Boyfriend watches Porn What Do I Do?

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metrovelvet wrote:

Why dont you stick with cock since you seem to like that better than pussy.

Another one. Why did you post this? Does it qualify as intellectual debate? Actually I don't care.

Rational intelligent debate arguing points will continue. Anything else will result in a ban.

BACK ON TOPIC.

babybundy

its a fact tht men need visual stimulation for masterbation where as women dont their mind is more than enough for them

Cake Fiend

babybundy wrote:

its a fact tht men need visual stimulation for masterbation where as women dont their mind is more than enough for them

Pretty dubious 'fact', to say the least. Can you explain your scientific basis for such a claim?

^^ This is my polite way of saying your post is complete bollocks

Bottle_of_Smoke

Anyone who took this post seriously should be ashamed of themselves.
She referred to it as pron in the OP, dont think it was a typo.

and while im on a rant im sick of women saying that giving oral sex is degrading... yet have absolutly no ****ing problem what so ever with a man going down on them... Talk about double ****ing standards...

its not like you get the worst of flavours, i mean compare salt to **** rotten fish...
and two mintues of that flavour and thats it (the man shooting his load bit only takes that at max) and its over for yous.. we gotta taste that **** for anything between 5 minutees to an hour ...
anyway that rant finished...

Ehhh dont know too many women who expect oral & wouldnt return the favour. Pretty much everyone accepts going down on a woman is much more unpleasant.

Would be like a vegetarian making their furniture out of animal bones & complaining about people eating meat.

Have this vision of all these women referring to you as the "oral guy" "yeah shelly hes great if you're not in the modd for sucking just tell him its degrading - he'll STILL go down on you"

rockbeer

Bottle_of_Smoke wrote:

Pretty much everyone accepts going down on a woman is much more unpleasant.

Hmm, who exactly is this 'everyone'? I never heard that this was an established point of view before.

I actually can't understand any of this myself - I love giving and receiving o, wouldn't do it if I didn't like it, and wouldn't want anyone to do it to me if they didn't like it.

Isn't it all about shared mutual pleasure rather than putting up with doing unpleasant things for each other? Find ways of being together that you both enjoy or give it up and move on.

Bottle_of_Smoke

rockbeer wrote:

Hmm, who exactly is this 'everyone'? I never heard that this was an established point of view before.

I actually can't understand any of this myself - I love giving and receiving o, wouldn't do it if I didn't like it, and wouldn't want anyone to do it to me if they didn't like it.

Isn't it all about shared mutual pleasure rather than putting up with doing unpleasant things for each other? Find ways of being together that you both enjoy or give it up and move on.

On a very basic level the taste/smell/stickyness on your face is a little more unpleasant than what i assume someone giving a guy head goes through. I'm not trying to say it's not enjoyable - but I think it's enjoyable moreso because you're turning someone on and making them feel good rather than the physical sensation you "experience"

The point I was making is that I think it would be very selfish of a woman to expect someone to go down on her & not return the favour.

Must be noted how much shaving makes it much better.

Shellie13

The porn isnt the main problem imo...id echo others here and say its no big deal...its the fact he lied to you about it!

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Inneedofadvice wrote:

Im not sure if this post has already appeared but I was on my bfs laptop last night when he was out and discovered that he has been looking at porn, I have had my suspicions for a while and have asked him over and over and he promised me he wouldnt ever look at porn because he thought it was disgusting...Then I see what he was looking, Iwent mad and as soon as he came home went for him, I probably should have left to cool down but i didnt, he apologised and said he wouldnt do it again, He knows that pron makes me feel inadequate and unattractive because there is no way I could ever compete...I just want some advice as to what do next? Am I being unfair? Does this mean he doesnt love me!?

get over your self...
leave him to it.
why don't you try and watch it with him....you never know you might like it and the sex during and after will be great...

dr.bollocko

Bottle_of_Smoke wrote:

Ehhh dont know too many women who expect oral & wouldnt return the favour. Pretty much everyone accepts going down on a woman is much more unpleasant."

Pretty much everyone? Don't you think you are just a little bit incredibly wrong there? Again, pulling your own **** up and assuming everyone else feels the same.

Nope.


Dont fill out boards with any more stupid douchebaggery please.

I have to laugh about the people that say going down on a woman is more unpleasent. Have you tried both men and women before to make that judgement? I've only gone down on women, and while I've never really enjoyed it, I'd assume its similiar for many women for sucking on some guys nob. :rolleyes:

dr.bollocko

I think its great all together. Women rule.
Knobs are smelly and some contain cheese

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