What would you do if you found out your sister in law had

Sunny Disposition · 21-05-2019 4:13pm #1

cheated on your brother with another woman? She is adamant that she is not really a lesbian, just had a fling, but doesn't want her husband to know. Think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, but not sure.

GarIT · 21-05-2019 4:15pm

Turn it the other way around. If you were cheated on would you want to know?

If I found out my sister knew I was cheated on and didn't tell me I'd never speak to her again.

ToddyDoody · 21-05-2019 4:17pm

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

cheated on your brother with another woman?

I'd need more detail.

Sonny noggs · 21-05-2019 4:17pm

This is currently in After Hours so, the most obvious question - is she hot?

Sonny noggs · 21-05-2019 4:18pm

ToddyDoody wrote: »

I'd need more detail.

Including pictures?

theteal · 21-05-2019 4:18pm

AH answer?

Pics or gtfo!

PinotNero · 21-05-2019 4:24pm

theteal wrote: »

AH answer?

Pics or gtfo!

and video....

DEFTLEFTHAND · 21-05-2019 4:24pm

I'd find it pretty amusing tbh.

I'm sure my brother would too.

facehugger99 · 21-05-2019 4:26pm

Demand a threesome as the price of my silence.

oLoonatic · 21-05-2019 4:29pm

facehugger99 wrote: »

Demand a threesome as the price of my silence.

This gets my vote too

Tomw86 · 21-05-2019 4:31pm

As an honest response, I would think you should tell him - he has a right to know. If he finds out you knew, how will he react?
Also, it sounds like she doesn't want him to know, so are you sure it was a once off?

Otherwise, please provide more details, including diagrams.

Thelonious Monk · 21-05-2019 4:34pm

I'd probably knock one out

orourkeda1977 · 21-05-2019 4:35pm

ask for a threesome

21-05-2019 4:35pm

It's their business. If you're absolutely, definitely, 100% sure it was a one-off and will never happen again and her remorse is genuine, it doesn't seem worth upsetting the brother and possibly breaking up a marriage.

Either way, this isn't your story to tell and while you can steer her one way or another via threats etc., telling him yourself is a bad idea. People tend to shoot the messenger and the worse the news is, the more they get shot.

Tread carefully and be sensible.

Ray Palmer · 21-05-2019 4:36pm

Same rule applies regardless of the sex of the other person. It is said women who cheat do so emotionally before the physical so often a bigger deal.

Cuddlesworth · 21-05-2019 4:37pm

Candie wrote: »

It's their business. If you're absolutely, definitely, 100% sure it was a one-off and will never happen again and her remorse is genuine, it doesn't seem worth upsetting the brother and possibly breaking up a marriage.

Either way, this isn't your story to tell and while you can steer her one way or another via threats etc., telling him yourself is a bad idea. People tend to shoot the messenger and the worse the news is, the more they get shot.

Tread carefully and be sensible.

It's never one off.

SEPT 23 1989 · 21-05-2019 4:38pm

21-05-2019 4:38pm

a rides a ride

id tell her to tell him. no threats or ultimatums tho

Grayson · 21-05-2019 4:39pm

Sonny noggs wrote: »

This is currently in After Hours so, the most obvious question - is she hot?

and blast her with piss.

Bob Harris · 21-05-2019 4:40pm

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

cheated on your brother with another woman? She is adamant that she is not really a lesbian, just had a fling, but doesn't want her husband to know. Think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, but not sure.

More like sleeping bitches.

21-05-2019 4:42pm

Cuddlesworth wrote: »

It's never one off.

I know that's the popular consensus, but there's no evidence of it's truth. I'm sure (and a quick peruse of PI might well confirm) that many men and women make mistakes and learn from them, never to repeat them.

If someone is a serial cheater that's one thing and I'd never trust someone with form in that department. We don't know that the SIL is one of those.

Either way, the OP has to be very careful.

21-05-2019 4:49pm

Something something hate crime victim blaming accepting

kowloon · 21-05-2019 5:55pm

Candie wrote: »

It's their business. If you're absolutely, definitely, 100% sure it was a one-off and will never happen again and her remorse is genuine, it doesn't seem worth upsetting the brother and possibly breaking up a marriage.

It was you! :eek:

21-05-2019 6:40pm

kowloon wrote: »

It was you! :eek:

Sush!

cannotlogin · 21-05-2019 8:23pm

Aren't you the poster that was outraged by a co-worker that drinks 10 pints a week?

If that bothers you, how are so calm about your sister in law cheating on your brother?!

Does she need to cheat with your co-worker before you'd consider telling your brother?!

More importantly, how did you find out-you haven't told us the best part of the story?

