How was yours?

monaminute

Over a few drinks the other night my friends and I were reminising over the first time we had sex. Funny now looking back but I must admit mine was nothing like you see on Sex and The City.

How was yours?

SW81

Terrible!!!!!!

Next question!

monaminute

lol!!!

Quality

Yeah mine was crap as well..

monaminute

seems to be the general trend. One of my girl friends claims hers was great......think she's lying:p

metaoblivia

It was his first time too, so... brief. Very, very brief.

Nightwish

Pretty bad. It lasted about 30 seconds if I correctly recall.

Maple

mine was hilarious. so much fun. we were both virgins but madly in love and the best of friends so it wasn't awkward at all. we were complete novices with no technique and absolutely no clue of what we were doing.
there were no screaming orgasms or 9 1/2 weeks moments but its a brilliant memory to have.

Kazobel

Mine was great, I had just turned 19 and it was with a guy I'd been dating for 6 months, he was experienced so I didn't feel nervous at all and it seemed to last hours. We moved in together soon after and lived together until I was 21 but by the end of the relationship he had turned into a complete psychopath and it ended badly but we had a few good years so that's all I try to remember

Nevyn

Define sex ?

First time with a female it was in a shower after we had been to the beach, were both ahem 'jail bait' it was amazing.

First time with a male I was still jail bait he was older but tought I was legal and I was great, I knew what I wanted and I went about getting it. Being on top helps a lot but I would not say it was painful I have worse period cramps so it was pretty good.

Then again I was sober both times, the worst sexoring has to be when you are really too drunk.

Crumble Froo

oh lol. im so not going there.

RAFC

We were together 2 years, engaged to be married and then we had sex - I cried the whole way home - emotional freak - thinking that he would finish it, 'cos he got what he wanted - when I think about it now I can only laugh.

We were both new to the sex experience so it wasn't great, but 20 years of practice and WOW - obviously it wasn't ALL he wanted from me, so we are still 'practicing' :)

Shirty

Mine was a total disaster, much awkwardness and and condom related disasters (couldn't figure out the right side to roll!) and sore. Was not impressed, but over the years have practiced hard and I hope have vastly improved!

Jules

Three words....

Sweet but quick!

First proper boyfriend and we were both virgins, he was a little older, but yeah sweet.

*Page*

didnt hurt, was over really quick, was so gak, and had a crap after feeling, didn't want to do it, but so happy it happened...

he emotionaly pushed into doing it because i'd be a bad girlfriend if i didnt and he'd finish with me too...

yes i caved due to my compleet and utter lack of self which he had ebbed away slowly for about a year...

9 months later i had my little girl... after using a condom and all... so glad it happen wouldnt change a thing!!!

Cathmandooo

Ooh that's freaky, me and my friend were taking a 5 min time out at the new years party and went off to a spare room and discussed this!

Mine was grand, with my first love, both our first times, no clue what we were doing but didnt hurt and no alcohol involved wohoo!

rainbow kirby

Was very, very meh.

Lux23

monaminute wrote: »

Over a few drinks the other night my friends and I were reminising over the first time we had sex. Funny now looking back but I must admit mine was nothing like you see on Sex and The City.

How was yours?

When have you ever seen someone lose their virginity on Sex and The City? They were all just a bunch of past it sluts.

Mine was awful but I was glad to get it over with.

monaminute

Cathooo wrote: »

Ooh that's freaky, me and my friend were taking a 5 min time out at the new years party and went off to a spare room and discussed this!

ha bet you got a fright now you saw this thread

Rozabeez

Nothing special!

Cathmandooo

Lux23 wrote: »

When have you ever seen someone lose their virginity on Sex and The City? They were all just a bunch of past it sluts.

Mine was awful but I was glad to get it over with.

Actually didnt Carrie describe hers as crap and being on a pool table after smoking a joint and that it was all over in seconds?

monaminute

Least we can all remember it, One of my friends (a usually very quiet girl) admitted to not remembering it at all! I was a little worried and didnt know what to say to that!!!
Most of my girl mates admitted to feeling little to no pleasure and more pain!! was quite shocked by that myself!!

monaminute

Cathooo wrote: »

Actually didnt Carrie describe hers as crap and being on a pool table after smoking a joint and that it was all over in seconds?

Think so...!

monkeyfudge

Always amazes me how everyone talks about it only lasting a few seconds...

I had to fake the first few times as it was taking so long....

Star Lord

My first time took ages, probably because of nerves... think it went on about 30-40 minutes... and I thought something had to be wrong, she thought I was bullsh!tting about being a virgin! :eek:

*Page*

I said quick it was probably about 2 or 3 min's... my best mates 1st time and his 1st time lasted about 1 hour, said its still one of her top ten

frizzefreckles

painful and awkward but was glad to have it over with

Piste

DamoElDiablo wrote: »

My first time took ages, probably because of nerves... think it went on about 30-40 minutes... and I thought something had to be wrong, she thought I was bullsh!tting about being a virgin! :eek:

How did you have the energy for that?! :eek:

Star Lord

Piste wrote: »

How did you have the energy for that?! :eek:

I've no idea... Haven't managed to live up to it again since either though

Kazobel

Piste wrote: »

How did you have the energy for that?! :eek:

Most likely the same way all men manage anything, he just lay back and let her do all the work

Star Lord

Kazobel wrote: »

Most likely the same way all men manage anything, he just lay back and let her do all the work

:eek: Most certainly not!!! We took it in turns

LivingDeadGirl

Mine was great, it was with the right person Not painful at all either!

