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London receptionist sent home without pay for refusing to wear heels

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,707 ✭✭✭whatismyname


    Still don't understand the generalisations that flats are always cheap with no support.

    Just like some heels are cheap with no support, many heels will be very much the opposite.

    I've seen the same to be very true of flats. Flats come in all kinds of prices, and many are great quality with fantastic support.

    Not sure if it's mostly people generalising based on their own experiences or if they're maybe just equating 'flats' with a certain type of shoe or what, but ah well, people shall do as people shall do.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    I'm generalising with my own experience, sorry.
    If I have to buy flats, I wouldn't spend anymore than 20 euro on them because to me, they're disposable. Wear them for a month, need a new pair. You can get more expensive ones which I'm sure would be more comfortable and better quality, I just personally haven't worn them so can't comment.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    gctest50 wrote: »
    No, it'll be in parliament at some stage :

    https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/129823

    then it'll shall be known as Nicola's law and you'll get a little sticker window of yer office,

    then can't have Ireland lagging behind so it'll come in here

    Be great fun listening to the whining


    The deadline for discussion of the petition is 9th of November, and by then it'll be a ten minute discussion. The wording of the petition makes no sense anyway:


    "Make it illegal for a company to require women to wear high heels at work


    It's still legal in the UK for a company to require female members of staff to wear high heels at work against their will. Dress code laws should be changed so that women have the option to wear flat formal shoes at work, if they wish. Current formal work dress codes are out-dated and sexist."


    How can dress codes be current, and out-dated at the same time?

    Might be worth some people's time to read over this:


    "Can my employer legally enforce a dress code?

    An employer can legitimately tell their employees to dress in a certain way at work; indeed, there is nothing to prevent an employer from including an express term in the contract of employment outlining the dress code that employees have to observe.

    Some may do so for health and safety reasons. However, even if there is no explicit reference to clothing in the contract, employees are still under an implied duty to obey their employer’s reasonable instructions regarding expected standards, including clothing and appearance. However, there should be a good reason for imposing a dress code and employers should be consistent in their approach.

    If there is a specific contractual clause relating to a dress code, your employer should have drawn this to your attention and ensured that you are aware that failure to comply with the policy will be a disciplinary matter.

    Does imposing a dress code amount to sex discrimination?

    This depends. Employers can treat men and women differently, as long as they don’t treat one or other of the sexes less favourably. Therefore, a dress code is not required to make provisions that are identical for men and women (e.g. everyone must wear a shirt and tie), but to avoid discrimination a code must provide (in this instance) a common principle of smartness.

    A dress code is also more likely to be enforceable if the employer can show that it is proportionate and necessary, having regard to the functions undertaken by the employee. For example, if the employee in question is coming into contact with the public and acting as an ambassador for the company then restrictions on his appearance and level of smartness may be justified.

    Does imposing a dress code amount to religious discrimination?

    A code impacting less favourably on a particular religious group is likely to amount to indirect discrimination and the employer will be required to justify it. So, for example, a dress code requiring all women to wear skirts or dresses might impact unfavourably on Muslim women who want to wear trousers. It is advisable for employers not to refuse items of dress that are dictated by race, religion or ethnic origin.

    Gender reassignment

    Should an employee have embarked on a course of action that will lead to gender reassignment surgery, it would be unlawful to prevent them from dressing according to their new gender.

    Health and safety requirements

    It is likely that employers will be able to provide reasonable justification for imposing a dress code on the basis that it is necessary for health and safety, such as hard hats on a building site. Although it is important to note that the Race Relations Act 1976 and the Religion and Belief Regulations 2003 exempt Sikhs who wear turbans on a construction site from having to wear a safety helmet.

    Can employees rely on the Human Rights Act 1998?

    Employers must consider their employees’ right to privacy, freedom of religion and freedom of expression under the Human Rights Act 1998. The right to freedom of expression may include the right of an individual to express themselves by means of the way they dress. Employers may be able to argue that they have to protect their reputation, however, they will need to justify any restrictions they impose. Therefore, when an employer has no health and safety or contact with the public justification, they may wish to consider whether a dress code is really necessary."


