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Woman sleeps with man. Man cuts off contact. Woman blames Tinder.

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  • #62
    captbarnacles
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,972 ✭✭✭captbarnacles


    Sorry can't stop laughing. How is this a news story?


  • #63
    Dr.Internet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 465 ✭✭Dr.Internet


    Sounds like he had a lucky escape


    Can't wait for tomorrow's story about how someone ate their dinner...or not


    Now for the weather


  • #64
    Madilynn Millions Rehabilitation
    Posts: 81,308 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Madilynn Millions Rehabilitation


    Yakult wrote: »
    This story is on par with the girl who made her life miserable by using Instagram..

    Complete and utter horse crap.

    Yet, can be front news headlines for some news outlets? Ffs.

    Is that the one who had a hissy fit that her job of modelling on instagram was a job and she had to work HOURS and it's totally a business! And she couldn't cope anymore


  • #65
    The Corinthian
    Closed Accounts Posts: 19,772 ✭✭✭✭The Corinthian


    ancapailldorcha wrote: »
    There was a time when society would require a marriage in order to discern this.
    There was also a time when if a couple were incompatible in bed, society would happily turn a blind eye to you having a mistress on the side and there was no question of divorce over such a necessary 'indulgence'.


  • #66
    Call Me Jimmy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,449 ✭✭✭Call Me Jimmy


    As others in said she was crap in bed (not sure about this if he chased her for 45 days he would have liked anything he got imo) or she went all gaga on him


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  • #67
    nokia69
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,895 ✭✭✭nokia69


    she could have been OK in bed, maybe he just likes to move on to the next Tinder match


  • #68
    titan18
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,080 ✭✭✭✭titan18


    smash wrote: »
    Next up we have another woman in "he invited me over for Netflix and chill but then he wanted to have sex!" Shocker.

    Sh1t, didn't know they knew about that one. No wonder I can't find a Netflix buddy.


  • #69
    AllGunsBlazing
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,730 ✭✭✭AllGunsBlazing


    Fatal Attraction 2: "Love Me Tinder"


  • #70
    LETHAL LADY
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭LETHAL LADY


    nokia69 wrote: »
    she could have been OK in bed, maybe he just likes to move on to the next Tinder match

    Or she could just have had a really, really smelly fanny.:pac:


  • #71
    One eyed Jack
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    Call Me Jimmy wrote: »
    As others in said she was crap in bed (not sure about this if he chased her for 45 days he would have liked anything he got imo) or she went all gaga on him


    I'm not sure about this. It's entirely plausible that this guy just liked "the thrill of the chase", or they both liked having their egos stroked (I expect a "My Side Of The Story" piece will appear if this thing gets legs), and once he got it, moved on. That is absolutely his, or would indeed have been her prerogative. The idea of calling a national radio station will mark her out as someone to avoid, rather than the issue she's attempting to draw attention to.

    I imagine most people are aware of these things when they use hook-up apps already, and I don't believe for a minute this woman is as naive in this regard as she would like to have people believe.

    If it had been herself had done the 'ghosting' (they called that "coyote ugly" back in my day, #oldfart :pac:), there wouldn't have been a peep out of her "wanting to warn others" :rolleyes:


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  • #72
    One eyed Jack
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    LETHAL LADY wrote: »
    Or she could just have had a really, really smelly fanny.:pac:


    There goes me dinner :(


  • #73
    Iwasfrozen
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,250 ✭✭✭✭Iwasfrozen


    mahoganygas wrote: »
    I couldn't believe this got a write up in the paper.

    http://www.independent.ie/life/mum-36-tells-rtes-ryan-tubridy-i-feel-duped-naive-and-gullible-after-being-ghosted-on-tinder-34169960.html

    Basically the woman (36) met up with a guy from tinder. Dated for 3 weeks. Slept together. He did a legger. She goes on the radio and tells Tubs that women need to be careful of sharks on tinder.

    I've sympathy for the woman, but Christ - don't go on national radio because your man isn't interested anymore!

    That'll teach her to sleep with a man before marriage. The hussy.


  • #74
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    Maybe he was married or engaged with kids. You don't know these days with all the cheating going on.


  • #75
    tommyboy2222
    Closed Accounts Posts: 914 ✭✭✭tommyboy2222


    Yakult wrote: »
    This story is on par with the girl who made her life miserable by using Instagram..

    Complete and utter horse crap.

    Yet, can be front news headlines for some news outlets? Ffs.

