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  • 08-12-2005 9:06pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    This post is going to sound really unimportant beside other people's life's problems so I apologise in advance but.. I'm wondering are guys really bothered with the size of girls boobs?!? Obviously initially it may be one of the first things yee notice but if your going out with someone would it bother you if there wasn't much there?!!
    I have a very loving boyf who compliments me on everything but really hes just be polite about that area as i really havent much to show at all! but its always in the back of my head that I'd love to have something more to offer... and no i would not consider plastic surgery!!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 39 PeterGriffen


    Well, yes, to be honest. Most guys like big pert tits. We love how they look and feel. But if you are with a long term boyfriend, it's not like it's going to be a deal breaker. He may wish from time to time that you had bigger tits, but there will be many other things in the relationship which he will consider more important.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,893 ✭✭✭Canis Lupus


    Actually I disagree Mr Griffen. As long as the girl connected to the breasts is nice and she lets me touch em I couldn't care less what size they are :)

    I know most of my mates go phwooar when they see big breasts but ultimately I know most of them think the same way I do. So no, breast size really isn't important imo.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Actually I disagree Mr Griffen. As long as the girl connected to the breasts is nice and she lets me touch em I couldn't care less what size they are :)

    I know most of my mates go phwooar when they see big breasts but ultimately I know most of them think the same way I do. So no, breast size really isn't important imo.
    Ah dont be sayin that I have a gorgeous pair :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,497 ✭✭✭✭Dragan


    Sorry folks, its not about size. Its about shape, and pertness, plain and simple.

    Sure, i love bug boobs, but they have to have a nice shape and be nice and pert. I have been just an enamoured by small and perts boobs in the past. :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    Boobless, it depends on your height, weight and body shape.

    Example - my girlfriend is very athletic, very toned. Her boobs are small. But that suits her. It's totally fine with me. Obviously, if they were a little bigger I wouldn't complain :) but her boobs suit her build!

    As long as you are not too out of proportion I wouldn't worry about it!!


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  • Moderators, Regional North East Moderators Posts: 12,739 Mod ✭✭✭✭cournioni


    dublindude wrote:
    As long as you are not too out of proportion I wouldn't worry about it!!
    I think this is what matters most looks wise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 39 PeterGriffen


    Sorry everybody. Didn't mean to insinuate that all lads thought the same way. I agree that pertness is more important. Small and pert is better than big and droopy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,598 ✭✭✭ferdi


    i find booby size unimportant - its all about the ass for me./


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 145 ✭✭Chavster


    As mentioned already the size of them isn't too important. As long as the girl looks good overall and I can play with em as much as i like (constantly) they're good! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 410 ✭✭Drazhar


    Depends on the guy. I couldnt care less about boob's, ass and legs are my thing.

    If he says that he's happy with them, then just take it at that, we men arent good at complex thinking, especially when put on the spot!!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,207 ✭✭✭meditraitor


    Big and droopy, small and pert, big and pert, doesnt really matter to most guys, at the end of the day its whats inside that counts to a guy.

    So I wouldnt really worry about it, and another thing- I've had the displeasure of being with a woman with surgically enhanced breasts, brutal, not the same at all, cat, rotten, useless, stick with what you have:v:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 273 ✭✭Sifo


    It's not that important, different strokes, personally i like the midrif but you gotta have some curves!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,524 ✭✭✭✭Gordon


    Small ones are more preferrable to me but I don't think many guys like saggy boobs.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 595 ✭✭✭hottstuff


    if you dont have anthing under the bonnet , if theres something in the trunk , it usually makes up for it ;)

    yes big boobies are nice but are always a bonus only.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,368 ✭✭✭king_of_inismac


    Don't worry about it! Guys (well the guys that matter) don't really care too much about the size of their g/f's breasts.

    From my experience with girls, they seem to obscess about one or two parts of their body. Their breasts are too small, their ass is too big, etc. All of these girls looked amazing to me. Thats what love does to you...

