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The 8th amendment(Mod warning in op)

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,070 ✭✭✭✭pq0n1ct4ve8zf5


    I think the confusion or wilfull misunderstanding about full term/third trimester abortions is coming from the fact that some pro choice individuals and groups are in favour of something similar to the Canadian model, where there are no legal restrictions in place regarding when a pregnancy can be terminated, as long as a doctor or doctors sign off on it.

    Obviously babies are routinely being ripped from the womb and torn to shreds on the due date in Canada, because that's how women and doctors reacted.


  • Registered Users Posts: 40,814 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    I think the confusion or wilfull misunderstanding about full term/third trimester abortions is coming from the fact that some pro choice individuals and groups are in favour of something similar to the Canadian model, where there are no legal restrictions in place regarding when a pregnancy can be terminated, as long as a doctor or doctors sign off on it.

    Obviously babies are routinely being ripped from the womb and torn to shreds on the due date in Canada, because that's how women and doctors reacted.

    The confusion/wilfull misunderstanding is a deliberate attempt to scaremonger and muddy the waters. Nothing else.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,070 ✭✭✭✭pq0n1ct4ve8zf5


    The confusion/wilfull misunderstanding is a deliberate attempt to scaremonger and muddy the waters. Nothing else.

    I'd actually be in favour of it myself, not that I think there's a hope in hell. Just pointing out where it's probably coming from.

    I mean you never know, people might actually be that hard of reading rather than deliberately misrepresenting things.


  • Registered Users Posts: 28,986 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    It is scaremongering. Even you yourself calling them extremists proves it. The posts from Boulevardier suggesting that abortion upto full term would be legislated for and that pro choice groups favour such legislation is complete and utter scaremongering drivel. Boulevardier is making stuff up and you are jumping into back him up!!!

    it's not scaremongering. Boulevardier has made nothing up. a large element of the pro-choice want unrestricted abortion right up to term and they will push hard for that.

    ticking a box on a form does not make you of a religion.



  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 19,219 Mod ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    it's not scaremongering. Boulevardier has made nothing up. a large element of the pro-choice want unrestricted abortion right up to term and they will push hard for that.

    Proof that a large element or retract.

    If you do neither than you most certainly are scaremongering.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,540 ✭✭✭Martina1991


    it's not scaremongering. Boulevardier has made nothing up. a large element of the pro-choice want unrestricted abortion right up to term and they will push hard for that.

    Prove it.

    I think you'd find it hard to find one poster from this thread saying they'd like to see unrestricted abortion up to term.

    I certainly wouldn't. Post 26 weeks a fetus has a good chance of surviving.

    I think a 12 week limit is reasonable as it gives the potential mother time to make an informed decision.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,964 ✭✭✭captbarnacles


    Name one case where a healthy pregnancy was aborted at late term Canada or England.

    A termination of pregnancy at that stage is a surgical removal.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,935 Mod ✭✭✭✭Hannibal_Smith


    it's not scaremongering. Boulevardier has made nothing up. a large element of the pro-choice want unrestricted abortion right up to term and they will push hard for that.

    Stop making things up! I've already asked you what you mean by good numbers. You've given nothing to back it up. Now I'll ask you what you mean by large element...will you answer that? Where are you getting your information from?


  • Registered Users Posts: 98 ✭✭threescompany


    I’ve never posted on a repeal the 8th/ abortion thread as I’ve felt overwhelmed by the information & was afraid I’d be told to go figure the answer out for myself!! But this is a genuine question & please forgive my ignorance.
    Ok, I believe abortion is ok in all circumstances except on demand / unrestricted.
    So where am I with this referendum??
    I feel I lie somewhere in the middle of the spectrum & in certain cases abortion is allowed but absolutely not unrestricted..... so I suppose I’m pro life. Does this mean I vote not to repeal the 8th as it’s up to twelve weeks unrestricted...... I find it all confusing. Help!! Thanks 😊


  • Registered Users Posts: 40,814 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    it's not scaremongering. Boulevardier has made nothing up. a large element of the pro-choice want unrestricted abortion right up to term and they will push hard for that.

