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'Daddy Issues' - Relationship?

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  • #62
    Asylum15
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 84 ✭✭Asylum15


    HiGlo wrote: »
    I can only assume there was more content to the e:mail than that, but it seems to me like she's still trying to "play" with you. There was no need for her to reveal that to you except to serve the purpose of hurting you. She wasn't drunk, that was a pre-meditated decision to send you an e:mail - in the pretence of being drunk.... I would hazzard a guess that maybe she's angry at you for blocking her so she's getting vindictive and looking for a reaction from you (any kind of reaction) to reignite contact.

    I think it's great that you're getting therapy yourself cause it'll help to get it all out. Hopefully you can stay strong on staying away from this girl. She probably needs help and love and support etc but not from you. She's in no place for a relationship at the moment.

    I wish you all the best and hope you successfully walk away. :)

    Therapy has helped tremendously, and I've completely had no contact for a long time now. However, one of her friends Facebooked me last night, asking me questions about stuff she had said about her etc. (Her own friends said she's a lier and manipulative). In the midst of talking, I get told she lied about another huge thing (making it even easier for me to forget this idiot), she told me she was a virgin when we met, and I took her virginity. Turns out, she had sex at a music festival with a married man, then had sex with 2 guys in an HOUR at the same festival, a year later, before we met.

    Never been happier to move on!


  • #63
    Dial Hard
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,733 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    Asylum15 wrote:
    Therapy has helped tremendously, and I've completely had no contact for a long time now. However, one of her friends Facebooked me last night, asking me questions about stuff she had said about her etc. (Her own friends said she's a lier and manipulative). In the midst of talking, I get told she lied about another huge thing (making it even easier for me to forget this idiot), she told me she was a virgin when we met, and I took her virginity. Turns out, she had sex at a music festival with a married man, then had sex with 2 guys in an HOUR at the same festival, a year later, before we met.

    Never been happier to move on!


    No offence, OP, but it doesn't sound like you've moved on at all. You say you've "completely had no contact for a long time now" but it's only been a week since she was drunkenly emailing you.

    And now you're obsessing about her sexual history.

    Pretty much everything I said in my last post has come to pass. You are gleefully torturing yourself with this woman's behaviour and I suspect rather enjoying the drama.

    I'm out.


  • #64
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Stop talking to her friends about her. They're not much friends if they're happily bitching about her behind her back. You know she lies. She has told you herself. You don't need others confirming that for you. And her sexual past is none of your business now, it wasn't really any of your business to begin with. Don't be too quick to take 2nd hand information as gospel either. She lies. She lied to you. That's all you need to know.

    I think you mentioned that this was your first relationship, so you don't really have the benefit of the experience of some of the posters advising you... But you need to admit you got burned. Lick your wounds (away from her and her 'friends') and move on a bit wiser. Not all relationships are like this one. The next one can only be better.... If you learn from the mistakes of this one!


  • #65
    Merkin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,230 ✭✭✭Merkin


    I feel this thread has run its course. Sometimes the best way to move on is by doing just that. I feel this thread is only going to compound matters by going over the same subject ad nauseum. Hopefully you'll benefit from some of the advice offered. Best of luck.


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