Girlfriend staying overnight with her gay friend

nails1

I texted my gf earlier asking what she was doing. She replied that she staying overnight in her gay friend’s house. She wasn’t even going to tell me until I contacted her. She said not to worry that they’ll be sleeping in different rooms. She also said he’s never had a boyfriend but once had a girlfriend until he realised he’s gay. Am I right to be angry or is this all normal behaviour for the female gender?

vikings2012

nails1 wrote: »

I texted my gf earlier asking what she was doing. She replied that she staying overnight in her gay friend’s house. She wasn’t even going to tell me until I contacted her. She said not to worry that they’ll be sleeping in different rooms. She also said he’s never had a boyfriend but once had a girlfriend until he realised he’s gay. Am I right to be angry or is this all normal behaviour for the female gender?

Why do you think you should be angry ?

nails1

vikings2012 wrote: »

Why do you think you should be angry ?

Cos I never gave her permission

celt262

Go around and take the head off him. His small head.

Atlantic Dawn

nails1 wrote: »

Cos I never gave her permission

I'd be more concerned that she might come back riddled with Covid19.

James 007

Sounds as if a threesome is on here, are you up for it:rolleyes:

anheneti

nails1 wrote: »

I texted my gf earlier asking what she was doing. She replied that she staying overnight in her gay friend’s house. She wasn’t even going to tell me until I contacted her. She said not to worry that they’ll be sleeping in different rooms. She also said he’s never had a boyfriend but once had a girlfriend until he realised he’s gay. Am I right to be angry or is this all normal behaviour for the female gender?

What about the global pandemic that’s going on?
Does social distancing not mean anything to her?

Rattlehead_ie

Probably a personal issues thread, but seriously you should be angry.......Id report her to the guards! Shes not meant to be visiting other homes.

spurious

Gave her permission?

Central Services

nails1 wrote: »

Cos I never gave her permission

Maybe she once thought she was a slave but then tried it and realised she wasn't

nails1

Rattlehead_ie wrote: »

Probably a personal issues thread, but seriously you should be angry.......Id report her to the guards! Shes not meant to be visiting other homes.

She calls him daddy so she allowed to visit her fathers house

VayNiice

nails1 wrote: »

Cos I never gave her permission

Act like that and she'd be right to look elsewhere!

vikings2012

nails1 wrote: »

Cos I never gave her permission

My GF would have nights out with her female friends and her male gay friends.

She would often stay over in their houses.

She doesn’t need my permission or pre approval. We trust each other and she has nothing to hide. I think most couples don’t have to ask the other half permission to sleep over at a friends house.

LeYouth

nails1 wrote: »

I texted my gf earlier asking what she was doing. She replied that she staying overnight in her gay friend’s house. She wasn’t even going to tell me until I contacted her. She said not to worry that they’ll be sleeping in different rooms. She also said he’s never had a boyfriend but once had a girlfriend until he realised he’s gay. Am I right to be angry or is this all normal behaviour for the female gender?

What about social distancing

WoollyRedHat

Sounds legit, lockdown creativity in full swing.

What about trust?

nails1

WoollyRedHat wrote: »

Sounds legit, lockdown creativity in full swing.

I’ve been working 55 hours a week for the past month. I don’t have time to be day dreaming.

nails1

[Deleted User] wrote: »

What about trust?

She cheated on me in the past

RonanG86

nails1 wrote: »

She cheated on me in the past

I wonder why...

nails1 wrote: »

Cos I never gave her permission

WoollyRedHat

nails1 wrote: »

I’ve been working 55 hours a week for the past month. I don’t have time to be day dreaming.

nails1 wrote: »

She calls him daddy so she allowed to visit her fathers house

What's this about then.. sounds bizarre? That's not how that works.

NSAman

Nails,,, you poor unfortunate....

Maybe she is turning gay too????

nails1

NSAman wrote: »

Nails,,, you poor unfortunate....

Maybe she is turning gay too????

Maybe I’ll have to too with my luck lately

daedal

Can't blame her for wanting a night away from you OP. You sound like a paranoid control freak.

nails1

nails1 wrote: »

She cheated on me in the past

And you're still with her... why? You're simply setting yourself up for insecurity, paranoia and jealousy. Which is evident by being suspicious of a supposed gay guy. If you trusted her, this wouldn't be an issue. Which means, you don't trust her, so why continue the relationship?

