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Relationships

  • 17-12-2007 3:53pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,900 ✭✭✭Quality


    Hey Girls,

    A few good ones for yis...

    What do you find acceptable behaviour from your man....

    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?

    Flirts with other women?

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?

    Do you trust your man?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,123 ✭✭✭✭Star Lord


    Oooh hard hitting questions Quality...

    I'll answer them from a guy (this guy at least) perspective, let me know if you want it taken out instead so it's just the ladies...

    Do you mind if she looks at other guys? No

    Flirts with other men? Depends how far the flirting goes or if it seems too intense...

    Dances with other men ( Nightclub/Bar)? Not really, as I know I'll be the one she goes home with... :)

    Would you stay with her if she was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)? Kiss - I'd be hurt, but maybe... Ride - No not a chance, I wouldn't mean enough to her if she'd do that.

    Do you trust your lady? I trust till I'm given reason not to.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,900 ✭✭✭Quality


    I thought they maybe interesting,,,,

    Nice answers, want to see a few of the ladies opinions up here though..:D:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 622 ✭✭✭Solarball10


    Quality wrote: »
    I thought they maybe interesting,,,,

    Nice answers, want to see a few of the ladies opinions up here though..:D:D

    Do you mind if he looks at other girls? I gave him a playful slap and get him back by looking at other blokes...he soon stops hehe

    Flirts with other women? What do you mean by "flirting" exactly?

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)? Yes, if they're strangers!

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)? NOT A CHANCE!

    Would you mind him going to a strip club? Hmmm....wouldn't be too comfortable with it...

    Do you trust your man? Yes


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 968 ✭✭✭Pigletlover


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls? Not really, but I'd expect him to own up to it if I caught him looking.

    Flirts with other women? This would piss me off a bit.

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)? Depends on the type of dancing and probably who the other women/women is/are.

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)? No and no

    Would you mind him going to a strip club? Probably, but it depends on the circumstances

    Do you trust your man? I trust him, but I'm not one of those girls who say 'I know my man would never cheat on me', nobody knows!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,900 ✭✭✭Quality


    ozzyoh wrote: »

    Flirts with other women? What do you mean by "flirting" exactly?


    Talking closely....Coming on to someone..


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 277 ✭✭DubLegs


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls? - as long as it's just looking!

    Flirts with other women? YES, shouldn't feel the need to if he's happy with me!

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)? ah mine doesn't dance! :p

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)? NO - no second chances

    Would you mind him going to a strip club? eh not really - look but no touch.

    Do you trust your man? 100% completley!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 968 ✭✭✭Pigletlover


    Where do you stand on these issues Quality? :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,900 ✭✭✭Quality


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls? Dont Mind at all.

    Flirts with other women? He knows better.

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)? Pisses me off

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)? No Way

    Would you mind him going to a strip club? IF he wants to waste his money off he go

    Do you trust your man? Sometimes. I would like to think that he would always be faithful.... But nobody knows...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 622 ✭✭✭Solarball10


    Quality wrote: »
    Talking closely....Coming on to someone..

    If it was talking with one of my mates no(however, not coming onto!!)
    If it was with a randomer, I'd be mad, why would he talk to a stranger in the first place?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,820 ✭✭✭Femelade


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?i dont like it , but i dont make an issue of it either..

    Flirts with other women? that would piss me off...

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)? unless it was a friend i would not be happy..

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)? no way.

    Would you mind him going to a strip club? would piss me off, but if it was for like a stag and all his friends were going i wouldnt mind so much.

    Do you trust your man ? i'd like to think so..(but like some have said already...nobody knows!)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,475 ✭✭✭Lil' Smiler


    What do you find acceptable behaviour from your man....

    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    Only looking but not in a pervy, eyes hanging out way


    Flirts with other women?
    Yes, especially if it's really obvious flriting, nothing worse than being out with your guy and he's flirting madly with other girls and feeling like an idiot watching him do it!! And especially with girls he's slept with/score before.. not happy about that one bit :( but alot of people don't notice when they're flirting..

