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Husband really causing me terrible stress & so unhappy

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    #32
    Heineken Helen
    Closed Accounts Posts: 636 ✭✭✭Heineken Helen


    Ok, you're very very stuck. It's a horrible situation and a little chat is NOT gonna sort it out. I'm very uncomfortable with you allowing him to walk over you re. the washing and things like that. If a man ever treated me like that, he'd be doing the washing for the next year. You need to take some power back and stop letting him have it all... AND you NEED to arrange counselling for either you or both of you now. Even call the samaritans.


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    #33
    blixie
    Registered Users Posts: 1 ✭blixie


    I'm very sorry you are going through this . Maybe you feel nothing can change right now and talking here helps you get by. Maybe you don't simply want him to stop doing the bad stuff. Maybe you want him to be tender and caring. Maybe you want the two of you to be a real couple--as in "on the same side" emotionally even when you have different views of whatever. If you long for that state, it must seem so distant and unlikely. Which is a drag too. If you could erase the negatives you would not necessarily have these positives, I guess. Good vibes between you and your man..... You can solve problems a million different ways when you have those good vibes. I think you need to off-load here until you discover what to do, and I wish you a revelation asap. I feel for you.


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    #34
    dudara
    Registered Users Posts: 33,519 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    blixie Please don't drag back up old threads.

    dudara


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