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Boyfriend sleeps on the floor???

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  • 26-04-2008 10:08pm
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    Special K
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    Just wondering what people's opinions are on the following. My friend, who is 22, has been going out with a guy for 6 months. We used to joke and slag them off about what they'd get up to in the bedroom, but a passing comment the other day, suggested otherwise! She basically said he sleeps on the floor in her bedroom, and I saw our spare quilt in her room. I can understand them not having sex and the likes, but sleeping on the floor??!! How weird is that!! :S


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    KTRIC
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    Maybe he likes sleeping on the floor, its quite comfortable. I do it myself sometimes when watching tv.


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    RuggieBear
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    might be more comfortable for him ( especially if its a single bed?)


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    The Queen
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    Maybe she's a farter.


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    BlitzKrieg
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    i like sleeping under tables


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    mike65
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    Some peeps need a hard flat surface to sleep, someone I knew as a child had two wide planks of wood beneath the matress.

    Mike.


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    Thrill
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    Your right there. That's weird sure enough. She should be the one sleeping on the floor.

    Poor guy must be whipped to let that happen.


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    Special K
    Closed Accounts Posts: 253 ✭✭Special K


    Why would you prefer "comfort" on the floor over sleeping in a bed with your girlfriend??? And there's nathing wrong with his back. As I said before, they don't have sex. Couldn't be anything wrong with his back.


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    [Deleted User]
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    None of yours or our business.


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    #10
    Special K
    Closed Accounts Posts: 253 ✭✭Special K


    Moonbaby wrote: »
    None of yours or our business.
    Lighten up like. Oh and Blitzkrieg, you must have been reading Willie O Dea's Coping in an Emergency booklet. Preparing for the falling debris yeah?


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    Gummy Panda
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    Maybe she is afraid of surprise night sex?

    Are you sure your friend doesn't enjoy her own space in the bed, if its a single bed?


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    mike65
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    Jebus I've just realised this thread is in AH, I thought it was a serious matter :pac:

    Mike.


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    Thrill
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    Maybe she's just being cautious. She may be afraid that if they were both in the same bed and one night they both felt horny and couldn't control themselves then they could end up with a sprog nine months down the road.

    She could also be someone who doesn't believe in sex before marriage.


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    The Queen
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    Gummy Panda wrote: »
    Maybe she is afraid of surprise night sex?


    There are people who DON'T like this? :confused:

    I'm making my boyfriend sleep on the couch tonight. And I'm not even at his!


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    Special K
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    Yes it's a single feckin bed, but that isn't the issue. So you'd rather sleep on the floor for a comfortable sleep rather than squish in the bed with your girlfriend? Isn't single bed sex the best anyhow?? Sure there only needs to be enough room for him to lie down, no??


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    Abi
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    Theres either virginity-ness or gayness happening here.


    I like the farting option though. At least there could have been sex before it. Or after the farting. There is no accounting for what people are into.


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    chopperbyrne
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    I hate sharing single beds. I can't sleep at all if I'm too hot.

    Even in a double bed I make sure there is as much space between us as possible.

    Maybe one or both of them is like me.


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    Adam
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    I can't sleep in a single bed with a girl. I just can't get comfortable. You sure are getting rather defensive over this "friend"...


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    Rb
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    Single beds aren't comfortable with two people in them, particularly if you like your bedspace.

    Anyways,

    What kind of friend would you consider yourself seeing as you're discussing their private business with a bunch of strangers on the internet without her knowing (presumably)?


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    RuggieBear
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    Special K wrote: »
    Yes it's a single feckin bed, but that isn't the issue. So you'd rather sleep on the floor for a comfortable sleep rather than squish in the bed with your girlfriend? Isn't single bed sex the best anyhow?? Sure there only needs to be enough room for him to lie down, no??

    you seem awfully interested in their sleeping arrangements OP...perhaps a little too interested?


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    Special K
    Closed Accounts Posts: 253 ✭✭Special K


    Who are you freaks who prefer sleeping on the floor? I'll keep that in mind next time I nab myself a boyfriend and need an excuse for no sex. "Sorry dear but I can't sleep when I'm too hot, get on the floor". Then again he may enjoy that dominatrix ordering stuff. Hmmm.


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    Adam
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    Special K wrote: »
    Who are you freaks who prefer sleeping on the floor? I'll keep that in mind next time I nab myself a boyfriend and need an excuse for no sex. "Sorry dear but I can't sleep when I'm too hot, get on the floor". Then again he may enjoy that dominatrix ordering stuff. Hmmm.
    You seem to follow an odd logic. As has clearly been pointed out, it could be the fact that they can't sleep together in the single bed. This is not to say they can't have the sexy time before the sleepy time on the floor. No?


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    jd83
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    chopperbyrne wrote: »
    I hate sharing single beds. I can't sleep at all if I'm too hot.

    Even in a double bed I make sure there is as much space between us as possible.

    Maybe one or both of them is like me.
    yh im defo not a spooner and in a single bed i wouldnt sleep id have to sleep on the floor. To feckin warm and no room to sprawl out and sleep


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    Special K
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    rb_ie wrote: »
    Single beds aren't comfortable with two people in them, particularly if you like your bedspace.

    Anyways,

    What kind of friend would you consider yourself seeing as you're discussing their private business with a bunch of strangers on the internet without her knowing (presumably)?
    Isn't that what the fantastic internet is for? And yes I'm intrigued that someone would be in a relationship yet he sleeps on the floor. I thought it was quite weird. Each to their own.


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    dazberry
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    If see really loved him she'd sleep on the floor too :D

    D.


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    Sherifu
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    Is he a Klingon?


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    #27
    Special K
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    Special K wrote: »
    Isn't that what the fantastic internet is for? And yes I'm intrigued that someone would be in a relationship yet he sleeps on the floor. I thought it was quite weird. Each to their own.
    Okay I can understand [sort of] the need to sprawl out and the likes, but, he only stays over maybe 1 night a week, so I figured they'd only be too glad to cosy up? And there's no sexy time. But that's okay. There doesn't have to be. I would just prefer to cuddle up in bed rather than have my boyfriend [if I had one!] sleep on the floor!


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    Adam
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    Sherifu wrote: »
    Is he a Klingon?
    Hey, they're sleeping, not shitting!


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    #29
    Thrill
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    She basically said he sleeps on the floor in her bedroom

    Is his sleeping on the floor, her idea or his?


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    #30
    Gummy Panda
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    Sleeping as spoons is a good sleep to me. Different strokes for different folks


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    #31
    Thrill
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    Gummy Panda wrote:
    Sleeping as spoons is a good sleep to me. Different strokes for different folks

    But for her friend, there is no spoon.



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