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    No if it's girls he knows.
    Yes if it's an unknown girl & she's coming onto him heavily & he's leading her on, in any case he'd have sense himself not to dance with other girls

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    Not at all, been there, done that. Took me way too long to get over giving someone another chance too many times.

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    I told my bf to go to one in Vegas... luckily he was too drunk to know what was going on it seems. He was qite shocked I said but I didn't mind in Vegas, something you've to experience I suppose!! I just would not be happy with the whole private dance thing, that would not be on at all.

    Do you trust your man?
    Yes. 100% completely, i don't trust other girls though, not one bit


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,325 ✭✭✭b3t4


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    Nope, not at all. I'll even point out some particularly hot women to him.

    Flirts with other women?
    No problem with this either. We're both flirts who don't convert haha

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    As long as he isn't dry humping them (which wouldn't happen) then he can fire away :)

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    Either would deminish my trust in him which would probably eventually kill the relationship.

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    Nope, not at all.

    Do you trust your man?
    I'm going out with him therefore I trust him. Any other way and we'd be single :)

    A


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,150 ✭✭✭LivingDeadGirl


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls? Sometimes, in the past I've said 'Stop looking at her legs.' :rolleyes:

    Flirts with other women? Well yeah obviously!

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)? He doesn't dance.

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)? Depends on circumstances and who he kissed/No way.

    Would you mind him going to a strip club? Nope.

    Do you trust your man? Yep I do!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,138 ✭✭✭takola


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls? Nope not a bit.

    Flirts with other women? Yep! I'd feel like a tool watching that!

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)? If it's a friend nope. Wouldn't understand why he'd need to dance with a stranger.

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)? Would depend on the situation to be honest. I could say no straight up but I know myself it would depend on the situation.

    Would you mind him going to a strip club? Nope.

    Do you trust your man? Yep I do!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,440 ✭✭✭✭Piste


    My boyfriend doesn't do any of the above.



    Is he perfect, or just weird? :confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,367 ✭✭✭✭watna


    Piste wrote: »
    My boyfriend doesn't do any of the above.



    Is he perfect, or just weird? :confused:

    I'd say perfect!

    My bf doesn't and would never do any of the above. He's not that kind of guy. He's shy. It took him 4 months to ask me out!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 491 ✭✭*Lees*


    What do you find acceptable behaviour from your man....

    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    Nope not atall!! When you see an attractive person you can't help but look!!

    Flirts with other women?
    Nope, not acceptable!

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    Not acceptable if it's a random stranger who clearly fancies him or something! But if it's friends or whatever it wouldnt bother me.

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    No

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    No, not atall!!

    Do you trust your man?
    Yep, totally!:)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭*Page*


    What do you find acceptable behaviour from your man....

    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    We look but we dont touch... We ask each other if they would get down and dirty with passer bys...

    Flirts with other women?
    In a playful way i dont mind as long as its understandable playful and not with strangers

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    depends, i dont mind him dancing with either his friends my friends or our friends but i would have an issue with him dancing with a stranger

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    not a chance

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    Not at all,

    Do you trust your man?
    Yes


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,308 ✭✭✭Pyjamarama


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    Yes, if he was drooling and very obvious but tisn't something he does so I can't complain! Don't mind if it's just appreciating someone is good looking but think it's disrespectful to be drooling etc!

    Flirts with other women?
    Yes! I'd wonder why he felt the need to i.e. not a particularly healthy relationship if you need to get your kicks this way.

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    Randomers yes, if it's his friends and they're just having a laugh then no!

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    No, we've both always said cheating was a dealbreaker.

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    Not if it's for a party or something with a gang of lads but wouldn't be ok if it was a regular occurrence or private dances were involved, hell no!!

    Do you trust your man?
    Yep, if there's not complete trust then whats the point??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,183 ✭✭✭Peared


    I dunno ladies. Now I'm not saying anybody is telling untruths here but would you say that women in general pretend to be an awful lot more easy going in front of other women than they actually are with their fellas?

    I would say we have a habit of pretending we dont mind things so we dont look possessive or insecure or whatever and then ripping the fella out of it (in private) when he actually does something along these lines.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 317 ✭✭stratospheres


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    Nope thats normal

    Flirts with other women?
    Now thats not on!

