Does size matter?????????

lizann

Well be honest does size matter???

For girls - weight, height, penis size

For guys - weight, height, breast size

ztoical

the questions is a little vague - body size, breast size, penis size, shoe size?

John Mason

height matters for me - people who are smaller then me intimadate me

Eire 4Ever

Oh God Yes

Femelade

of course it matters, like irish bird, i dont like guys shorter than me, i am 5.4 so a guy smaller than that wouldnt be attractive to me atall..my boyfriend is 6.3 roughly, so i loves that. For weight, i guess i wouldnt be attracted to a tubby guy, but i guess thats a bit shallow, my boyfriend is fairly thin, i normally dont like skinny guys but i love him! and penis size, of course that matters!

LivingDeadGirl

No shorties or fatties, simple as. Any woman who says otherwise is just trying not to seem shallow.

Ginny

Height is the only thing that matters to me, have to be taller and a good few inches taller.

Unaton

Height - yes. I hate short people. Even have a phobia...

Weight - yes. I hate fat people. Even have a phobia...

Penis size - well I wouldn't be all the bigger the better but a micropenis is a no-no.

Call me shallow.

Weidii

First impressions are based on looks and body language, so as much as some people would like to think that looks don't matter, subconsciously they always do.

I know I've met someone in the past who's stocky (a little tubby, but it suited him as he had very broad shoulders and was tall) and was initially not at all attracted to him. Then when I got to know him I started to like things about his looks because they fit in well with his -great- personality. Eventually I ended up fancying the arse off the fella, despite my initial opinion of him.

RacoonQueen

Not too thin and not too chubby for me, I do like a muscular physique but beggars can be choosers like .

Appearance is generally the first thing that attracts you to someone else, of course sometimes you do get someone you wouldn't be attracted to lookswise at first, you get to know them then all of a sudden they're strappingly gorgeous(how does that happen? ).

Jules

LivingDeadGirl wrote: »

No shorties or fatties, simple as. Any woman who says otherwise is just trying not to seem shallow.

Well your wrong on that one, when i was younger i was all about the best looking guys and all that crap but as i have gotten older i prefere my men more soft around the middle.

And are you implying that by saying no shorties or fatties your are shallow?

watna

Jules wrote: »

Well your wrong on that one, when i was younger i was all about the best looking guys and all that crap but as i have gotten older i prefere my men more soft around the middle.

And are you implying that by saying no shorties or fatties your are shallow?

+1 I love my bfs cute beer belly. It keeps me warm at night! Plus, it's happiness weight. I've put some on too from being really content and eating in loads!

Sangre

Choosing someone because they're soft around the middle is still shallow.

RuailleBuaille

Penis size matters, yes definitely. And any girl who says otherwise or witters some ****e about 'its how you use it that matters' is just plain deluded. A creme egg the size of a smartie may taste good but it won't hit the spot or hold your attention for longer than it takes to say 'How cute'. Strange analogy yes, but I couldn't resist putting Creme Eggs and cock (my two fave things!) in the same boat. Not my boat you understand! LOL

Jules

I never said i choose i said i prefrer, i don't judge on looks alone. If someone approched me i don't disregard them on how they look, i would take the time to get to know them a little.

smashey

irishbird wrote: »

height matters for me - people who are smaller then me intimadate me

How you dooooiiinnn?

Dragan

Vespian wrote: »

Penis size matters, yes definitely. And any girl who says otherwise or witters some ****e about 'its how you use it that matters' is just plain deluded. A creme egg the size of a smartie may taste good but it won't hit the spot or hold your attention for longer than it takes to say 'How cute'. Strange analogy yes, but I couldn't resist putting Creme Eggs and cock (my two fave things!) in the same boat. Not my boat you understand! LOL

LOL, that got a great laugh out of me at the end of the day! Fair play!

As far as the physical side of things go, i suppose we all have dreams of ending up with physical perfection but the majority of us are willing to admit that physical perfection will not always be enough to make us happy!

With regard to the whole penis size thing, i think it is simply a case of horses for courses. I have met some size queens, some people who really wish they were size queens but were simply putting on an act and some girls who were afraid of an over average size penis for their own reasons.

Just like blokes penis size varying the size of a lass will vary and how much they can deal with comfortably will vary also.

