Complaint about noisy neighbour

irishfemme · 16-01-2021 5:23pm #1

I live in an apartment on top of a duplex, and we have about 5 of these joined together.
The apartment is electricity only and has those storage heaters, a day and night Meter is what it uses.
We are a family of 3/4 in the small 2bed apartment but the 3bed duplex is occupied by only a young lady.

This lady has complained about everything, the says she can hear the water pump, strange pipe sounds, showers, flushes, washing machine.

I agreed not to wash at night, and to start the washing at 7-8am, the day time kicks in at 8am. So I only have one hour window to do all washing. I have a 1yr old child and another under 10.
She requested washing to only be done on weekends, which most days I adhere to.

I have my showers late, 5 mins shower and lately, she says it affects her, and we should refrain from showering after 10pm, unfortunately, this isn't possible.

She complained about sounds going on for 3-4 hours, but won't record the sound or give evidence. She says it's from pipes or flooring.
I spoke to my neighbor and I was told she's says their kids are noisy too and she would like them to move.

She complained to my landlord (the council) and all I get is constant calls from them to ask me not to wash or shower. No one has come to investigate the pump or flooring, or even hear the sound in her duplex.

The situation is very tense and this lady seems very fragile, my kids can't even jump, out of fear of her lashing out.

The council said they have arranged mediation btwn her and myself, but I feel we may not get anywhere as no one is actually out to inspect.

I can hear my other neighbours conversations and nightly sex and everything. I just believe it's a part and parcel of this apartment on top of duplex living.

What can be done to solve this?
The pump wakes me up whenever anyone ons the tap etc, but we are accustomed to it now.

Odyssey 2005 · 16-01-2021 5:25pm

irishfemme wrote: »

I live in an apartment on top of a duplex, and we have about 5 of these joined together.
The apartment is electricity only and has those storage heaters, a day and night Meter is what it uses.
We are a family of 3/4 in the small 2bed apartment but the 3bed duplex is occupied by a young lady.

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Graham · 16-01-2021 6:23pm

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Caranica · 16-01-2021 6:26pm

Most apartment developments have noise rules regarding noise that can be heard from outside, 10pm to 8am and midnight to 7am are two I've heard. I would expect that to include washing machines but not showers, toilets, sinks.

Your neighbour is making demands over and above this. Should like she needs to move to a lower density setting. I certainly wouldn't let her dictate that you can only do laundry on weekends.

SteM · 16-01-2021 6:42pm

Agree to mediation but go in with notes on everything your neighbour has complained about and everything you have agreed to. That shows you are not being antisocial and being more reasonable than her.

I would agree with the above, I would not let a neighbour dictate what day of the week I did washing on, especially with a 1 y/o to look after.

delboythedub · 16-01-2021 6:46pm

irishfemme wrote: »

I live in an apartment on top of a duplex, and we have about 5 of these joined together.
The apartment is electricity only and has those storage heaters, a day and night Meter is what it uses.
We are a family of 3/4 in the small 2bed apartment but the 3bed duplex is occupied by only a young lady.

This lady has complained about everything, the says she can hear the water pump, strange pipe sounds, showers, flushes, washing machine.

I agreed not to wash at night, and to start the washing at 7-8am, the day time kicks in at 8am. So I only have one hour window to do all washing. I have a 1yr old child and another under 10.
She requested washing to only be done on weekends, which most days I adhere to.

I have my showers late, 5 mins shower and lately, she says it affects her, and we should refrain from showering after 10pm, unfortunately, this isn't possible.

She complained about sounds going on for 3-4 hours, but won't record the sound or give evidence. She says it's from pipes or flooring.
I spoke to my neighbor and I was told she's says their kids are noisy too and she would like them to move.

She complained to my landlord (the council) and all I get is constant calls from them to ask me not to wash or shower. No one has come to investigate the pump or flooring, or even hear the sound in her duplex.

The situation is very tense and this lady seems very fragile, my kids can't even jump, out of fear of her lashing out.

The council said they have arranged mediation btwn her and myself, but I feel we may not get anywhere as no one is actually out to inspect.

I can hear my other neighbours conversations and nightly sex and everything. I just believe it's a part and parcel of this apartment on top of duplex living.

What can be done to solve this?
The pump wakes me up whenever anyone ons the tap etc, but we are accustomed to it now.