    Source: http://findlaw.co.uk/law/employment/pay_and_work_rights/can-my-employer-legally-enforce-a-dress-code.html


    I can't see anything there that supports her claims about any laws being sexist either tbh as the laws apply equally to both men and women.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭gctest50


    The deadline for discussion of the petition is 9th of November, and by then it'll be a ten minute discussion. The wording of the petition makes no sense anyway:

    It's ok, Nicola's law will change all that


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    gctest50 wrote: »
    It's ok, Nicola's law will change all that


    By then Nicola won't be too bothered as she'll have landed herself a job as the office mascot with Buzzfeed, Upworthy or one of those awful UK rags targeted at women who like complain about the unfairness of it all... :rolleyes:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,222 ✭✭✭✭PopePalpatine


    By then Nicola won't be too bothered as she'll have landed herself a job as the office mascot with Buzzfeed, Upworthy or one of those awful UK rags targeted at women who like complain about the unfairness of it all... :rolleyes:

    Wow, did she crap in your trilby?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    Wow, did she crap in your trilby?


    Not at all PP, having thought about it, I realised this is just another silly self-promoter who took a legitimate issue for women, and turned it into a complete farce for her own ends. Somewhat similar to the woman who recently tried to get the idea of "me-ternity leave" for women with no children taken seriously. It's difficult at the best of times to know are they just trolling, or are they actually genuine, because if they were genuine, there are legitimate ways to promote their causes that would have people actually take them seriously and really could make a difference for women's welfare.

    I'd say the same if this were a man btw who had done exactly the same thing, that is -

    Signing an employment contract that contained a specific dress code.

    Reneging on that contract to make a point.

    Engaging in a publicity campaign to promote themselves and smear their employer and an unrelated company instead of engaging with their employer and the other company to achieve a satisfactory resolution as would be expected of any competent professional.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 662 ✭✭✭Maireadio


    That's great but I wouldn't be so confident you will be saying that in the future, just like I have no doubt my heels will probably give me varicose veins or bunions in the future.

    You're right of course, but flats potentially causing problems is no reason to not see a problem with having to wear heels every day. The ideal shoe has support and a tiny heel, so you're closer to it wearing flats than wearing heels.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,000 ✭✭✭Get Real


    The deadline for discussion of the petition is 9th of November, and by then it'll be a ten minute discussion. The wording of the petition makes no sense anyway:



    Does imposing a dress code amount to sex discrimination?

    This depends. Employers can treat men and women differently, as long as they don’t treat one or other of the sexes less favourably. Therefore, a dress code is not required to make provisions that are identical for men and women (e.g. everyone must wear a shirt and tie), but to avoid discrimination a code must provide (in this instance) a common principle of smartness.

    A dress code is also more likely to be enforceable if the employer can show that it is proportionate and necessary, having regard to the functions undertaken by the employee. For example, if the employee in question is coming into contact with the public and acting as an ambassador for the company then restrictions on his appearance and level of smartness may be justified.


    Source: http://findlaw.co.uk/law/employment/pay_and_work_rights/can-my-employer-legally-enforce-a-dress-code.html


    I can't see anything there that supports her claims about any laws being sexist either tbh as the laws apply equally to both men and women.

    Not trying to stir here, but purely from a legal standpoint, not sure she has much.

    I mean whether you think its unfair or not is a different matter. But its in the law there. Many companies ask men to shave, that would come under this.

    She's also an aspiring actress, and her claim no doubt is legitimate, but I'm always weary of these viral stories. She hardly minds the fact that its increased her profile a bit I assume?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,863 ✭✭✭seachto7


    I'm generalising with my own experience, sorry.
    If I have to buy flats, I wouldn't spend anymore than 20 euro on them because to me, they're disposable. Wear them for a month, need a new pair. You can get more expensive ones which I'm sure would be more comfortable and better quality, I just personally haven't worn them so can't comment.

