Sleeping with randomers (or not as the case may be!!!)

PCB

Out on saturday in one of our cities finest clubs and me and my mate are hammered as usual agressviely marketing ourselves to any nice ladies we encounter. success eventually ensues and the 2 girls come home with us and promptly pop into bed. But neither of these girls are willing to sleep with us!!!

now every man will testify that has happened to us usually on more than a handful of occasions. My question is: Why would a girl go home to randomers house make out like the necessary is about to occur and then say somethig ridiculous like......i'm not that kind of girl. newsflash love.....yes you are otherwise you wouldnt be in some strangers bed 2 hours after meeting him. Can any of you explain why girls do this?

my thoughts on the matter are....if you are not going to sleep with him don't get into his bed!!!!:D

Hellm0

She sobered up and realized that you were a blood relation?

PCB

i knew she looked familiar

GirlInterrupted

Dawn broke as you got home and she saw you in daylight?

idunnoutellme

maybe they needed a place to stay for the nite?

GirlInterrupted

idunnoutellme wrote: »

maybe they needed a place to stay for the nite?

I betcha you're right - homeless!:)

GirlInterrupted

GirlInterrupted wrote: »

Dawn broke as you got home and she saw you in daylight?

Didnt seem to bother him!


Surely if dawn broke on the way home then she wouldnt have come into the house?!


Its one of those oxymorons, seemingly she wanted to take it as far as possible to see how far you wanted to take it then she didnt give it to u because:


1) She decided she didnt like u enough after all
2) Shedecided she did like u but were afraid you'd lose all respect for her after and as such wanted to trap u by making u work for it
3) Use your imagination for the rest of the reasons....

PCB

yea the city is littered with hot homeless chicks alright

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar

maybe they were just bitches

easyontheeye

if they live out far its cheaper to wait in yours till public transport starts up again

PCB

Deleted User wrote: »

Didnt seem to bother him!


Surely if dawn broke on the way home then she wouldnt have come into the house?!


Its one of those oxymorons, they want to take it as far as possible to see how far you wanted to take it then they didnt giv eit to u cos


1) They decided they didnt like u enough after all
2) They decided they did like u but were afraid you'd lose all respect for her after and as such wanted to trap u by making u work for it
3) Use your imagination for the rest of the reasons....

do you not thtink its ridiculous that girls try and pretend that they are not that kind of girl after getting naked and getting into ur bed and then trying to grow a set of morals!!

PCB

easyontheeye wrote: »

if they live out far its cheaper to wait in yours till public transport starts up again

spoken like a true pro:D

RuailleBuaille

I have to say I (kind of) agree.
I have no problem with ladies who do drop their knickers on the first night, that's their prerogative, but heading home with some bloke you don't know and jumping into bed with no intention of sleeping with him is a dangerous situation to put yourself in. (Yes, I realise jumping into bed with a stranger is equally dangerous but if you're both into it then there is less reason for conflict)
Getting into bed with a bloke gives out a very definite message and you don't know if the bloke you're with is gentleman enough to accept your decision.
Not saying that once you do get into bed you're obliged to do the riverdance, but why would you if you don't want sex?
Cuddle a stranger?

Black Swan

The two girls were mystery shoppers and got the wrong address (yours)?

Or they were ethnographic researchers from UCD studying the mating behaviour of single Irish males? Did they take notes?

Gone West

I can see this thread being locked...
Dude, just because they came home with you doesn't mean they have to do anything else, and if they say "Im not that kind of girl", you take them at their word!
They're out for fun, so leave it at that, enjoy it and don't push it!

Typical alpha gorilla male behaviour gets you nowhere really anymore

Jemmy

FuzzyLogic wrote: »

I can see this thread being locked...
Dude, just because they came home with you doesn't mean they have to do anything else, and if they say "Im not that kind of girl", you take them at their word!
They're out for fun, so leave it at that, enjoy it and don't push it!

Typical alpha gorilla male behaviour gets you nowhere really anymore

You male or female!?! :pac:

either way your right, if he'd played his cards right he might have got something!

Dont make her feel like 'that kinda girl'!:D

PCB

PCB wrote: »

do you not thtink its ridiculous that girls try and pretend that they are not that kind of girl after getting naked and getting into ur bed and then trying to grow a set of morals!!

Had it happen to me before tbh, found out later that she had aa boyfriend (she hadnt told me) and was havin a crisis of conscience!! Im not really into one nighters myself (had to try to find that out mind u!) but IMO thats uncool, give the guy your number and make him cal u if thats the way u wanna do it, doing it the other way is just the uber tease....tho maybe u just didnt get her tuned on enough!!! :eek::eek:

PCB

it should be made a law:

if you are gonna sleep with him...go home with him
if you dont wanna be that kind of girl have some class and say no thanks while ur wearing all of ur clothes and ur not contradiction personified!!