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    Also not on

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    Probably not but it would depend on the circumstances

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    Not really

    Do you trust your man?
    Yep


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    Nope, would consider that normal.

    Flirts with other women?
    Not really acceptable if it is blatant flirting in front of me.

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    WOuld prefer him not to....

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)
    No way.

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    Nope. It is a free country after all...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,129 ✭✭✭Nightwish


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    Not at all.

    Flirts with other women?
    Thats not on. I wouldnt like it. Just like he wouldnt like me flirting with other guys.

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    He doesnt go to clubs/bars so that doesnt happen.

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)
    No

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    No. He's been to strip clubs, and I dont mind at all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,900 ✭✭✭Quality


    Peared wrote: »
    I dunno ladies. Now I'm not saying anybody is telling untruths here but would you say that women in general pretend to be an awful lot more easy going in front of other women than they actually are with their fellas?

    I would say we have a habit of pretending we dont mind things so we dont look possessive or insecure or whatever and then ripping the fella out of it (in private) when he actually does something along these lines.

    I would agree in principal. My answers were truth,

    If I see him checking someone out, I will usual say "Caught ya" Or "Put your tongue back in" jokingly but it wouldnt bother me

    If I caught him flirting with someone, I would absolutely murder him, he knows that...


    I hate when he dances with other women, Everytime we go out he will do it. He knows I hate it, It doesnt matter what I say to him, he still does it.

    He knows I would not stand unfaithfulness

    Strippers are fine, its harmless fun..

    I trust him as much as I can... Nobody knows for sure, or can be 100% people change, I am 12 years with him now,,,, i would like to think we will always be together. But people change


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,440 ✭✭✭✭Piste


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    Nah, we always check out people together and judge them (horrible I know but we're both people-watchers!) and I wouldn't mind if he called some other girl hot.

    Flirts with other women?
    He wouldn't...I don't think it would occur to him to flirt, he'd just be friendly! But if he did it in fron tof me I'd probably tell myself it's not actually flirting

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    I'd be a bit puzzled cos it wouldn't be the kinda thing he'd do unless he wanted to score, and he has me so he wouldn't be doing it! If it was a friend of ours I wouldn't care a bit.

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)
    Probably if it was just a kiss...sex? I think that just might hurt too much!

    Nope, I'd know he'd only be going to be with the lads, not for the stripping itself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,649 ✭✭✭Catari Jaguar


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?

    Kind of, if I think they're prettier than I am. although sometimes I do point pretty girls out to him. As long as he doesn't comment he's ok!

    Flirts with other women?
    I only mind if I know he used to fancy them/ go out with them

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    He would never do that

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?

    No, I'd rip the bollix off him

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    I think so yes.

    Do you trust your man?
    Yep!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18 bergdorf


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    Never noticed him looking at any other girls, but it wouldn't bother me too much, unless it was obviously drooling over some girl.

    Flirts with other women?
    Yes drives me bad, have had major rows over this one, he used to think flirting was just when your out in a club, that texting and social networking comments wasn't flirting, well it is. TBH, we've both flirted with other people but its more having the craic when your out with a group of friends, as long as it doesn't go anywhere.

    Dances with other women (Nightclub/bar)?
    Hes not much of a dancer, but I wouldn't put up with if he did, dancing with ould wans at weddings is okay though.

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    I had my doubts about him been faithful to me, because of certain things he did, so I ended up cheating on him. We've both been in the wrong, but have moved on, turned a new leaf. Not ideal start for a relationship, but no ones relationship is perfect and don't have some problems,although alot won't admit it, I know thats the case with alot of my friends.

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    I do have problem with this, I dont agree with strip/lapdance clubs, he went to one, and lied about it and then I caught him bragging about it to a mate, it was more lying about it. I'm abit more mellow about it these days, stag maybe ok, if hes foolish to waste his money on it.

    Do you trust your man?
    Sometimes, more so these days. I didn't before when we had problems but ya now I do, otherwise your nerves be wrecked worrying what there upto, we've had our ups and downs but we're cool now.


