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Nice guy or not that into me???

lady_fifi · 2008-08-26 15:37:56

Just sondering some peoples opinions on this. Been meeting a guy for the past couple of weeks. We always meet up when out with our friends and have arranged to me meet up once or twice inbetween as well. On Fri we ended up at a house party and slept in the same bed together, now I wouldn't have done the deed just yet, but…

26-08-2008 3:37pm

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Just sondering some peoples opinions on this. Been meeting a guy for the past couple of weeks. We always meet up when out with our friends and have arranged to me meet up once or twice inbetween as well.

On Fri we ended up at a house party and slept in the same bed together, now I wouldn't have done the deed just yet, but I would've expected that he would at least try.

I know that there are some gentlemen about but I've never come across any so now I'm wondering does this guy actually like me or not.

Here are the explanations I've come up with so I'd be interested to know what you guys think.

1) He likes me and doesn't want to rush things/f*** it up
2) He just doesn't like me that much
3) He is secretly gay

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#2 26-08-2008 3:41pm

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Move to Personal Issues?

More details needed, have you two kissed while out in the past? What type of bloke is he, shy? What type of girl are you, would you not initiated anything?

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#3 26-08-2008 3:42pm

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you need to get a bit more, you really do

there is big world out there

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#4 26-08-2008 3:42pm

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:eek: The [EMAIL="b@stard"]b@stard[/EMAIL]!!!

.......did he not even try the "lets just snog and cuddle, I wont do anything, honest" routine?!

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#5 26-08-2008 3:42pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

now I wouldn't have done the deed just yet, but I would've expected that he would at least try.

You would have rejected his attempt if he tried, you said so yourself. Maybe he knew this.

lady_fifi wrote: »

I know that there are some gentlemen about but I've never come across any so now I'm wondering does this guy actually like me or not.

That says more about the type of people you hang around with

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#6 26-08-2008 3:42pm

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Jayz, he's damned if he does and damned if he doesn't. Maybe he thinks he's in the friends zone and missed his chance?

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#7 26-08-2008 3:43pm

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Ask him?

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#8 26-08-2008 3:44pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

1) He likes me and doesn't want to rush things/f*** it up
2) He just doesn't like me that much
3) He is secretly gay

4) Your a total minger.

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#9 26-08-2008 3:46pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

Just sondering some peoples opinions on this. Been meeting a guy for the past couple of weeks. We always meet up when out with our friends and have arranged to me meet up once or twice inbetween as well.

On Fri we ended up at a house party and slept in the same bed together, now I wouldn't have done the deed just yet, but I would've expected that he would at least try.

I know that there are some gentlemen about but I've never come across any so now I'm wondering does this guy actually like me or not.

Here are the explanations I've come up with so I'd be interested to know what you guys think.

1) He likes me and doesn't want to rush things/f*** it up
2) He just doesn't like me that much
3) He is secretly gay

I just wanted to take things slow, thats all....

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#10 26-08-2008 3:49pm

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Aren't you engaged to some dude?!

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=56914871#post56914871

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#11 26-08-2008 3:51pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

On Fri we ended up at a house party and slept in the same bed together, now I wouldn't have done the deed just yet, but I would've expected that he would at least try.

Typical. You probably wear a short skirt and then make faces at guys who look at your legs.

Take up a hobby.

Move to PI.

Smart Bug wrote: »

Aren't you engaged to some dude?!

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=56914871#post56914871

lady_fifi wrote: »

Just said I'd jump in here, I'm 24(and a graduate) have my own house about a year. Going out with a my man about a a year and a half...we got engaged last week and plan to go to vegas to do the deed in December

We are ready for it and know this is for keeps so not bothered about being young. We couldn't be happier... kids won't be coming for another few years though...not in much of a rush there .

Lols. BOOOOOUUUUURRNN!

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#12 26-08-2008 3:53pm

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Pen1987 wrote: »

Move to Personal Issues?

No i want honest opinions...

micmclo wrote: »

You would have rejected his attempt if he tried, you said so yourself. Maybe he knew this.

I would have rejected it just because it's too soon, actually like this guy so don't want him thinking I'm a dirty ho. I don't think I would've been giving any signals that would put him off

caoibhin wrote: »

4) Your a total minger.

Ha Ha...sorry to dissapoint but that option def doesn't belong in there.

Also he knows his not in the friends zone... we've been snogging & cuddling for weeks.

