I don't know where we're going, but I know where I am (part 6).

Cup of tea cats fed, cattle fed now i can relax, looking foward to pints Sunday night.

I’m on the couch, after a long day, having a cuppa and hoping my headache goes away so I can eat dinner soon

Deleted User wrote: »

All this talk about hormones. I am dealing with them right now. Think I might be heading for early menopause given how crazy my cycle is.
I dunno lads. I need to get something off my chest.

I've always said that I wanted kids but just not now. Well "now" has arrived and I still feel the same. I'm quite maternal and very capable around babies but but but. This isn't a decision I can make lightly. Being a parent is huge. There is no part of me that longs for a baby right now. One of my closest friends says this is due to circumstance and if my life were somewhat different then I would be more sure.

Thing is though my life isn't different. It is how it is. I don't have a perfect relationship surrounded by a white picket fence. My boyfriend and I have opposing views on some important things yet I can't imagine him not being in my life.

I'm on the couch and on the fence

“Auto puts on her serious hat “

First off Never compare your relationship to anyone else’s, everyone is different. People change overtime and it’s always going to need 2 people to want it and work at it and As long as you both don’t kill each other it’s a great start

On the baby front, don’t overthink it, I personally think you would and will be a great mother. You can decide on one hand why you would want them and then decide you don’t want them. We can all offer advice but only you know in your heart what it is you want.

Bedside, pondering.


Earlier I posted in the TA thread that I got paid, but not enough (just over €100 for 16.5 hours). Today in work the manager calls me over and says that they need me to give them my bank details again, because they tried to pay me and it bounced back. I didn’t mention the €100 I got and I’m wondering if I should say something, or accept what seems to be free money

bassy wrote: »

my baby is 20 years old next week thank god hes a young man now.

Snap, my eldest is 20 on the 13th.

Anyone who's broody can borrow up to 6 babies (all at once or on stages to gauge age suitability) I'll take names and queue order in the morning. Thanks.
I'm on the way to bed with a slice of ham

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Low Carb

The best thing about having kids is the possibility you will get to be a grandparent one day. I adore my son's so can't wait to hopefully one day sore on their offspring.

Perse, my decision to have kids was kinda taken out of my hands when I got pregnant by accident. Abortion crossed my mind for all of 5 seconds because despite only being 20 there was nothing I wanted more than to be a mammy. So maybe imagine the decision was taken from you and see how you feel about being a mum and then flip it and see how you would feel if you were told you are never having kids.

I am a believer that there is never really a right time to have a baby. You just either do it or don't. When they arrive they will flip your world upside down, tear your heart to pieces and mend it completely with a smile, a slobbery kiss or a "I love you mammy".

So if you like adventure, havoc and heart stopping moments, then dive in.

Just outta bed. Nice lie in. Can do that now my kids are in their 20's.

@witchie... that album is kinda "alive" for this time of the morning:) But its fun.

Samsgirl wrote: »

Bedside, awake, pondering. Think today will be the day we say good bye to our dog. He is going downhill very fast. Not an easy decision but think is best for him

Sorry to read that Samsgirl...heartbreaking decision to make.

donotvalidate wrote: »

Wide awake in bed and absolutely gutted it's not like 2pm. Ex is coming to get the last of his stuff at 11am. It's in the shed. Do I leave the house he come and gone?

I would leave the house and not be there!

Hairdressers-treating myself!

smurfjed wrote: »

How can one not laugh at this.....

:The Disciplinary and Penalties Committee in the ongoing Third King Abdulaziz Camel Festival disclosed that it has identified two people, a Kuwaiti and an Emirati, violating the regulations during their participation in the competitions on Friday.

The two cheats were uncovered by the medical committees for using botox injections, which are banned by the Camels Club rules.

Do you not know It's very important to have a good looking camel!

Drinking a can of Coke Zero