    Just relax, your boyfriend loves you, he sees you as a very beautiful person and thats all that matters :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    ferdi wrote:
    i find booby size unimportant - its all about the ass for me./
    I third this sentiment. ass is far more important


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,699 ✭✭✭Santa Claus


    Indeed....Size is unimportant (in the same way that a males member size is unimportant to the ladies)!

    Look at Kiera Knightley, not many lads would kick her out of the bed for eating tayto and she's not exactly overly endowed in the boobage department !


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,783 ✭✭✭Binomate


    Any more than a handfull is too much.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 394 ✭✭Mickah


    I actually quite like smaller boobies! They're usually way more sensitive than big 'uns and therefore subject to alot more tweaking during playtime.

    The sexiest girls are the ones who are completely comfortable with their own body. I wouldn't worry about it boobless, maybe your bf actually does loves yer perky tits!

    P.S. A really cheap way to get bigger boobs is to pop out a kid, my sis was in the same predicament as you, now she can't keep the bazookas in their place!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Anyone know if Dunnes still make the massaging bra and if it works?

    Heard about it maybe 5-6 years ago but was too young (i still thought I'd grow) I'm guessin it died off?

    My boyf doesn't care that I'm a size A he says his last girl had big saggy ones but I'd still love to be just a little bigger, nothing major.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,914 ✭✭✭✭tbh


    Mickah wrote:
    The sexiest girls are the ones who are completely comfortable with their own body.


    Listen to Mickah, he knows what he's talking about. If a girl starts to find fault with herself, I generally start to believe her :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,724 ✭✭✭BoozyBabe


    Ok, now I'M concerned!!!!

    I'm a 34D. What is classed as saggy? (Serious Answers!!)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,783 ✭✭✭Binomate


    BoozyBabe wrote:
    Ok, now I'M concerned!!!!

    I'm a 34D. What is classed as saggy? (Serious Answers!!)
    Well it would depend if your tits hang around your ankles or not.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,724 ✭✭✭BoozyBabe


    How's that a serious Answer!!!!!!!

    Is that the only time you'd consider boobs to be saggy?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,783 ✭✭✭Binomate


    BoozyBabe wrote:
    How's that a serious Answer!!!!!!!

    Is that the only time you'd consider boobs to be saggy?
    Yeah, If they're hanging way too low.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    BoozyBabe wrote:
    Ok, now I'M concerned!!!!

    I'm a 34D. What is classed as saggy? (Serious Answers!!)
    A girlfriend once told me (she read it in a girlie mag) that if you can hold a pen/pencil under your breast, then they are saggy.

    Personally, I think it's all about the nipple. The nipple makes the tit - it's like the cherry on the cake. ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 595 ✭✭✭hottstuff


    BoozyBabe wrote:
    How's that a serious Answer!!!!!!!

    Is that the only time you'd consider boobs to be saggy?

    i think this refers to age mostly hun , dont fret
    unless obesity is the cause
    either way its not nice for either


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 39 PeterGriffen


    If the nipples point straight ahead or upwards with the bra on, but then point downwards when the bra comes off, then the tits are saggy. If the nipples point straight down, then they are full on, cow-udder-like, droopy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    boobless wrote:
    This post is going to sound really unimportant beside other people's life's problems so I apologise in advance but.. I'm wondering are guys really bothered with the size of girls boobs?!? Obviously initially it may be one of the first things yee notice but if your going out with someone would it bother you if there wasn't much there?!!
    I have a very loving boyf who compliments me on everything but really hes just be polite about that area as i really havent much to show at all! but its always in the back of my head that I'd love to have something more to offer... and no i would not consider plastic surgery!!

    people like lots fo different things.
    some people like bigger breasts, some people like smaller ones. some like pert, some like big pendulous bazookas!

    what really matters the most is not what other people think of your tits. its what you think.
    stop worrying about what other people think about them. get a padded bra and push them up, if youre uptight about it, but its not the part of your body that every guy looks at first. it wont effect your chances to get a bloke.

    just learn to be happy with your own body, and it wont really make a difference to be honest.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,724 ✭✭✭BoozyBabe


    If the nipples point straight down, then they are full on, cow-udder-like, droopy.