Is your water pump very noisy

Browney7 · 16-01-2021 8:09pm

Is she a council tenant also or privately owned? Personally I think you've been more than accommodating and by you actually being so accommodating she will keep trying for more and more concessions from you.

irishfemme · 16-01-2021 8:49pm

Thanks everyone, I think that's the problem, I am too accommodating!! The other neighbour she requested to move out stopped talking to her, she has a 5 & 3 yrs olds.
She bought her duplex privately, just my apartment is a council one.
The pump makes normal noise I am accustomed to. I have lived in apartments for over 11 years and had no issues.

This apartment I guess is badly built! And the neighbour doesn't want a single noise.
I have accommodated her cause she lives alone in the 3 bedroom, I have never seen a friend or visitor drop by, only her dad.
She looks super fragile to me, although very young.

The man that calls me from the council does so almost every other week and this is also affecting me mentally. He hasn't actually done anything, except tell me he would write an anti social letter to me.

I have several emails to him requesting someone to visit the apartment and investigate the noise.
The day and night Meter also means I have an average bill of €300 without washing during the day...
She has even said she could hear the radiator noise.

I am fed up at this stage, blocked her from my whatapp as she messages to ask what exact time my baby cries, as she's yet to hear her cries at night.

Thanks.

16-01-2021 8:53pm

My upstairs neighbour is nocturnal, and had taken to washing the clothes at night, which i had to get on to the management agency to put a stop to.

Water pumps, spin cycles are serious noise issues when they're coming from your ceiling!

What hours does your complex's "no noise should be heard from your apartment outside these hours" cover?

imo you shouldnt be showering or have any part of your washing cycle running during these times.

LawBoy2018 · 16-01-2021 8:54pm

Tell her to jog on? You're obviously being too kind to her. You're fully entitled to use your dwelling as you please, without having to put up with that sort of carryon.

the_syco · 16-01-2021 9:02pm

irishfemme wrote: »

This lady has complained about everything, the says she can hear the water pump, strange pipe sounds, showers, flushes, washing machine.

Do a search on your address, to see if the apartment has ever been rented. If it is being rented to her, perhaps lodge a 3rd party complaint to the RTB over harassment?

How long has she lived there?

irishfemme · 16-01-2021 9:03pm

[Deleted User] wrote: »

My upstairs neighbour is nocturnal, and had taken to washing the clothes at night, which i had to get on to the management agency to put a stop to.

Water pumps, spin cycles are serious noise issues when they're coming from your ceiling!

What hours does your complex's "no noise should be heard from your apartment outside these hours" cover?

imo you shouldnt be showering or have any part of your washing cycle running during these times.

Yes, I understand the spin cycle can be noisy, but it's not my fault we have water pumps in the apartment. We have to flush and use the tap often.

I stopped washing at night, even though its a day and night Meter and with storage heating. I do my washing btwn 7am - 8am like I mentioned, but she wants it weekends only.

It's a duplex with an apartment on top...

I think not showering at night is asking for way too much. I have 2 kids and I like to mellow and ease off at night when they r asleep. I prefer to shower before my night sleep unfortunately.

Washing machine is a minimum of 15 mins with spins and all, a shower is 5 mins without spins.

DubLad69 · 16-01-2021 9:05pm

[Deleted User] wrote: »

imo you shouldnt be showering or have any part of your washing cycle running during these times.

I've never had to live in an apartment, but to me the idea that you can only do you washing at a certain time is very strange.

But to tell someone that they can't wash themselves after a certain time is just insane. No one should have that level of control of what someone else does (outside of a prison).

irishfemme · 16-01-2021 9:06pm

the_syco wrote: »

Do a search on your address, to see if the apartment has ever been rented. If it is being rented to her, perhaps lodge a 3rd party complaint to the RTB over harassment?

How long has she lived there?

She bought it, but I had a word with her about harassment.
She actually use to come out of her duplex the moment she heard my door to chat!!
Even my visitors are often met by her queries.

She stopped that now though and stopped messaging me.
I believe she calls the council daily now and they this particular man in there has taken it upon himself to call me everyday he gets a call from her.

GarIT · 16-01-2021 9:06pm

As much as a pain as it can be it's none of her business what you do and when.

LawBoy2018 · 16-01-2021 9:07pm

DubLad69 wrote: »

I've never had to live in an apartment, but to me the idea that you can only do you washing at a certain time is very strange.

But to tell someone that they can't wash themselves after a certain time is just insane. No one should have that level of control of what someone else does (outside of a prison).

I have lived in plenty of apartments and nobody has ever dared to demand that I shower/wash my clothes at a particular hour.