AckwelFoley

I was so nervous i gave her a few strokes of the man weapon, and ran to the toilet and puked.

Nice.

pow wow

Should I be worried I can't remember mine?! I mean I remember who and where...but the ins and outs of it (boom boom)....not a clue lol.

CathyMoran

We thought that you were supposed to put it ALL in and wondered why that would not work, what was worse is that he is hung like a horse. It took about an hour, was very sweet, was with my now husband and we had just got engaged at the time. I felt that it changed me afterwards. More in love with him now than I ever thought possible.

Gauge

Painful, clumsy, and embarrassing. Not quite the romantic, tender experience my J17 and Bliss magazines had told me to wait for- but at least it's over and done with now!

panda100

monaminute wrote: »

Least we can all remember it, One of my friends (a usually very quiet girl) admitted to not remembering it at all! I was a little worried and didnt know what to say to that!!!
Most of my girl mates admitted to feeling little to no pleasure and more pain!! was quite shocked by that myself!!

Most of my mates were pissed when they first lost their virginity.I think thats a pretty sad state of affairs.
Mine was painful,very much so both physically and emotionally ,especaially when we'd been going out a year and a half and he dumped me five minutes after we had sex for the first time.:mad: I think that was the defining moment that started me on my all men are bastards philosophy in life.
I think a bad first sexual experience really moulds your future thoughts on sex. I think if I had a nice,loving,commited boyfirend at the time rather than the cheating,lying b*stard I lost it with I wouldnt have such issues with men,sex and realtionships now.

spinandscribble

mine was good, was a vir instead of a virgin, ie. i knew it wasnt going to hurt so no need for the gin

only problem was a few mates were over in the evening before they set off for the night and knew what i had planned due to pill arrangments so i got almighty teasing and they came back 5 times because they kept forgeting things, yeah right those bitches

Rattlehead_ie

DamoElDiablo wrote: »

:eek: Most certainly not!!! We took it in turns

Would that be "shift" work then
I'm not going to go along iwth this one seeing as I think she reads boards and googles my name every so often

*Murphy*

grand. indifferent. ive had worse and ive had better..... im glad it was who it was tho

rain on

Meh. It was with my first serious boyfriend, which was nice as opposed to it beingwith a randomer. Hurt a bit but not unbearably.. really I just thought it was a kinda weird sensation that took a bit of getting used to. Despite always having been very highly sexed I didn't actually start enjoying sex until quite recently.. a bit of shopping around had to be done before I found someone who I was compatible with in the bedroom department.

Just wanted sex, got it, nothing exciting but wasn't expecting it to be like "special" or anything
didn't hurt at all...

WhiteWashMan

Very Painful. I was very worried that Id have to use a tampon so that all the shi... Oh. That sort of sex.

It was actually enjoyable, but nervy and all elbows and knees. the chick I was with was absolutely gorgeous, knew it was my first time, and I adored her. We had good fun actually.
It wasnt like something out of a porno, but then again, it wasnt like something out of american pie either.

m..graham

all these posts dont sound too good..I admit to being a virgin, I have had many chances to do it but have chickened out so to speak,i dont know why tho. Half of me just wants it over and done with but the other half is afraid?

Piste

If you over-hype it you'll inevitably be disappointed.

liah

Mine was with my first boyfriend after a few months, we stayed together for 2 1/2 years til life took us different ways. I don't really remember the actual event, but it wasn't painful at all (else I'd have more recollection!). I'm happy it was with who it was with, we loved each other to bits and he's a fantastic guy.

m..graham

countless people have said to me you shouldnt waste it on just any.. I know this sounds stupid,but I wouldnt know where to start?
I have a low self confidence...

Orla K

Two words,

Carpet burn

other than that it was good.

minidazzler

m..graham wrote: »

countless people have said to me you shouldnt waste it on just any.. I know this sounds stupid,but I wouldnt know where to start?
I have a low self confidence...

Well, I wouldn't advise going for a one night stand to get it gone. I also don't think you should wait for the much fabled love of your life. Just pick someone who you trust and like would be my advice.

Orla K wrote: »

Two words,

Carpet burn

other than that it was good.

OUCH!!!! That would suck!!!


My first time sucked majorly. Didn't enjoy it, wrong person, just wrong. I have since been way more picky about who I will have intercourse with. (I say intercourse, because everything else is fair game with anyone.)

m..graham

minidazzler wrote: »

Well, I wouldn't advise going for a one night stand to get it gone. I also don't think you should wait for the much fabled love of your life. Just pick someone who you trust and like would be my advice.

Yes I was thinking of that too. I have been texting this guy..
You see Im a bit apprehensive about it..I want to but im afraid ill get hurt etc?

Orla K

minidazzler wrote: »

OUCH!!!! That would suck!!!

No, it was just me that sucked and not in a bad way either! but seriously I didn't notice until about five minutes after, annoied me for days after it and I could only complain to one person who would just laugh and make jokes.