    Ha Ha Ha:D

    Yes, I could hold a pencil under them (just one I think), but the nipples point straight out, not down.

    Droopy or not droopy?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 440 ✭✭Angels


    Anyone know if Dunnes still make the massaging bra and if it works?

    Heard about it maybe 5-6 years ago but was too young (i still thought I'd grow) I'm guessin it died off?

    My boyf doesn't care that I'm a size A he says his last girl had big saggy ones but I'd still love to be just a little bigger, nothing major.
    Get your boyf to massage them instead on buying a bra just a suggestion, it worked for me (well i put on weight & they got huge from an 36AA to 38B)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,783 ✭✭✭Binomate


     
    |      |    |       |                 Saggy
    |      |    |       |
    |      |    |       |
    \______/    \______/
    
    
    
     (. )(. )                      Not Saggy
    


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,921 ✭✭✭✭Pigman II


    I prefer big but I'd also sooner go out with a girl with a couple of bee-stings rather than a pair of fakers. Plus if yer good looking then thats more important. A dog face with giant knockers isn't going to do much for anyone


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    BoozyBabe wrote:
    Ha Ha Ha:D

    Yes, I could hold a pencil under them (just one I think), but the nipples point straight out, not down.

    Droopy or not droopy?
    so long as the cherries are on the top of the cake - it's all good. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    All my girlfirends had large breasts before my last one and I had great fun.

    So when I got close to my last g/f it was a complete novelty and extrmely satsifying. Yep.. i found them more sensitive too.

    But someone said here that the key is confidence in ones own body and that's real important.

    However, I did date a girl once who had small boobs which looked good when she had a bra on or was lying down. But when she lay on top of me or stood standing bra-less, I found them pretty scarey to look at... they hung like a damp sock on a washingline and it was bad enough for me to not persue her any further even though we got on quite well. I was annoyed at my own shallowness... but really.. they were that bad! I had visions of engineering our sex life around her been on her back as much as possible and I figured it would get real boring real fast.

    So small is ok.. if they're pert and round.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    caimin wrote:
    Listen to Mickah, he knows what he's talking about. If a girl starts to find fault with herself, I generally start to believe her :p

    I was in Hodges Figgas there a few minutes ago. There was a Spanish girl working behind the counter. She was average looking and had small boobs. However, she was wearing a really sexy feminine dress, had cool hair, and looked very very comfortable in her body.

    It was unbelievably sexy! (am still thinking about her now.)

    SHE HAD SMALL BOOBS.

    Seriously, you don't need big boobs to be sexy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 39 PeterGriffen


    BoozyBabe wrote:
    Ha Ha Ha:D

    Yes, I could hold a pencil under them (just one I think), but the nipples point straight out, not down.

    Droopy or not droopy?


    From the sound of them, I would guess not droopy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,724 ✭✭✭BoozyBabe


    From the sound of them, I would guess not droopy.


    Should I post a picture???? :D:D

    I don't mind them when I'm standing up straight, as they look fine (I think), but I hate them when I'm leaning over my bf.

    Much prefer to be smaller.

    If you love a girl, does it REALLY not matter, if her boobs are big / small / droopy, flabbly belly, dimply ass, no ass, massive ass, etc, etc, etc

    (I didn't say I have all of the above, just these are hang-ups girls have)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 289 ✭✭*Oul_Doll_Cork*


    I wouldn't worry so much about it if I were you!

