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What is a good number of matches per week on Tinder

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  • #32
    garrixfan
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 230 ✭✭garrixfan


    It wasn't me! wrote: »
    Depends how much you give a fcuk I guess. I'm about average. Sometimes I'm arsed looking at the app, others not. I get matches when I feel like playing along, and don't when I can't be bothered or I'm busy having a life. Funnily enough, I don't accrue extra personal value when I get matches. Weird, that...

    Very true, I'm trying to train myself to not seek validation from females! It is a hard road.


  • #33
    Richard Hillman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,033 ✭✭✭✭Richard Hillman


    garrixfan wrote: »
    What I want to know is how many matches are average looking guys on Tinder getting? I imagine it is brutal, 1 or 2 matches a week must be common place.

    About 2-3 a week excluding the fake ones.


  • #34
    OneOfThem
    Closed Accounts Posts: 667 ✭✭✭OneOfThem


    garrixfan wrote: »
    I don't have many female friends, I don't click with them really.

    I mean just in general. You don't say any of this 'x game, y game, alpha male etc' stuff in earshot of women right? Just online here or wherever?


  • #35
    It wasn't me!
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,034 ✭✭✭✭It wasn't me!


    garrixfan wrote: »
    Very true, I'm trying to train myself to not seek validation from females! It is a hard road.

    It's okay, you can actually call them women, not just females. Much less kidwithmagnifyingglass.


  • #36
    Fizman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,605 ✭✭✭Fizman


    OneOfThem wrote: »
    I mean just in general. You don't say any of this 'x game, y game, alpha male etc' stuff in earshot of women right? Just online here or wherever?

    Are you kidding? That talk gets them wetter than the front row of a Magic Mike gig.


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  • #37
    garrixfan
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 230 ✭✭garrixfan


    Richard Hillman wrote: »
    About 2-3 a week excluding the fake ones.

    BRUTAL
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    I'm sure you are quite attractive but don't live up to females insane standards.


  • #38
    garrixfan
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 230 ✭✭garrixfan


    OneOfThem wrote: »
    I mean just in general. You don't say any of this 'x game, y game, alpha male etc' stuff in earshot of women right? Just online here or wherever?

    I don't believe in 'game' or 'alpha males', the alpha male with the best 'game' in the room will be the 135 pound quiet male model looking guy.


  • #39
    DarkyHughes
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,393 ✭✭✭DarkyHughes


    I might watch 4 or 5 a week. 2 or 3 Premiership matches & 2 La Liga matches on Sky Sports & a extra 2 matches if the Champions League is on during the week on RTE.


  • #40
    Fizman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,605 ✭✭✭Fizman


    garrixfan wrote: »
    I don't believe in 'game' or 'alpha males', the alpha male with the best 'game' in the room will be the 135 pound quiet male model looking guy.

    The only game he'd be playing is World of Warcraft.


  • #41
    OneOfThem
    Closed Accounts Posts: 667 ✭✭✭OneOfThem


    garrixfan wrote: »
    I don't believe in 'game' or 'alpha males', the alpha male with the best 'game' in the room will be the 135 pound quiet male model looking guy.

    Ah right, so all this 'looksmaxing' 'tinder game' 'hair game' lingo is just you taking the piss a bit here online?


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  • #42
    starling
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,135 ✭✭✭starling


    It wasn't me! wrote: »
    It's okay, you can actually call them women, not just females. Much less kidwithmagnifyingglass.

    I'm always torn between being p1ssed off at men who call women "females" and being grateful to them for saving me time by immediately self-indentifying as people I don't want to go near with a hazmat suit.


  • #43
    garrixfan
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 230 ✭✭garrixfan


    OneOfThem wrote: »
    Ah right, so all this 'looksmaxing' 'tinder game' 'hair game' lingo is just you taking the piss a bit?

    Everyone should be doing everything they can to reach the magical 8/10 category('looksmaxing), that's where you are mixing it with the big boys


  • #44
    garrixfan
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 230 ✭✭garrixfan


    Fizman wrote: »
    The only game he'd be playing is World of Warcraft.

    When you look like a god, females will approach, nobody cares about body, its all about the face.


  • #45
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    garrixfan wrote: »
    Everyone should be doing everything they can to reach the magical 8/10 category('looksmaxing), that's where you are mixing it with the big boys

    This is just hilarious. Please don't stop sharing your wisdom.


  • #46
    OneOfThem
    Closed Accounts Posts: 667 ✭✭✭OneOfThem


    garrixfan wrote: »
    Everyone should be doing everything they can to reach the magical 8/10 category('looksmaxing), that's where you are mixing it with the big boys

    It's just, you know all this stuff makes you seem really really insecure and desperate and a bit bitter and all those other things women just absolutely love?

    I mean, just as long as you know not to actually say any of it around women or that's how you'll appear to them.

    Believe it all you want, just never let women know you do, or you may as well have 'HIV' tattooed across your forehead.


  • #47
    garrixfan
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 230 ✭✭garrixfan


    Candie wrote: »
    This is just hilarious. Please don't stop sharing your wisdom.

    Lamentablemente , there is a point of diminishing marginal returns. It is very hard to even break beyond average, let alone into the 7, 8(the sweet spot)or Holy moly, the 9 category.

    Going to the gym, fashion, looking after your skin, it won't be enough for 99 per cent of people, its a sad fact.


  • #48
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    garrixfan wrote: »
    Lamentablemente , there is a point of diminishing marginal returns. It is very hard to even break beyond average, let alone into the 7, 8(the sweet spot)or Holy moly, the 9 category.

