Is text sex cheating

John Mason

If you caught your boyfriend having text sex with another girl but he hadnt actually laid a finger on her in the real world, would you consider this cheating ?

monkeyfudge

Only if he jizzed all over his handset.

cance

monkeyfudge wrote:

Only if he jizzed all over his handset.

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAH

Nailz

Dúrty!

Mr. Incognito

I like girls.

JackKelly

you just don't push his buttons anymore
you're just not on the same frequency
etc
etc

Kess73

Personally, I would say yes if I found out that my girlfriend or wife was doing it. That is not to say that I have a girlfriend and a wife. lol

John Mason

TimAy wrote:

you just don't push his buttons anymore
you're just not on the same frequency
etc
etc

its not me, just a siuation a friend found himself in

Mr.Nice Guy

Text sex?

John Mason

Mr.Nice Guy wrote:

Text sex?

yeah text sex, where say durty things to each with text messages

Time Magazine

Mr.Nice Guy wrote:

Text sex?

Run your cursor up my leg, etc.

arybvtcw0eolkf

irishbird wrote:

If you caught your boyfriend having text sex with another girl but he hadnt actually laid a finger on her in the real world, would you consider this cheating ?

I don't have a boyfriend.

Love2love

I have to be honest here and say that I would dump him for this. And the end of the day, I obviously am not giving him what he needs and there is no point to continue the relationship.
That being said, I think it would really depend on the relationship itself and how long you are together. I know he would dump me in a heartbeat if I done it to him

bronte

It certainly is disrespectful and inconsiderate of the other partner's feelings.

It seems many people can put it behind them...but I wouldn't consider it acceptable myself.

John Mason

Mairt wrote:

I don't have a boyfriend.

okay, wife

Kintarō Hattori

I wouldn't consider it cheating, but I'd certainly be highly annoyed and maybe even a bit miffed!

cance

Mairt wrote:

I don't have a boyfriend.

lies

AlmightyCushion

irishbird wrote:

If you caught your boyfriend having text sex with another girl but he hadnt actually laid a finger on her in the real world, would you consider this cheating ?

I'd be more confused as to why I was going out with a guy.

H.O.T.A.S.

Was the phone on vibrate?

Doctor DooM

irishbird wrote:

If you caught your boyfriend having text sex with another girl but he hadnt actually laid a finger on her in the real world, would you consider this cheating ?

deffo.

This should be in PI, no?

Love2love

Ibid wrote:

Run your cursor up my leg, etc.

Aha! Tee hee!

Mr.Nice Guy

irishbird wrote:

yeah text sex, where say durty things to each with text messages

Ah sure all guys do that.

Nailz

cance wrote:

lies

Hahahaha! Well done!:D

Ruu_Old

'I'm nearly out of credit, can we finish?'

John Mason

SDooM wrote:

deffo.

This should be in PI, no?

this is so NOT A PI

6th

bronte wrote:

It certainly is disrespectful and inconsiderate of the other partner's feelings.

It seems many people can put it behind them...but I wouldn't consider it acceptable myself.

Then stop texting me!

Pinker

AlmightyCushion wrote:

I'd be more confused as to why I was going out with a guy.

whiskeyman

surely having text (or phone) sex with someone, the intent is there... and both parties know it.

If I did it, I'm sure my g/f would probably, or nearly dump me over it... and I'd understand tbh. It's not the actual act, but the reason and thought behind it.
Maybe the girl never sent durty txts to her b/f, and he wanted that aspect elsewhere.... if he couldn't 'get it' some weekend, perhaps he'd go elsewhere to...

John Mason

Ruu wrote:

'I'm nearly out of credit, can we finish?'

LOL, k, will text you that video and then you can finish

Doctor DooM

irishbird wrote:

this is so NOT A PI

I'd consider my gf cyberboning some dude personal

tallus

Textual Intercourse is deffo wrong :mad:

Milktrolley

Mr.Nice Guy wrote:

Text sex?

