What is a good number of matches per week on Tinder

starling · 25-09-2015 10:42PM

What are ya wasting yer time on tinder for, run on the beach when there's some women around and impress em with your go-getting approach to physical fitness and shapely calves!! You're not sportmaxing at all at all. Talk to garrix he'll help you leverage your rungame and get tanmaxing going forward.

I keep confusing the PUA/game lingo with bullsh1t business speak. I have no game, brah

Wibbs · 25-09-2015 10:42PM

tomwaterford wrote: »

WTF is a manosphere forum

You really don't wanna know TW.

Brian from Bray · 25-09-2015 10:42PM

mufcboy1999 wrote: »

Plus one...

I'd just like to add 90 % of the women don't actually look like their enhanced pictures too, maybe that's where the ego is coming from, they actually start believing the photoshop and think they should be chased etc.

Yeah I say so. Airbrushed to the max, pure deception.

the evasion_kid · 25-09-2015 10:42PM

mufcboy1999 wrote: »

Plus one...

I'd just like to add 90 % of the women don't actually look like their enhanced pictures too, maybe that's where the ego is coming from, they actually start believing the photoshop and think they should be chased etc.

A quick dopamine hit is only a click away

tomwaterford · 25-09-2015 10:44PM

starling wrote: »

What are ya wasting yer time on tinder for, run on the beach when there's some women around and impress em with your go-getting approach to physical fitness and shapely calves!! You're not sportmaxing at all at all. Talk to garrix he'll help you leverage your rungame and get tanmaxing going forward.

I keep confusing the PUA/game lingo with bullsh1t business speak. I have no game, brah

Where I live there's no one around though except sheep or milking cows and I do be stuck in work every day

This has made me mind up to deffo re download tinder :eek:

starling · 25-09-2015 10:45PM

mufcboy1999 wrote: »

Plus one...

I'd just like to add 90 % of the women don't actually look like their enhanced pictures too, maybe that's where the ego is coming from, they actually start believing the photoshop and think they should be chased etc.

Erm, if you sign up for tinder or online dating and go swiping or messaging then you're choosing to "chase" them, who's forcing you?

By enhanced pictures are you talking about deceiving you with makeup? We already did that one

petrolcan · 25-09-2015 10:45PM

the evasion_kid wrote: »

Very true ive seen fat,balding old men being treated like a demigod over there,I'm sure money is a big factor ,often when the money runs out they join the pattaya skydiving club.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-34346620

25-09-2015 10:45PM

mufcboy1999 wrote: »

Plus one...

I'd just like to add that 90 % of the women don't actually look like their enhanced pictures. Maybe that's where the ego is coming from, they actually start believing the photoshop and think they should be chased and put up on a high horse etc.

In reality these girls are victims of soicety, the selfie obsessed, narcissistic era we live in.

I'm forming an opinion as to why you're unsuccessful on Tinder.

And it has nothing to do with the girls being 'victims' of anything.

KERSPLAT! · 25-09-2015 10:45PM

mufcboy1999 wrote: »

Plus one...

I'd just like to add 90 % of the women don't actually look like their enhanced pictures too, maybe that's where the ego is coming from, they actually start believing the photoshop and think they should be chased etc.

Everyone uses a good pic of themselves for online dating, I wouldn't get too many interested ladies if I posted a pic one of the lads took of me locked, naked and asleep on a pool table. Can't imagine many woman or men use photoshop to enhance their pics

tomwaterford · 25-09-2015 10:46PM

Wibbs wrote: »

You really don't wanna know TW.

Ok...I'll take your word...though seems to work for some
Though might google it sometime in bored/nothing to do (prob sat night :pac:)

starling · 25-09-2015 10:46PM

tomwaterford wrote: »

Where I live there's no one around though except sheep or milking cows and I do be stuck in work every day

This has made me mind up to deffo re download tinder :eek:

Yeah sheep are no ewes to you there. Apparently.