They have absolutely no right to do so and anyone who says otherwise is bonkers.

Jimmy Garlic · 16-01-2021 9:07pm

Don’t interact with her anymore. You and your family are entitled to wash and do laundry, both of which are basic human necessities. She sounds like a looper so I would treat her like she doesn’t exist from now on. If it continues report her for harassment and get a barring order. From what you say in your post you are not doing anything wrong.

16-01-2021 9:52pm

LawBoy2018 wrote: »

I have lived in plenty of apartments and nobody has ever dared to demand that I shower/wash my clothes at a particular hour.

They have absolutely no right to do so and anyone who says otherwise is bonkers.

Again, for you LawBoy, noting yr username:

If there is a -very standard- clause to which your tenancy is subject about noise not being audible outside of your apartment between certain hours

- and your water pump is audible outside of your apartment

- and your washing machine is audible outside of your apartment

- and both are significantly so, easily demonstrable

I assure you, it is a very simple matter to have that clause enforced.

And that's regardless of your rather emotive language and insistence otherwise

The request that the OP wash clothes only at weekend is clearly unreasonable, but the above is clear.

OP- your preference for a late shower unfortunately doesnt override your neighbour's right to peaceful occupation of their dwelling.

I did ask what the hours were that applied in your complex, apologies but i dont think you posted them?

Id advise you to observe them, tbh

Caranica · 16-01-2021 9:59pm

That the shower/pump is noisy is a matter for the landlord to rectify. The OP should not be punished for a building fault.

Asking someone not to do laundry at night is fair enough but dictating personal hygiene timings is not.

OP you need to investigate why your electricity bills are so high, they sound outrageous for an upper floor 2 bed apartment. You may not be using the heating correctly, seems to be a common issue with electric heating. If you can control your bills then doing laundry during the day would make much more sense.

LawBoy2018 · 16-01-2021 10:01pm

Deleted User wrote: »

Again, for you LawBoy, noting yr username:

If there is a -very standard- clause to which your tenancy is subject about noise not being audible outside of your apartment between certain hours

- and your water pump is audible outside of your apartment

- and your washing machine is audible outside of your apartment

- and both are significantly so, easily demonstrable

I assure you, it is a very simple matter to have that clause enforced.

And that's regardless of your rather emotive language and insistence otherwise

The request that the OP wash only at weekend is clearly unreasonable, but the above is clear.

OP- your preference for a late shower unfortunately doesnt override your neighbour's right to peaceful occupation of their dwelling.

I did ask what the hours were that applied in your complex, apologies but i dont think you posted them?

Id advise you to observe them, tbh

My language is emotive because the OP is being harassed by his/her neighbour and I want to emphasise the point that there is absolutely no legal basis for said neighbour to dictate how the OP enjoys the reasonable use of his/her own dwelling.

If such a clause existed, surely it would have been the neighbour's first port of call? If she's bombarding her local councillor with phone calls every day, don't you think he would inquired as to whether such a clause exists?

irishfemme · 16-01-2021 10:04pm

The estate in general says no noise from 11pm till 7am, so we are not meant to shower at 6am? Not flush at all from11pm?.not wash dishes or use the tap at all? I mean, that's not stated in the tenancy... I think the washing machine would fall into that category of noise. Very unreasonable if you ask me and impossible.

Is there a water pump that may be more quieter? It's an apartment on a duplex as mentioned and the water tank is inside the apartment. So the pump brings water into the apartment from downstairs I believe.

Thanks for your comment though.

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Again, for you LawBoy, noting yr username:

If there is a -very standard- clause to which your tenancy is subject about noise not being audible outside of your apartment between certain hours

- and your water pump is audible outside of your apartment

- and your washing machine is audible outside of your apartment

- and both are significantly so, easily demonstrable

I assure you, it is a very simple matter to have that clause enforced.

And that's regardless of your rather emotive language and insistence otherwise

The request that the OP wash clothes only at weekend is clearly unreasonable, but the above is clear.

OP- your preference for a late shower unfortunately doesnt override your neighbour's right to peaceful occupation of their dwelling.

I did ask what the hours were that applied in your complex, apologies but i dont think you posted them?

Id advise you to observe them, tbh

Sarn · 16-01-2021 10:09pm

[Deleted User] wrote: »

If there is a -very standard- clause to which your tenancy is subject about noise not being audible outside of your apartment between certain hours

- and your water pump is audible outside of your apartment

Assuming that the pump is working correctly, that would not fall under the audible noise between certain hours clause. It is unreasonable to expect a family to abstain from using running water between, for example, 10 pm and 8 am. The purpose of such a clause is primarily to keep antisocial noise to a minimum.