Jemmy

PCB wrote: »

it should be made a law:

if you are gonna sleep with him...go home with him
if you dont wanna be that kind of girl have some class and say no thanks while ur wearing all of ur clothes and ur not contradiction personified!!

Your just cranky bcoz you didnt get some!

Jemmy

Jemmy wrote: »

Your just cranky bcoz you didnt get some!

True but he has a point in fairness! However maybe he did take a wrong turn and turned her off, so the option should be there to hit the ejector seat halfway through, unsound and all as it is!!

PCB

Jemmy wrote: »

Your just cranky bcoz you didnt get some!

potentially very true:D

Jemmy

Deleted User wrote: »

True but he has a point in fairness! However maybe he did take a wrong turn and turned her off, so the option should be there to hit the ejector seat halfway through, unsound and all as it is!!

You wouldnt throw her out when you got home would you?!

PCB wrote: »

potentially very true

Well at least your honest! :P

Zulu

Meh, kick her out if it bothers you that much.

PCB

Deleted User wrote: »

True but he has a point in fairness! However maybe he did take a wrong turn and turned her off, so the option should be there to hit the ejector seat halfway through, unsound and all as it is!!

no chance....im some Don Juan when im rummaging around with half a bottle of tequila and some buckfast inside me:D

Quality

Did you get their numbers?

Jemmy

Jemmy wrote: »

You wouldnt throw her out when you got home would you?!

Well I probably wouldnt (itd have to be for a GOOD reason! ) but thats not the point. Not everyone will go ahead with it just cos theyre there. If a girl is turned off again and wants out she should be allowed......hoppin into bed naked isant a binding contract after all.

PCB

Zulu wrote: »

Meh, kick her out if it bothers you that much.

done;)

PCB

Deleted User wrote: »

Well I probably wouldnt (itd have to be for a GOOD reason! ) but thats not the point. Not everyone will go ahead with it just cos theyre there. If a girl is turned off again and wants out she should be allowed......hoppin into bed naked isant a binding contract after all.

should be

PCB

PCB wrote: »

no chance....im some Don Juan when im rummaging around with half a bottle of tequila and some buckfast inside me:D

EVERYBODY THINKS they're Don Juan when theyre that polluted but the reality is a lot of the time when we're that polluted the machinery is faulty and the co ordinated are off

PCB wrote: »

should be

Start an e-petition and lobby the government! U gotta fight....for you right.....to PARTY!!

PCB

Quality wrote: »

Did you get their numbers?

yea but why the f*ck wud ya be calling the pretend classy boirds back again? i prob wud have if she didnt come home with me

PCB

Deleted User wrote: »

EVERYBODY THINKS they're Don Juan when theyre that polluted but the reality is most of the time when we're that polluted the machinery is faulty and the co ordinated are off

i was being sarcastic ya simpleton

RuailleBuaille

FuzzyLogic wrote: »

I can see this thread being locked...
Dude, just because they came home with you doesn't mean they have to do anything else, and if they say "Im not that kind of girl", you take them at their word!
They're out for fun, so leave it at that, enjoy it and don't push it!

Typical alpha gorilla male behaviour gets you nowhere really anymore

Fair enough they go home with you, no onus on having sex.
Getting into bed two hours after meeting a bloke and twittering 'I'm a good girl, I don't do that kind of thing' ?
Silly, stupid, dangerous behaviour.
I'm a girl btw so no macho leanings here.

PCB

PCB wrote: »

i was being sarcastic ya simpleton

I know u were. No need for the agression there buddy, Im not the one who had a woman naked in my bed and drove her to NOT want to sleep with me.....

steps_3314

maybe coz u were hammered u did get some but cant remember it

This has happened to me before. I actually went back to her house LOL! I so thought I was in and then she gets into bed and falls asleep. I was like ''hello, you ok there?*nudge*'' ''*snors*'' ''Oh great''. What a load of sheep bollix tbph!

KaG1888

KaG1888 wrote: »

This has happened to me before. I actually went back to her house LOL! I so thought I was in and then she gets into bed and falls asleep. I was like ''hello, you ok there?*nudge*'' ''*snors*'' ''Oh great''. What a load of sheep bollix tbph!

Happened a mate of mine, he rang me from her bathroom askin me to swing by and collect him!!

MrVestek

You all seem to be forgetting one important fact here, he's already said that she got naked, into bed with him and *then* said that she 'wasn't that type of girl'.