Brian from Bray · 25-09-2015 10:47PM

KERSPLAT! wrote: »

Everyone uses a good pic of themselves for online dating, I wouldn't get too many interested ladies if I posted a pic one of the lads took of me locked, naked and asleep on a pool table. Can't imagine many woman or men use photoshop to enhance their pics

Ofc they do. You see it a lot on Facebook too.

the evasion_kid · 25-09-2015 10:48PM

Wibbs wrote: »

You really don't wanna know TW.

In fairness to it wibbs there's a lot of very intelligent writers amongst it with a good understanding of human evolution, a lot of the times it kinda looks like Christians arguing against atheists.

mufcboy1999 · 25-09-2015 10:49PM

It's actually unbelievable how bad it's got though amongst women. I'm sure there's men out there too who do the same, but it's gotten ridiculous with girls. Take one look down you're facebook timeline and you're bound to see it.

I'm sure we've all met or know that one person who looks absolutely nothing like their facebook and tinder profiles but bombards us with new selfies every other day.

starling · 25-09-2015 10:50PM

KERSPLAT! wrote: »

I wouldn't get too many interested ladies if I posted a pic one of the lads took of me locked, naked and asleep on a pool table.

I dunno, it might show you're fun? I am physically trying to stop myself from making jokes about the size of your cue and balls

KERSPLAT! · 25-09-2015 10:50PM

Brian from Bray wrote: »

Ofc they do. You see it a lot on Facebook too.

Photoshop? Nope, not having that. Whatever about some Instagram filter or whatever but Photoshop, nope. As I said, we all for the most part use the better looking pics for FB profile pics, online dating, etc

the evasion_kid · 25-09-2015 10:50PM

petrolcan wrote: »

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-34346620

At least they didn't get stung for sending money for the "sick buffalo"

tomwaterford · 25-09-2015 10:51PM

mufcboy1999 wrote: »

It's actually unbelievable how bad it's got though amongst women. I'm sure there's men out there too who do the same, but it's gotten ridiculous with girls. Take one look down you're facebook timeline and you're bound to see it.

I'm sure we've all met or know that one person who looks absolutely nothing like their facebook and tinder profiles but bombards us with new selfies every other day.

Someone told me I looked better than me tinder pics before :pac:
And then gave out to me for not putting up better pics of meself

....still friends with her :pac:

nullzero · 25-09-2015 10:52PM

Ruu wrote: »

You have to beat the boss at the end.

I knew a guy who did a psycho mantis on it and plugged it into the other port. He didn't win and he ended up with a black eye.

mufcboy1999 · 25-09-2015 10:54PM

KERSPLAT! wrote: »

Everyone uses a good pic of themselves for online dating, I wouldn't get too many interested ladies if I posted a pic one of the lads took of me locked, naked and asleep on a pool table. Can't imagine many woman or men use photoshop to enhance their pics

There's choosing good photos of yourself and then there's changing you're entire identity. The usual tricks, take pictures at certain angles to hide certain things etc.. It's all too fake for me, just be yourself that's all I'm saying.

petrolcan · 25-09-2015 10:54PM

garrixfan wrote: »

Everyone should be doing everything they can to reach the magical 8/10 category('looksmaxing), that's where you are mixing it with the big boys

The big boys who rely on their looks are normally too self absorbed to commit to any relationship other than the one with their mirror.

And 'looksmaxing'? Really?

KERSPLAT! · 25-09-2015 10:54PM

Brian from Bray wrote: »

Yeah I say so. Airbrushed to the max, pure deception.

Airbrush!? These are regular men and women not fecking super models on the cover of Vogue

25-09-2015 10:55PM

the evasion_kid wrote: »

In fairness to it wibbs there's a lot of very intelligent writers amongst it with a good understanding of human evolution, a lot of the times it kinda looks like Christians arguing against atheists.

