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Girlfight

  • 24-05-2008 1:29am
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,183 ✭✭✭


    Have you ever gotten into a fight with another girl?

    Like a proper physical fight, not just a little slap and storm off?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,649 ✭✭✭Catari Jaguar


    Loads when I was younger. I grew up near a rough council estate and they'd be all "heeeere, posho" and I got into some fisitcuffs on the school bus etc. One time outside a junior disco, we were queuing and these skobe girls tried lighting my friends hair on fire and I punched her in the stomach and they tried hiting us and one of us ended up being thrown down off the steps, or both :confused: then I had to call the bouncer. Scary times....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭jezza


    Um, hasn't every girl?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,183 ✭✭✭Peared


    jezza wrote: »
    Um, hasn't every girl?

    I dont think so tbh.

    I have been in a few, to my shame, because now I would walk away.

    Well, I like to think I would, not been in a fight type situation for years so who knows. I do get very angry sometimes with idiots though.

    It's horrible to watch. (girls fighting, not me being angry, although that too maybe)

    Never lost one anyhoo ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,614 ✭✭✭The Sparrow


    Eh have you never seen Seinfeld? I think you will find that the correct term is Catfight!!:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭jezza


    Peared wrote: »
    I dont think so tbh.

    I have been in a few, to my shame, because now I would walk away.

    Well, I like to think I would, not been in a fight type situation for years so who knows. I do get very angry sometimes with idiots though.

    It's horrible to watch. (girls fighting, not me being angry, although that too maybe)

    Never lost one anyhoo ;)

    Oh god no. Never walk away from an arguement.
    Even if they kick your ass. (I'm not a big girl but I am well able to hold my own)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,288 ✭✭✭pow wow


    Never....sheltered upbringing I suppose. I've seen plenty of girls out looking for one though.....usually on a Friday night :cool:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    jezza wrote: »
    Um, hasn't every girl?
    No. Girls fighting looks astoundingly scummy (ditto guys fighting, but girls even moreso). It is funny though - yep, that's all it's good for: laughing at.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,170 ✭✭✭Grawns


    No never but I am tall ( 5 foot 8") with red hair so nobody has ever started on me. Us gingers are scary it seems.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,016 ✭✭✭Blush_01


    Nope. I've had to hold people back though. I'm a bit scary though.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 234 ✭✭DaveyGem


    At my debs i was on the dancefloor and next thing i hear is some knacker exclaim "BUUUUUUUUUURRRRRRRRRRDDD Fiiiiiiyyyyyyyy!!"

    Was a great old fight to be sure there was petty coats a plenty, i was so shocked my monicle fell into my brandy. Also i saw a fantastic one in Wolfe Tone Park about three days ago do junkies knocking the unholy sheite outta each other. did anyone else see it!

    Do female junkkies count as "girls", seems unfair to the rest of the world


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    Grawns wrote: »
    No never but I am tall ( 5 foot 8") with red hair so nobody has ever started on me. Us gingers are scary it seems.

    LOL I find the same, except for really small women. For some reason they think they can whoop my arse.
    I've had a couple of lady bouncers try to pick fights, only for to be abandoned by their wiser and larger male counterparts.

    I haven't been in a fight in a while. I wouldn't walk away from one though. Well I do tend to slap men who annoy me when I'm out. That doesn't count does it?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Moonbaby wrote: »
    Well I do tend to slap men who annoy me when I'm out.
    Yeah, a few guys I know do the same to any girl who's annoying them.


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    Dudess wrote: »
    Yeah, a few guys I know do the same to any girl who's annoying them.


    Can you hook me up?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 39 MayaMaya


    No never. Phew! ;)


  • Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    Ive never fought with a girl. I was always the one who sidestepped the rows and kept her head down. But more than once Ive fought physically with a guy. Not sexually,:) and not even a bf!

    Havent lost my temper in years, tho, thank god.:p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,613 ✭✭✭✭Clare Bear


    Never. Never even been in any sort of fight, I run away from confrontation. Life is easier just wishing evilness on people that p*ss me off.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 86 ✭✭kelly1979


    nope me neither never been in a physical fight, came close once on a night out i held my ground and she backed down...THANK GOD!! She was way stronger than me so i was like 'phew'!

    i think B!tch fights are awful things to see, i witnessed a few in my days, one that sticks out in my mind was this girl ripping the hair off another. her hair was blowing down the street like tumbleweed.
    clumps of it:eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,164 ✭✭✭seahorse


    Peared wrote: »
    Have you ever gotten into a fight with another girl?

    Like a proper physical fight, not just a little slap and storm off?

