fo u trust your wife too much

well spoken man · 12-03-2016 05:43PM #1

Just sitting here thinking I have it all.....beautiful wife.. great kids...good job.....but what if its not what it seems????
Somebody has to be"the guy" who never knew his wife was sleeping with the local yob.....
My question is this...do u trust your wife too much????

Zaph · 12-03-2016 05:46PM

Does your wife trust you too much? You could just as easily be "the guy" who's cheating on his wife with the local slut.

well spoken man · 12-03-2016 05:47PM

Zaph wrote: »

Does your wife trust you too much? You could just as easily be "the guy" who's cheating on his wife with the local slut.

Nahhh not me.....

soccercrew · 12-03-2016 05:53PM

well spoken man wrote: »

Just sitting here thinking I have it all.....beautiful wife.. great kids...good job.....but what if its not what it seems????
Somebody has to be"the guy" who never knew his wife was sleeping with the local yob.....
My question is this...do u trust your wife too much????

I know someone who was in that position and turned out she was getting hammered every few days by the husbands brother and to make matters worse for the poor aul fcuker, turned out one of his close mates had a dig at her a few times over the years when they bumped into each other on nights out. The fella didn't have a clue until someone caught the brother kissing her one day and all unraveled after that. He had the perect live, nice job, nice house 3 kids and good looking wife. Now they are divorced, she's living in the house with the kids and new boyfriend while he's in a one bed apartment paying for it all!

well spoken man · 12-03-2016 05:55PM

soccercrew wrote: »

I know someone who was in that position and turned out she was getting hammered every few days by the husbands brother and to make matters worse for the poor aul fcuker, turned out one of his close mates had a dig at her a few times over the years when they bumped into each other on nights out. The fella didn't have a clue until someone caught the brother kissing her one day and all unraveled after that. He had the perect live, nice job, nice house 3 kids and good looking wife. Now they are divorced, she's living in the house with the kids and new boyfriend while he's in a one bed apartment paying for it all!

Thanks for cheering me up...

KERSPLAT! · 12-03-2016 05:58PM

soccercrew wrote: »

I know someone who was in that position and turned out she was getting hammered every few days by the husbands brother and to make matters worse for the poor aul fcuker, turned out one of his close mates had a dig at her a few times over the years when they bumped into each other on nights out. The fella didn't have a clue until someone caught the brother kissing her one day and all unraveled after that. He had the perect live, nice job, nice house 3 kids and good looking wife. Now they are divorced, she's living in the house with the kids and new boyfriend while he's in a one bed apartment paying for it all!

Ryan Giggs!? :eek:

keith16 · 12-03-2016 05:59PM

Zaph wrote: »

Does your wife trust you too much? You could just as easily be "the guy" who's cheating on his wife with the local slut.

Every town has a slut and an idiot. Frequently, they are the same person.

Earthhorse · 12-03-2016 06:03PM

When I said "I fo" I meant it.

12-03-2016 06:04PM

I trust my wife more than I'd trust myself tbh.

Alf Stewart. · 12-03-2016 06:05PM

Earthhorse wrote: »

When I said "I fo" I meant it.

Sure thing mofo.

bear1 · 12-03-2016 06:08PM

soccercrew wrote: »

I know someone who was in that position and turned out she was getting hammered every few days by the husbands brother and to make matters worse for the poor aul fcuker, turned out one of his close mates had a dig at her a few times over the years when they bumped into each other on nights out. The fella didn't have a clue until someone caught the brother kissing her one day and all unraveled after that. He had the perect live, nice job, nice house 3 kids and good looking wife. Now they are divorced, she's living in the house with the kids and new boyfriend while he's in a one bed apartment paying for it all!

Wait, if she is the one who caused the marriage to fail and it has been proven she was unfaithful then why is he paying for everything? Genuinely curious

stoplooklisten · 12-03-2016 06:11PM

who is fo u and why does he trust my wife?

Fo u, Fo u if your fo uing my wife!

Smidge · 12-03-2016 06:13PM

well spoken man wrote: »

Thanks for cheering me up...

Wouldn't worry about that. As many husbands cheating as there are wives.
Has she given you cause to worry?
If not, the my advice is....don't.
It could build into something irrational and you could start getting possessive and psycho. THEN, she might think about it.
Self fulfilling prophecy, if you will

:)

12-03-2016 06:15PM

bear1 wrote: »

Wait, if she is the one who caused the marriage to fail and it has been proven she was unfaithful then why is he paying for everything? Genuinely curious

It does sound a bit...far fetched.

Can think of a few Judges who'd be sceptical about spousal maintenance in a case where a woman committed adultery and then moved the boyfriend into the family home. Can't think of any who'd have the ex "paying for everything".