I think people confuse eloquence and opinion with intelligence, and that's why they not only get drawn to these systems of thinking, but invest in them personally.

In my experience the guys who buy these books, read these forums and form opinions about society informed by these sites are generally socially and romantically unsuccessful, resentful towards women, and have issues with feelings of thwarted entitlement.

Well adjusted men who have all kinds of good relationships with women - not just romantic or sexual relationships, but good sibling relationships with their sisters, healthy relationships with their mothers, and comfortable friendships with women, are not the audience for sites like those.

Brian from Bray · 25-09-2015 10:57PM

KERSPLAT! wrote: »

Airbrush!? These are regular men and women not fecking super models on the cover of Vogue

Filters, airburshing whatever the hell you want to call it, they're all the same thing. It's deception plain and simple.

petrolcan · 25-09-2015 10:57PM

Brian from Bray wrote: »

I tried online dating once, messaged a few lasses but nothing came of it. The impression I got about online dating is a lot of the women just seem to be looking for an ego boost.

I tried online dating once. After a few messages we were chatting for a while.

She went quiet when I emailed her at her work address that she'd never given me.

Damn you google!

25-09-2015 10:59PM

Brian from Bray wrote: »

Filters, airburshing whatever the hell you want to call it. It's deception plain and simple.

Don't forget the make up.

Sure without it they'd probably only be as attractive as you. So why are they rejecting you, eh? It's not like they're all that.

Clue: Maybe they feel they have more going for them than just their looks.

tomwaterford · 25-09-2015 11:00PM

Brian from Bray wrote: »

Filters, airburshing whatever the hell you want to call it. It's deception plain and simple.

Not really...I've a scar on my face (nearly gone)...which gives me a lazy eye when I'm tired and I sure as fcuk don't make it noticeable on me photos....don't want anyone thinking I'm simple...me face is bad enough...not lying...just ommitting

starling · 25-09-2015 11:01PM

Candie wrote: »

I think people confuse eloquence and opinion with intelligence, and that's why they not only get drawn to these systems of thinking, but invest in them personally.

In my experience the guys who buy these books, read these forums and form opinions about society informed by these sites are generally socially and romantically unsuccessful, resentful towards women, and have issues with feelings of thwarted entitlement.

Well adjusted men who have all kinds of good relationships with women - not just romantic or sexual relationships, but good sibling relationships with their sisters, healthy relationships with their mothers, and comfortable friendships with women, are not the audience for sites like those.

Yes this
Plus the element of being told what you want to hear works on everyone. How much better to hear "yes, it women's fault they refuse to do what you want" than to hear "maybe you're doing something wrong"

the evasion_kid · 25-09-2015 11:02PM

Candie wrote: »

I think people confuse eloquence and opinion with intelligence, and that's why they not only get drawn to these systems of thinking, but invest in them personally.

In my experience the guys who buy these books, read these forums and form opinions about society informed by these sites are generally socially and romantically unsuccessful, resentful towards women, and have issues with feelings of thwarted entitlement.

Well adjusted men who have all kinds of good relationships with women - not just romantic or sexual relationships, but good sibling relationships with their sisters, healthy relationships with their mothers, and comfortable friendships with women, are not the audience for sites like those.

Some of the better known posters i would say have had too much experience with women,It poses a lot of difficult questions and uncomfortable truths...not for the faint hearted

mufcboy1999 · 25-09-2015 11:04PM

Candie wrote: »

I'm forming an opinion as to why you're unsuccessful on Tinder.

And it has nothing to do with the girls being 'victims' of anything.

I've met a few from tinder over the years where I've been off and on it. I'm not for one minute saying every girl is at it. Like I said though, a very large percentage have the photoshop game on lockdown, masters of deception. I'm sorry to offend you if you fall into that catogery, nothing personal.

Let's be honest Tinder is full of attention seeking sluts, Men and Women, it's highly unlikely you'll find the love of your life on it imo.

What is a good number of matches per week on Tinder

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