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How well do you take criticism?

  • 24-07-2015 03:30AM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 76 ✭✭


    I'm closely watching Donald Trump's campaign, and although he's popular and topping the republican poll, he has to put up with a large portion of criticism. I often wonder how people like this can continue to persuade people for a vote, even with some nasty things that people say, particularly on social media, do you think he ever looks online or picks up the tabloids? What about the normal Joe Soap?

    How well do you take criticism, and does it bother you? Do you actually care what people say, even if it's only from a small minority?

    What about in a high profile job,surely you must hear people speaking and using your name in an unjust way, maybe even on a weekly basis?


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,443 ✭✭✭✭endacl


    Don't judge me, dude.

    :mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,622 ✭✭✭Ruu


    Leave Joe alone! Never done me wrong!:mad:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,923 ✭✭✭pappyodaniel


    I think it takes a special type of sociopath to be able to be Donald Trump and not kill yourself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    I think it takes a special type of sociopath to be able to be Donald Trump and not kill yourself.


    Being able to wipe your ass with the faces of former presidents does help to take the sting out of other people's criticisms though :pac:

    I've always been able to take criticism, and I've been able to ignore criticism. The only difference between the two is the amount of respect I have for the person making the criticism.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,237 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Well, in my line of work taking constructive criticism goes with the territory, as long as it's constructive. As for the rest of it, I'd be in the same camp as the Buddha with a lot of it. There's an old story about him encountering a very angry and rude young man in a village, who insulted and criticised him greatly. The Buddha listened to all this quietly, and when the young man was finished, hes said "Tell me my son, if someone were to offer you a gift, and you didn't accept it, to whom then would the gift belong?" "Why, to he who had offered, of course!" "Exactly," said the Buddha. "And it is so with your anger. If you become angry with me and I do not get insulted, then the anger falls back on you. You are then the only one who becomes unhappy, not me. All you have done is hurt yourself."

    :D


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,080 ✭✭✭✭Maximus Alexander


    It stings sometimes to be criticized, but I see it as a learning opportunity. It gives you a chance to evaluate the criticism and decide if it's justified, if it is, then you get to grow as a person.

    People aren't always right when they criticize you, but either way it's better to have it out in the open than to have people thinking badly of you in silence. Either you get to set them straight, or you get to improve yourself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,365 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Irishguy16 wrote: »
    I'm closely watching Donald Trump's campaign, and although he's popular and topping the republican poll, he has to put up with a large portion of criticism. I often wonder how people like this can continue to persuade people for a vote, even with some nasty things that people say, particularly on social media, do you think he ever looks online or picks up the tabloids? What about the normal Joe Soap?

    How well do you take criticism, and does it bother you? Do you actually care what people say, even if it's only from a small minority?

    What about in a high profile job,surely you must hear people speaking and using your name in an unjust way, maybe even on a weekly basis?

    The thing about Trump is that he doesnt care about criticism. He just wants the attention. Whether it is positive or negative doesnt matter to him. One of those words ending in -path probably describes him.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    Criticism is a great barometer.

    If less than half of the people think you are a **** you're doing something right, more than half and you're doing something wrong.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,060 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    Like above, it depends on who the critic is. My work role is still technically a junior role and to learn more, I have to take criticism from those above me. It's necessary.

    In my spare time, I sometimes try my hand at baking and use my housemates as guinea pigs. All I want is an honest yes/no answer. One housemate always makes statements such as "there's too much sugar/flour". This same housemate has never created a meal in his life. What he constitutes as cooking is taking something from the freezer, fecking it onto a baking tray, watching TV and coming back 30 minutes later. This is somebody I will never take baking/cooking criticism from.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 24,079 ✭✭✭✭Akrasia


    jimgoose wrote: »
    Well, in my line of work taking constructive criticism goes with the territory, as long as it's constructive. As for the rest of it, I'd be in the same camp as the Buddha with a lot of it. There's an old story about him encountering a very angry and rude young man in a village, who insulted and criticised him greatly. The Buddha listened to all this quietly, and when the young man was finished, hes said "Tell me my son, if someone were to offer you a gift, and you didn't accept it, to whom then would the gift belong?" "Why, to he who had offered, of course!" "Exactly," said the Buddha. "And it is so with your anger. If you become angry with me and I do not get insulted, then the anger falls back on you. You are then the only one who becomes unhappy, not me. All you have done is hurt yourself."

    :D
    I know you are but what am I

    Ban billionaires



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,046 ✭✭✭RayCon


    Fcuk you !


  • Moderators, Music Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,740 Mod ✭✭✭✭Boom_Bap


    As the old saying goes, there's no 'i' in team criticism


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,389 ✭✭✭NachoBusiness


    Depends what motivates it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,237 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Akrasia wrote: »
    I know you are but what am I

    Eee, yer can gan fook yissel'! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 29,964 ✭✭✭✭_Kaiser_


    Leave me alone or I'm telling!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,882 ✭✭✭Saipanne


    Very well. I certainly dont get offended.

    In my experience, Irish people tend to be very hostile to criticism. Irish people prefer lies.


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