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#13 26-08-2008 3:54pm

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Smart Bug wrote: »

Aren't you engaged to some dude?!

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=56914871#post56914871

Sweet find

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#14 26-08-2008 3:55pm

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Maybe he knows you're engaged then...

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#15 26-08-2008 3:55pm

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Smart Bug wrote: »

Aren't you engaged to some dude?!

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=56914871#post56914871

Op got owned.

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#16 26-08-2008 3:55pm

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Smart Bug wrote: »

Aren't you engaged to some dude?!

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=56914871#post56914871

Haha, roasted!

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#17 26-08-2008 3:55pm

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Smart Bug wrote: »

Aren't you engaged to some dude?!

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=56914871#post56914871

Great spot, dirty ho!

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#18 26-08-2008 3:56pm

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Go with 1 until you have more evidence to point to 2 or 3. Be a bad move to assume 2 or 3, so something else and then find out he dreally did like you.

Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.

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#19 26-08-2008 3:56pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

No i want honest opinions...

You are definatly in the wrong place then

lady_fifi wrote: »

Ha Ha...sorry to dissapoint but that option def doesn't belong in there.

pics or gtfo...

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#20 26-08-2008 3:56pm

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Smart Bug wrote: »

Aren't you engaged to some dude?!

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=56914871#post56914871

Nope thats my buddy

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#21 26-08-2008 3:56pm

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so your in a strangers house, its going to be your first time, anyone could walk in while he's mid thrust so you'll die of embarrassment.

Maybe he wants to wait til you have time alone

I don't see the problem!

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#22 26-08-2008 3:56pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

Also he knows his not in the friends zone... we've been snogging & cuddling for weeks.

Have you told him that ye're engaged yet?

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#23 26-08-2008 3:57pm

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Turd Ferguson wrote: »

You are definatly in the wrong place then

pics or gtfo...

Sh1t, we're in AH?! And here's me giving serious advice! Fvck!!

Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.

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#24 26-08-2008 3:57pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

Nope thats my buddy

Multiple personalities deserves a banning. Surely.

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#25 26-08-2008 3:58pm

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OP how do you know he didnt give you a riding when you were asleep??

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#26 26-08-2008 3:59pm

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Jaysus... thats my mate posting. I'm definitely young free & single, have been for some time actually

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#27 26-08-2008 4:02pm

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helimachoptor wrote: »

so your in a strangers house, its going to be your first time, anyone could walk in while he's mid thrust so you'll die of embarrassment.

Maybe he wants to wait til you have time alone

I don't see the problem!

Part was over, was his best friends house and we'd our own room...which is more or less his room at weekends anyways, was pretty private.

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#28 26-08-2008 4:02pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

Jaysus... thats my mate posting. I'm definitely young free & single, have been for some time actually

I see.

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#29 26-08-2008 4:02pm

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helimachoptor wrote: »

so your in a strangers house, its going to be your first time, anyone could walk in while he's mid thrust so you'll die of embarrassment.

Maybe he wants to wait til you have time alone

I don't see the problem!

Party was over, was his best friends house and we'd our own room...which is more or less his room at weekends anyways, was pretty private.

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#30 26-08-2008 4:03pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

Jaysus... thats my mate posting. I'm definitely young free & single, have been for some time actually

Your mate the pink elephant? :rolleyes:

You tried, you failed - move on.

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#31 26-08-2008 4:04pm

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Are you good looking?
If so, give me a shout.

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#32 26-08-2008 4:08pm

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Maybe he's afraid of your fiancé?

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#33 26-08-2008 4:08pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

1) He likes me and doesn't want to rush things/f*** it up

He doesn't like you and there is nothing to rush/fuck up.

lady_fifi wrote: »

2) He just doesn't like me that much

He likes you and doesn't want to rush things/fuck them up.

lady_fifi wrote: »

3) He is secretly gay

He is openly gay.

Terry wrote: »

Are you good looking?
If so, give me a shout.

I think your personal ad needs some work.

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#34 26-08-2008 4:10pm

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CountingCrows wrote: »

Your mate the pink elephant? :rolleyes:

You tried, you failed - move on.

