Woman sleeps with man. Man cuts off contact. Woman blames Tinder.

Dyr · 04-11-2015 03:09PM

"he rode me sideways Joe"

The Humanity

kylith · 04-11-2015 03:18PM

I have the opposite problem; I can't get lads off tinder to feck off. She must have been rubbish.

kingtut · 04-11-2015 03:19PM

They slept together after only 3 weeks? Holy sh1t! :eek:

Captain Chaos · 04-11-2015 03:19PM

kylith wrote: »

I have the opposite problem; I can't get lads off tinder to feck off.

Sellers market.

darkpagandeath · 04-11-2015 03:21PM

Wow, People using dating just to get sex. What a shocker... Why do I get a feeling this generation has the naivety of a 5 year old and then wants to blame everyone else for their own poor judgement

Larbre34 · 04-11-2015 03:26PM

Man utilises tools at his disposal to get casual sex by deception. Stop the presses. Only been going on for 12,000 years.....

I must admit I do love the phrase 'drop the mic', I'm having that.

irishgirl19 · 04-11-2015 03:33PM

Imagine the guy heard the interview. Cringe...

mahoganygas · 04-11-2015 03:38PM

eternal wrote:

Next we'll be hearing guys on forums are trying to pick up chicks for sex. Who knew.

sup

One eyed Jack · 04-11-2015 03:40PM

irishgirl19 wrote: »

Imagine the guy heard the interview. Cringe...

I imagine that's exactly what this woman is hoping for, or was hoping for at least, by giving an interview in the national media and giving her name - trial by social media for the other clown.

The Corinthian · 04-11-2015 03:50PM

kylith wrote: »

I have the opposite problem; I can't get lads off tinder to feck off. She must have been rubbish.

You know, this did come to mind.

They chat for a few weeks, meet up and date for a few more, forty messages each day and at the end he sleeps with her only the once... turns out, at the final hurdle, they weren't compatible, after all.

kylith · 04-11-2015 03:59PM

One eyed Jack wrote: »

I imagine that's exactly what this woman is hoping for, or was hoping for at least, by giving an interview in the national media and giving her name - trial by social media for the other clown.

That backfired on her a bit then.

Ally Dick · 04-11-2015 04:22PM

Next we'll be reading that a girl got sh1t faced in Coppers, slept with a red haired hurler called Tadhg, and is now looking for him to contact her urgently, as she has just had a red haired child

One eyed Jack · 04-11-2015 04:24PM

kylith wrote: »

That backfired on her a bit then.

I think a more accurate headline should read -

I feel duped, naive and gullible' after being ghosted on Tinder and I want revenge.

It's not too often I'd say it so blatantly, but I genuinely believe this woman is an idiot, and this can only be a learning experience for her, in a few ways. Whether she actually does learn anything from it, is another matter entirely, but I wouldn't hold my breath tbh.

super_furry · 04-11-2015 04:30PM

Just waiting for the exposé when they find out about nightclubs!

tritium · 04-11-2015 04:39PM

Larbre34 wrote: »

Man utilises tools at his disposal to get casual sex by deception. Stop the presses. Only been going on for 12,000 years.....

I must admit I do love the phrase 'drop the mic', I'm having that.

Not sure I'd even call it deception, bit of a dick move alright but that's about it. Its not as if he has to pledge his soul to her in return for taking her virtue.

Two adults have consensual sex, one has no further interest,no big deal.....

Senior Spielbergo · 04-11-2015 04:41PM

Youd think she would have told at least one person about this new chap she was seeing, and the following demise.
Youd also think that they would have advised her not to go on the fncking radio about it!

Seems a bit dramatic to me. He probably dodged a bullet.

jobbridge4life · 04-11-2015 04:43PM

People are just so embarrassing.

Christy42 · 04-11-2015 04:53PM

Surely he has the right to remove consent to going out with her without being seen as a villian. Isn't that part of no means no? Sure telling he saw a future for them if he had already decided to bail after sex would be dickish (I have no idea if he said that, I am not rewarding them with clicks) but that is the lying more so that anything else.

