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Mixed signals from a woman

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  • #52
    worded
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,608 ✭✭✭worded


    Jeju wrote: »
    With a good looking female friend goto the market and as you pass her stall have a fulfilled and content smug face. Wait a week and goto the market and go to her stall. In conversation mention that you have just broken up with the love of your life, she cheated on you is best, and you will never be the same again etc etc. She will see you as an old romantic type who needs comforting and it's a win win situation from here

    That’s all a bit shallow and contrived, Sounds perfect


  • #53
    worded
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,608 ✭✭✭worded


    Could you get one of those custom made personalized coffee mugs made with a pic of you on one side and your phone number on the other side ? Casually leave it behind you next visit .....

    You can get her a matching pillow case set if the relationship picks up, but I’d start with the personalized mugs as you don’t want to freak her out ...


  • #54
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    Airyfairy12 wrote: »
    Sounds like she wasnt flirting, she was just being friendly and you read too much into it. She obviously picked up on this so pulled back enough to let you know she's not interested. Theres no mixed signals here, you misread her niceness and jumped to conclusions. Respect the fact she was never into you and stop flirting.

    I did this before. Though that I had "misread" signs because she got very cold/abrupt after I had asked her out.

    I thought "Fine, I've fecked up here so time to move on".

    Of course years later we meet, with mutual friends, and after a few drinks she asks "why did we never get together, I was really into you"

    You just can not win sometimes


  • #55
    Church on Tuesday
    Registered Users Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    Deleted User wrote: »
    I did this before. Though that I had "misread" signs because she got very cold/abrupt after I had asked her out.

    I thought "Fine, I've fecked up here so time to move on".

    Of course years later we meet, with mutual friends, and after a few drinks she asks "why did we never get together, I was really into you"

    You just can not win sometimes

    The opposite sex

    Forever a mystery.


  • #56
    ittakestwo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,685 ✭✭✭ittakestwo


    Deleted User wrote: »
    I did this before. Though that I had "misread" signs because she got very cold/abrupt after I had asked her out.

    I thought "Fine, I've fecked up here so time to move on".

    Of course years later we meet, with mutual friends, and after a few drinks she asks "why did we never get together, I was really into you"

    You just can not win sometimes

    They could have said that to you years later because they knew you both moved on and now there was no chance of you getting together but still did not want you to think that they rejected you.... if they were "really into you" and you asked them out of course they would have said yes.

    People can be very ingenuine because they are affraid of hurting feelings. Watch the end of the TV programme First Dates. The amount pretend they had a great time and say they want to meet the other person again but don't shows this.


  • #57
    [Deleted User]
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    I did not bring this up. She asked me out of the blue expecting a serious answer.
    I told her that she had shot me down when I broached the subject, and left it at that.


  • #58
    Jurgen Klopp
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,807 ✭✭✭Jurgen Klopp


    [Deleted User] wrote: »
    I did not bring this up. She asked me out of the blue expecting a serious answer.
    I told her that she had shot me down when I broached the subject, and left it at that.

    Be glad then it never happened, cause you should chalk her down as a head melter.


  • #59
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    Jurgen Klopp wrote: »
    Be glad then it never happened, cause you should chalk her down as a head melter.




    I meant it when I said I left it at that. Just walked away


  • #60
    Jurgen Klopp
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,807 ✭✭✭Jurgen Klopp


    [Deleted User] wrote: »
    I meant it when I said I left it at that. Just walked away

    Oh I know, not making a smart comment at you. Just mean don't have any regrets cause I've a feeling you'd have had them if you actually had got with her :p


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  • #61
    daithi7
    Registered Users Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭daithi7


    cameramonkey wrote: »
    Or don't approach, who wants to go out with a moody bitch?

    Hormones....?


  • #62
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    Jurgen Klopp wrote: »
    Oh I know, not making a smart comment at you. Just mean don't have any regrets cause I've a feeling you'd have had them if you actually had got with her :p


    Nah I got ya. I was thinking the same "what the hell you brining that up for years later"!!


  • #63
    Henry Ford III
    Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators Posts: 17,757 Mod ✭✭✭✭Henry Ford III


    If say she's on the blob OP


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