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Lying girlfriend..long story..please read..free cookies

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  • #62
    Wagon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    asdasd wrote: »
    in that quote I was responding to Wagon's reply to Bumble Bees story about his friend being nonchalent about his stunning GF being hit upon at parties.
    Oh. I read it differently, I though the lad was getting stuck in and she was responding in the same way.


  • #63
    grizzly
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,789 ✭✭✭grizzly


    I think that after only 7 months many girls are still wondering "is this guy the one?". You've got to give her reasons to make her think yes. By laying down the law you may do a good job of staying true to your principles but a poor one of getting her closer to you.


  • #64
    cumhachtnamara
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14 ✭cumhachtnamara


    i was in a similar situation recently only i was the girl, now it wasnt the same story as in i was textin a fella as much as ur girl but i did send a message, my boyfriend confronted me about it and i lied saying he had text me first. now dont get me wrong i know it was wrong but honestly i knew he would automatically think i was doing wrong so i told a lie. i didnt text ur man because i wanted anything like that, i loved my boyfriend and wasnt ever going to cheat on him. anyway what i am trying to say is give her the benifit of the doubt and try take a step back and look at it from an outsiders point of view, however if you still feel that shes lying to you, you have to sort it out, it'll eat you alive otherwise and will make uz break up even if thats the very last thing either of you ever want.


  • #65
    G86
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,660 ✭✭✭G86


    The thing that struck out for me here is that she's known the guy since she was 13, regardless of whats happened btw them she has every right to stay in contact with him. What is it you think she has lied to you about? She didn't tell you she was texting him - but did you ever ask? Maybe she didn't think it was an issue. Even if he's being a bit flirty she's made it clear she's with you and it clearly not responding to him in that way, so she's doing nothing wrong.

    I get where you're coming from but reading her texts was big no no. It boils down to trust, if you trust her you won't mind who she's friends with, whether they're ex's or not.


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