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LegacyUser · 2006-05-10 10:01:45

Decided to go unregged for this as want to keep it private-ish ! Basically had an arguement with my girlfriend on Sat. night. I did nothing wrong but she seen it differently. Spoke to her on Monday she apologised and said she was out of order and that the reason for the arguement is because she wants me to commit to her. I…

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#32 11-05-2006 5:15pm
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Kingp35 wrote:

Why should he do something he doesnt want to do? Lets swing the argument around, why doesnt she change her mind about marriage and not want to get married to keep him happy?

If you dont want to get married then dont listen to these people telling you to do it anyway because it will more than likely end in tears. You cant enter into a marriage and expect it to work unless its something you really want.

Well my interpretation of the scenario described was that it was more a case of apathy...

And if there is a scenario where your better half really really wants something
And you don't really care
I'd be inclined to do what makes them happy, as if they're happy I'm more likely to be happy.

I hope you can appreciate my POV

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