    Stop. Just stop lying.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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  • Registered Users Posts: 25,407 ✭✭✭✭Timberrrrrrrr


    it's not scaremongering. Boulevardier has made nothing up. a large element of the pro-choice want unrestricted abortion right up to term and they will push hard for that.

    Evidences that "a large element of the pro-choice want unrestricted abortion right up to term"


    Edit: ugh, just realised who.i was replying too, no use asking for evidence of those claims:rolleyes:


  • Registered Users Posts: 40,814 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    I’ve never posted on a repeal the 8th/ abortion thread as I’ve felt overwhelmed by the information & was afraid I’d be told to go figure the answer out for myself!! But this is a genuine question & please forgive my ignorance.
    Ok, I believe abortion is ok in all circumstances except on demand / unrestricted.
    So where am I with this referendum??
    I feel I lie somewhere in the middle of the spectrum & in certain cases abortion is allowed but absolutely not unrestricted..... so I suppose I’m pro life. Does this mean I vote not to repeal the 8th as it’s up to twelve weeks unrestricted...... I find it all confusing. Help!! Thanks ��

    It is not clear yet what the referendum question is so its difficult to answer that.

    It looks like the question will be a simple repeal.

    The thing is under the current constitution it would be impossible to legislate for abortion in cases of rape or fatal foetal abnormality and in cases where the womans health is at serious risk. So effectively if you want abortion for those circumstances a repeal is necessary.

    If you repeal then you of course open up the possibility that unrestricted abortion may be legislated for.

    If the referendum is just a simple repeal that does not necessarily mean legislation to allow unrestricted abortion will happen though.

    My advice to you is wait ubtil the question is clearer.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users Posts: 98 ✭✭threescompany


    Thank you so much for your reply. That makes sense but still I find it all a very complex emotive topic. I know exactly how I feel about this on a personal level but nonetheless it’s a complicated issue when it’s raised in a public forum. Thanks though.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,104 ✭✭✭Oldtree


    It could not have been put better,
    These are not faceless women. They are our friends and neighbours, sisters, cousins, mothers, aunts, wives.
    He forgot to mention daughters.

    It is incumbent upon us to care for our loved ones at home at a very difficult time for them.
    Number of women from each county who travelled to the UK for an abortion in 2016, as read into the Dáil record by Health Minister Simon Harris.

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    The Minister noted that more than 1,200 of the women who went to the UK were aged between 30 and 39 and 1,500 were aged between 20 and 29. Another 255 were aged 40 or over.

    Ten were girls under the age of 16, while 230 were teenagers.

    https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/politics/these-are-not-faceless-women-health-minister-lists-number-from-every-county-who-travelled-to-uk-for-abortion-as-debate-begins-36500350.html


  • Registered Users Posts: 17,498 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    it's not scaremongering. Boulevardier has made nothing up. a large element of the pro-choice want unrestricted abortion right up to term and they will push hard for that.

    Mod: EOTR, unless you can back up this claim with some form of hard evidence, you can consider yourself threadbanned.

    PM me if you want clarification. Until the above request is satisfied, do not post here again.


  • Registered Users Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Thank you so much for your reply. That makes sense but still I find it all a very complex emotive topic. I know exactly how I feel about this on a personal level but nonetheless it’s a complicated issue when it’s raised in a public forum. Thanks though.

    Personalise it. Think of a woman or couple you know telling you they have a crisis pregnancy and they want an abortion. Think about what you would want for them and let that guide you.

    This really comes down to people and I find it's easier to find where you stand if you ignore the rhetoric and focus on the impact on the people we know.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭pilly


    Mod: EOTR, unless you can back up this claim with some form of hard evidence, you can consider yourself threadbanned.