    I have fairly small boobs myself! I went through a phase of being really paranoid about them! These days I am so much happier, I have a few friends with bigger boobs and they seem to put on weight so much easier!! Also we won't ever have to worry about them going south!! hehe

    Us small breasted women tend to be blessed with flatter stomach's & more toned arms which means most things look great on us! So just try and see all the things about your body that you actually like, you will soon realise that things ain't as bad as they seem! :cool:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,497 ✭✭✭✭Dragan


    BoozyBabe wrote:
    Ha Ha Ha:D

    Yes, I could hold a pencil under them (just one I think), but the nipples point straight out, not down.

    Droopy or not droopy?

    I would say they are not droppy, the pencil test was to check fullness more than anything. Real breast have a certain amount of area under them where they hang just a little, as you well know.

    With the nipple test, your sound not droopy. I would suggest you simply take a look in the mirror. How do they look to you???? Basically is they have a relatively nice and full round shape then you are good i think!!!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 394 ✭✭Mickah


    BoozyBabe, start a new thread, post a picture and lets have a poll!

    Oh and btw push-up bras are ok, but don't use anything with serious padding. It just highlights the fact you're concerned about yer boobs.

    My brother shagged a girl who had those boob fillet thangs in her bra. They fell out during the strip off! Ugh, what a put-off, not to speak of the let down.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,809 ✭✭✭CerebralCortex


    To be honest breasts that are to big can be quite grotesque. Bigger in my opinion isn't always better.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 215 ✭✭whacker4fun


    i prefer tits that are pert.i hate big droopey things,when i take a bra off i want them to sit there not sag1,but if ders nothing der,well thats a problem.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,305 ✭✭✭The Clown Man


    All about ass.

    And usually the bigger boobs are the more the ass suffers.

    Except in my girlfriends case. :D

    FANTASTIC ass and boobs that somehow seem unfair for a girl of her slim build. (OOOh yeah! Giggddy giggedy giggedy :D)

    Anyway ...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 145 ✭✭Chavster


    BoozyBabe wrote:
    Ha Ha Ha:D

    Yes, I could hold a pencil under them (just one I think), but the nipples point straight out, not down.

    Droopy or not droopy?

    pic? :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,724 ✭✭✭BoozyBabe


    Chavster wrote:
    pic? :p
    BoozyBabe wrote:
    Should I post a picture???? :D:D

    Sorry Chavster, got there before you!!!


    I'm working on it! Trying to get a volunteer to hold the camera!! :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 145 ✭✭Chavster


    BoozyBabe wrote:
    I'm working on it! Trying to get a volunteer to hold the camera!! :D

    Damn this national day of protest or I'd offer my help :D (Purely because i'm a gentleman and like helping people :p )


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,485 ✭✭✭✭Khannie


    Op: I wouldn't worry about it tbh. If your fella is with you, it's because he likes you. Breasts /are/ nice, but they're not the be-all and end-all by any stretch of the imagination.
    BoozyBabe wrote:
    Droopy or not droopy?

    Sounds not droopy to me, though with a D cup and an average chest circumference, a certain amount of sagginess has to be assumed (purely becuase of the forces of gravity). That's not a problem though. Not in the slightest.
    BoozyBabe wrote:
    If you love a girl, does it REALLY not matter, if her boobs are big / small / droopy, flabbly belly, dimply ass, no ass, massive ass, etc, etc, etc

    It REALLY doesn't matter. To me at least. The size and shape of lady I have courted has varied ENORMOUSLY. It's ALL about the person tbh.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 262 ✭✭txt_mess


    I'm guessing here but the fact that he's your bf probably means he's already sexually attracted to you , you meaning the whole package.

    Myself I have gone out with girls with very little and a lot and enjoyed both types , I tend to agree with the rest it's more how they fit your body type proportionally I think works for me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    BoozyBabe wrote:
    Sorry Chavster, got there before you!!!


    I'm working on it! Trying to get a volunteer to hold the camera!! :D

    Please don't post pictures in PI. Send them via PM if you want to flirt with each other. Other posters, and I, do not want to be subjected to this. Bannings will ensue


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