! As sam34 points out warts are mix'n'match so to speak, you can get them from oral or kissing.
As the only person I've told my number to is my doc. the number is more accurate if you include all people you've had any sexual contact with. And if asked by a partner that would be the number I'd give. However although your chances are clearly increased from multiple partners, you just need to sleep with one person to catch anything.
Also a lil off topic but this may be odd but I keep a actual notebook containing my sexual history if you will, am I alone in this?
And I have when engaging in a manogamous relationship, insisted on the partners being screened even though protection was always used. {I have a regular check-up/screening with my gyno}
Yes, reading it back i see how odd and sad I am. :rolleyes:0 -
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So, to answer the actual question - I just count intercourse partners, because for me oral-only does not exist. If I was with someone, I was with them. And I'll tell anyone asking my real number (as long as they're just being nosey and not asking for the wrong reasons).
go on then, how many? Nah, I'm only kiddin!!
I know what you mean about differentiating, like if ya've gone as far as oral with someone, why not have sex. In a lot of ways oral is more intimate.
I guess it depends on a person perception of what is intimate, and what is maybe reserved for an OH only, what's ok for a one night stand, what's ok for casual dating. It'll differ from person to person.
There are other reasons why a person might go the oral/grope route only and not have sex with a person but I'd think they'd apply in pretty limited circumstances.0 -
dearg lady wrote: »go on then, how many? Nah, I'm only kiddin!!
I know what you mean about differentiating, like if ya've gone as far as oral with someone, why not have sex. In a lot of ways oral is more intimate.
I guess it depends on a person perception of what is intimate, and what is maybe reserved for an OH only, what's ok for a one night stand, what's ok for casual dating. It'll differ from person to person.
There are other reasons why a person might go the oral/grope route only and not have sex with a person but I'd think they'd apply in pretty limited circumstances.
Hmm, I can sort of get on board with the idea of some things only being reserved for a proper partner, but for me in that case it would actually be oral. I dunno... I just find it waaaaaaay more intimate than penetrative sex. That's to do with my own circumstances though, I used to have trouble performing oral and it took me ages to get over that, so it's a big deal to me to trust someone enough to do it with them.
Thinking about it more, I guess it's really just my own issues that have me thinking that way.0 -
Hmm, I can sort of get on board with the idea of some things only being reserved for a proper partner, but for me in that case it would actually be oral. I dunno... I just find it waaaaaaay more intimate than penetrative sex. That's to do with my own circumstances though, I used to have trouble performing oral and it took me ages to get over that, so it's a big deal to me to trust someone enough to do it with them.
Thinking about it more, I guess it's really just my own issues that have me thinking that way.
Personally I would consider oral more intimate too, I think a lot of people would. I mean, you're gettin very very close and personal with someone! That said, my number differs but for a whole other reason I'm not about to go into here 0 -
I understand why people find oral more intimate, personally I don't. But if I'm having any "sexual relations" with someone I want to be fairly comfortable with them to begin with.
I wouldn't be interested in their intercourse number, to be honest, if I wanted to know I'd want to know their sexual relations number. maybe because my numbers differ. I've had sexual relations with more people than intercourse.
Not intentionally, it just ended up that way. I personally prefer oral, I love intercourse..it's just down the line on my to do list when I'm with someone. Saying that it's not that I put sex off, I never intend to put it on the long finger it, it just happens.
.. It's difficult to explain. 0 -
Not intentionally, it just ended up that way. I personally prefer oral, I love intercourse..it's just down the line on my to do list when I'm with someone. Saying that it's not that I put sex off, I never intend to put it on the long finger it, it just happens... It's difficult to explain.
Can I just ask a possibly weird question? Not being antagonistic. What would happen that would mean you'd have sexual relations with a guy but not go on to have sexual intercourse with him? Like, are these guys you'd have been seeing and then stop seeing or just casual partners?0 -
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