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    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    No, I like looking at preety women and generally point them out.


    Flirts with other women?
    I'm not attracted to flirts.

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    Nope that is entirely harmless.

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    Shagging or kissing isn't neccesarily being unfaithful.


    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    Yes I think they are exploitative.

    Do you trust your man?
    To not cheat on me? 100% [/quote]


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,421 ✭✭✭bluedolphin


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    No. Window-shopping is fine; purchasing is a different matter.

    Flirts with other women?
    Depends on who the other woman is and the extent of the flirting. I'm generally a flirty person myself so I understand what it means to engage in harmless flirty banter without meaning anything deeper.

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    Again, depends who she is. A friend of his/mine, absolutely fine! A stranger whom he was looking at as per Q1 might cause a raised eyebrow...

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    Kiss - probably; depends on entire situation and who she was etc.
    Ride - *slams door*

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    Nah, only a bit of a laugh like for The Lads.

    Do you trust your man?
    Yeah!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,756 ✭✭✭Jules


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    Depends... On what the girl looks like tbh. And yeah sometimes i say , wow she is cute. And he will agree or disagree. Just cuz your on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu.

    Flirts with other women?
    Not really, tbh he is a fairly friendly guy anyway. Chats lots to other people. If we are out with a group of friends he goes wandering off, but im not worried.

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    Well he danced with some of the lads at the beers, but no wouldn't bother me.

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    Difficult to answer, people make mistakes. Cheat on me once shame on you, cheat on me twice, shame on me.

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    Na not at all.

    Do you trust your man?
    Yep!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,229 ✭✭✭Susannahmia


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?

    Yes if I'm with him he should be looking at me!

    Flirts with other women?

    Yes I would kill him.

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?

    Yes, he wouldn't though he hates even dancing with me.:)

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?

    No way

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?

    Would a bit.

    Do you trust your man?[/QUOTE]

    Yep.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 622 ✭✭✭Solarball10


    Peared wrote: »
    I would say we have a habit of pretending we dont mind things so we dont look possessive or insecure or whatever and then ripping the fella out of it (in private) when he actually does something along these lines.

    Lol! Totally!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,885 ✭✭✭Stabshauptmann


    Peared wrote: »
    I dunno ladies. Now I'm not saying anybody is telling untruths here but would you say that women in general pretend to be an awful lot more easy going in front of other women than they actually are with their fellas?

    I would say we have a habit of pretending we dont mind things so we dont look possessive or insecure or whatever and then ripping the fella out of it (in private) when he actually does something along these lines.
    My experience of women isnt in line with the boards average female response anyway


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    Girls Ive been with seemed to get annoyed over this and bring it up in future or get me back but at the time make a poor attempt at pretending they didnt care

    Flirts with other women?
    Girls Ive been with seemed to get annoyed, even if it was with friends; though they never believe that they are/were just friends

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    not relavent, only one person I ever want to dance with

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    again no experience

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    only one girl ever had a problem with this, though for the others it was just hypothetical situations

    Do you trust your man?
    I have no idea what went through their minds, but Id hope so


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,000 ✭✭✭spinandscribble


    Quality wrote: »

    I hate when he dances with other women, Everytime we go out he will do it. He knows I hate it, It doesnt matter what I say to him, he still does it.


    wow i dont know how you can put up with that. its not really that he dances but that he knows it bothers you and still does it!

    i've never had that problem because all my bfs have hated dancing :D


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    no, its not like he or anyone else can help themselves, i just dont wanna know about it

    Flirts with other women?
    yes, i dont stand for that im flirty by nature bull****. i am but i keep it under wraps out of respect for my bfs. i dont mind if we're not in love but its not a good sign if he cant help himself

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    never had a bf that 'danced', moshed at most. dont mind moshing or just jumping around at all, but i wouldnt like slow dancing or grinding

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    no. i feel like i wouldnt be able to trust him again. unless she fell on his lips right in front of me that is

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    no if it was a lads thing i'd understand, if there was lap dances ect i'd be cross

    Do you trust your man?
    i did then we hit a bump but i think im back on track and trust him again fully


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,168 ✭✭✭Kazobel


    had to change them a bit to apply to me :D

    Do you mind if she looks at other women/men?

