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I'm 19, He's 26, What is this?

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    #32
    banshee_bones
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,160 ✭✭✭✭banshee_bones


    tbh i reeeeaaaaaly think your still in FB territory. Yes hes made some throwaway comments about out of bedroom activities and meeting your parents and i think he just did this to buy himself some more time?
    but until the day time activities that do not involve alcohol and meeting your parents actually happens I would just stop sleeping with him because if this continues you will get hurt.
    However this is just my opinion.
    Only you can know for sure.


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    #33
    LegacyUser
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    From my understanding, you have never been on a date outside of his house/bedroom? Sounds like FB territory to me. However his comments are a bit confusing. At this stage you should know him well enough to talk to him about this & sort out what you both want. Otherwise you could be posting here in a years time still wondering what's going on.


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    #34
    shellyboo
    Registered Users Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    OP, you really need to just ask him. You don't want to be just a FB... so find out if you are. One simple question is all it takes, and then you'll know.


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    #35
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    shellyboo wrote: »
    OP, you really need to just ask him. You don't want to be just a FB... so find out if you are. One simple question is all it takes, and then you'll know.

    I've asked numerous times and he's replied with "I'm just out of a 3 year relationship and i really like you but I want to take things slow" etc etc.

    I'm really confused :(

    Is 2 months not long enough? :(


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