    About time it was said.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭pilly


    I’ve never posted on a repeal the 8th/ abortion thread as I’ve felt overwhelmed by the information & was afraid I’d be told to go figure the answer out for myself!! But this is a genuine question & please forgive my ignorance. Ok, I believe abortion is ok in all circumstances except on demand / unrestricted. So where am I with this referendum?? I feel I lie somewhere in the middle of the spectrum & in certain cases abortion is allowed but absolutely not unrestricted..... so I suppose I’m pro life. Does this mean I vote not to repeal the 8th as it’s up to twelve weeks unrestricted...... I find it all confusing. Help!! Thanks 😊


    I don't really understand your question, perhaps you can clarify.

    You're okay with abortion in what circumstances?


  • Registered Users Posts: 98 ✭✭threescompany


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Personalise it. Think of a woman or couple you know telling you they have a crisis pregnancy and they want an abortion. Think about what you would want for them and let that guide you.

    This really comes down to people and I find it's easier to find where you stand if you ignore the rhetoric and focus on the impact on the people we know.

    You see, that’s it, I know 3 people and all of them had abortions as it was an unwanted pregnancy resulting from the couples not using contraception. In this instance, I’m not comfortable with this. They made a choice not to use contraception and were irresponsible knowing it may result in an unwanted pregnancy. In an age when contraception is so available I cannot agree with abortion.
    If however, someone I know told me they would not survive the pregnancy without an abortion, in this instance I’m ok with abortion. So it really depends on the different situations. I’m very clear in my own head what I agree with but if the wording in the referendum states that abortion will be unrestricted, then that will really complicate the issue for me.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,336 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    please forgive my ignorance.

    Ignorance requires no forgiveness, and awareness of where one's own ignorance lies deserves praise, never condemnation. Keep it up! :)
    Ok, I believe abortion is ok in all circumstances except on demand / unrestricted. So where am I with this referendum??

    The first thing to be aware of is that "on demand" and "unrestricted" are massively different things. The first means that women be allowed have an abortion for reasons of their own choosing. The latter means there is no restrictions on that choice.

    The vast majority of people who want women to have that choice, and countries that offer that choice, have restrictions. Most often in terms of the time limit by which abortion by choice can be sought.

    Here in Ireland people who want abortion by choice usually aim for 12, 16 or 20 weeks as the cut off. Some, but much less, aim for 24 which I think is what the UK and parts of the US have.

    I myself would be happy with 12, 16 or 20 really. 16 ideally. But I would lose no sleep over 12.

    There are some places without such restriction. Canada for example. However it is interesting that EVEN IN a country with no restriction........ the rate at which abortions happen fall in line with where the restrictions would lie in other countries.

    Take 2015 for example. There was apparently 100612 abortions in Canada in that year. The number of abortions that took place in or after week 21 was a HALF a %. A little over 500. In fact 91% of abortions in that year were complete by 12 weeks of gestation. Pretty much all of them by 16 weeks.

    But a repeal of the 8th would, I am informed, allow us to legislate against abortion by choice, or for it. And if we were to legislate for it I strongly suspect that time limits would be included in that and we would have nothing like the Canadian system, and probably something with more stringent restrictions than the UK or US. But that is just my feeling, rather than anything I can evidence, given the recommendations of the Citizens Assembly.

    So I see no reason for someone like yourself not to vote for repeal. But as others have said, more information is not really possible until we know EXACTLY what we will be asked to vote on.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    You see, that’s it, I know 3 people and all of them had abortions as it was an unwanted pregnancy resulting from the couples not using contraception. In this instance, I’m not comfortable with this. They made a choice not to use contraception and were irresponsible knowing it may result in an unwanted pregnancy. In an age when contraception is so available I cannot agree with abortion.
    If however, someone I know told me they would not survive the pregnancy without an abortion, in this instance I’m ok with abortion. So it really depends on the different situations. I’m very clear in my own head what I agree with but if the wording in the referendum states that abortion will be unrestricted, then that will really complicate the issue for me.

    Would you be more comfortable forcing them to carry a pregnancy they don't want?


  • Registered Users Posts: 98 ✭✭threescompany


    pilly wrote: »
    I don't really understand your question, perhaps you can clarify.

    You're okay with abortion in what circumstances?