    Wow. 20€. Imagine what they're paying the people per hour to make them !


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,305 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    gctest50 wrote: »
    No, it'll be in parliament at some stage :

    https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/129823

    then it'll shall be known as Nicola's law and you'll get a little sticker window of yer office,

    then can't have Ireland lagging behind so it'll come in here

    Be great fun listening to the whining

    Barring a couple of notable exceptions like Hillsborough these petitions go nowhere.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    By then Nicola won't be too bothered as she'll have landed herself a job as the office mascot with Buzzfeed, Upworthy or one of those awful UK rags targeted at women who like complain about the unfairness of it all... :rolleyes:

    And the mask is off.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,576 ✭✭✭Keane2baMused


    Can be.

    Not having a beard can be painful?

    Emotionally or physically? :p


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Not having a beard can be painful?

    Emotionally or physically? :p

    I suppose some people with sensitive skin could find shaving irritating to the face. That could be uncomfortable.

    High heels can permanently shorten your tendons, cause hammer toes, give you bunions, throw off your centre of gravity and cause back pain, can give you arthritis, knee, hip and ankle issues and much of that stuff is irreversible.

    Totally comparable though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    Candie wrote: »
    And the mask is off.


    Ahh what mask, seriously?

    I've never had any time for this sort of nonsense and you've always known that, regardless of whether it was a man or a woman.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,426 ✭✭✭✭gormdubhgorm


    Candie wrote: »
    And the mask is off.

    But the gas thing is he is probably right!
    In fairness to the girl in question it is ingenious self marketing.
    1) Find a vague difference/potential conflict
    2) Scream injustice and victimisation!!!
    3) Make the world take notice-petition !!!
    4) Career prospect's as an asprining out of work actress have improved due to notoriety.

    Any "celebrity" would be proud of the method and application.

    Note* to temp companies beware of out of work "aspiring actresses/actors".

    Guff about stuff, and stuff about guff.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,305 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    She's no Rosa Parks, but it is an issue worth highlighting. Those 3 pages of requirements from the agency are a joke, corporate dictatorship.

    If it was in another area some would be shouting Health & Safety gone mad.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    But the gas thing is he is probably right!
    In fairness to the girl in question it is ingenious self marketing.
    1) Find a vague difference/potential conflict
    2) Scream injustice and victimisation!!!
    3) Make the world take notice-petition !!!
    4) Career prospect's as an asprining out of work actress have improved due to notoriety.

    Any "celebrity" would be proud of the method and application.

    Note* to temp companies beware of out of work "aspiring actresses/actors".


    Maybe she could use her new found influence on social media to highlight the plight of women in countries where they wear flip-flops as standard footwear. I might be inclined to take her more seriously if I thought she actually cared about anyone but herself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,426 ✭✭✭✭gormdubhgorm


    K-9 wrote: »
    She's no Rosa Parks, but it is an issue worth highlighting. Those 3 pages of requirements from the agency are a joke, corporate dictatorship.

    If it was in another area some would be shouting Health & Safety gone mad.

    I am not sure it is an issue worth highlighting!
    It is as if femininism in the cushy "first world" is scraping the barrel.

    Guff about stuff, and stuff about guff.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,305 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    I am not sure it is an issue worth highlighting!
    It is as if femininism in the cushy "first world" is scraping the barrel.

    Stupidity and corporate nanny statism is always worth fighting.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



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  • Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 23,257 Mod ✭✭✭✭GLaDOS


    What if it was a publicity stunt and we improve women's working conditions for nothing?

    Cake, and grief counseling, will be available at the conclusion of the test



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,184 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    Not having a beard can be painful?

    Emotionally or physically? :p

    No but shaving can be for some men, myself included.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,426 ✭✭✭✭gormdubhgorm


    K-9 wrote: »
    Stupidity and corporate nanny statism is always worth fighting.