Mrs Roy Keane

Vespian wrote: »

Penis size matters, yes definitely. And any girl who says otherwise or witters some ****e about 'its how you use it that matters' is just plain deluded. A creme egg the size of a smartie may taste good but it won't hit the spot or hold your attention for longer than it takes to say 'How cute'. Strange analogy yes, but I couldn't resist putting Creme Eggs and cock (my two fave things!) in the same boat. Not my boat you understand! LOL

I'm eating a creme egg now

Yes size matters

echosound

Vespian wrote: »

Penis size matters, yes definitely. And any girl who says otherwise or witters some ****e about 'its how you use it that matters' is just plain deluded. A creme egg the size of a smartie may taste good but it won't hit the spot or hold your attention for longer than it takes to say 'How cute'. Strange analogy yes, but I couldn't resist putting Creme Eggs and cock (my two fave things!) in the same boat. Not my boat you understand! LOL

Yes it matters to an extent, but I wouldn't be all "bigger is better" - too big and you end up in pain if they get too - em - enthusiastic?
too big = ouch, too small = where is it? is it in yet? and just right = mmmm. that reads like a well known kid's fairytale, actually? goldicocks and the three penises.

princess-lala

Of course size matters:)
height-anything taller than me!!
weight- not too skinny and not too chubby either!
penis- not tiny but not some big yoke thats gonna come back out your mouth either!!!:D:D

Invincible

Vespian wrote: »

Penis size matters, yes definitely. And any girl who says otherwise or witters some ****e about 'its how you use it that matters' is just plain deluded. A creme egg the size of a smartie may taste good but it won't hit the spot or hold your attention for longer than it takes to say 'How cute'. Strange analogy yes, but I couldn't resist putting Creme Eggs and cock (my two fave things!) in the same boat. Not my boat you understand! LOL

Don't knock it till you try it Vespian,think of the fun dunking the soldier in the egg;)

Peared

My god a discussion about size and nobody's in a huff yet?

Nightwish

Weight - I dont mind a bit of weight (my OH does have quite a sizable gut!) but overweight is a no, no.

Height - As long as he's taller than me

Penis size - well its girth that pleasures not length, so as long as it aint skinny its ok. I must say I'm extremely happy with the one I have in my life atm

RuailleBuaille

Penises (peni? penoids? penice?) are hilarious!

:pac:

Jackz

:pac: lol

Wibbs

Vespian wrote: »

Penises (peni? penoids? penice?) are hilarious!

:pac:

Hilarious? You want to inspire admiration and a little fear..

Sizewise? Height is not really an issue though at a push I prefer taller in a woman. Weight? I prefer slim TBH. I'm not bulky myself so would go for similar in a woman. Small waist and all that stuff. I don't think I've gone out with anyone bigger than a 12 and she was 5.8. I would say although a lot of guys would say they like very slim, most don't go for that and if faced with the model type body make lots of noises but do little else. Forget fashion magazines as examples of what guys go for. Look at porn. Bigger women in general. Boobs? Not too big. Anymore than a D cup scares me.:D I'd be unusual enough in that.

latenia

lizann wrote: »

Well be honest does size matter???

For girls - weight, height, penis size

For guys - weight, height, breast size

Why breast size and not vagina? Aint nothin' worse than a wizard's sleeve.

fits

Wibbs wrote: »

Anymore than a D cup scares me.:D I'd be unusual enough in that.

Not really...

If I have a type its generally tall (but not too much), thin and muscular, but I've been attracted to all kinds.

Maple

Vespian wrote: »

Penis size matters, yes definitely. And any girl who says otherwise or witters some ****e about 'its how you use it that matters' is just plain deluded. A creme egg the size of a smartie may taste good but it won't hit the spot or hold your attention for longer than it takes to say 'How cute'. Strange analogy yes, but I couldn't resist putting Creme Eggs and cock (my two fave things!) in the same boat. Not my boat you understand! LOL

LMAO! Girl, you are a scream! :D

echosound wrote: »

Yes it matters to an extent, but I wouldn't be all "bigger is better" - too big and you end up in pain if they get too - em - enthusiastic?
too big = ouch, too small = where is it? is it in yet? and just right = mmmm. that reads like a well known kid's fairytale, actually? goldicocks and the three penises.

So true!

princess-lala wrote: »

Of course size matters:)
height-anything taller than me!!
weight- not too skinny and not too chubby either!
penis- not tiny but not some big yoke thats gonna come back out your mouth either!!!:D:D

Lala you durty mare!

OT, Size does matter. I prefer men to be taller than me, a good few inches preferably. Weight wise, doesn't bother me too much if he's a bit chunky but i'm attracted to slimmer builds. Always have been. Tall, dark and skinny really. Penis size, yes it matters. I'm not looking for King Dong but no pencil penises need apply either.

watna

Wibbs wrote: »

Hilarious? You want to inspire admiration and a little fear..
Boobs? Not too big. Anymore than a D cup scares me.:D I'd be unusual enough in that.

I actually don't think that is that unusual. I've heard a few men say it.

latenia wrote: »

Why breast size and not vagina? Aint nothin' worse than a wizard's sleeve.

