Boyfriend sleeps on the floor???

Special K

Just wondering what people's opinions are on the following. My friend, who is 22, has been going out with a guy for 6 months. We used to joke and slag them off about what they'd get up to in the bedroom, but a passing comment the other day, suggested otherwise! She basically said he sleeps on the floor in her bedroom, and I saw our spare quilt in her room. I can understand them not having sex and the likes, but sleeping on the floor??!! How weird is that!! :S

KTRIC

Maybe he likes sleeping on the floor, its quite comfortable. I do it myself sometimes when watching tv.

RuggieBear

might be more comfortable for him ( especially if its a single bed?)

The Queen

Maybe she's a farter.

BlitzKrieg

i like sleeping under tables

mike65

Some peeps need a hard flat surface to sleep, someone I knew as a child had two wide planks of wood beneath the matress.

Mike.

Thrill

Your right there. That's weird sure enough. She should be the one sleeping on the floor.

Poor guy must be whipped to let that happen.

Special K

Why would you prefer "comfort" on the floor over sleeping in a bed with your girlfriend??? And there's nathing wrong with his back. As I said before, they don't have sex. Couldn't be anything wrong with his back.

None of yours or our business.

Special K

Moonbaby wrote: »

None of yours or our business.

Lighten up like. Oh and Blitzkrieg, you must have been reading Willie O Dea's Coping in an Emergency booklet. Preparing for the falling debris yeah?

Gummy Panda

Maybe she is afraid of surprise night sex?

Are you sure your friend doesn't enjoy her own space in the bed, if its a single bed?

mike65

Jebus I've just realised this thread is in AH, I thought it was a serious matter :pac:

Mike.

Thrill

Maybe she's just being cautious. She may be afraid that if they were both in the same bed and one night they both felt horny and couldn't control themselves then they could end up with a sprog nine months down the road.

She could also be someone who doesn't believe in sex before marriage.

The Queen

Gummy Panda wrote: »

Maybe she is afraid of surprise night sex?

There are people who DON'T like this?

I'm making my boyfriend sleep on the couch tonight. And I'm not even at his!

Special K

Yes it's a single feckin bed, but that isn't the issue. So you'd rather sleep on the floor for a comfortable sleep rather than squish in the bed with your girlfriend? Isn't single bed sex the best anyhow?? Sure there only needs to be enough room for him to lie down, no??

Abi

Theres either virginity-ness or gayness happening here.


I like the farting option though. At least there could have been sex before it. Or after the farting. There is no accounting for what people are into.

chopperbyrne

I hate sharing single beds. I can't sleep at all if I'm too hot.

Even in a double bed I make sure there is as much space between us as possible.

Maybe one or both of them is like me.

Adam

I can't sleep in a single bed with a girl. I just can't get comfortable. You sure are getting rather defensive over this "friend"...

Rb

Single beds aren't comfortable with two people in them, particularly if you like your bedspace.

Anyways,

What kind of friend would you consider yourself seeing as you're discussing their private business with a bunch of strangers on the internet without her knowing (presumably)?

RuggieBear

Special K wrote: »

Yes it's a single feckin bed, but that isn't the issue. So you'd rather sleep on the floor for a comfortable sleep rather than squish in the bed with your girlfriend? Isn't single bed sex the best anyhow?? Sure there only needs to be enough room for him to lie down, no??

you seem awfully interested in their sleeping arrangements OP...perhaps a little too interested?

Special K

Who are you freaks who prefer sleeping on the floor? I'll keep that in mind next time I nab myself a boyfriend and need an excuse for no sex. "Sorry dear but I can't sleep when I'm too hot, get on the floor". Then again he may enjoy that dominatrix ordering stuff. Hmmm.

Adam

Special K wrote: »

Who are you freaks who prefer sleeping on the floor? I'll keep that in mind next time I nab myself a boyfriend and need an excuse for no sex. "Sorry dear but I can't sleep when I'm too hot, get on the floor". Then again he may enjoy that dominatrix ordering stuff. Hmmm.

You seem to follow an odd logic. As has clearly been pointed out, it could be the fact that they can't sleep together in the single bed. This is not to say they can't have the sexy time before the sleepy time on the floor. No?

jd83

chopperbyrne wrote: »

I hate sharing single beds. I can't sleep at all if I'm too hot.

Even in a double bed I make sure there is as much space between us as possible.

Maybe one or both of them is like me.

yh im defo not a spooner and in a single bed i wouldnt sleep id have to sleep on the floor. To feckin warm and no room to sprawl out and sleep

Special K

rb_ie wrote: »

Single beds aren't comfortable with two people in them, particularly if you like your bedspace.

Anyways,

What kind of friend would you consider yourself seeing as you're discussing their private business with a bunch of strangers on the internet without her knowing (presumably)?

Isn't that what the fantastic internet is for? And yes I'm intrigued that someone would be in a relationship yet he sleeps on the floor. I thought it was quite weird. Each to their own.

dazberry

If see really loved him she'd sleep on the floor too

D.

Sherifu

Is he a Klingon?

Special K

Special K wrote: »

Isn't that what the fantastic internet is for? And yes I'm intrigued that someone would be in a relationship yet he sleeps on the floor. I thought it was quite weird. Each to their own.

Okay I can understand [sort of] the need to sprawl out and the likes, but, he only stays over maybe 1 night a week, so I figured they'd only be too glad to cosy up? And there's no sexy time. But that's okay. There doesn't have to be. I would just prefer to cuddle up in bed rather than have my boyfriend [if I had one!] sleep on the floor!

Adam

Sherifu wrote: »

Is he a Klingon?

Hey, they're sleeping, not shitting!