    Several over the years, yes, but not in quite a while. I'm not proud to say I've never backed away from a fight in my life; I just dont deal well with having agression directed at me, but at least I can say I've never gone looking for a fight either.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭jezza


    Dudess wrote: »
    No. Girls fighting looks astoundingly scummy (ditto guys fighting, but girls even moreso). It is funny though - yep, that's all it's good for: laughing at.


    If some ho wants to come get in my face, by all means bring it on.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Self defence I can understand to a degree but using violence is using violence. I think you're the bigger person if you walk away.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,231 ✭✭✭✭Sparky


    I seen one a few years back where two women launched into an argument over who got on first in the queue to step into the bus. It looked like it was over until I think the first lady made an underbreath comment and then all that could be seen was messy hair and roaring to the cheering of most of the male lads around the bus. A few people broke it up, but thankfully the bus driver only let the first lady on (as she had paid already) otherwise there would have been round two on the street.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭jezza


    Maybe, but I have a short fuse. Very short. I don't go jumping people. But christmas 06, myself and my friend (who hates confrontation) were walking home, and there was this drunk slapper standing across the road shouting abuse at the fella she was with. I mean she was roaring at him.

    Myself and my friend were chatting away and walked past her, never even looked at her. She shouted over at yer man "theres two more wh0res for you!" so I stopped walking, turned - looked at my friend and said loud enough for her to hear "whos she callin a wh0re?"

    She got all up in my face, "I'm callin you a wh0re" oh are ya really?

    I'm not gonna stand back or walk away from that. No way.

    Another day was in Athlone with my brother, walking down that bridge near subway. 3 little pikey bitches were sitting there, all kitted out in their skanger uniforms.
    I'm not minding them, and one smart little bitch was like "WHAHAHAHAHAH! WHO LEH BARBIE OUHA HER BOX WHAHAHAHAHA" Whatever. I was making my way back towards her but my brother pretty much dragged me up the street.

    6th year of school, sluts in my class was texting this freak- i swear he must be the next 40 year old virgin, using my name, sending explict messages. That was going on for 2/3 weeks and i never knew. Finally found out and the principal was "dealing" with it. All good in the hood. Til they broke into my locker, stole my jacket, all my notes from 5th year and took out all my books.

    I was hopping, understandably. The next day, on the way down to assemly, I see the smug childish bitch leaning against the lockers, "TeeHee did you find your stuff Jessica?" Now nobody even knew it was missing.

    That was the one time I lashed out 1st, I was aiming for her nose but hit the locker and made BITS of my wrist


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Ok well that I understand.

    But the first one calling you whores... probably would have driven her mad if you just laughed at her.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭jezza


    Hahaha probably, cause... pot meets the kettle eh!
    I have no time for that kinda crap at all though. If you've something to say to me, say it to my face. Don't say it when you think i'm walkiing away. Doin it for sh!ts and giggles in front of others.

    And never ever judge someone on how they look. Barbie my arse.


  • Moderators Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭ChewChew


    I've only ever been in 1 catfight. and it was well deserved I can promise you that.

    I was 17 at the time, and the girl who was arguing with me was my best friend at the time. Well thats all over with. The girl was a nasty evil tramp, and 8 years later if the dirty, rotten bastid stood in front of me now I'd have no problem slapping the face of her again. I should have taken photo's of her for memories sake.

    Pardon my rant. I'm actually not a fighting person. bit of a pussy cat me, but I would verbally hold myself and fend for myself. Never violently. this was an exception. I'd love tot ell you all what happened, but I couldnt. If I did. . . all you girls would have done the same!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Ah, that's not fair! Spill! Or at least give us a vague gist!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭jezza


    ChewChew wrote: »
    I've only ever been in 1 catfight. and it was well deserved I can promise you that.

    I was 17 at the time, and the girl who was arguing with me was my best friend at the time. Well thats all over with. The girl was a nasty evil tramp, and 8 years later if the dirty, rotten bastid stood in front of me now I'd have no problem slapping the face of her again. I should have taken photo's of her for memories sake.

    Pardon my rant. I'm actually not a fighting person. bit of a pussy cat me, but I would verbally hold myself and fend for myself. Never violently. this was an exception. I'd love tot ell you all what happened, but I couldnt. If I did. . . all you girls would have done the same!!

    haha good on ya!

    now for the dirt??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 732 ✭✭✭Cmol


    Haha only the once.... was about 15 at the time, having a playfight with a friend of mine which turned tasty really quickly, she kicked me, I smacked her in the side of her head so hard that her earring ended up inside her earlobe hahaha woops!!! Had to go to Hospital to get it removed


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,539 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    Peared wrote: »
    Like a proper physical fight
    Does taekwondo tournament sparring count?


