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The Online Dating Thread Part II **Mod Warning** Read First Post/or Post 7389
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Nah, wouldn't agree with this. Most women want to go out with someone who is 'nice'. If someone was challenging to start with then I wouldn't give him the time of day tbh. You can be nice and still be charismatic. I'd say just be yourself Captain Havoc
I agree with you, most women I know, including myself, do want someone who is nice, so nice guys, don't lose heart
I've actually had to get the garda involved with the last guy I met on okcupid!He's been stalking me at work, and followed me home and has turned up at my house numerous time,making a lot of noise late at night.We only went on one date, and I think he just built me up into something amazing. I know the same thing could have happened if I met someone in a pub, but has turned me off okcupid for a while!
:eek: Wow how awful for you, scary stuff.0 -
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Nah, wouldn't agree with this. Most women want to go out with someone who is 'nice'. If someone was challenging to start with then I wouldn't give him the time of day tbh. You can be nice and still be charismatic. I'd say just be yourself Captain Havoc
I've actually had to get the garda involved with the last guy I met on okcupid!He's been stalking me at work, and followed me home and has turned up at my house numerous time,making a lot of noise late at night.We only went on one date, and I think he just built me up into something amazing. I know the same thing could have happened if I met someone in a pub, but has turned me off okcupid for a while!
Oh wow! :eek: I dunno where you're located but if its in a small catchment area maybe ladies can mail you so they don't have any contact with him either.
I like the guy to be nice, and funny and get my humour etc etc. I don't take any shít so wouldn't be into any game playing (maybe that's why I'm still single! :cool: )0 -
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Nah, wouldn't agree with this. Most women want to go out with someone who is 'nice'. If someone was challenging to start with then I wouldn't give him the time of day tbh. You can be nice and still be charismatic. I'd say just be yourself Captain Havoc
I've actually had to get the garda involved with the last guy I met on okcupid!He's been stalking me at work, and followed me home and has turned up at my house numerous time,making a lot of noise late at night.We only went on one date, and I think he just built me up into something amazing. I know the same thing could have happened if I met someone in a pub, but has turned me off okcupid for a while!
haa, i didnt mean turn into a a**hole just to be a challenge, i meant that maybe some guys focus all their profile into being a nice guy they are and maybe a hint of mystery and charisma doesnt shine through, thus not provoking women to message them or respond, any truth in this? 0 -
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Oh wow! :eek: I dunno where you're located but if its in a small catchment area maybe ladies can mail you so they don't have any contact with him either.
Well this particular guy is no longer on okcupid, so all you guys are safe from him at the moment. I am keeping my profile up for the moment, so I can keep an eye on his whereabouts!haa, i didnt mean turn into a a**hole just to be a challenge, i meant that maybe some guys focus all their profile into being a nice guy they are and maybe a hint of mystery and charisma doesnt shine through, thus not provoking women to message them or respond, any truth in this?
Well of course you want someone to be interesting. I still think you can be nice, and have mystery and charisma. What is a turn off is when someone lacks any type of assertiveness and agrees with everything you say and has no personality of their own. I think sometimes men,and women, can fall into this trap, and are so eager to please and be nice that they agree with everything the other person is saying.0 -
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So I sent a message to a girl on POF, it said "sent" yet the message isn't in my "sent messages"
Glitch in the system or am I missing something here?
she read it and blocked ya straight away, harsh reality, happened me before, even though i put effort and thought into that particular message...
could be something else,like a fault but...
most likely scenario
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So I sent a message to a girl on POF, it said "sent" yet the message isn't in my "sent messages"
Glitch in the system or am I missing something here?she read it and blocked ya straight away, harsh reality, happened me before, even though i put effort and thought into that particular message...
could be something else,like a fault but...
most likely scenario
Think that's what it is. Happened to me once before.0 -
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Well this particular guy is no longer on okcupid, so all you guys are safe from him at the moment. I am keeping my profile up for the moment, so I can keep an eye on his whereabouts!tatumkelly wrote: »Does anyone else think it's a bit odd that I started chatting to a guy this evening, he suggests meeting tonight. I said no, it's a little late to go anywhere. His response was... 'well we could just sit in the car'
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emmagination wrote: »Hi!
I've been lurking 'round these here parts for quite some time now and am finally getting the courage to post!
I've been on OKC for a while now with little success (met two people in all, one in particular was lovely but it's not going to happen!) I've just signed up for POF (because OKC seems to be *particularly* quiet right now). It's a lot busier on POF alright but I don't know if that's just because I'm "fresh meat"?
yeah we're lions always looking for fresh meat,, rawwrrr
why is it not going to happen with the 1 on OKC?
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tatumkelly wrote: »Does anyone else think it's a bit odd that I started chatting to a guy this evening, he suggests meeting tonight. I said no, it's a little late to go anywhere. His response was... 'well we could just sit in the car' :rolleyes:
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