16-01-2021 10:09pm

Not having a go at you OP

It may be that the soundproofing or the water pump need looking at

And taps, flushing, etc is all fair game imo. Unavoidable occurrences.

Showers and washing machines can and should be planned so as not to impose if you are aware that the noise carries, thats all.

Aware I'm in the minority but I've tried to keep my posts factual and fair to give both the other point of view (tho I'd agree that in all the other stuff the neighbour seems unreasonable) and the basis under which you might actually find yourself in breach if it comes down to it.

Best of luck in dealing with the situation in any case.

irishfemme · 16-01-2021 10:12pm

I guess my question is, is there a more quiet pump that can be bought? This was only replaced 2 years ago.
To me, it's not loud to the extend of affecting my life, it may be different for the lady downstairs.
She won't record how loud it is or anything though.

irishfemme · 16-01-2021 10:17pm

Thanks, I would think so too. I agree with you.

And oh, the council that purchased this apartment have no clue, they asked me to look for the estate rules myself and try to stick to it, and stick to the councils tenancy agreement which doesn't state not taking a shower before 7am.

We are a family, I work full time, baby goes creche and older kid goes to school.. So, how is this family meant to operate? (off course we are home now).

Sarn wrote: »

Assuming that the pump is working correctly, that would not fall under the audible noise between certain hours clause. It is unreasonable to expect a family to abstain from using running water between, for example, 10 pm and 8 am. The purpose of such a clause is primarily to keep antisocial noise to a minimum.

GarIT · 16-01-2021 10:54pm

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Again, for you LawBoy, noting yr username:

If there is a -very standard- clause to which your tenancy is subject about noise not being audible outside of your apartment between certain hours

- and your water pump is audible outside of your apartment

- and your washing machine is audible outside of your apartment

- and both are significantly so, easily demonstrable

I assure you, it is a very simple matter to have that clause enforced.

And that's regardless of your rather emotive language and insistence otherwise

The request that the OP wash clothes only at weekend is clearly unreasonable, but the above is clear.

OP- your preference for a late shower unfortunately doesnt override your neighbour's right to peaceful occupation of their dwelling.

I did ask what the hours were that applied in your complex, apologies but i dont think you posted them?

Id advise you to observe them, tbh

I wouldn't sign a lease that included that.

Good look enforcing it when I stop paying rent and exhaust all of the RTB dispute resolution processes.

Strumms · 16-01-2021 11:13pm

You should be able to shower when you like. Personal hygiene ffs.. next this individual will be asking you to refrain from flushing your toilet between x time and y time... If the shower is genuinely bothering them they need to take it up with their psychologist...

You could have a 6am start in work, up at 4.30... are you expected not to shower before work ? Wash yourself with a bucket of water ? I wouldn’t give them an ear....... continue doing what you are doing...

If they repeatedly bring it up... “ sorry, this topic is closed for discussion now, I’d like to be left alone now, thanks.”.... that way if they continue to bring it up.... it could or should be considered harassment.

odyssey06 · 16-01-2021 11:21pm

I think your neighbour is being completely unreasonable, however just mentioning on the shower front.

Old power shower packed it in, got a Triton quiet power shower.
Can't believe how quiet it is, just sounds like running a tap.

irishfemme · 16-01-2021 11:27pm

The issue is the water pump, when u shower, the pump makes a sound... Cause water is being drawn into the tank upstairs. So, regardless of shower, opening the tap alone causes the pump to make an audible sound.

I tried to turn off the pump and unfortunately, I had no water in the bathroom... Both hot and cold disappeared.

odyssey06 wrote: »

I think your neighbour is being completely unreasonable, however just mentioning on the shower front.

Old power shower packed it in, got a Triton quiet power shower.
Can't believe how quiet it is, just sounds like running a tap.

16-01-2021 11:38pm

There are newer types of Triton power showers alright, might be worth bringing up with the landlord, I would not use my own electric shower after 10pm though as its noisy, although I have tank and a gravity fed shower also which is great as no noise.

I wouldnt think its reasonable to use the shower before 7am so if the OP needs to be out, but she says she likes to shower before bed is there any harm adjusting the timing of that to as early as possible? cant say there is much that might be done about the water pump, but cannot see why it would run during the night?
I wouldnt run a washing machine at night, and Im in a semi d house, have a good quality machine and its quiet, but the noise really travels.