    Not at all, before she met me she'd have considered herself straight so other women wouldn't interest her and lets be honest a mans going to find it hard to compete with me so I don't think I'd have anything to worry about.

    Flirts with other women/men?

    Same as above and besides I'm a bit of a flirt myself and it never bothers her. We have a really good relationship and I doubt a few compliments and oneliners would make her stray. I doubt she'd even know if she was flirting, no matter what the other person thought she'd only really see it as a conversation. In our case the flirting is usually with the both of us at the same time :D

    Dances with other women/men ( Nightclub/Bar)?

    Naaa sure I'd encourage it if we were on a night out because I'd want her to enjoy herself and I'm not big on dancing, if anyone tried to drop the feel or anything she'd probably plant them one :D

    Would you stay with her if she was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?

    As much as I love her no, I'd try to remain friends but I've been cheated on before and it really hurt so I don't think I'd be able to trust her again.

    Would you mind her going to a strip club?

    Not at all, if she did it'd only be for a laugh and I'd most likely be standing on the table with her chanting "GET THEM OFF, GET THEM OFF!" :D

    Do you trust your woman?

    Totally 100%


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,196 ✭✭✭Crumble Froo


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls? - my fella doesnt, simple as. though if he did, i'd've no worries whatsoever.

    Flirts with other women? - again, he doesnt, simple as. though i was worried for a bit cos a lot of his best mates were female. have since met them, and have absolutely no problems leaving em alone while they're pissed.

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)? - nope! he was best man and danced a halfdance with one of the bridemaids at the wedding, and had me up before the end of the first song :)

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)? - couldnt imagine it happening, but i most certainly would.

    Would you mind him going to a strip club? -, lol, he used to work for prostitutes, i can picture him squirming and cringing at hte strip club now! :P

    Do you trust your man? - to the end of the world.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,884 ✭✭✭Rattlehead_ie


    Another from the guys perspective + some of these answers would depend of the faith and trust you have in the person but in general.

    Do you mind if she looks at other guys?
    Not at all, she is human, I'd be worried if she found me the most attractive guy in the world. *

    Flirts with other men?
    Really don't mind this at all, as I know she is with me and its nice to know
    that other guys would find her attractive, but would prefer if she didn't very obviously do it when Im sitting beside her :p

    Dances with other men ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    Hell no! you should see me dance . /slap "Perv"

    Would you stay with her if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    Behind my back I would have to say no.
    If discussed, well its been discussed then :)

    Would you mind her going to a strip club?
    Not one bit, its not like she is gona be able to touch the guys.

    Do you trust your imaginary woman?
    Yeps


    *Im the 2nd most attractive :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    Another from the guys perspective + some of these answers would depend of the faith and trust you have in the person but in general.

    Do you mind if she looks at other guys?
    Not at all, she is human, I'd be worried if she found me the most attractive guy in the world. *

    Flirts with other men?
    Really don't mind this at all, as I know she is with me and its nice to know
    that other guys would find her attractive, but would prefer if she didn't very obviously do it when Im sitting beside her :p

    Dances with other men ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    Hell no! you should see me dance . /slap "Perv"

    Would you stay with her if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    Behind my back I would have to say no.
    If discussed, well its been discussed then :)

    Would you mind her going to a strip club?
    Not one bit, its not like she is gona be able to touch the guys.

    Do you trust your imaginary woman?
    Yeps


    *Im the 2nd most attractive :p

    :D:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,890 ✭✭✭embee


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    No, but I mind when they look at him if that makes sense :s

    Flirts with other women?
    He doesn't do that, barely flirted with me in the early days.

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    Depends on a lot of factors - who he's dancing with, how he's dancing etc.

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    Dunno, a kiss I could probably forgive... would probably not stay if it was anything more than that.

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    No.