Masochism in practice.

nails1

[Deleted User] wrote: »

And you're still with her... why? You're simply setting yourself up for insecurity, paranoia and jealousy. Which is evident by being suspicious of a supposed gay guy. If you trusted her, this wouldn't be an issue. Which means, you don't trust her, so why continue the relationship?

Masochism in practice.

Because I had no else to get ride off so stuck with her

she is probably only going to ride him with a strap-on.

nothing to worry about

nails1

nails1 wrote: »

Because I had no else to get ride off so stuck with her

what are you? 14?

Bloody hell. That's just sad.

overkill602

wow Can join IN or not?

the_syco

nails1 wrote: »

Cos I never gave her permission

You don't own her. And if you think you do, you've already lost her.

nails1 wrote: »

She cheated on me in the past

So, she doesn't respect you, and you don't respect her.

nails1 wrote: »

Because I had no else to get ride off so stuck with her

Ah, so you're only with her for the ride. Perhaps the "gay" lad gives her something you can't; intimacy.

NSAman

nails1 wrote: »

Maybe I’ll have to too with my luck lately

Thought you were measuring guys up recently and doing a scientific survey???

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2058073010&referrerid=651677

Agent Smith

nails1 wrote: »

Cos I never gave her permission

This is gonna be good....

corner of hells

James 007 wrote: »

Sounds as if a threesome is on here, are you up for it:rolleyes:

Yup , the gf wants to be a double adapter.

Lyan

OP, they are going to get drunk together on Cosmopolitans while watching Sex and the City and end up sleeping together in a confused and somewhat humourous moment of passion. Call up Mike "Slay the Gays" Pence right now and get down there.

Metroid diorteM

Pandemic?

alta stare

Jesus this is clearly a wind up and there are some people actually given serious answers.

Fu(k me this place really baffles me sometimes.

nails1

the_syco wrote: »

You don't own her. And if you think you do, you've already lost her.


So, she doesn't respect you, and you don't respect her.


Ah, so you're only with her for the ride. Perhaps the "gay" lad gives her something you can't; intimacy.

I brought her to Disneyland Paris three months ago. The most romantic place in the world so intimacy not an issue.

thomas 123

isn’t there a song about this?

RobertKK

Apart from the pandemic...

There is clearly a trust issue and I think you have to ask yourself if this relationship is going anywhere.

Pauliedragon

I think some people aren't aware that this is AH not personal issues. The troll is surely full by now. No more food needed.

RobertKK

Pauliedragon wrote: »

I think some people aren't aware that this is AH not personal issues. The troll is surely full by now. No more food needed.

Shhh I want to see where this story goes.
It might inspire some TV producer with a season 2 of Normal People.

alta stare

alta stare wrote: »

Jesus this is clearly a wind up and there are some people actually given serious answers.

Fu(k me this place really baffles me sometimes.

I answer all threads somewhat seriously.. We're all here for different kicks.

alta stare

[Deleted User] wrote: »

I answer all threads somewhat seriously.. We're all here for different kicks.

God bless you. Again this place baffles me sometimes.

jimmycrackcorm

Staying over with her "gay" friend.
Well, that's a new one....

RobbingBandit

Archer rules on the spitroast op at no point do you or lem touch bases have fun even if you don't we all will

JP Liz V1

nails1 wrote: »

She calls him daddy so she allowed to visit her fathers house

Church on Tuesday

Ah I'm having another Guiney tinny.

Ubbquittious

Ah fecksake.


At this late and bitter stage of my life I can't stomach this living in each other's pockets and under each other's thumb carry on anymore. Doesn't matter if the fella is gay or not if he ends up dipping the wick you will find out sooner or later and the relationship was probably doomed anyway.


I say let her stay. As long as you don't hear her cribbing when you say you're going for a mad night on the beer with some beour you knew from back in the day. Better to have a bit of freedom. This nonsense with having to justify everything to your partner is only a load of aul shoite

jim salter

He's not gay.

They're probably banging the brains outta each other right now (for the 3rd time this evening)

Plumbthedepths

nails1 wrote: »

Cos I never gave her permission

Did you enjoy being single before you met your GF? That life with your attitude beckons you again.

Atlantic Dawn

Should you have put a ring on it, so to speak?

Porklife

Central Services wrote: »

Maybe she once thought she was a slave but then tried it and realised she wasn't

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