College and Gaming

Church on Tuesday wrote: »

Folk have their hobbies, as long as they are not harming anyone who ****ing cares?

Especially in adults once the person is working away in life and can maintain relationships I don’t really see the issue.
I’d know of GAA men who’d leave there wife/family to attend training for nights t/weekends and everything is planned around the GAA calendar but somebody playing a game for a few hours a week is terrible and they should be out in the fresh air.

*When I say attend training they often just see themselves as some type of selector for the club and they club can’t shake them off but they think they are ever so popular with a bunch of young lads.

Like the two posters above say, everything in moderation, there are any amount of other hobbies people can get too invested in and lose themselves completely to it.

Honestly, the gamer negative stereotype has had it's day.

As for the OP, teenagers are gona be teenagers.

Church on Tuesday wrote: »

Certain posters here have this weird fascination with gamers and gaming whilst all the time harping on here about their imaginary would be man child kids on their various alt accounts.

Which is quite "ironic" when you think about it.

And they're obsessed with their own faeces too.

I don't think there's anything wrong with people wanting to play games. Perhaps it's a matter of setting a few ground rules with the younger lot. Tell them they can only play it for an hour or two during the weekdays but they need to focus on college/school as well. Weekends they can play it for longer. Something like that.

Part of the problem I see is communication. Talking it out and trying to come to some sort of compromise is a better thing I think, but this whole business of blaming video games or looking down on people who like playing games is a bit ridiculous. It's just another past time that people like to do like watching tv or reading.

Greyfox wrote: »

Playing online with friends is great, theirs also the option of having a few friends over to your house for drinks while playing Mario karts

Reminds me of playing PGA Tour on the Megadrive years ago with a few mates. Few cans deep and it starts getting real competitive. TPC Sawgrass never heard that sort of language before or since.

Doing anything to excess is bad, I've played games since I was a kid but as you get older, the time you have for entertainment declines, I might play a game for a couple of hours every week, I might not, everything in moderation. Considering it's a massive industry, it's not good to be ignorant of it, particularly if you have children, it's only getting bigger so it's no harm to be aware of the good and bad things that exist in games.

People go on about violent videogames, it's lootboxes in the likes of FIFA that people should be concerned about.

John66 wrote: »

My son is about to start college and things are still a little up in the air about accomdation, money etc. I'm about an hour from cork and he wants to move out but so far I can't afford it and waiting until I get his time table as no point paying for accomdation if he is in only one day a week. The main thing is I have seen no interest from him getting any part time work or anything to assist us with paying for his new lifestyle apart from him emailing a few cv's to potential employers. In fact since he finished school earlier this year he has spent most of his time in his room playing computer games. His fascination and addiction to this form of entertainment seems to be increasing. I suppose like most teenagers he doesn't lift a finger at home and won't even empty the dishwasher unless asked and then it's a grumble but spends all his free time gaming. But I suppose the main thing I'm concerned about is him stating that if and when he leaves for college he wants to take his gaming system. And I'm thinking no way as what the f** with the amount of time you currently spend on it how can you study and work part time.

What are peoples opinion of students taking there gaming systems to college.

If he wants to move out then he has to pay for it. That's the way it was for me when I started college. I did first year at home and then moved into town after working for a whole summer and I worked weekends and summers all through college to pay for my own living expenses. My parents paid the actual college fees. That's how it should be imo. You aren't that far from where he is studying let him bus it in and out every day. Emailing CVs is a total waste of time he has to go and actually talk to employers.

I think its more your poor parenting skills op. However, I think many games like fifa, fortnite, etc really hook kids as their brains aren't developed enough to know when to stop.

As for myself I play, but I play single-player story games only as I find online is way too stressful. Me and my girlfriend take turns, when one dies the other plays. We play games like Horizon, Lara Croft, Batman, Hitman, Read Dead, Resident Evil etc.

By the way my gf is a beautiful Spanish woman, I shower eveyday, I don't have a neck beard, I have a job and I speak 3 languages, so yeah this stereotype that the old fogies on here spout is a load of shíte.

John66 wrote: »

But then again there still learning, I suppose I would like them to value there environment and home more and even participate in living in it rather than on a gaming system most of the day. He often says it relaxes him, Can imagine if it starts to interfere with study during college grades will plummet.

He's going to be at college surrounded by drink, drugs, the opposite sex or the same if that's his thing. He'll have plenty of distractions from his studies.

I think kids do go through that stage but if they have a job and stuff that they have to do then it naturally limits their time, I love to sit down and play games when I have free time but its few and far between these days with work and life commitments

Rothko wrote: »

And they're obsessed with their own faeces too.

or spending time with numerous alt accounts to bait people here

I'm here! I'm one of those terrible 'gamers' you're referencing. I spend, oh, I never actually added it up, but I reckon I spend 30+ hours a week gaming. As I'm getting older, I seem to be spending more and more time at it. I'm 37 btw. Yes, I live at home with my parents (if you care to go through my post history, you'll see plenty of reasons why) but basically it works for me and them and there's no complaints from either side.

I do my bit around the house, especially the jobs someone 70+ with health conditions can't do. I'm not big into the physical jobs, but my 3 brothers do that while I ensure there's working internet, tv, dodgy box and their phones are working as expected. I'm the tech guy. I do the shopping for them to save them having to go out in this pandemic (both have lung/breathing related issues). I do my bit and spend the rest of my time gaming.

In that time, I play mostly single player games, I love a good story and the more immersive the better. And within those games, there's more than a fair share of reading, so you can technically say I do a lot of reading each week. To rob a quick quote from Google:

Internet wrote:

In layman's terms, playing video games directly affects and impacts regions of the brain responsible for memory, spatial orientation, information organizations, and fine motor skills. The study also reinforces the claim that, like exercise, playing games for as little as 30 minutes a day, can improve your life

So unlike watching tv (unless it's quiz based shows), i'm actively engaged more than most people while I'm gaming. On top of all this, I have a full time job (nights, i'm ginger so suits me better), I pay bills, I give my bit and help out when I can. I don't put in or out with anyone, and would prefer if people left me alone, because up to 4 years ago I did the whole life/drink/mortgage thing and it nearly killed me. I'm anti-social because, really, people are dicks, and nosey dicks at that (I detest gossip). I have a small circle of friends I use to go into once a week or thereabouts and we'd watch anime, play games or just have a laugh.

So yeah, I do all that, but unlike the lad mentioned in the OP, my parents made sure I did my bit around the house and got outside as much as necessary (again, not as much as others because ginger+sun=burn and pain and suffering for my parents). I've been playing since the Atari 2600 days, and actually had a pong console before that. going by a lot of outdated and ill-informed comments on here, I'm a pure waste, according to those who spends upwards of thousands to follow millionaires around the place kicking a ball around, screaming bloody murder because millionaire A didn't do it exactly the way your pudgy arse would. And then said millionaires having life altering injuries until the other millionaire gets a card. Really must get one of those sponges/sprays, because within a few minutes they're perfectly fine again. Do the medical industry know about this magic?

So you keep on believing what you want to believe, I'll be here, playing my games and thoroughly enjoying my life. Also, bad parenting is not the kids fault. I feel sorry for him that he's not prepared for life because ye let him play games all the time instead of, you know, parenting.