I know a male friend in my class who I thought was very handsome (I'm bi) when i first saw him. When I ask him about dating, he said he met and lost his virginity to two girls but here's the kicker, they all approached him in a nightclub. Didn't have to do any work.
I don't think that'll ever be me. Not only does he have a chiseled face but he's 6ft2. I'm 5ft 5in, too dark skinned and bad teeth. (things people have told me about being unattractive).
I have heard though of guys being approached outside pub/nightclub settings by women which is super rare. Do you know any men who have been approached like this?