    Going to the gym, fashion, looking after your skin, it won't be enough for 99 per cent of people, its a sad fact.

    I think the sad fact around here is you.

    (factgame).


  • #49
    DareGod
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,298 ✭✭✭DareGod


    Hey guys, lay off the OP. You can actually all learn a hell of a lot from what he's saying. Just think of his posts as a "What To Never Ever Say If You Want To Be A Likeable Human Being" guide and you're good to go!

    I've absolutely no doubt that Justin Bieber is one of his role models - something that would probably make even Justin Bieber cringe.


  • #50
    It wasn't me!
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,034 ✭✭✭✭It wasn't me!


    starling wrote: »
    I'm always torn between being p1ssed off at men who call women "females" and being grateful to them for saving me time by immediately self-indentifying as people I don't want to go near with a hazmat suit.

    The army has me ruined as everything is identified in terms of "females." Have to remind myself occasionally they're not another species.


  • #51
    garrixfan
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 230 ✭✭garrixfan


    DareGod wrote: »
    Hey guys, lay off the OP. You can actually all learn a hell of a lot from what he's saying. Just think of his posts as a "What To Never Ever Say If You Want To Be A Likeable Human Being" guide and you're good to go!

    I've absolutely no doubt that Justin Bieber is one of his role models - something that would probably make even Justin Bieber cringe.

    Justin Bieber is an overrated 7/10 living off huge status and money game. He has peaked, all the drugs and flying have caught up with him, god help him when he loses his hair. Goodnight sweet prince.


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  • #52
    kowloon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 13,856 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    Wibbs wrote: »
    A good mate of mine ran his own forum years back and had it set up in such a way that if you typed "LOL" it would post as "I am a fcuking moron". Much merriment.

    :D:D:D I am a fcuking moron :D:D:D


  • #53
    DareGod
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,298 ✭✭✭DareGod


    garrixfan wrote: »
    Justin Bieber is an overrated 7/10 living off huge status and money game. He has peaked, all the drugs and flying have caught up with him, god help him when he loses his hair. Goodnight sweet prince.

    Night night, sweetums xxx


  • #54
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    garrixfan wrote: »
    Justin Bieber is an overrated 7/10 living off huge status and money game. He has peaked, all the drugs and flying have caught up with him, god help him when he loses his hair. Goodnight sweet prince.


    Godmaxing or Stupidmaxing? I know you're maxing something here. Take it to the max there Garrixfan.

    I think I'm reaching the point of cringmaxing.


  • #55
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 26,920 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Tinder is absolutely the worst now.

    Ever since the recent update for Android, it's pushing notifications to turn on GPS constantly, even if you click no. Surely WiFi would be enough to determine my location. Then you add in the complete and utter randomness of people appearing and matching and the sheer number of bots.. it's just an exercise in frustration and annoyance.


  • #56
    garrixfan
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 230 ✭✭garrixfan


    Deleted User wrote: »
    Tinder is absolutely the worst now.

    Ever since the recent update for Android, it's pushing notifications to turn on GPS constantly, even if you click no. Surely WiFi would be enough to determine my location. Then you add in the complete and utter randomness of people appearing and matching and the sheer number of bots.. it's just an exercise in frustration and annoyance.

    Legit. I will delete it quite soon.


  • #57
    Fizman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,605 ✭✭✭Fizman


    garrixfan wrote: »
    Lamentablemente , there is a point of diminishing marginal returns. It is very hard to even break beyond average, let alone into the 7, 8(the sweet spot)or Holy moly, the 9 category.

    Going to the gym, fashion, looking after your skin, it won't be enough for 99 per cent of people, its a sad fact.

    What is your stance regarding peacocking?


  • #58
    Baron Kurtz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,261 ✭✭✭Baron Kurtz


    garrixfan wrote: »
    BRUTAL
    R
    U
    T
    A
    L

    I'm sure you are quite attractive but don't live up to females insane standards.

    Well, he is Richard Hillman.


  • #59
    Whitewinged
    Closed Accounts Posts: 935 ✭✭✭Whitewinged


    Garrixfan i know some of the people are joking with you but ive seen a few of your posts and literally nearly every one of them is about looks.

    You even describe yourself as not good looking and couldnt understand why some women wouldnt want to date ronaldo. You keep using the word "game" and place value and score systems on your looks out of ten.

    The reason you cant click with women is because you probably judge them the way you judge yourself and dont really get to know them. No woman or man or fame or wealth or whatever is going to validate you if you dont like yourself ffs.

    Take a bit of time to work on your self esteem. Look for the good points you have not only in looks but in your personality. Spend time doing things you enjoy not things you think make you look cool.

    When you do all that and you start to have genuine confidence in who you are then look for women on tinder or wherever and actually get to know them and only go out with them you genuinely like them and have fun with them.


  • #60
    Mother Brain
    Closed Accounts Posts: 255 ✭✭Mother Brain


    garrixfan wrote: »
    I don't have many female friends, I don't click with them really.

    You don't say? :p


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  • #61
    Richard Hillman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,033 ✭✭✭✭Richard Hillman


    garrixfan wrote: »
    Lamentablemente , there is a point of diminishing marginal returns. It is very hard to even break beyond average, let alone into the 7, 8(the sweet spot)or Holy moly, the 9 category.

    Going to the gym, fashion, looking after your skin, it won't be enough for 99 per cent of people, its a sad fact.


    I thought going to the gym would be more Grindr than Tinder.


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