Have you one good reason why that wouldn't be true??? there is nothing controversial or stirring being posted here, typical Irish always thinking someone is trying to pull the wool over their eyes

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#35 26-08-2008 4:12pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

Have you one good reason why that wouldn't be true??? there is nothing controversial or stirring being posted here, typical Irish always thinking someone is trying to pull the wool over their eyes

popcorn, check
chair, check

kthnksgo

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#36 26-08-2008 4:21pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

typical Irish always thinking someone is trying to pull the wool over their eyes

Be glad he wasn't trying to pull the wool over your eyes prior to a bout of surprise sex.

Unlucky, but you may actually be bet down.

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#37 26-08-2008 4:26pm

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I give up :cool: :cool:

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#38 26-08-2008 4:27pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

I give up :cool: :cool:

Yer man did too.

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#39 26-08-2008 4:28pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

I give up :cool: :cool:

Nice girl or just not that into this thread?

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#40 26-08-2008 4:28pm

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To be honest, I know a lot of guys that wouldn't try to get up on someone who they met at a party. Especially if they're a minger. Or Riddled. Or looks like they're riddled. Not that I am saying you look like a riddled minger of course.

But, then again, lots of guys will try to lob it into anyone. You'll just need to find them. You could start by asking that dude who you're going to marry in vegas.

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#41 26-08-2008 4:30pm

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briano wrote: »

To be honest, I know a lot of guys that wouldn't try to get up on someone who they met at a party. Especially if they're a minger. Or Riddled. Or looks like they're riddled. Not that I am saying you look like a riddled minger of course.

But, then again, lots of guys will try to lob it into anyone. You'll just need to find them. You could start by asking that dude who you're going to marry in vegas.

Boardsie-urn: Burn done by that of a boardsie.........well duuuuh!

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#42 26-08-2008 5:00pm

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Maybe he thought you were a man?

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#43 26-08-2008 6:17pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

Just sondering some peoples opinions on this. Been meeting a guy for the past couple of weeks. We always meet up when out with our friends and have arranged to me meet up once or twice inbetween as well.

On Fri we ended up at a house party and slept in the same bed together, now I wouldn't have done the deed just yet, but I would've expected that he would at least try.

I know that there are some gentlemen about but I've never come across any so now I'm wondering does this guy actually like me or not.

Here are the explanations I've come up with so I'd be interested to know what you guys think.

1) He likes me and doesn't want to rush things/f*** it up
2) He just doesn't like me that much
3) He is secretly gay

Odds are, he respects you.

If he was treating you badly and just trying to roide ya you'd complain....so would I if I were in the situation. So many assholes out there make ya this paranoid, I sympathise with you. When a girl doesn't seem to want to have sex with me in the first 2 weeks I assume she isn't into me...what a woild!

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#44 26-08-2008 7:22pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

On Fri we ended up at a house party and slept in the same bed together, now I wouldn't have done the deed just yet, but I would've expected that he would at least try.

Here are the explanations I've come up with so I'd be interested to know what you guys think.

1) He likes me and doesn't want to rush things/f*** it up
2) He just doesn't like me that much
3) He is secretly gay

my guess, you may be uglier than Janice Joplin,

that or he suffers from a thing called "Karoma penile disfunction" other wise more commonly known as no willy syndrome.

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#45 26-08-2008 8:06pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

I know that there are some gentlemen about but I've never come across any so now I'm wondering does this guy actually like me or not.

Sheesh, give the guy the benefit of the doubt! Sounds like you've found a great guy who isn't just in it for one thing only.
You said it yourself that there are some gentlemen out there. Maybe you've finally found one? I say roll with it!

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#46 26-08-2008 8:09pm

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I think you're just annoyed that he didn't try it on so oyu could shoot him down. Serioulsy, if you say you didn't want sex then what's the prolem??

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#47 26-08-2008 8:12pm

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Smart Bug wrote: »

Aren't you engaged to some dude?!

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=56914871#post56914871

Maybe it's an arranged marriage or something?

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#48 26-08-2008 8:20pm

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m@cc@ wrote: »

Maybe it's an arranged marriage or something?

Surprise marriages rarely work out. It's almost always better to arrange them in advance.

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#49 26-08-2008 8:26pm

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javaboy wrote: »

Surprise marriages rarely work out. It's always better to arrange them in advance.

Works for sex, though.

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#50 26-08-2008 8:58pm

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lady_fifi wrote: »

Nope thats my buddy

Really...:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

Chick, this must be ya second account or something:p

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#51 26-08-2008 9:02pm

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http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055355447

Is this the guy by any chance?

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