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would you hook up with someone who was attached?

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  • 06-10-2014 4:49pm
    #1
    guest2014
    Closed Accounts Posts: 214 ✭✭


    in my younger days it would not bother me if I pulled a woman who had a boyfriend (if i didn't know the boyfriend). but after been in a couple of relationships and knowing how it would feel to be cheated on i have changed my thinking on the matter. what do the rest of ye think?

    would you hook up with someone who was attached? 135 votes

    yes, only if they were not married
    0% 0 votes
    yes, even if they were married
    16% 22 votes
    no, not if they were married
    66% 90 votes
    no, if they were attached in any way.
    17% 23 votes


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    #2
    0byme75341jo28
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,571 ✭✭✭0byme75341jo28


    Me likey fanny so yes.


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    #3
    whiskeyman
    Registered Users Posts: 12,564 ✭✭✭✭whiskeyman


    If she's attached to my bedpost, I reckon that's fair game.


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    #4
    Generic Dreadhead
    Registered Users Posts: 10,870 ✭✭✭✭Generic Dreadhead


    Y U NO USE POLL OPTION!?!

    Edit: good job!


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    #5
    coffee_cake
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    absolutely not


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    #6
    Fat Christy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,866 ✭✭✭Fat Christy


    No. I'm in a LT relationship, I would hate to be cheated on.


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    #7
    indigo twist
    Closed Accounts Posts: 500 ✭✭✭indigo twist


    Nope. I'd get no thrill at all from it. Can't understand why anyone would. I have more self-respect than that.


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    castletownman
    Registered Users Posts: 11,060 ✭✭✭✭castletownman


    In fairness if a girl neglected to tell you before you hooked up, and you were genuinely unaware that she was attached, then the blame cannot be put on the lad.

    So in that scenario, I would.


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    Fat Christy
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    castletownman wrote: »
    In fairness if a girl neglected to tell you before you hooked up, and you were genuinely unaware that she was attached, then the blame cannot be put on the lad.

    So in that scenario, I would.

    You didn't fecking know.....that doesn't count.

    EDIT: Men can neglect to tell you that they are in a relationship too you know. ;)


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    0byme75341jo28
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,571 ✭✭✭0byme75341jo28


    Aren't poll option 1 and poll option 3 the same thing...? :confused:


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    #11
    AnonoBoy
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    When I was younger I did it.

    As an older fatter wiser man I wouldn't because I'm older and wiser fatter now.


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    castletownman
    Registered Users Posts: 11,060 ✭✭✭✭castletownman


    Fat Christy wrote: »
    You didn't fecking know.....that doesn't count.

    EDIT: Men can neglect to tell you that they are in a relationship too you know. ;)

    I know that. I wouldn't be into chasing fellas though ;)


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    #13
    sbsquarepants
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    So long as they weren't attached to someone I knew, it wouldn't bother me in the slightest. The way I look at it is, it is their job to keep their promises, not mine, if their happy to go ahead why should I care if their married or whatever.
    It's my job to keep my promises, which I do. If I end up in bed with some woman despite being in a relationship, it's hardly her fault now is it? The reverse also applies.


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    #14
    KomradeBishop
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    Would any of the people saying 'yes', tell a partner they're in a serious relationship with, that they were happy to do this when single?

    N.B. Poll missing a 'Yes, if the relationship were open' option.


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    #15
    OldNotWIse
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    Isaac Ancient Rodeo wrote: »
    Aren't poll option 1 and poll option 3 the same thing...? :confused:


    Head hurts.... :)


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    #16
    Lalealynn
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    Never never never x 1 million. I have never cheated either. Never never never.


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    Miss Lizzie Jones
    Closed Accounts Posts: 347 ✭✭Miss Lizzie Jones


    AnonoBoy wrote: »
    When I was younger I did it.

    As an older fatter wiser man I wouldn't because I'm older and wiser fatter now.

    Same with one exception. I'm female. :)


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    Nib
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    Isaac Ancient Rodeo wrote: »
    Aren't poll option 1 and poll option 3 the same thing...? :confused:
    No..


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    #19
    OneArt
    Registered Users Posts: 1,910 ✭✭✭OneArt


    Only if their partner's okay with it and/or they don't tell me. If not, then no.


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    #20
    bunnymunro
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    I'm in a relationship and a complete horndog so I had to be honest and say yes I would. Not that I have but if the opportunity comes along I doubt I'd say no..


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    #21
    darkpagandeath
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    People do it all the time with no idea.


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    #22
    Daveysil15
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    I did once with a married woman. I didn't get a thrill out of the fact she was married but I really liked the girl and things had been going downhill for a long time with her husband.


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    #23
    AnonoBoy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    darkpagandeath wrote: »
    People do it all the time with no idea.

    Sleep sex? :confused:


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    #24
    0byme75341jo28
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    Nib wrote: »
    No..

    Yes, only only if they were not married = I would, but only if it was not with a married man/woman.

    No, not if they were married = I wouldn't if it was with a married man/woman.

    Sounds like the same thing to me... :p


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    Generic Dreadhead
    Registered Users Posts: 10,870 ✭✭✭✭Generic Dreadhead


    Yeah, the options read like ****e

    Better would be:
    I would screw a married person
    I would screw a person with a partner but not married
    I would not screw a person who has a partner no matter what stage their relationship is at


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    #26
    indigo twist
    Closed Accounts Posts: 500 ✭✭✭indigo twist


    Daveysil15 wrote: »
    I did once with a married woman. I didn't get a thrill out of the fact she was married but I really liked the girl and things had been going downhill for a long time with her husband.

    But would you just not kind of think, what kind of a person has so little respect for herself and for her partner and for you that she'd do that? It would be an incredible turn-off for me. I mean, surely if she liked you, she'd just ... be with you? Not him? Why be second-best? That whole situation sounds quite sad, I can't understand how you having sex with another man's wife made any one of the three of you happy.


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    #27
    Yer Aul One
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    indigo twist wrote: »
    I can't understand how you having sex with another man's wife made any one of the three of you happy.

    Probably the sex part


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    #28
    indigo twist
    Closed Accounts Posts: 500 ✭✭✭indigo twist


    Yer Aul One wrote: »
    Probably the sex part

    Yeah but isn't sex with someone who actually wants to be with you nicer ...?

    Rather than with someone who sees you as their second (third? fourth?) choice?


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    #29
    deseil
    Closed Accounts Posts: 333 ✭✭deseil


    For sex yes if they were atattractive.

    For an affair No.


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    #30
    Daveysil15
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    indigo twist wrote: »
    But would you just not kind of think, what kind of a person has so little respect for herself and for her partner and for you that she'd do that? It would be an incredible turn-off for me. I mean, surely if she liked you, she'd just ... be with you? Not him? Why be second-best? That whole situation sounds quite sad, I can't understand how you having sex with another man's wife made any one of the three of you happy.

    People can fall out of love. Would you rather she stayed in an unhappy marriage? She was happy with me, I was happy with her. She eventually got a divorce and the husband went back to Poland, so I wasn't exactly second best.


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    #31
    Yer Aul One
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    indigo twist wrote: »
    Yeah but isn't sex with someone who actually wants to be with you nicer ...?

    Rather than with someone who sees you as their second (third? fourth?) choice?

    Nicer, yea sure.

    Better sex, certainly not!


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