Eww..! Is this really an issue? i would have thought they were all a uniform size!

Maple

watna wrote: »

Eww..! Is this really an issue? i would have thought they were all a uniform size!

Nope, its what pelvic floor exercises are for girl! I'm doing mine now while sitting at my desk!

watna

maple wrote: »

Nope, its what pelvic floor exercises are for girl! I'm doing mine now while sitting at my desk!

Thanks for the information Miss Maple!

Now clench, and release and clench.. etc

fits

watna wrote: »

Now clench, and release and clench.. etc

Hold for ten

Loomis

watna wrote: »

I actually don't think that is that unusual. I've heard a few men say it.



Eww..! Is this really an issue? i would have thought they were all a uniform size!

Why?
You realise not to assume all cocks are the same size...

watna

Mr. Anderson wrote: »

Why?
You realise not to assume all cocks are the same size...

No, really?

I shouldn't have said uniform size. I should have said a similar enough size.

Dudess

Got a picture text of a load of vaginas recently - they. are. DISGUSTING!!! Penises aren't always that easy on the eye and I often think girls say they like looking at them when they don't really but they just feel that guys get to look at breasts so therefore girls need something to look at too, but after seeing those pics, I can honestly say penises are a lot more aesthetically pleasing than girl's bits!
I'm more physically attracted to guys who are taller than I am, but I certainly wouldn't rule out a fella who's shorter than I if he's attractive enough.
Penis size - yeah, a good in-between size. Very small or very big - equal no-no.
Breast size - I wouldn't like to be flat-chested and I'd understand a girl with no boobs getting implants.
Size - I wouldn't like to be overweight (been there) or underweight (been there). Slim with curves in all the right places (i.e. everywhere except the stomach - a sticky-out stomach so does not look good, and I have one at the mo so no Easter eggs for me this year).
Guy size - I like a guy who's kinda lean - not big and muscley or anything but a bit of definition is nice. However a bit of flab wouldn't bother me. Average size really.

Unaton wrote: »

Height - yes. I hate short people. Even have a phobia...
Weight - yes. I hate fat people. Even have a phobia...
Call me shallow.

Wow! So you actually "hate" short people and fat people? Normally people hate those who are nasty and malicious and do horrible things but being fat and/or short (which a person can't control) is enough to make you hate them? Again, wow...
Nah, I wouldn't call you shallow based on that, just nasty.

Dragan

Peared wrote: »

My god a discussion about size and nobody's in a huff yet?

If it helps i can get all upset and dramatic and stuff.....

"I can't believe you would judge me because of the size of my winky....." and so forth!

macbarbie

oooh yeah totally!! im kinda tall so i couldn go out with a short guy and i aint into fatties.... nor really skinny....

my test is when they turn to the side.... if they turn to the side and dissapper... no no.... or if they turn to the side and block the sun... big no no...

sounds shallow but hey its life every1 judges everyone... might aswell be honest!!

and yes if his pork sword is a teeny peeny..... id be turned off.....

for both our sakes... the last thing he wants to here is.. is it in yet??:p

Wibbs

watna wrote: »

I actually don't think that is that unusual. I've heard a few men say it.

Between you and fits I stand corrected.:D Maybe it's just my mates then.

Eww..! Is this really an issue? i would have thought they were all a uniform size!

No they vary quite a bit. It can even vary a little with the same woman at different times. Some are less snug than others. Snug is defo better(for them too). Never got a wizards sleeve though thankfully. I know some who have though. Not good. One guy I know reckoned it was a large part of the reasons for splitting up.

Dudess wrote:

Got a picture text of a load of vaginas recently - they. are. DISGUSTING!!! Penises aren't always that easy on the eye and I often think girls say they like looking at them when they don't really but they just feel that guys get to look at breasts so therefore girls need something to look at too, but after seeing those pics, I can honestly say penises are a lot more aesthetically pleasing than girl's bits!

I dunno, from my point of view I can't get enough of them frankly.:D Like most things to do with beauty, some are better looking than others though. They can be very different in look and would be distinctive. I reckon I could pick out exes of mine from pictures of that area. Now there's a line up.:D

macbarbie

Wibbs wrote: »

I dunno, from my point of view I can't get enough of them frankly.:D Like most things to do with beauty, some are better looking than others though. They can be very different in look and would be distinctive. I reckon I could pick out exes of mine from pictures of that area. Now there's a line up.:D

thats mad!! i know i couldnt do that jus by lookin at exs penis id have to feel it... i remember the sizes!!

so hey i guess that sums up that part of the pole, size defo does matter!

