Is it socially acceptable for an adult to admire teenage/school girls

Sergei Malatov · 20-09-2015 8:36pm #1

I am a young male adult in my twenties.

Is it okay to look at 13-18 year old girls and find them attractive?

What do others think?

I personally hate that I find them attractive but I do think girls - particularly aged 16-18 - are unbelievable at that age.

*No pedo

c_man · 20-09-2015 8:37pm

Nyet Sergei.

Brian from Bray · 20-09-2015 8:38pm

Your threads are making me look normal.

KilOit · 20-09-2015 8:40pm

Society says no, human nature says yes

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy · 20-09-2015 8:40pm

Sergei Malatov wrote: »

I am a young male adult in my twenties.

*No pedo

Not pedo. Paedo

Sergei Malatov · 20-09-2015 8:40pm

I know lots of guys in secondary school who rode first years when they were in leaving cert.

I was not one of those guys.

I'm grand. It's more a forbidden fruit kind of thing.

And girls of that age dress inappropriately these days. I can't help but look.

timthumbni · 20-09-2015 8:43pm

In soviet Russia Sergei this may be acceptable. Here it's a big NO.

Thelomen Toblackai · 20-09-2015 8:43pm

I'm no so sure saying "No pedo" covers you while talking about admiring attractive 13 year schoolgirls...

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1 · 20-09-2015 8:43pm

Do you watch them from the bridge?

Brian from Bray · 20-09-2015 8:43pm

Sergei Malatov wrote: »

I know lots of guys in secondary school who rode first years when they were in leaving cert.

I was not one of those guys.

I'm grand. It's more a forbidden fruit kind of thing.

And girls of that age dress inappropriately these days. I can't help but look.

Are you sure they weren't just talking out their ass ? like most young lads do.

Oh I rode her and this one etc ... sure ya did ladeen.

20-09-2015 8:43pm

18+ fine. Particularly for a guy in his early 20s.

16 not fine. And even less so for a guy in his late 20s.

bpb101 · 20-09-2015 8:44pm

ibtl

beertons · 20-09-2015 8:45pm

Keep lookin.

No touchin.

20-09-2015 8:46pm

Sergei Malatov wrote: »

I know lots of guys in secondary school who rode first years when they were in leaving cert.

Could they not prey on someone their own age?

That's just...depressing. "Lots of guys"? What was wrong with them?

seldom seen kid · 20-09-2015 8:46pm

i dont know about it being a socially acceptable thing, but biologically it is natural. as a male u have it prebiult into your body to produce a healthy child and physical attraction for a healthy mother i something you body will look for. healthy mother carries healthy child.
creepy but natural.

Brian from Bray · 20-09-2015 8:47pm

Is this you OP ?

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy · 20-09-2015 8:47pm

seldom seen kid wrote: »

i dont know about it being a socially acceptable thing, but biologically it is natural. as a male u have it prebiult into your body to produce a healthy child and physical attraction for a healthy mother i something you body will look for. healthy mother carries healthy child.
creepy but natural.

Fcuking hell, that's an apt username :eek:

20-09-2015 8:48pm

seldom seen kid wrote: »

i dont know about it being a socially acceptable thing, but biologically it is natural. as a male u have it prebiult into your body to produce a healthy child and physical attraction for a healthy mother i something you body will look for. healthy mother carries healthy child.
creepy but natural.

I find it highly unnatural that anyone in their late teens would have a sexual attraction for someone in their very early teens, as the OP suggested many of his acquaintances did.

20-09-2015 8:48pm

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy wrote: »

Fcuking hell, that's an apt username :eek:

Hands up, I laughed and kinda wished I thought of that line!

the evasion_kid · 20-09-2015 8:50pm

I was shocked when I seen the school uniforms in Canada....that's not right....I thought they were on there way to a Halloween party

JustTheOne · 20-09-2015 8:51pm

Sure isn't the legal age in Spain 14? I think Russia is 13.