On a serious note, family are everything. I would be more angry with a sibling that didn't tell me than a cheating spouse.

corner of hells · 21-05-2019 8:31pm

Grayson wrote: »

and blast her with piss.

And ask about coke and hookers ?

biko · 21-05-2019 8:33pm

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

cheated on your brother with another woman?

Tell your brother to cheat on her with a man.

Charles Ingles · 21-05-2019 8:34pm

Give her until the weekend to tell your brother, if she doesn't tell your brother yourself

Danzy · 21-05-2019 8:36pm

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

cheated on your brother with another woman? She is adamant that she is not really a lesbian, just had a fling, but doesn't want her husband to know. Think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, but not sure.

End their marriage or let it blow over.

Your call, you could **** up his life.

Gonad · 21-05-2019 8:38pm

https://i.makeagif.com/media/7-15-2015/iI0t2X.gif

Zorya · 21-05-2019 8:54pm

Hmmmmm going by the 10 pints a week shocker maybe this wild fling amounts to a peck on the cheek or they wore each others lipstick or something....

Rikand · 21-05-2019 8:57pm

facehugger99 wrote: »

Demand a threesome as the price of my silence.

At the very least demand they do it again and insist on watching

SeanW · 21-05-2019 9:23pm

Blood is thicker than water. Your primary obligation is to your brother.

kowloon · 21-05-2019 10:08pm

Danzy wrote: »

End their marriage or let it blow over.

Your call, you could **** up his life.

On the other hand, you could **** up his life by leaving them together with the side effect of him hating you for not telling him.

Telling or not telling, it can go horribly wrong either way. You're more qualified to make the call than a message board of people who don't know any of the people involced.

Personally, I would want to know.

Infernal Racket · 21-05-2019 10:13pm

Now all I want to do is watch lesbian porn.

Capt'n Midnight · 22-05-2019 12:36am

SeanW wrote: »

Blood is thicker than water. Your primary obligation is to your brother.

Actually it's
The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.

Birneybau · 22-05-2019 12:47am

...started a clickbait thread? Probably ignore it

Yermande · 22-05-2019 12:51am

Capt'n Midnight wrote: »

Actually it's
The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.

That doesn't really roll of the tongue though and you'd also sound like a mental patient or a theology student, albeit that in itself is a very fine distinction.

Shemale · 22-05-2019 7:24am

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

cheated on your brother with another woman? She is adamant that she is not really a lesbian, just had a fling, but doesn't want her husband to know. Think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, but not sure.

Cheating is cheating, I dont know why gender matters

Infernal Racket · 22-05-2019 8:10am

Shemale wrote: »

Cheating is cheating, I dont know why gender matters

Cos its girl on girl man. Girl on girl really matters

Deebles McBeebles · 22-05-2019 9:05am

Tell me more, tell me more
Was it love at first sight?
Tell me more, tell me more
Did she put up a fight?

Infernal Racket · 22-05-2019 9:11am

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

Tell me more, tell me more
Was it love at first sight?
Tell me more, tell me more
Did she put up a fight?

A walla walla walla oopmh

_Brian · 22-05-2019 9:14am

Shake her hand, she’s married to a complete tool who treats her like shiit.

Strumms · 22-05-2019 9:36am

So...your brother was cheated on, he doesn’t know but you do.... “I know, I’ll venture over to after hours and see if anyone knows what to do”. Tell the fûcker, it’s obvious she has no intention of and she won’t, the ultimatum might be an idea too but fûck, the guy needs to know, then at least he can decide how to proceed.

givyjoe · 22-05-2019 9:42am

Danzy wrote: »

End their marriage or let it blow over.

Your call, you could **** up his life.

Nah, the wife did that.

Patty Hearst · 22-05-2019 9:48am

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

cheated on your brother with another woman? She is adamant that she is not really a lesbian, just had a fling, but doesn't want her husband to know. Think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, but not sure.

If it was my brother I would tell him without hesitation.

Wabbit Ears · 22-05-2019 9:49am

boardsies really do fall for obvious clickbait very easily

Infernal Racket · 22-05-2019 10:00am

Wabbit Ears wrote: »

boardsies really do fall for obvious clickbait very easily

It's more entertaining than reality

valoren · 22-05-2019 10:20am

How did you find out?

Did she tell you herself or did you find out on the QT?

Trust...but verify...

KathleenGrant · 22-05-2019 7:10pm

My cousin's partner cheated on him with a woman, Took him ages to get over it but he did. He said afterwards that he would have found it harder to accept her being with another man.

Cee-Jay-Cee · 22-05-2019 7:17pm

Tell her to tell him herself otherwise you will.

I’d want to know if it were me and would be rightly pissed off I found out later that my sister knew but didn’t tell me.

What would you do if you found out your sister in law had

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