    My question was How should I vote in the referendum? If I’m in agreement for abortion in some circumstances but not others. A previous poster explained the wording has not yet been clarified so it’s still unclear if it’s unrestricted abortion or not but hopefully I will have more clarity when the wording is confirmed.

    Agree with abortion in the following circumstances;
    - If a woman’s life is in danger / she will not survive pregnancy
    - FFA ( if the woman / couple choose to terminate pregnancy)
    - Incest
    - Rape


    Disagree with abortion in following circumstances;
    - pregnancy resulting in unprotected pregnancy / failed contraception
    - genetic / screen testing for chromosomal disorders / congenital disorders

    Thanks


  • Registered Users Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    My question was How should I vote in the referendum? If I’m in agreement for abortion in some circumstances but not others. A previous poster explained the wording has not yet been clarified so it’s still unclear if it’s unrestricted abortion or not but hopefully I will have more clarity when the wording is confirmed.

    Agree with abortion in the following circumstances;
    - If a woman’s life is in danger / she will not survive pregnancy
    - FFA ( if the woman / couple choose to terminate pregnancy)
    - Incest
    - Rape


    Disagree with abortion in following circumstances;
    - pregnancy resulting in unprotected pregnancy / failed contraception
    - genetic / screen testing for chromosomal disorders / congenital disorders

    Thanks

    How do you legislate for abortions in the case of rape?


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    You see, that’s it, I know 3 people and all of them had abortions as it was an unwanted pregnancy resulting from the couples not using contraception. In this instance, I’m not comfortable with this. They made a choice not to use contraception and were irresponsible knowing it may result in an unwanted pregnancy. In an age when contraception is so available I cannot agree with abortion.
    If however, someone I know told me they would not survive the pregnancy without an abortion, in this instance I’m ok with abortion. So it really depends on the different situations. I’m very clear in my own head what I agree with but if the wording in the referendum states that abortion will be unrestricted, then that will really complicate the issue for me.

    I suppose the way I think of it were that if those couples hadn't been able to terminate the pregnancy and were forced to have the child, at that point in time do you think they could have been good parents?
    Could they have given the child a stable home? Were they finished with their education, employed, and financially stable? Would they have had support from their families?
    Do you think they would give a child a good life, at that exact point in time?

    Would you really trust two people who aren't even responsible enough to wear a condom with rearing another human being?

    If you answered "no" to any of those, then I think you can be pretty confident that they made the right decision by terminating.

    Remember this: By forcing a woman/couple to continue with a pregnancy they do not want, the only person being punished is the child. A child should be born to two loving, stable parents. The only person that will suffer is the child.


  • Registered Users Posts: 9,336 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    They made a choice not to use contraception and were irresponsible knowing it may result in an unwanted pregnancy. In an age when contraception is so available I cannot agree with abortion.

    I think I would be uncomfortable with that kind of thinking myself. Mainly because I realize that people are irresponsible in many areas of their lives. And in those other areas we help them get out of their bad situation when they get there. We do not stand over them saying "Well you got yourself into this mess............"

    So I see no reason to do that with abortion. For me it pays to think about the ethics of abortion in and of itself, rather than the ethics of how people got to the point of requiring one. Otherwise one risks voting on the abortion issue not from a point of rationality, but from a point riding up on a moral high horse. And that is generally not a good way to form laws.
    I’m very clear in my own head what I agree with but if the wording in the referendum states that abortion will be unrestricted, then that will really complicate the issue for me.

    Alas what can often happen is that the cases "in our own head" are not ones that we can work with without a more unrestricted form of abortion.

    For example, consider the case most often brought up in abortion debates: Rape/Incest. Even some very strident anti abortion campaigners admit to a requirement for abortion there. I wonder do you too?

    But think it out. How would that work? How could a raped woman seek an abortion? I see only three ways:

    1) She must seek and gain a conviction for rape. But this is not unworkable because A) The guilty party might be found innocent and B) the sheer length of time it can take to obtain such a conviction.