Is the cold/fresh water on its own supply? I assume so, Id honestly be using that to fill a reusable bottle rather than using the tank fed supply to be brushing my teeth anyway.

tbh, if using the toilet, wouldnt bother flushing if its yellow, ie let mellow, otherwise work away.

While the person does seem like its OTT, noise is subjective and maybe if the place is rented she put up with a lot in the past from other tenants and has had it.
Its very possible the pump is noisy due to fitting or pipes and that might echo down to her apartment and maybe the build quality worsens that.

If you kept a notebook and jotted down the time when the pump turns on,

likely when anything draws water other than the kitchen cold water supply,
or even other potential things that could cause noise, if she complains and say noise was at a certain time then you might be able to dispute it, but if it matched a time something occured, it might help pin down the specific noise and what needs to be recitfied, I think thats better than people saying fcuk her, do what you want when you want, as they dont have to live there.

edit, previous post suggests shower is pump fed off tank and not an electric power shower, Id just shower as early as possible and do clothes during the day (but not only at the weekend).

Damien360 · 16-01-2021 11:48pm

Ask her if she is willing to pay your rent etc. If she is, you will bend to any rule she wants. Otherwise, go sling her hook. You are way too accommodating. It's good to get on with your neighbor but it's a two way street. She is being utterly unreasonable. Does she work ? Why dictate the rigid times you can live ?

SteM · 16-01-2021 11:52pm

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Again, for you LawBoy, noting yr username:

If there is a -very standard- clause to which your tenancy is subject about noise not being audible outside of your apartment between certain hours

- and your water pump is audible outside of your apartment

- and your washing machine is audible outside of your apartment

- and both are significantly so, easily demonstrable

I assure you, it is a very simple matter to have that clause enforced.

And that's regardless of your rather emotive language and insistence otherwise

The request that the OP wash clothes only at weekend is clearly unreasonable, but the above is clear.

OP- your preference for a late shower unfortunately doesnt override your neighbour's right to peaceful occupation of their dwelling.

I did ask what the hours were that applied in your complex, apologies but i dont think you posted them?

Id advise you to observe them, tbh

Oh come on, we all know that these sorts of rules are put in to stop antisocial noise like loud music etc, not to stop people from showering at 10pm for goodness sake. The OP shouldn't be punished for the poor build quality of the apartments. By the way, if you work full time and are looking after a 1yo you will take a shower whenever you can get it, believe me. It's totally unreasonable to say someone can't have a 5 minute shower at 10 at night. Even more unreasonable to tell someone to only do their washing at the weekends.

W0LFMAN · 17-01-2021 1:06am

I was in this situation once, the woman neighbour below me complained about me walking across the floor as the floorboards would squeak. One day she snapped and sent her husband up who arrived up like a fire storm and threatened me with all acts of violence. I can handle myself well enough and going toe-to-toe with this guy would have been over in around 2 seconds, but I played possum and invited him in to show the floor and how easy it was to make it squeak!.
I should mention before the knock on my door I was entertaining 5 work mates. The lads could hear the shouting through the corridor and could see I was trying to invite him in, when the husband walking into the living room they were ready. I never saw a 40 year **** himself so quickly. I never got another single complaint and I moved out 4 years later.

Strumms · 17-01-2021 1:56am

I have a triton.. new as of 2 years ago... the only sound is a really not loud hum and the sound of water hitting the shower floor.. marketed as ‘silent motor’... if they want ‘silence’ ask them to pay for its installation....

https://www.screwfix.ie/p/triton-silent-rear-fed-white-chrome-thermostatic-power-shower/747hf

runawaybishop · 17-01-2021 2:19am

Strumms wrote: »

I have a triton.. new as of 2 years ago... the only sound is a really not loud hum and the sound of water hitting the shower floor.. marketed as ‘silent motor’... if they want ‘silence’ ask them to pay for its installation....

https://www.screwfix.ie/p/triton-silent-rear-fed-white-chrome-thermostatic-power-shower/747hf

Probably won't have any water unless the water pump is running.

Op, tell the other tenant to stop harassing you. If they continue contact the gards, if the council contact you again explain the other tenant is harassing you and that you have made a complaint to the gards.

You are making normal noise during your day to day living. You aren't doing anything wrong. Take note of any contact she makes with you.