Iago

I've said it before and I'll say it again, all single people should wear a sticker outlining their ability in bed when out and about. Then looks would become less relevant and you wouldn't have to waste your time chatting up the really good looking guy who wants to do everything in the position that allows him to check himself out in the mirror for the 90 seconds or so that he lasts!

I really don't think that size should matter that much, once you take the really big and really small out of the equation. Anything from 4-8 should be more than enough to do the trick, especially if he has any idea at all about what he should be doing with his hands and mouth. Penetration is such a small part of an overall experience, that the sizes above should be more than enough.


From my male point of view, I'm really not that bothered about sizes, as long as everything is in proportion and looks right. For example take Salma Hayeks bust on somebody like Nicole Ritchie, or Nicole Ritchies breasts on someone like Angelina Jolie, both would be out of proportion and wouldn't be attractive imho.

Tom K

I think that size is an awkward question. I'm 9 inches and apparantly quite thick which in the majority of my sexual experiences has caused alot of problems. Even with lots and lots of foreplay the majority of women cannot take it all leaving for alot of frustration for me, if you can imagine!

With regards mens perspectives of women, most of my mates would think the bigger the better, Breast wise

As Tommy Tiernan once said, some nights I'm very particular, other nights I'd stick it up a drainpipe!! In my case at least it would all fit !!!!:p

RuailleBuaille

Tom K wrote: »

I think that size is an awkward question. I'm 9 inches and apparantly quite thick which in the majority of my sexual experiences has caused alot of problems. Even with lots and lots of foreplay the majority of women cannot take it all leaving for alot of frustration for me, if you can imagine!

Tom, try this for size

http://www.comeclose.co.uk/product.html

Aisling(",)

well obviously im not gonna turn someone away if i like them and they dont fit my prefrences but i generally like

Height:6ft prefrably taller....6ft4 is perfect
weight:at least 3 stone heavier then me and built.i like feeling small and petite in comparison
Shoe size:i have a thing about lads with little feet iget freaked out.a 10 or 12 is good.
Penis size:well ive had a huge thick long lad but he was absoloutly no use and ive had fairly small to medium sized who know exactly what to do.so id say a nice medium to large who know what theyre doing

echosound

Aisling(",) wrote: »

well obviously im not gonna turn someone away if i like them and they dont fit my prefrences but i generally like

Height:6ft prefrably taller....6ft4 is perfect
weight:at least 3 stone heavier then me and built.i like feeling small and petite in comparison
Shoe size:i have a thing about lads with little feet iget freaked out.a 10 or 12 is good.
Penis size:well ive had a huge thick long lad but he was absoloutly no use and ive had fairly small to medium sized who know exactly what to do.so id say a nice medium to large who know what theyre doing

you're oddly specific with some measurements there...

panda100

lizann wrote: »

Well be honest does size matter???

For girls - weight, height, penis size

Weight:Not at all,I dont like really skinny guys though,a bit of meat or muscle is nice.
Height:Vitally important he has to be at least my height so 6'1 or over
Penis size: nope
Shoe size:has to have at least size 10 feet

LivingDeadGirl

Jules wrote: »

Well your wrong on that one, when i was younger i was all about the best looking guys and all that crap but as i have gotten older i prefere my men more soft around the middle.

And are you implying that by saying no shorties or fatties your are shallow?

My post was meant to be taken in a jovial fashion, hence the smiley.

No I'm not. People will often perceive you as shallow for saying such things, and come out with the usual 'it's what's on the inside that counts bla bla'. Nothing wrong with knowing what you want and don't want IMO.

gcgirl

Weight wise i am not too fussey i like a guy with a couple of extra pounds
height wise anything over 5'5
Penis size a bit of girth '7 (inch)would do me fine

Invincible

gcgirl wrote: »

Weight wise i am not too fussey i like a guy with a couple of extra pounds
height wise anything over 5'5
Penis size a bit of girth 7' would do me fine

You must be a big girl if you can harbour a 7 foot penis

7' = 7 foot.

smashey

gcgirl wrote: »

Weight wise i am not too fussey i like a guy with a couple of extra pounds
height wise anything over 5'5
Penis size a bit of girth 7' would do me fine

:eek:

rediguana

I read before that if you take pictures of (say) 1000 people and merge them all to get the average, you arrive at "classic" beauty / handsomeness, as rated by people. People don't tend to go for outliers (some do, but they themselves are outliers).

I'm a six-foot-zero male.
I like breasts and they shouldn't be TOO small (AA) or too big (DD).
Height? I want at least two inches breathing space from my own height. If you're a giant, I might feel like I have to be richer. No dwarves (below 5ft) either though.
Weight? I often find myself complaining more about girls being too thin than too fat. Obesity isn't a good look, but some girls can really carry off some extra weight, especially if they have a pretty face and an effervescent personality.