    These women need Safe Spaces brah


  • #76
    darkpagandeath
    Closed Accounts Posts: 24,461 ✭✭✭✭darkpagandeath


    I'm gonna go out on a limb here, it may have been the whole 40 texts a day.... Just maybe.


  • #77
    ColeTrain
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭ColeTrain


    He put the ground work in and got his reward, what next? Begrudging the common man for doing an honest days work and getting paid for it?
    Sure, SHE didn't like it but someone is always going to get shafted in these scenarios, just don't go running and crying to Uncie Ryan about it, ya'hear.


  • #78
    lazybones32
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,647 ✭✭✭lazybones32


    ColeTrain wrote: »
    Begrudging the common man for doing an honest days work and getting laid for it?
    FYP


  • #79
    nokia69
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,895 ✭✭✭nokia69


    ColeTrain wrote: »
    He put the ground work in and got his reward, what next? Begrudging the common man for doing an honest days work and getting paid for it?
    Sure, SHE didn't like it but someone is always going to get shafted in these scenarios, just don't go running and crying to Uncie Ryan about it, ya'hear.

    I think the problem is she was expecting to get shafted a few more times


  • #80
    lazybones32
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,647 ✭✭✭lazybones32


    Couldn't be bothered reading the article (don't want the indo to get a click from me) but it gives a clear snapshot of the woman in question: she made a poor decision and blames Tinder. Tinder didn't make her open her legs but it's Tinder's fault she can't make a responsible decision?


  • #81
    ColeTrain
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭ColeTrain


    nokia69 wrote: »
    I think the problem is she was expecting to get shafted a few more times

    That man is no doubt working on another project at the minute, some other girl will be getting shafted soon after the 45 day turnaround.


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  • #82
    discus
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,049 ✭✭✭discus


    tommyboy2222 wrote: »
    These women need Safe Spaces brah

    YOU PC BRAH?


  • #83
    tommyboy2222
    Closed Accounts Posts: 914 ✭✭✭tommyboy2222


    discus wrote: »
    YOU PC BRAH?

    I'M PC BRO!! I'LL THROW DOWN !!!


  • #84
    Fleawuss
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,681 ✭✭✭Fleawuss


    An outrage.

    A man pretends to have different intentions to those he actually does. People are shocked or amused that she complains about being fooled.

    I wonder are there any situations a bit similar in the news. Might look around boards and see.


  • #85
    meeeeh
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,612 ✭✭✭✭meeeeh


    She is an idiot but am I the only person who doesn't value cowardly behaviour and lack of common courtesy. Or is this a badge of honour now, treat others like **** and be applauded on internet.

    And no I have no problem with one night stands.


  • #86
    Fat Christy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,866 ✭✭✭Fat Christy


    smash wrote: »
    Next up we have another woman in "he invited me over for Netflix and chill but then he wanted to have sex!" Shocker.

    He didn't even having a friggin' telly!!!:mad:


    I thought we were watching Narcos.


  • #87
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    I think the comments about her being bad in bed and smelling are pretty distasteful actually. She's a human being not a sex toy. However the whole thing is a farce and non news worthy.


  • #88
    One eyed Jack
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    meeeeh wrote: »
    She is an idiot but am I the only person who doesn't value cowardly behaviour and lack of common courtesy. Or is this a badge of honour now, treat others like **** and be applauded on internet.

    And no I have no problem with one night stands.


    Of course not -

    One eyed Jack wrote: »
    I imagine that's exactly what this woman is hoping for, or was hoping for at least, by giving an interview in the national media and giving her name - trial by social media for the other clown.


    I don't think private citizens are under any obligation to justify themselves to the media for their behaviour just because one of them has decided to open themselves up to public scrutiny.


  • #89
    meeeeh
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,612 ✭✭✭✭meeeeh


    One eyed Jack wrote: »
    Of course not -





    I don't think private citizens are under any obligation to justify themselves to the media for their behaviour just because one of them has decided to open themselves up to public scrutiny.

    But they should be applauded? Besides it's not like his name was mentioned.


  • #90
    KungPao
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,796 ✭✭✭KungPao


    I think 'online dating' is just like that. Tinder, POF whatever...If people are on there they are most likely chatting with a whole host of people and going on dates here and there. It goes with the territory.

    If you haven't made things 'exclusive', then expect it all to be casual.

    Dude's a dick though. At least give her an explanation...or make one up if you have to.


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  • #91
    wendell borton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,335 ✭✭✭wendell borton


    Still a better love story than twilight.:D


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