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I hurt him so much

LegacyUser · 2006-05-16 10:30:10

My Hubby and I split up after 24 Yrs , I think he is a wonderful man and a fantastic Dad but I stopped loving along time ago, So came to a head last year and I told him I no longer love him. I wish I did but the feelings have gone no one else involved during that time. I do have a friend now who I met 6 months after…

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#32 11-06-2006 11:56pm
Cinamon Girl

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Chances are that the love was gone from the relationship long before the split took place.

Some people are happy to let things continue the way things are but that's not for everyone.

I am the kind of person who needs a lot of affection and physical love. That just wasn't happening. I tried to continue to love and care for my husband, tried to prentend I was happy, and near the end tried to just live with a loveless marriage. In truth I feel my husband 'dumped' me a long time ago. Eventually I could no longer live with the misery and unhappiness. No-one should feel they have to stay in a relationship that isn't making them happy, or because they other person will get hurt. It took me 8 years to eventually give up trying and decide to get out!

I think some men can be very agorant in the way they behave. Is it an ego thing, because his wife left him? How dare she!!

Let him get on with things and concentrate on living your own life.

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