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Girlfriend staying overnight with her gay friend

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  • 07-05-2020 10:20pm
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    nails1
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    I texted my gf earlier asking what she was doing. She replied that she staying overnight in her gay friend’s house. She wasn’t even going to tell me until I contacted her. She said not to worry that they’ll be sleeping in different rooms. She also said he’s never had a boyfriend but once had a girlfriend until he realised he’s gay. Am I right to be angry or is this all normal behaviour for the female gender?


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    vikings2012
    Registered Users Posts: 152 ✭✭vikings2012


    nails1 wrote: »
    I texted my gf earlier asking what she was doing. She replied that she staying overnight in her gay friend’s house. She wasn’t even going to tell me until I contacted her. She said not to worry that they’ll be sleeping in different rooms. She also said he’s never had a boyfriend but once had a girlfriend until he realised he’s gay. Am I right to be angry or is this all normal behaviour for the female gender?


    Why do you think you should be angry ?


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    nails1
    Registered Users Posts: 495 ✭✭nails1


    vikings2012 wrote: »
    Why do you think you should be angry ?

    Cos I never gave her permission


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    celt262
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    Go around and take the head off him. His small head.


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    Atlantic Dawn
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    nails1 wrote: »
    Cos I never gave her permission


    I'd be more concerned that she might come back riddled with Covid19.


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    James 007
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    Sounds as if a threesome is on here, are you up for it:rolleyes:


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    anheneti
    Registered Users Posts: 183 ✭✭anheneti


    nails1 wrote: »
    I texted my gf earlier asking what she was doing. She replied that she staying overnight in her gay friend’s house. She wasn’t even going to tell me until I contacted her. She said not to worry that they’ll be sleeping in different rooms. She also said he’s never had a boyfriend but once had a girlfriend until he realised he’s gay. Am I right to be angry or is this all normal behaviour for the female gender?

    What about the global pandemic that’s going on?
    Does social distancing not mean anything to her?


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    Rattlehead_ie
    Registered Users Posts: 1,882 ✭✭✭Rattlehead_ie


    Probably a personal issues thread, but seriously you should be angry.......Id report her to the guards! Shes not meant to be visiting other homes.


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    spurious
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    Gave her permission?


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    Central Services
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    nails1 wrote: »
    Cos I never gave her permission

    Maybe she once thought she was a slave but then tried it and realised she wasn't


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    nails1
    Registered Users Posts: 495 ✭✭nails1


    Rattlehead_ie wrote: »
    Probably a personal issues thread, but seriously you should be angry.......Id report her to the guards! Shes not meant to be visiting other homes.

    She calls him daddy so she allowed to visit her fathers house


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    VayNiice
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    nails1 wrote: »
    Cos I never gave her permission

    Act like that and she'd be right to look elsewhere!


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    vikings2012
    Registered Users Posts: 152 ✭✭vikings2012


    nails1 wrote: »
    Cos I never gave her permission

    My GF would have nights out with her female friends and her male gay friends.

    She would often stay over in their houses.

    She doesn’t need my permission or pre approval. We trust each other and she has nothing to hide. I think most couples don’t have to ask the other half permission to sleep over at a friends house.


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    LeYouth
    Closed Accounts Posts: 161 ✭✭LeYouth


    nails1 wrote: »
    I texted my gf earlier asking what she was doing. She replied that she staying overnight in her gay friend’s house. She wasn’t even going to tell me until I contacted her. She said not to worry that they’ll be sleeping in different rooms. She also said he’s never had a boyfriend but once had a girlfriend until he realised he’s gay. Am I right to be angry or is this all normal behaviour for the female gender?

    What about social distancing


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    WoollyRedHat
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    Sounds legit, lockdown creativity in full swing.


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    [Deleted User]
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    What about trust?


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    nails1
    Registered Users Posts: 495 ✭✭nails1


    WoollyRedHat wrote: »
    Sounds legit, lockdown creativity in full swing.

    I’ve been working 55 hours a week for the past month. I don’t have time to be day dreaming.


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    nails1
    Registered Users Posts: 495 ✭✭nails1


    [Deleted User] wrote: »
    What about trust?

    She cheated on me in the past


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    RonanG86
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    nails1 wrote: »
    She cheated on me in the past

    I wonder why...
    nails1 wrote: »
    Cos I never gave her permission


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    WoollyRedHat
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    nails1 wrote: »
    I’ve been working 55 hours a week for the past month. I don’t have time to be day dreaming.
    nails1 wrote: »
    She calls him daddy so she allowed to visit her fathers house
    What's this about then.. sounds bizarre? That's not how that works.


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    NSAman
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    Nails,,, you poor unfortunate....

    Maybe she is turning gay too????


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    nails1
    Registered Users Posts: 495 ✭✭nails1


    NSAman wrote: »
    Nails,,, you poor unfortunate....

    Maybe she is turning gay too????

    Maybe I’ll have to too with my luck lately :(


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    #23
    daedal
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    Can't blame her for wanting a night away from you OP. You sound like a paranoid control freak.


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    [Deleted User]
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    nails1 wrote: »
    She cheated on me in the past

    And you're still with her... why? You're simply setting yourself up for insecurity, paranoia and jealousy. Which is evident by being suspicious of a supposed gay guy. If you trusted her, this wouldn't be an issue. Which means, you don't trust her, so why continue the relationship?

    Masochism in practice.


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    nails1
    Registered Users Posts: 495 ✭✭nails1


    [Deleted User] wrote: »
    And you're still with her... why? You're simply setting yourself up for insecurity, paranoia and jealousy. Which is evident by being suspicious of a supposed gay guy. If you trusted her, this wouldn't be an issue. Which means, you don't trust her, so why continue the relationship?

    Masochism in practice.

    Because I had no else to get ride off so stuck with her


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    [Deleted User]
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    she is probably only going to ride him with a strap-on.

    nothing to worry about


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    [Deleted User]
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    nails1 wrote: »
    Because I had no else to get ride off so stuck with her

    what are you? 14?

    Bloody hell. That's just sad.


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    #28
    overkill602
    Registered Users Posts: 267 ✭✭overkill602


    wow Can join IN or not?


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    #29
    the_syco
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    nails1 wrote: »
    Cos I never gave her permission
    You don't own her. And if you think you do, you've already lost her.
    nails1 wrote: »
    She cheated on me in the past
    So, she doesn't respect you, and you don't respect her.
    nails1 wrote: »
    Because I had no else to get ride off so stuck with her
    Ah, so you're only with her for the ride. Perhaps the "gay" lad gives her something you can't; intimacy.


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    NSAman
    Registered Users Posts: 3,386 ✭✭✭NSAman


    nails1 wrote: »
    Maybe I’ll have to too with my luck lately :(

    Thought you were measuring guys up recently and doing a scientific survey???

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2058073010&referrerid=651677


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    Agent Smith
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    nails1 wrote: »
    Cos I never gave her permission

    This is gonna be good....

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