Zillah · 04-11-2015 04:58PM

There's no harm having a conversation at this level about dating apps and how it has affected how people get together etc.

What is drawing all of the ridicule is that the article and headline are phrased as if this specific event in question is breaking news of national importance.

The Corinthian · 04-11-2015 04:59PM

tritium wrote: »

Not sure I'd even call it deception, bit of a dick move alright but that's about it.

Well, he could have told her why he didn't want to continue, but I get the feeling that "we're sexually incompatible" or "you're a bit too intense" wouldn't have made things any easier for her.

Of course, he could have been looking for a one-night-stand, but to me it makes no sense that anyone, male or female, would pursue someone for a solid 45 days for that.

Stranger Danger · 04-11-2015 04:59PM

Christy42 wrote: »

Surely he has the right to remove consent to going out with her without being seen as a villian.

No, unfortunately not.

Men must have 'intentions' and these are to remain constant throughout. Any change in a man's intentions mean he is, by definition, a 'bastard'.

Women on the other hand are allowed 'feelings'. These can change on an almost daily basis without any repercussions - for the woman at least.

gandalf · 04-11-2015 05:08PM

I think Motörhead said it best. The chase is better than the catch

Agent Smith · 04-11-2015 05:08PM

Larbre34 wrote: »

Man utilises tools at his disposal to get casual sex by deception. Stop the presses. Only been going on for 12,000 years.....

I must admit I do love the phrase 'drop the mic', I'm having that.

*boom*

super_furry · 04-11-2015 05:08PM

Zillah wrote: »

There's no harm having a conversation at this level about dating apps and how it has affected how people get together etc.

What is drawing all of the ridicule is that the article and headline are phrased as if this specific event in question is breaking news of national importance.

Absolutely. As a wider piece about online and offline dating and how people interact with each and can see people as disposable that story could play a part in exploring a wider issue. But as it stands it's a narrow story from a women who slept with a guy which is being presented as a news story.

The fact that she felt the need to go on the national airwaves and tell everyone about it as some kind of 'warning' speaks all kinds of things to her naivete.

Whitewinged · 04-11-2015 05:42PM

super_furry wrote: »

Absolutely. As a wider piece about online and offline dating and how people interact with each and can see people as disposable that story could play a part in exploring a wider issue. But as it stands it's a narrow story from a women who slept with a guy which is being presented as a news story.

The fact that she felt the need to go on the national airwaves and tell everyone about it as some kind of 'warning' speaks all kinds of things to her naivete.

Yea i think the problem is that it is entertained as news. If people are entertaining that as news then why wouldnt she believe that it is news. I wouldnt be too harsh on her. She probably just got swept up in it and people are getting their lines crossed or purposely using stories like that as news worthy rather than something that is more suitable for The Jeremy Kyle Show.

Yakult · 04-11-2015 05:44PM

This story is on par with the girl who made her life miserable by using Instagram..

Complete and utter horse crap.

Yet, can be front news headlines for some news outlets? Ffs.

MiddleOne · 04-11-2015 05:46PM

Slow news day the the Indo.

Mesrine65 · 04-11-2015 06:14PM

tritium wrote: »

Not sure I'd even call it deception, bit of a dick move alright but that's about it. Its not as if he has to pledge his soul to her in return for taking her virtue.

Two adults have consensual sex, one has no further interest,no big deal.....

:pac::pac::pac:

ancapailldorcha · 04-11-2015 06:17PM

The Corinthian wrote: »

You know, this did come to mind.

They chat for a few weeks, meet up and date for a few more, forty messages each day and at the end he sleeps with her only the once... turns out, at the final hurdle, they weren't compatible, after all.

There was a time when society would require a marriage in order to discern this.

One eyed Jack · 04-11-2015 07:04PM

ancapailldorcha wrote: »

There was a time when society would require a marriage in order to discern this.

And if you believe that most people ever actually bought into that...

Society hasn't changed a bit really, just that technology has replaced the matchmaker is all

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matchmaking

Woman sleeps with man. Man cuts off contact. Woman blames Tinder.

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