I wonder is her story the same, or might there be more to it than he's letting on...

Penny Tration · 12-03-2016 06:15PM

If your partner is going to cheat, trusting them won't stop it, and not trusting them won't stop it.

I prefer to just trust my OH, be happy with how things are and if it ever came out that he slept with someone else, well I'll deal with it. just like I'd deal with it if I hadn't trusted him.

Elemonator · 12-03-2016 06:21PM

If you don't trust your wife, your marriage is void. End of story.

bear1 · 12-03-2016 06:21PM

[Deleted User] wrote: »

It does sound a bit...far fetched.

Can think of a few Judges who'd be sceptical about spousal maintenance in a case where a woman committed adultery and then moved the boyfriend into the family home. Can't think of any who'd have the ex "paying for everything".

I wonder is her story the same, or might there be more to it than he's letting on...

Yeah because from the sounds of it he got fcuked on both sides.
I'm thinking the main issue would be the kids which he would have to pay for until they are 18 or until the mother remarried.
But, mortgage payments in not too sure.
Although we men dont get it easy from the system even if we aren't the cause of the failure.

well spoken man · 12-03-2016 06:22PM

Penny Tration wrote: »

If your partner is going to cheat, trusting them won't stop it, and not trusting them won't stop it.

I prefer to just trust my OH, be happy with how things are and if it ever came out that he slept with someone else, well I'll deal with it. just like I'd deal with it if I hadn't trusted him.

Brilliant user name......

Ice Maiden · 12-03-2016 06:50PM

Could be worse, you could find yourself living in a shotgun shack.

MacauDragon · 12-03-2016 07:06PM

Nothing to worry about OP.
If the internet has taught me anything its that women are very conservative and reserved when it comes to sex.

They certainly wouldnt compromise their values for the thrill of a local thug and his van/bus.

Maximus Alexander · 12-03-2016 07:12PM

I trust my OH. If I didn't, I wouldn't be arsed pantomiming a relationship; mutual trust if pretty fundamental.

Ice Maiden · 12-03-2016 07:20PM

MacauDragon wrote: »

Nothing to worry about OP.
If the internet has taught me anything its that women are very conservative and reserved when it comes to sex.

They certainly wouldnt compromise their values for the thrill of a local thug and his van/bus.

Very true about lots of women indeed. Unfortunately not all, but you know yourself: some women and men be sh-t.

One eyed Jack · 12-03-2016 07:31PM

Nah, I don't think it's possible to trust anyone "too" much as if that's something negative, especially if you're in a relationship with them. Thinking about things like that just festers resentment and you'll start to resent the person for something you think they may be capable of, and that'll colour your perception of everything they do after that.

soccercrew · 12-03-2016 08:14PM

bear1 wrote: »

Wait, if she is the one who caused the marriage to fail and it has been proven she was unfaithful then why is he paying for everything? Genuinely curious

I Dont know, go ask the courts and this fella. All I know is the seedy details and what the situation is now!

soccercrew · 12-03-2016 08:18PM

[Deleted User] wrote: »

It does sound a bit...far fetched.

Can think of a few Judges who'd be sceptical about spousal maintenance in a case where a woman committed adultery and then moved the boyfriend into the family home. Can't think of any who'd have the ex "paying for everything".

I wonder is her story the same, or might there be more to it than he's letting on...

The boyfriend has his own address so not officially living there but he's there more than he's not! He pays maintenance for kids, pays towards or most of mortgage a d living in a kip of an apartment himself. Ya know, there's some men out there who'd roll over and take all what's thrown at them. He was devastated after it all and still hasn't recovered from it!

sjb25 · 12-03-2016 08:18PM

I trust my OH as she says herself she has enough of hardship from me let alone another fella

well spoken man · 12-03-2016 08:23PM

sjb25 wrote: »

I trust my OH as she says herself she has enough of hardship from me let alone another fella

Red alert!!!;;

sjb25 · 12-03-2016 08:25PM

well spoken man wrote: »

Red alert!!!;;

cassid · 12-03-2016 08:41PM

Enjoy the good cards you have been dealt in this life, good health, a loving family and a decent wage.

Don't be looking for faults or problems that are not there, enjoy the here and now because you don't know what the futures hold.

12-03-2016 08:52PM

Deleted User wrote: »

I wonder is her story the same, or might there be more to it than he's letting on...

I doubt it very, very, much.

Samaris · 12-03-2016 09:12PM

How on earth is anyone going to answer this question in the affirmative? It's rather like the "One of the guards always lies and one tells the truth, which door is safe" questions.

If one answers "no", then they trust their significant other.

If one answers "yes", then they do not trust their significant other and thus the question is moot anyway, since they obviously don't trust their SO "too much" (or at all).

fo u trust your wife too much

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