AmberAmber · 17-01-2021 2:47am

I live in an apartment with a 3 bedroom house upstairs. Multi unit development. I own my place and up stairs is rented. Unless you live with noise you just could not believe how much it can echo or magnify I guess is the word. Over the few yearstheres been different tenants.... I have had to talk to and explain the noise. Wooden floors and generally life just can take its toll on a person who suffers the noise. Has caused alot of distress to my personal life. My already poor health suffered from lac of sleep and the way the noises banging to my home. I had 4 different tenants renting up stairs and from it all I was getting very sick and found I was thinking alot of ending my life as a way out. People just told me it was life... get over it.. lac of sleep and ongoing disturbance or upset can make any good person go mad. The past year on top of that is no help to anyone mental health. Fortunately for me I got new neighbor's upstairs. It's just so so different. They go to bed at a regular time, dont wear shoes indoors, have a chat and say hello when we meet outside. Washing machine is put on in the morning... or evening but never after 11pm. Block rules request residents dont use after 11pm.
Yes the water pump makes noise, the kettle boiling makes noise, the fridge is humming through the floor... I accept that. It's just the other stuff like running indoors... jumping up & down, shoes and boots I think are the big thing to me anyway. One lot had a dog, and would go nuts playing with the dog from 10pm.. with a basket ball... I would just have to sometimes just get out of bed and go visit another neibhour for coffee and a cry. And wait till their light was out by around 1 am sometimes. I understand your doing your best.. and when your in a family and life goes on and your busy you dont notice it all. You should not have to. You must get on with your jobs. But somewhere under it all there is a solution. Extra floor mats, just invite her for tea...when covid rules are safer.

newmember2 · 17-01-2021 3:21am

AmberAmber wrote: »

I live in an apartment with a 3 bedroom house upstairs. Multi unit development. I own my place and up stairs is rented. Unless you live with noise you just could not believe how much it can echo or magnify I guess is the word. Over the few yearstheres been different tenants.... I have had to talk to and explain the noise. Wooden floors and generally life just can take its toll on a person who suffers the noise. Has caused alot of distress to my personal life. My already poor health suffered from lac of sleep and the way the noises banging to my home. I had 4 different tenants renting up stairs and from it all I was getting very sick and found I was thinking alot of ending my life as a way out. People just told me it was life... get over it.. lac of sleep and ongoing disturbance or upset can make any good person go mad. The past year on top of that is no help to anyone mental health. Fortunately for me I got new neighbor's upstairs. It's just so so different. They go to bed at a regular time, dont wear shoes indoors, have a chat and say hello when we meet outside. Washing machine is put on in the morning... or evening but never after 11pm. Block rules request residents dont use after 11pm.
Yes the water pump makes noise, the kettle boiling makes noise, the fridge is humming through the floor... I accept that. It's just the other stuff like running indoors... jumping up & down, shoes and boots I think are the big thing to me anyway. One lot had a dog, and would go nuts playing with the dog from 10pm.. with a basket ball... I would just have to sometimes just get out of bed and go visit another neibhour for coffee and a cry. And wait till their light was out by around 1 am sometimes. I understand your doing your best.. and when your in a family and life goes on and your busy you dont notice it all. You should not have to. You must get on with your jobs. But somewhere under it all there is a solution. Extra floor mats, just invite her for tea...when covid rules are safer.

I would move to a different type apartment setup.

pooch90 · 17-01-2021 2:03pm

Caranica wrote: »

You quoted the OP in full but clearly didn't read it. They are Council tenants. The waiting lists are thousands long, they can't just up sticks and be rehoused.

They didn't quote the OP!

17-01-2021 3:32pm

Next time the council contacts you, I would tell them you are drawing a line under it, and not entertaining any further complaints. I would go so far as to say you are considering making a complaint against the council official who is threatening you based on her ridiculous almost daily phone calls. It is ridiculous they are entertaining her.

Most people (in normal times) have to go out to work, so are not at home to run their washing machines at 7/8am or according to the timetables set by their finicky neighbours sensitivities. I'm sure if you were showering at 6am before work instead of 10pm, she would complain about that too.

I would tell the council that you are willing to limit using your washing machine to between the hours of 8am and 8pm and no showers after 10pm, but that is as far as you are willing to conceed. You will not be limited to when you can flush toilets or run a tap in your home, or certain days to do laundry.

Remind them that you also have a right to peaceful enjoyment of your home, and her persistent complaints constitute harassing behaviour and should be considered as anti social behaviour on her part. Put it in writing, if you must.