    Especially if it gets the person noticed!
    The bit that gets me why did she sign the contract if she did not agree with it?

    Guff about stuff, and stuff about guff.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 670 ✭✭✭GekkePrutser


    Candie wrote: »
    I suppose some people with sensitive skin could find shaving irritating to the face. That could be uncomfortable.

    It's way more than uncomfortable. I have very sensitive skin and when I shave I don't get much sleep for several days because my skin is so sore. Doesn't matter whether I use a shaver or wet. It cuts very easily too so wet shaving isn't an option really.

    Personally I blame my Philips shaver I used when I was young. It pulled the hairs up to get a smooth shave but I think it brought this on. Even when I just trim my beard it hurts for days. I only do that once a month when it really gets too much.

    In the office I just wear T-shirts and chinos anyway but when I travel for work (which is often) I just wear a short sleeve shirt with the top buttons open (so I can lay the collar flat) and no tie. Never got any comments about it, if they'd make me wear a suit & tie I'd just quit (or rather refuse and let them fire me). I couldn't stand being packed up so tight and it would really hurt my neck. I normally wear T-shirts even in winter so when I wear too much I get really sweaty.

    I really hate this focus on dressing up, it adds nothing. For women who don't like high heels I'm sure they can just file a complaint with the Health & Safety Authority as it's clearly a health & safety risk with all the negative effects on their posture etc. I'm surprised airlines get away with requiring them, they're clearly a trip hazard with turbulence, and can pierce the evac ramps.

    I'm all in favour of abolishing dress codes by the way. Especially for employees who don't deal with the public.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,426 ✭✭✭✭gormdubhgorm


    What if it was a publicity stunt and we improve women's working conditions for nothing?
    I don't get how it improves women's working conditions it is the companies dress code no matter how ridiculous and she signed it!

    Next there will be a campaign to abolsh all dress codes and Mick Wallace will be the poster boy :)

    Guff about stuff, and stuff about guff.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    K-9 wrote: »
    Stupidity and corporate nanny statism is always worth fighting.


    Fighting corporate nanny statism with State nanny statism? That's exactly what's happening here, and the eventual losers wouldn't be employers at all, the eventual losers would be women.

    I don't view all women the same way as this one particular woman though, which is why I know that the vast, vast majority of women in employment are able to conduct themselves in a professional manner and are exceptionally competent and capable in spite of whether they have to wear heels, flats, or their footwear is irrelevant to the dress code required of them in their work.

    Men in slim-fitting (ill-fitting) suits, skinny ties, brogues and ironic beards however... :(

    I wouldn't consider it an issue important enough to start a public petition about it though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,387 ✭✭✭✭rubadub


    ceadaoin. wrote: »
    Are ties painful to wear and do they have the potential to cause permanent damage?

    I refuse to wear ties because of the danger around machinery, I know several other guys who have too.

    People with long hair would have a similar risk, but usually its only men who are forced to have short hair in the workplace, probably rarer these days.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 670 ✭✭✭GekkePrutser


    rubadub wrote: »
    I refuse to wear ties because of the danger around machinery, I know several other guys who have to.

    Those other guys have serious grounds for a case with the HSA if they have to work around machinery. They should talk to their local H&S rep who can raise hell if their manager won't listen.

    Ties around machinery are definitely breaking H&S laws.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,305 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    Jaysus, don't bring Mick into it.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,184 ✭✭✭riclad


    I expect companys to have a dress code ,simply have a rule anyone must wear shoes ,that
    look clean,neat ,safe. formal type.
    eg no weird designs or colours.
    i can see no reason for a woman to have to wear heels unless she is a model,
    or a stripper ,where the point is to look sexy.
    IS there really people going to a bank or shop,just
    because the staff wear high heels .
    Things change ,
    this rule is outmoded,from the 19th century
    its like at one time irish women who married had to leave their job.
    Think if you had to wear something at work that causes pain 5 days a week ,
    that causes medical problems ,just to look a certain way for men,
    this is a serious issue .


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