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  • Moderators Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭ChewChew


    Dudess wrote: »
    Ah, that's not fair! Spill! Or at least give us a vague gist!

    jezza wrote: »
    haha good on ya!

    now for the dirt??

    ok ok. . . very vague gist. . . girl got drunk. girl shagged randomer (1st guy she was with). girl claimed drink was spiked hence being so drunk. my male friend walked her home. girl claimed my friend raped her. huge saga. she wouldnt admit to her mother that she lost her virginity to a randomer in a garden shed. easier to cry wolf. 3 years later, girls memory miraculously came back - whooops no girl 'remembered' she was not raped. girl deserved the beating. no?:eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Even though she was an absolute ****, no.


  • Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    Dudess wrote: »
    Even though she was an absolute ****, no.
    Agree. I think the 'publicity' of being a stupid, irresponsible liar would have been enough. Sorry, it just seems too premeditated for me to agree with beating her up.

    Any time Ive had a scrap it was cos I flew off the handle, not planned it as revenge.


  • Moderators Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭ChewChew


    maybe so. but we were only 17. it was the only time I was ever in a fight. a black eye each. nothing else. spose it could have been worse. i'm glad it wasnt. but there was alot more to it that I'm not going to go into here.


  • Moderators Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭ChewChew


    Oryx wrote: »
    Agree. I think the 'publicity' of being a stupid, irresponsible liar would have been enough. Sorry, it just seems too premeditated for me to agree with beating her up.

    Any time Ive had a scrap it was cos I flew off the handle, not planned it as revenge.

    oh no, it wasnt a planned revenge at all, sorry I havent explained myself properly. its very hard to because i really cant give ALL the details, but this happened on the said night. . we both gave each other black eyes but that was it. . . we were foolish kids. . . i've not explained myself properly!!! sorryyyy


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,789 ✭✭✭Caoimhín


    I feel durtey..


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,503 ✭✭✭✭jellie


    Dudess wrote: »
    Self defence I can understand to a degree but using violence is using violence. I think you're the bigger person if you walk away.

    +1

    If someone is attacking me you can bet ill do my best to to cause them some damage.

    But if someones saying stuff about me, eg. calling me a whore, i couldnt care less to be honest. i wouldnt lower myself to their level. (although i would think getting violent about it is actually an even lower level).

    I dislike fights in general. seeing 2 men (or more!) fight scares the hell out of me, i really hate it. girls fighting is just knackery (cant find a better word sorry). if i saw 2 girls physically fighting to be honest i would think "dirty scumbags"


  • Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    ChewChew wrote: »
    oh no, it wasnt a planned revenge at all, sorry I havent explained myself properly. its very hard to because i really cant give ALL the details, but this happened on the said night. . we both gave each other black eyes but that was it. . . we were foolish kids. . . i've not explained myself properly!!! sorryyyy
    Oi! You! Quit the messin. Outside now, and we'll sort this, roight?:D

    No need to say sorry, :) sometimes its hard to give the proper story in a thread.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,440 ✭✭✭GirlInterrupted


    Never ever ever. I'm a total baby and would run a mile from violence. I would think very bad thoughts about them tho. And then there's the voodoo dolls. And I would think of very nasty things to say - later at home that is.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,220 ✭✭✭✭Loopy


    Once, when I started secondary and on the first day a 'Bully Bitch' hopped on me, I wasn't in the same class as my mates so was feeling quite vulnerable and she picked up on this. She was really laying into me and a big crowd was gathering. I remember the moment like it was yesterday and I thought this is it, I can take the beating or fight back as it will determine how the next couple of years are going to go for me.

    Anyway, I beat the **** out of her, don't know how, she was a big girl but I just got so angry and all hell broke loose. I was never picked on by her or any other girl again.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,375 ✭✭✭fonpokno


    nope never ever. violence absolutely terrifies me. plus i'd be absolutely battered if someone ever started on me cos i'm ridiculously weak... if someone ever starts like verbally abusing me i'll just walk away, touching them wouldn't even cross my mind tbh. what they say doesn't affect me in the least and it's pretty pathetic if they're the type of person who has to abuse random punters to feel better about themselves.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,000 ✭✭✭spinandscribble


    only had one pyshical fight and that was when i was five and a girl pushed my sister off her hopper and into a big pile of nettles. i went crazy and grabbed her by the neck and warned her not to mess with her again. scared the hell outa me after and i've never been in a fight since. i just lost it and felt terrible after. i didn't really hurt her but thats not the point, i scared the crap outta her i think.
    at school it was easier not to get into fights. generally the bullies in my school didn't do well in class and felt dumb so big words that confused them and not showing fear kept them away from me. oh god the best one was the girl who though being called ignorant meant i was calling her a pig... lol
    little fights with guys, here and there. always messing but i did end up with a swollen eyeball from rough housing once.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭jezza


    Thats another thing. Being bullied at school. Why on earth, given your in a small enough class, would ya stand back and watch while the class bike picks on someone?
    A little off topic but I think whoever stands back, watches the bullying take place AND laughs when the girl leaves the room crying, is just as bad as the scragg that started it. That makes me so annoyed.