From citizensinformation.ie:

What is anti-social behaviour?
Anti-social behaviour occurs where a person causes or, in the circumstances is likely to cause, to one or more persons who are not of the same household as the person:

- Harassment or
- Significant or persistent alarm, distress, fear or intimidation or
- Significant or persistent impairment of their use or enjoyment of their property.

I say she falls into all three. I can tell by your posts that you're stressed and upset and tiptoeing around your own home to try and keep the peace. How dare she ask you what time your baby cries?

Its not going to work long term, unless you take a very firm stand because she is never going to be satisfied. As soon as one problem is resolved, I guarantee you, she will find another unless you stand up to her strongly.

omegab · 17-01-2021 4:01pm

That pump looks like it has no anti-vibration / rubber mat underneath it so that may help a lot.

Something like: https://totaldiy.ie/product/am-anti-vibration-pump-pad-small/?utm_source=googleshopping&utm_medium=shp&utm_network=u&utm_mobile=0&utm_creative=427548730317&utm_position=&utm_random=8023007894090948529&gclid=Cj0KCQiA3Y-ABhCnARIsAKYDH7uanxBmuyXkAgqEAUqiCHXKG0_R5KzVmrRW-PdPP7gfkHT_Ko0Sy-waAuccEALw_wcB&utm_campaign=shopping%20-%20ireland&utm_ad_group_id=78316&utm_campaign_id=305807&utm_prod_id=7820

17-01-2021 6:21pm

omegab wrote: »

That pump looks like it has no anti-vibration / rubber mat underneath it so that may help a lot.

Something like: https://totaldiy.ie/product/am-anti-vibration-pump-pad-small/?utm_source=googleshopping&utm_medium=shp&utm_network=u&utm_mobile=0&utm_creative=427548730317&utm_position=&utm_random=8023007894090948529&gclid=Cj0KCQiA3Y-ABhCnARIsAKYDH7uanxBmuyXkAgqEAUqiCHXKG0_R5KzVmrRW-PdPP7gfkHT_Ko0Sy-waAuccEALw_wcB&utm_campaign=shopping%20-%20ireland&utm_ad_group_id=78316&utm_campaign_id=305807&utm_prod_id=7820

That looks like a good idea and cheap too, just a sandwich of wood or fibre boards and foams,
I considered getting a pump in, was going to make something like that up, but was considering a heavier or solid base layer to fix to the floor with rubber blocks, some kind of flexible layer and then a heavier layer to mount the pump and dampen vibrations.

Build quality has a lot to answer for imo, a small margin of improvement can go a long way.

runawaybishop · 17-01-2021 8:53pm

omegab wrote: »

That pump looks like it has no anti-vibration / rubber mat underneath it so that may help a lot.

Something like: https://totaldiy.ie/product/am-anti-vibration-pump-pad-small/?utm_source=googleshopping&utm_medium=shp&utm_network=u&utm_mobile=0&utm_creative=427548730317&utm_position=&utm_random=8023007894090948529&gclid=Cj0KCQiA3Y-ABhCnARIsAKYDH7uanxBmuyXkAgqEAUqiCHXKG0_R5KzVmrRW-PdPP7gfkHT_Ko0Sy-waAuccEALw_wcB&utm_campaign=shopping%20-%20ireland&utm_ad_group_id=78316&utm_campaign_id=305807&utm_prod_id=7820

They help for sure if the noise is coming down through the base, but a lot of the noise comes from the pipes vibrating as well. You can get anti vibration clamps that are cheap and easy to install.

Easiest way to test if it's the pipes is to just grab one when the pump is running. If that quietens the noise then get some clamps

Also dirt can build up causing the pump to be noisy, a plumber can flush it easily.

irishfemme · 17-01-2021 8:54pm

Thanks, I will call maintenance tomorrow and see if someone can have a look at it.

omegab wrote: »

That pump looks like it has no anti-vibration / rubber mat underneath it so that may help a lot.