Watch the episode of Extras with Kate Winslet, then replace the phone convo with a right aul text session

Timans

"I'll pull out, it's grand"

Terry

irishbird wrote:

this is so NOT A PI

It is for your imaginary friend.
Tell her to post it anonymously in PI.

Also, monkeyfudge, LMFAO.

Talliesin

I'd normally ask if I could join in.

John Mason

Terry wrote:

Tell her to post it anonymously in PI.

HIM

DeBeere

Did she make sure he was wearing protection?

Anto McC

It's not really cheating. It's on the same level as flirting and believe me i know about cheating, i've cheated on most (not all) of the girls i've ever been with. I've been cheated on too but i don't talk about that

Exit

Yes, it's emotional cheating. Same as flirting, chatting up someone and anything beyond that.

You have to ask yourself... if it was your partner doing any of these things would you feel cheated on?

connundrum

DeBeere wrote:

Did she make sure he was wearing protection?

I'd say he must have had that radiation blocker on alright.

John Mason

Exit wrote:

Yes, it's emotional cheating. Same as flirting, chatting up someone and anything beyond that.

You have to ask yourself... if it was your partner doing any of these things would you feel cheated on?

personally, i think it is cheating and i would bounce his cheating arse out the door but its not my problem :rolleyes:

Ruu_Old

DeBeere wrote:

Did she make sure he was wearing protection?

Always use protection, kids! Serious for a second, I would consider it cheating.

sudzs

irishbird wrote:

If you caught your boyfriend having text sex with another girl but he hadnt actually laid a finger on her in the real world, would you consider this cheating ?

Yes.

axer

Maybe i'm getting old but what the hell is text-sex? Does he text "im in" and she texts back "are ya sure?".

connundrum

axer wrote:

Maybe i'm getting old but what the hell is text-sex? Does he text "im in" and she texts back "are ya sure?".

From what I hear from the young un's - it involves describing sexual acts, not actually saying stuff like 'Oh, theres summit in mah teeths'.

I'd imagine it can get a bit difficult with predictive texting i.e. I wanna dual you so bad right now

Ickle Magoo

Yes, anything involving sex while interacting with another person would probably be considered cheating to me, in RL, online, by text, etc, etc.

biko

Well yeah, it's like talking about having sex over the phone.
Not really cheating but to a degree.

axer

biko wrote:

Well yeah, it's like talking about having sex over the phone.
Not really cheating but to a degree.

It must cost a fortune then.
I cannot understand why someone would want to do that unless they were going to actually **** the other person?!

Terry

connundrum wrote:

From what I hear from the young un's - it involves describing sexual acts, not actually saying stuff like 'Oh, theres summit in mah teeths'.

I'd imagine it can get a bit difficult with predictive texting i.e. I wanna dual you so bad right now

No. You nearly have it though (that's what she said).

It goes something like this:

dd u gt de rbrz 4 de sx???????? (lots of question marks, while telling you they use txt spk to reduce character numbers and save money).

aidan_dunne

irishbird wrote:

If you caught your boyfriend having text sex with another girl but he hadnt actually laid a finger on her in the real world, would you consider this cheating ?

Depends. Is it somebody he actually knows for real, like in real life? Because, if it is, a friend or aquaitance or whatever, and he was texting the auld durty stuff to her, then there's definitely grounds for that to be considered cheating. You see, it's somebody he knows, somebody he perhaps has personal contact with and, if he's sex texting her and vice versa, then there's obviously an attraction there between them which could end up becoming an actual physical thing somewhere down the road.

If he's texting someone through one of those text sex/dating services, then I wouldn't worry about it too much, he's just looking to get his rocks off. He doesn't know the person, it's the same as ringing up one of those sex lines and having some ugly auld one (who's pretending to be a hot, naughty 18 year old! Oh come on, lads, deep down you all know what the story is there! ) talking dirty to him so he can just get himself off. The same as porn, really, it's just about getting your jollies!

So, to summarise, if it's the former then, yes, it could be considered cheating. If it's the latter then, no, he's just looking for a bit of **** material to get him off!

dame

I would consider it cheating.