Thrill

She basically said he sleeps on the floor in her bedroom

Is his sleeping on the floor, her idea or his?

Gummy Panda

Sleeping as spoons is a good sleep to me. Different strokes for different folks

Thrill

Gummy Panda wrote:

Sleeping as spoons is a good sleep to me. Different strokes for different folks

But for her friend, there is no spoon.



.

BlitzKrieg

Special K wrote: »

Lighten up like. Oh and Blitzkrieg, you must have been reading Willie O Dea's Coping in an Emergency booklet. Preparing for the falling debris yeah?

nope.

Just feel very comfortable sleeping under a table.

Doesnt help that a part of work involves me rewiring stuff under a table at the studio.

*heh*

got stuck waiting for something to render out at the end of my shift yesterday, went under the table for a quick nap, Monkeyfudge had to come in an hour and a half later to wake me up.

makotest

Thrill wrote: »

She could also be someone who doesn't believe in sex before marriage.

Ye a frigid loser in other words. six months!! dump that zero get yourself a hero.

I mean its the modern age, sex is man..

Jemmy

Special K wrote: »

Yes it's a single feckin bed, but that isn't the issue. So you'd rather sleep on the floor for a comfortable sleep rather than squish in the bed with your girlfriend? Isn't single bed sex the best anyhow?? Sure there only needs to be enough room for him to lie down, no??

When i had to move away for college and my boyfriend at the time came down he'd be in my single with me til it came to sleepin then he'd just kip on the floor. Its not very comfy sleeping 2 in a single bed. Neither of us got any sleep and with him workin the next day he needed it. It was no big deal for us so get over it they have their reasons.

BlitzKrieg

actually this just reminded me, I had a recent housemate who would sleep on the floor when her boyfriend was over because she cant sleep in a single bed with another person in it.

Not that they didnt have sex its just that after it she gets out and sleeps on the floor or in the sitting room or in one case I believe it was the hall because Bioshock came out and I stayed up all night playing it in the sitting room (I am such a nerd )

Toto Wolfcastle

I can lie in a single bed with my boyfriend but if I have to actually try to sleep it just wont happen if I'm squished. That's after over 4 years together and I don't think it's one bit weird. If someone needs to be in the same bed as their boyfriend/girlfriend and thinks there's something wrong with sleeping separately then perhaps there are a few issues with insecurity that need to be dealt with.

I also think it's a bit weird to be talking about your friend's sex life or lack thereof on the internet.

Why not talk about your own sex life, see how that feels!

Jemmy

janeybabe wrote: »

I can lie in a single bed with my boyfriend but if I have to actually try to sleep it just wont happen if I'm squished. That's after over 4 years together and I don't think it's one bit weird. If someone needs to be in the same bed as their boyfriend/girlfriend and thinks there's something wrong with sleeping separately then perhaps there are a few issues with insecurity that need to be dealt with.

I also think it's a bit weird to be talking about your friend's sex life or lack thereof on the internet.

Why not talk about your own sex life, see how that feels!

well said!

Abi

janeybabe wrote: »

I can lie in a single bed with my boyfriend but if I have to actually try to sleep it just wont happen if I'm squished.

I hate that you are probably right. I was hoping for a more scandelous outcome.

antodeco

So no Spooning or Forking? He is very cutlery deprived!! :pac:

Dord

antodeco wrote: »

So no Spooning or Forking? He is very cutlery deprived!! :pac:

Nah man, sporking is much better!

Dashticle

mike65 wrote: »

Some peeps need a hard flat surface to sleep, someone I knew as a child had two wide planks of wood beneath the matress.

Mike.

If the wood was under the mattress wouldn't it be a soft surface?

Dord

No, because the wood supports better. You can feel it under the matress.

Honestly I've done the whole sleep on the floor thing before too. If its too hot, you gotta get up early in the morning and the bed is already taken by your SO then its a good option.

Riamfada

I used to sleep in the bath. Not bad when you throw 5 quilts in there and you dont even need to get up to pee.

flanum

op, im hoping ur username isnt a reflection of your habits!! not good, not good, watch out for the "k" "hole" ! eeesh!

ModeSkeletor

Gummy Panda wrote: »

Sleeping as spoons is a good sleep to me. Different strokes for different folks

Exactly, and also ya can lob it into her in the mornin too.

Wertz

Maybe your friend is just fugly. You should move in on the bloke, he sounds like a real catch...

Reku

It's all probably just a trick to try get you to stop slagging them as to what they get up to, they probably thought having him dash for the sitting room couch early in the morning had too high a chance of him being caught in transit.;)

John Mason

Special K wrote: »

Yes it's a single feckin bed, but that isn't the issue. So you'd rather sleep on the floor for a comfortable sleep rather than squish in the bed with your girlfriend? Isn't single bed sex the best anyhow?? Sure there only needs to be enough room for him to lie down, no??

hell yeah, if it was a single bed, i would so prefer sleeping on floor. Single beds are for one person. you cannot fit two people comfortably in a single bed and expect to get any sleep.

anyway, why are you so stressed about? what happens behind closed doors and all that

javaboy

Please remember to tie a knot in your pajamas,
Single beds were only made for 1.

ergonomics

Special K wrote: »

Yes it's a single feckin bed, but that isn't the issue. So you'd rather sleep on the floor for a comfortable sleep rather than squish in the bed with your girlfriend? Isn't single bed sex the best anyhow?? Sure there only needs to be enough room for him to lie down, no??

Now this changes everything. I am mad about my boyfriend. Been going out a year and moving in together in a few weeks, but when he visits me in college, where I have a single bed, it's the floor for one of us. He snores and I can't stand it.

Cheeky_gal

Why doesn't your friend just save up for a double bed?