    Do you trust your man?
    Yes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,884 ✭✭✭Rattlehead_ie


    SarahSassy wrote: »
    :D:D
    Anything in particular got you smiling Sas? :D

    Its interesting to see some of the points here actually specially from the girlies!
    I'll ask girls thats don't like your partner flirting with other girls, do you flirt with guys? is there any particular reason for not liking himself doing it? Im curious?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,575 ✭✭✭✭FlutterinBantam


    Piste wrote: »
    My boyfriend doesn't do any of the above.



    Is he perfect, or just weird? :confused:

    Not ghey is he??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,884 ✭✭✭Rattlehead_ie


    Piste wrote: »
    My boyfriend doesn't do any of the above.

    Is he perfect, or just weird? :confused:

    I'd find this a bit weird that he doesn't look at other women? Not to say its not completely true and he doesn't. Does he not look at Angelina Jolie or anyone else and think wow she is good looking?


  • Hosted Moderators Posts: 10,661 ✭✭✭✭John Mason


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls? Wouldnt bother me

    Flirts with other women? - Wouldnt bother me, it's me he is going home with

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    Wouldnt bother me, it's me he is going home with

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)? kiss possible depending on the situation, sex no way

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?Wouldnt bother me, it's me he is coming home to

    Do you trust your man? what the point in being with someone you dont trust. if you dont have trust in your relationship, you dont have a relationship


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,884 ✭✭✭Rattlehead_ie


    irishbird wrote: »
    Do you trust your man? what the point in being with someone you dont trust. if you dont have trust in your relationship, you dont have a relationship

    Coulnt've said it better and all the other questions depends on this one really!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,053 ✭✭✭mollybird


    i would say no to most things but if he was going to a strip bar extreamly rare then i wouldn't mind if he was out with a bunch of guys for an occasion. trust is very important to me and i won't stand for jealousy. last relationship i was in i made a point of hanging out with guys i used to be with to show he can't tell me who can and can't hang out with. if he can't trust me i dont' want to be with him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,243 ✭✭✭✭Jesus Wept


    narco wrote: »
    Do you mind if he looks at other girls? - my fella doesnt, simple as. though if he did, i'd've no worries whatsoever.

    In your company. Simple as.
    narco wrote: »
    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)? - couldnt imagine it happening, but i most certainly would.

    You would stay with him if he was unfaithful :confused:


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls? No not at all , I would comment on women a good bit , he usually just asks "would you sleep with her" with dirty thoughts on his minds

    Flirts with other women? - Yes , but I suppose it would depend on who she was . I consider him to be naturally charming and friendly so I suppose to draw a line would be hard

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    If he did he would have to be locked and have danced with me first as I love dancing and he hates it

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)? No, the thought would haunt me, I would never be able to forgive him
    previously the thought of his ex even visting his place would make me so sick

    Would you mind him going to a strip club? Wouldnt bother me, it's me he is coming home to

    Do you trust your man? I believe its really important but it has to be built up... I don't trust easy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166 ✭✭catyb20


    Quality wrote: »
    Hey Girls,

    A few good ones for yis...

    What do you find acceptable behaviour from your man....

    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?

    Flirts with other women?

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?

    Do you trust your man?

    He can look as long as its not a stare!
    Flirting is a HUGE no no
    Depends on who he's dancing with, the dancing hes doing and if hes drunk
    Been cheated on before and stayed, will NEVER do that again - there is no excuse for it
    Strip club
    > only if its a stags night. but on random nights out - not a chance
    It took a while, but i do trust him!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,196 ✭✭✭Crumble Froo


    The-Rigger wrote: »
    In your company. Simple as.

    nope, that's just him.


    You would stay with him if he was unfaithful :confused:

    it wouldnt happen, but yes, i would.


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Kai Shaggy Nation


    Im single but here we go


    Do you mind if he looks at other girls?
    -would expect him to

    Flirts with other women?
    -depends

    Dances with other women ( Nightclub/Bar)?
    -also depends

    Would you stay with him if he was unfaithful (Kiss/Ride)?
    -doubt it, depends on the circumstances and how he dealt with it

    Would you mind him going to a strip club?
    -no

    Do you trust your man?
    -eh.... why on earth would someone be in a relationship with someone they didn't trust? :confused:


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