    2) She must file a rape charge at least. This is almost as bad as it would be an incentive for women, who really want or need an abortion, to file false charges against men. Which, even if withdrawn or retracted later on and not pursued..... can still be a social and career death sentence for the accused.

    3) We simply take the woman's word for it. Which would work but, given NOT raped women could then just claim rape...... you essentially have "Abortion on demand" already. FUNCTIONALLY it would be no different.

    So quite often formulating a comprehensive and functional abortion-by-choice system makes MUCH more sense than a "no abortion" system with a series of loop holes, exceptions, caveats, and appeals.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    My question was How should I vote in the referendum? If I’m in agreement for abortion in some circumstances but not others. A previous poster explained the wording has not yet been clarified so it’s still unclear if it’s unrestricted abortion or not but hopefully I will have more clarity when the wording is confirmed.

    Agree with abortion in the following circumstances;
    - If a woman’s life is in danger / she will not survive pregnancy
    - FFA ( if the woman / couple choose to terminate pregnancy)
    - Incest
    - Rape


    Disagree with abortion in following circumstances;
    - pregnancy resulting in unprotected pregnancy / failed contraception
    - genetic / screen testing for chromosomal disorders / congenital disorders

    Thanks

    Have you thought about how the 8th amendment affects maternity care for women who are keeping their babies (ie. scans, labour etc) and how it affects their ability to consent?


  • Registered Users Posts: 16,011 ✭✭✭✭Loafing Oaf


    I feel I lie somewhere in the middle of the spectrum & in certain cases abortion is allowed but absolutely not unrestricted..... so I suppose I’m pro life. Does this mean I vote not to repeal the 8th as it’s up to twelve weeks unrestricted...... I find it all confusing. Help!! Thanks ��

    Every indication is that the referendum will be on straight repeal of the 8th amendment from the constitution and that well in advance of the referendum the government will outline the legislation with which it proposes to replace the amendment. It also seems highly likely that this legislation will be along the lines recommended by the committee, i.e. legalising abortion on demand/ request up till the 12th week of pregnancy. I guess it will be a personal judgement for you which takes precedence, your desire to permit abortion in 'exceptional circumstances' or your opposition to 'unrestricted' abortion...


  • Registered Users Posts: 98 ✭✭threescompany


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Would you be more comfortable forcing them to carry a pregnancy they don't want?

    Honestly ..... and I’m not being sarcastic. I don’t know. I don’t think I’d be comfortable with forcing them to carry out a pregnancy but it also just didn’t sit well with me when these friends had the abortions . I felt it was irresponsible of them especially when taking contraception is so easy ( and double up on contraception if you really don’t want to get pregnant !) I absolutely acknowledge there’s been valid points made here - is it fair on the child to be born to parents who aren’t ready and don’t want the baby. This is a difficult one.


  • Registered Users Posts: 98 ✭✭threescompany


    Every indication is that the referendum will be on straight repeal of the 8th amendment from the constitution and that well in advance of the referendum the government will outline the legislation with which it proposes to replace the amendment. It also seems highly likely that this legislation will be along the lines recommended by the committee, i.e. legalising abortion on demand/ request up till the 12th week of pregnancy. I guess it will be a personal judgement for you which takes precedence, your desire to permit abortion in 'exceptional circumstances' or your opposition to 'unrestricted' abortion...
    Thank you for your reply.... i suppose I have more thinking to do!


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  • Registered Users Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Honestly ..... and I’m not being sarcastic. I don’t know. I don’t think I’d be comfortable with forcing them to carry out a pregnancy but it also just didn’t sit well with me when these friends had the abortions . I felt it was irresponsible of them especially when taking contraception is so easy ( and double up on contraception if you really don’t want to get pregnant !) I absolutely acknowledge there’s been valid points made here - is it fair on the child to be born to parents who aren’t ready and don’t want the baby. This is a difficult one.

    I appreciate it's a difficult call for some people but if you don't agree with allowing people to access abortion you are effectively forcing them to continue with a pregnancy they don't want. I look at the people I love and I know I wouldn't want that for them so I can't expect it for other women.


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