Something like: https://totaldiy.ie/product/am-anti-vibration-pump-pad-small/?utm_source=googleshopping&utm_medium=shp&utm_network=u&utm_mobile=0&utm_creative=427548730317&utm_position=&utm_random=8023007894090948529&gclid=Cj0KCQiA3Y-ABhCnARIsAKYDH7uanxBmuyXkAgqEAUqiCHXKG0_R5KzVmrRW-PdPP7gfkHT_Ko0Sy-waAuccEALw_wcB&utm_campaign=shopping%20-%20ireland&utm_ad_group_id=78316&utm_campaign_id=305807&utm_prod_id=7820

Sam Hain · 17-01-2021 9:07pm

W0LFMAN wrote: »

I was in this situation once, the woman neighbour below me complained about me walking across the floor as the floorboards would squeak. One day she snapped and sent her husband up who arrived up like a fire storm and threatened me with all acts of violence. I can handle myself well enough and going toe-to-toe with this guy would have been over in around 2 seconds, but I played possum and invited him in to show the floor and how easy it was to make it squeak!.
I should mention before the knock on my door I was entertaining 5 work mates. The lads could hear the shouting through the corridor and could see I was trying to invite him in, when the husband walking into the living room they were ready. I never saw a 40 year **** himself so quickly. I never got another single complaint and I moved out 4 years later.

That bit made me laugh.

irishfemme · 17-01-2021 9:08pm

Also, take note of the fact that the apartment is with a day and night Meter & with storage heaters, so everything is more expensive when used during the day.

It's not a block of apartments, I think those are better sound proofed. This is an estate with a few duplexes with apartment on top.

This neighbour of mine keeps coming up with more things as we solve others. It's easier for people to say what I should do, but don't forget, I have kids. It's taken a toll of my 10 yrs old, who is now scared to even jump.

Since I have one hour window to do my washing 7-8am, I find myself having clothes airer almost everyday in the living room. I wish I could move, I think this apartment was built with only couples in mind or someone with 1 child.

I will see if some sound proof mat can be placed where the pump is, it seems to be the main culprit to this woman's issue..and the council won't even investigate or have a look at what can be done to reduce the sound.
The apartment was purchased and I reckon no inspection was done much upon purchase by them.

I have no wooden floor anywhere in the apartment... So I doubt footsteps and minor things like that get through the flooring... I wouldn't even know, as she hasn't let anyone into her duplex to hear the level of noise.

Thanks to everyone who has contributed, very much appreciated.

LawBoy2018 · 17-01-2021 9:56pm

irishfemme wrote: »

Also, take note of the fact that the apartment is with a day and night Meter & with storage heaters, so everything is more expensive when used during the day.

It's not a block of apartments, I think those are better sound proofed. This is an estate with a few duplexes with apartment on top.

This neighbour of mine keeps coming up with more things as we solve others. It's easier for people to say what I should do, but don't forget, I have kids. It's taken a toll of my 10 yrs old, who is now scared to even jump.

Since I have one hour window to do my washing 7-8am, I find myself having clothes airer almost everyday in the living room. I wish I could move, I think this apartment was built with only couples in mind or someone with 1 child.

I will see if some sound proof mat can be placed where the pump is, it seems to be the main culprit to this woman's issue..and the council won't even investigate or have a look at what can be done to reduce the sound.
The apartment was purchased and I reckon no inspection was done much upon purchase by them.

I have no wooden floor anywhere in the apartment... So I doubt footsteps and minor things like that get through the flooring... I wouldn't even know, as she hasn't let anyone into her duplex to hear the level of noise.

Thanks to everyone who has contributed, very much appreciated.

If the council don't care, then you shouldn't either! Best of luck with everything.

Caranica · 17-01-2021 9:59pm

You can always change your electricity plan. You're not tied to day and night surely?

supermans ghost · 17-01-2021 10:12pm

Is this another Man United thread:)

runawaybishop · 17-01-2021 10:13pm

Caranica wrote: »

You can always change your electricity plan. You're not tied to day and night surely?

You'd be robbed with storage heaters if you swapped.

maebee · 17-01-2021 10:17pm

odyssey06 wrote: »

Old power shower packed it in, got a Triton quiet power shower.
Can't believe how quiet it is, just sounds like running a tap.

We got one about 18 months ago. It's brilliant but................. the first day it was installed I barged into the bathroom to collect the laundry basket and my (very shocked) Canadian visitor was in the shower:)

Eric Cartman · 17-01-2021 10:23pm

DubLad69 wrote: »

I've never had to live in an apartment, but to me the idea that you can only do you washing at a certain time is very strange.

But to tell someone that they can't wash themselves after a certain time is just insane. No one should have that level of control of what someone else does (outside of a prison).

sadly the reality of Irish apartments, no soundproofing at all. Ive been in loads of countries that would have absolutely nothing like those rules and would find them strange. Some apartment complexes in Germany you could practically play a drum kit in the living room and not hear anything about it from neighbours.

this sounds extreme though. 7am-11.30pm you should be able to do whatever the hell you like.

Complaint about noisy neighbour

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