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Why do most men cut their hair short and most women grow it long?

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,889 ✭✭✭✭The Moldy Gowl




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 142 ✭✭BlondeMoment


    Khal Drogo has long hair and hes the manliest man I know.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,453 ✭✭✭Shenshen


    I can't honestly answer that one - I've always preferred men with long hair and women with short haircuts.

    But then, I'm weird.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,112 ✭✭✭Blowfish


    I had long hair for a while, but then I realised I'm far too lazy for the extra effort in keeping it clean and tidy etc. so I ditched it.

    Clothes wise, Ireland is too cold most of the year for skirts/dresses so I don't think I'd ever bother with one.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,398 ✭✭✭whatdoicare


    My husband had long hair for a while, he really wasn't able to make it work, he looked freaking ridiculous...plus he was walking around with bits of food and building site in his hair. It was pretty nasty.

    I was so happy the day he walked out of the bathroom with his head clean shaven.
    Not so happy when I walked into the bathroom and had to clean up all his hair out of the shower :mad:

    Now he's growing a fuppin' beard... He looks like Hagrid and he's giving me beard rash. In protest I'm refusing to shave my legs. :D My toddler loves his beard, she's been clipping slides and plaiting it all week haha.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 676 ✭✭✭turnikett1


    Beards are to men are what hair is to women. Well, that's certainly how I feel since growing one. Can't stop grooming and playing with it... even bought beard oil :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,194 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    I have a number 2 haircut because I'm going bald, even before that I liked my hair reasonably short.

    Never clean shaven though I always have a few days stubble.

    As fo what people were saying about why women look good in skirts and heels and men don't, probably because most men are attracted to women.

    Also most of us are way heavier than woman and would break our necks in heels!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,231 ✭✭✭Jim Bob Scratcher


    Long hair looks a lot better than a shaved head imo. Shaved head looks a bit knackerish imo, unless you're going bald...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,455 ✭✭✭maudgonner


    Long hair looks a lot better than a shaved head imo. Shaved head looks a bit knackerish imo, unless you're going bald...

    I'd respectfully disagree with that. I reckon shaved heads on guys look great, I'd far prefer it to long hair.

    Especially nice when it grows back to just beyond the stubble stage and gets lovely and soft and strokable, like a kitten's fur. :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 870 ✭✭✭scopper


    People end up subscribing to the norms because after say the cool transgressive late teens/early twenties there is no time left to alter cultural norms. We outsource that to artists and rock stars.

    If you imagine you are blowing people's minds with this stuff please know everyone who sees you goes, 'ah, poor lad, don't say anything, he has no idea how stupid he looks.'


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 176 ✭✭Aurum


    I've always found the double-standard when it comes to clothing a bit strange. If a woman wears trousers/jeans it's totally unremarkable and they can still be viewed as conventionally attractive, but if a man wears a skirt it's a complete subversion of his masculinity. Sort of reminds me of Eddie Izzard's response to people who ask why he wears women's clothes, “They’re not women’s clothes. They’re my clothes. I bought them.”


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,231 ✭✭✭Jim Bob Scratcher


    maudgonner wrote: »
    I'd respectfully disagree with that. I reckon shaved heads on guys look great, I'd far prefer it to long hair.

    Especially nice when it grows back to just beyond the stubble stage and gets lovely and soft and strokable, like a kitten's fur. :)

    I think ye women don't like men with long hair because you're afraid it might look better than yer own :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,455 ✭✭✭maudgonner


    I think ye women don't like men with long hair because you're afraid it might look better than yer own :p

    Yup, and that's 99% of the reason we don't all turn lesbian as well, too much hair competition :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    When I inexplicably become empress of the planet, I will be issuing short hair licences to very few, regardless of gender.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,443 ✭✭✭✭endacl


    valoren wrote: »
    I don't have a choice in the matter.

    Being bald.

    :)

    Yeah? Long bald, or short bald?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,042 ✭✭✭Day Lewin


    Johnny Depp with long hair. Sexiest thing. Rest my case.