That's incredibly dangerous behaviour imho. I used to live with a girl like that, she was naive as **** and didn't see any problem with it. I tried to tell her time and time again that she'd meet the wrong guy, take him home sleep with (but not have sex with) the wrong guy and it'd all go wrong but would she listen? Would she ****...

Zulu

KaG1888 wrote: »

This has happened to me before. I actually went back to her house LOL! I so thought I was in and then she gets into bed and falls asleep. I was like ''hello, you ok there?*nudge*'' ''*snors*'' ''Oh great''. What a load of sheep bollix tbph!

Rob the place ftw



...nah not really. That would be knackery.

Black Swan

Normally go through an extensive, indepth interview process, that can take days, often weeks, before the lad is qualified (or unqualifed) for competition in bedroom gymnastics. The selection criteria is high, and the interviews are often held off-site at coffeehouses, restaurants, cinemas, theatres, picnics, pubs, clubs, etc. Reference checks do occur with associates and family to assess his character before an offer would be considered. It should be noted that Blue is a drug-free work environment, and a pre-employment screen will be conducted to exclude smokers and recreational drug users.

Dragan

Maybe

1) When she was getting nake you said or did something that turned her off?
2) She saw you naked and though "****, i can't bring myself to **** that."
3) She needed a place to crash.
4) They were playing you in some kind of game.
5) "Agressive" is not the way to go?

Quality

Maybe they had their periods!

Zulu

Achilles wrote: »

That's incredibly dangerous behaviour imho. I used to live with a girl like that, she was naive as **** and didn't see any problem with it. I tried to tell her time and time again that she'd meet the wrong guy, take him home sleep with (but not have sex with) the wrong guy and it'd all go wrong but would she listen? Would she ****...

I know a girl who does this, but the strange part is she was attacked. Sad story. Lovely girl.

ntlbell

Bring a contract in future get it signed before you leave the club..

Stops any nonsense with false hope..

Deleted User

Deleted User wrote: »

Happened a mate of mine, he rang me from her bathroom askin me to swing by and collect him!!

Zulu wrote: »

Rob the place ftw



...nah not really. That would be knackery.

Naa rolled over and had a sleep . I was also fairly jarred. Woke up at about 6ish and snuck the **** out of there as quick as I could. Was wierd because she lived in a totally different part of Dublin so I had no ****ing clue about where to walk for a taxi or which bus stop to go to. Ended up forking out around 30 quid for a taxi when I found one

listermint

ntlbell wrote: »

Bring a contract in future get it signed before you leave the club..

Stops any nonsense with false hope..

Quality oh and dont forget a Pen!!:D

That's incredibly dangerous behaviour imho. I used to live with a girl like that, she was naive as **** and didn't see any problem with it. I tried to tell her time and time again that she'd meet the wrong guy, take him home sleep with (but not have sex with) the wrong guy and it'd all go wrong but would she listen? Would she ****.

That's so dangerous........why would you do that? And time and time again?

Dudess

In fairness, she's entitled to change her mind, but getting into a guy's bed AND getting naked (I never heard of anyone getting naked without any intention of having sex) then saying "actually I'm not that kind of girl"... there's such a thing as giving out the wrong message but that's taking it a bit too far.

Awful cock-teasing crap imo.

Pen1987

You must of done something to turn her emotions down a few notches. Seriously.

Get her to talk about sex and she start performing the shechs, after a bit of encouragment.

panda100

They were probably just tired. I often find I just feel like falling asleep when I get in the door after a boozy night out. I wouldnt take it personally!

KTRIC

I met a lovely girl in a pub one night, she was there with friends and we had a great night. We all went to Burger King (as ya do) afterwards and then she told me she was taking me home :eek:

We spent the night together and didn't do anything, then met for a drink in the same club the next week. We're together 7 years now.

Just because you go home with a girl doesn't necessarily mean she's after a shag, she might actually like you, did that cross your mind ??

I personally don't have any respect for women that put out on the first date or meeting and wouldn't start a relationship with them.

colly10

Blue_Lagoon wrote: »

Normally go through an extensive, indepth interview process, that can take days, often weeks, before the lad is qualified (or unqualifed) for competition in bedroom gymnastics. The selection criteria is high, and the interviews are often held off-site at coffeehouses, restaurants, cinemas, theatres, picnics, pubs, clubs, etc. Reference checks do occur with associates and family to assess his character before an offer would be considered. It should be noted that Blue is a drug-free work environment, and a pre-employment screen will be conducted to exclude smokers and recreational drug users.

Thats all fair enough, I assume you wouldn't strip off and get into their bed to conduct the interview process though?