    And I'd gladly be a scumbag scrawler there, because they deserve to be met with the only language they understand- a box in the mouth.


  • Hosted Moderators Posts: 16,186 ✭✭✭✭Maple


    No i've never been in a physical fight with another girl apart from my sister when we were much younger. we'd thump the heads off one another.

    i think it looks really tacky and cheap when girls fight. i remember once seeing a pair of girls fighting, rolling around on the ground and one of them was wearing a short mini dress which rode up higher and higher as the fight went on until even a blind man could see that she was wearing no knickers.

    i've had to step in once or twice tho when my sister was getting picked on and bullied, was years ago and a horrible situation but i'd never back down in something like that. thankfully just grabbing them by the scruff of the neck and telling them i'd break their face if they tried to touch her or even whispered her name again did the trick and i didn't have to throw a punch.

    Now if someone started calling me names or anything pathetic like that i'd just laugh at them and walk away, i mean its utterly pathetic. If you're going to insult me, then use your brain and insult me properly. Don't go down the banal route of calling me a whore, its so passé darling. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,610 ✭✭✭Karen_*


    Just with my sister and we thumped the heads off each other like Maple and her sis:D

    I would die if anyone hit me and I'd run away from a fight. Am dead weak, my sister always won:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,497 ✭✭✭✭Dragan


    Does taekwondo tournament sparring count?

    Nope,

    well, only if they pulled your hair, because then it would be "street rules". :D

    As a former doorman the worst thing ever was two girls fighting. Have you ever tried to separate two girls that are going at it? I'd rather jump in a bag of angry cats.

    In my experience when two guys go at it the will normally just end up swinging for the fences with some pretty atrocious shots, someone gets cracked in the nose, they both fall over and one of them goes home the victor. Girls will keep going at each other all the time, going for eyes, hair, all kinds of nasty stuff.

    90% of fights you see involving guys will just be funny. It's not often you see someone who can actually fight, in a fight....they normally know better.

    Girl fights are vicious 100% of the time in my experience.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,256 ✭✭✭metaoblivia


    Never gotten into a fight with another girl, but when I was 4 years old and in pre school, there was a little boy who would go around stealing everyone's toys. He tried stealing mine and I punched him and gave him a black eye.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,029 ✭✭✭HammerHeadGym


    Spot on Dragan. Hell hath no fury like a couple of tanked up skanks fighting over a man.

    LOL@Metaoblivia. That made me laugh.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,539 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    Dragan wrote: »
    Have you ever tried to separate two girls that are going at it? I'd rather jump in a bag of angry cats.
    I can remember a time in taekwondo tournament when one girl full contact kicked another between the legs and dropped her screaming in pain (against WTF rules). Unlike lads, girls have no protection and a full-contact kick can really hurt. Well, after the ref called time-out, the injured girl recovered (somewhat), and went into a rage and tore after the other girl, dropping her and kicking all the h*ll out of her while she was down (before the ref and judges pulled her away...and later disqualified her for unsporting conduct).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,766 ✭✭✭Reku


    Dragan wrote: »
    Nope,

    well, only if they pulled your hair, because then it would be "street rules". :D

    As a former doorman the worst thing ever was two girls fighting. Have you ever tried to separate two girls that are going at it? I'd rather jump in a bag of angry cats.

    In my experience when two guys go at it the will normally just end up swinging for the fences with some pretty atrocious shots, someone gets cracked in the nose, they both fall over and one of them goes home the victor. Girls will keep going at each other all the time, going for eyes, hair, all kinds of nasty stuff.

    90% of fights you see involving guys will just be funny. It's not often you see someone who can actually fight, in a fight....they normally know better.

    Girl fights are vicious 100% of the time in my experience.
    Something I've often heard regarding fights in bars/clubs; basically 2 guys fighting: once it's finished it's finished, 2 girls fighting: damn thing will start up again every time they're even aware of the other being nearby (even if months later:eek:).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    ChewChew wrote: »
    girl claimed my friend raped her. huge saga. she wouldnt admit to her mother that she lost her virginity to a randomer in a garden shed. easier to cry wolf. 3 years later, girls memory miraculously came back - whooops no girl 'remembered' she was not raped. girl deserved the beating. no?:eek:

    If she claimed someone raped her when he didn't, she deserves a lot more than a few slaps.


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