    Also, kilts. Enuff said. I bet you can't find me one woman who doesn't like them!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,717 ✭✭✭johnayo


    I like to keep mine trimmed and neat whilst the wife have shaved all hers off.
    Ohhhhhh.......................just realised you were talking about head hair. Sorry bout that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,469 ✭✭✭Olishi4


    My OH had long hair for a while. He shaves it now...well I shave it for him. He tends to ask me just as I am about to do something else. I like both long, short or shaved hair on him. All suit him really.

    A lot of men I know have, at some stage, let their hair grow for a while. Some it suited and some it didn't.

    Speaking of that bun thing, one male hairstyle that is out of fashion now but i never really liked, was that curtain hairstyle with loads of gel in it and the hair kept getting in their eyes but thats just my opinion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,116 ✭✭✭RDM_83 again


    You can wear whatever you want OP, but please don't feel the need to bang on about it.

    Those that talk about breaking gender norms are those most concerned with them.

    Currently have a woman chainsawing the sh-t out of stuff in work in all that PPE. Is she breaking cultural taboos and being gender fluid or just being a professional doing her job? I'd go with the latter


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,150 ✭✭✭✭Malari


    katemarch wrote: »
    Johnny Depp with long hair. Sexiest thing. Rest my case.

    Also, kilts. Enuff said. I bet you can't find me one woman who doesn't like them!!!

    Yeah, I do not like kilts on men. At all. Or long hair. Facial hair, fine. :pac:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,499 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    I want hair like Donald Trump's son. The rich boy look.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 24,102 ✭✭✭✭Akrasia


    mansize wrote: »
    whats the deal with airline food?

    The food itself is fine, it's your own taste buds that are all screwed up because of the cabin pressure, dry air and constant low frequency background noise.

    http://www.bbc.com/future/story/20150112-why-in-flight-food-tastes-weird

    Ban billionaires



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,527 ✭✭✭✭Darkglasses


    Boring answer: hair-length's gender associations are highly culturally sensitive. For example the Romans thought having long hair was the sign of a barbarian while the Gaelic inhabitants of Ireland associated short hair with being a slave. During the English Civil War it was a mark of which side you were fighting on. In the West the fashion for short hair on men really began with WW1 when lice and fleas in the trenches meant having beards and long hair wasn't a great idea.

    Real answer: does any really give a **** any more?

    I think that's pretty interesting yeah!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,752 ✭✭✭Lights On


    Have had long hair for about 2 years now, had it medium length when I was younger but started going short for a few years until I let it grow out again. Down to my shoulders now and the temptation to shave it all off comes from time to time but my success rate with women is higher with the long hair so it's staying :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,499 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    The worst thing is trying to grow thick hair out. In college I went about 18 months without having any length taken off mine, just thinned and styled. You get to a point about 5 months in where you get this massive thick mop, it's a nightmare to deal with.

    Once the sides catch up with the rest and it falls over it looks cool.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    I'd say women will probably always prefer long hair (on themselves) because they can do more with it. Hair styling is how women battle each other for social status.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,009 ✭✭✭vangoz


    I had a shaved head for years, but now have long hair and I think it suits me way better. Although its a pain to take care of, particularly when I'm rushing in the morning for work. Also the Jon Snow comments are getting tiring at this point :pac:


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    The worst thing is trying to grow thick hair out. In college I went about 18 months without having any length taken off mine, just thinned and styled. You get to a point about 5 months in where you get this massive thick mop, it's a nightmare to deal with.

    Once the sides catch up with the rest and it falls over it looks cool.
    I had this problem too, I used to get ****ers making smart comments about it on nights out as well, it was worth it in the end though


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,762 ✭✭✭✭nacho libre


    I have been thinking about shaving mine all off recently, but i know i would miss it too much. I have had it long for 20 years.
    If I start going bald, i suppose I'll have to get rid of it.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    I have an ugly shaped head, so I keep my hair long because with short hair I look like miss piggy


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