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Am i missing out - virgin at 27

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  • #32
    LegacyUser
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    i used to think this way.

    i followed through on it too. i am now with the one i know i am destined to be with. i love this person and could never leave them. and when i die, i know my one regret will be not having slept with anyone else.

    its a horrible thing.


  • #33
    LegacyUser
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    virgin@27 wrote: »
    Hello,

    I am a 27, almost 28 year old female and i am still a virgin. Is there anything wrong with me? It is not as if i have never had the opportunity but they were mostly drunken opportunities. A few men wouldn't wait until i was ready. Their loss. And another one man called me his girlfriend after agreeing to go to the cinema and have a drink with him. That was to fast. A few men didn't believe me and told me to stop lying and just get it on with them.

    I would like to wait, so i wouldn't end up regretting it and since i am going on 28 and waited so long i would like to wait for my one and only true love. But i haven't met him yet. I am in no rush yet to be honest and i am not desperate to meet him at 28, cause i am going to have to spend the rest of my life with him. And that is a long time.

    Its obviously not the first thing i tell them but am i going to scare any potential man off by saying i am a virgin at 28? Am i missing out on anything?


    You're not missing out on anything that'll count for a whole hill of beans. My wife-to-be is 37 and waited. I'm 45 and didn't.. in the past - but am now waiting with her.

    There's sex (making lust) and sex (making love). I've done plenty of the former and it felt great at the time but kind of hollow too. I've never done the latter and it appears to me to be the case that you can't do the making love sex without first doing the making love.

    Which means you have first to find the love. That there's a whole lot of pressure to do otherwise should act as a hint regarding the right way to go. I gather there's even "dating etiquette" which demands you should wait 'til at least the 3rd date before having sex - otherwise you'll be considered "loose"

    *shakes head*


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