Seriously messed up.

Sergei Malatov · 20-09-2015 8:52pm

JustTheOne wrote: »

Sure isn't the legal age in Spain 14? I think Russia is 13.

Seriously messed up.

I see this used as a thinly veiled excuse for pedophilia all the time.

iDave · 20-09-2015 8:53pm

Mohammed was OK with it and we're supposed to believe he's the perfect man.

JustTheOne · 20-09-2015 8:55pm

Sergei Malatov wrote: »

I see this used as a thinly veiled excuse for pedophilia all the time.

Mate you're the one telling us you're attracted to 13 year olds:)

speedboatchase · 20-09-2015 8:55pm

Your thoughts are your own and any kind of fantasy any one has is completely their business, in this case if it isn't acted upon.

Honestly though, I would say it isn't socially acceptable to say anything aloud but I'm sure others privately would feel the same. Speaking personally there's a huge difference between teenage girls when I was a teenager and teenagers today, who look a lot older due to hair and make-up (every girl in my school wore tied their hair up and didn't wear make-up) and would definitely dress more provocatively. I would probably find it difficult to distinguish between a 17-year-old and a 21-year-old.

Anyways, keep things (all things!) to yourself and you'll be fine!

A Primal Nut · 20-09-2015 8:55pm

Sorry to tell you lads but being attracted to 16-year olds more than adult girls is not natural or normal.

Valetta · 20-09-2015 8:56pm

Sergei Malatov wrote: »

I see this used as a thinly veiled excuse for pedophilia all the time.

All the time? Seriously?

What do you do for fun when you're not perving kids?

20-09-2015 8:56pm

No, it's not okay for a man in his twenties to be eyeing up kids of 13. And no, kids that age do not have healthy pregnancies, since they haven't stopped growing themselves and are probably only just menstruating, so don't try blaming biology.

Speaking as a former 13 year old schoolgirl, my stomach used to turn when old lads (which is what anyone over 16 is to a kid that young) would leer and stare. There's no justifying creeping on kids.

ceadaoin. · 20-09-2015 8:57pm

Sergei Malatov wrote: »

I know lots of guys in secondary school who rode first years when they were in leaving cert.

I was not one of those guys.

I'm grand. It's more a forbidden fruit kind of thing.

And girls of that age dress inappropriately these days. I can't help but look.

Lots of guys you knew shagged 12-13 year olds when they were 17/18? That's extremely creepy and is actually statutory rape. Poor girls.

Sergei Malatov · 20-09-2015 9:01pm

ceadaoin. wrote: »

Lots of guys you knew shagged 12-13 year olds when they were 17/18? That's extremely creepy and is actually statutory rape. Poor girls.

Not rode. Shifted.

Well some of them rode.

You have your head in the sand if you think 13 year olds don't have sex.

I got laid for the first time in my late teens but I knew guys and girls that were already doing it six years beforehand.

And that age group has never been more exposed to sexuality than it is now. (Internet, Lady Gaga, Rihanna, Katy Perry)

tomwaterford · 20-09-2015 9:02pm

Candie wrote: »

No, it's not okay for a man in his twenties to be eyeing up kids of 13. And no, kids that age do not have healthy pregnancies, since they haven't stopped growing themselves and are probably only just menstruating, so don't try blaming biology.

Speaking as a former 13 year old schoolgirl, my stomach used to turn when old lads (which is what anyone over 16 is to a kid that young) would leer and stare. There's no justifying creeping on kids.

It's is creepy....I remember this conundrum when I was living in Dublin to do FAS training and I only barely 18 and seeing young wans in school near we used be and they like the same age as me...and not being sure and not wanting to end in jail (paranoid lol)...so didn't look used kinda know wans me own age in collage instead

So OP it is not socially acceptable to admire schoolgirls (unless your in school??) IMO

Is it socially acceptable for an adult to admire teenage/school girls

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