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Hustveit Case.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,689 ✭✭✭Tombi!


    According to the article the relationship continued after that happened and the scale of it only became known via his confession. Indeed the judge said the entire case was based on said confession
    Good thing he was stupid enough to confess; terrible thing that without his confession, it wouldn't have been sent to court.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,291 ✭✭✭✭Gatling


    What I don't get in this beside the sentence was the victim when she relised it happened the first time. they talked about what happened and carried on the relationship.
    That's what was reported by the media

    * just seen the above posts*


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,544 ✭✭✭Samaris


    Gatling wrote: »
    What I don't get in this beside the sentence was the victim when she relised it happened the first time. they talked about what happened and carried on the relationship.
    That's what was reported by the media

    * just seen the above posts*

    Yeah, they talked about it and she told him it was Not On. Presumably he reassured her that he wouldn't do it again.

    Then he did.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,038 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    Samaris wrote: »
    Yeah, they talked about it and she told him it was Not On. Presumably he reassured her that he wouldn't do it again.

    Then he did.

    She said on the Ray Darcy Show yesterday that they had a pet rabbit and she was afraid to leave in case he did something to it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,837 ✭✭✭TheLastMohican


    Now, if you just reverse the situation ............

    "Woman plays with man while he's asleep"

    Shock, horror and manufactured indignation? I don't think so.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,689 ✭✭✭Tombi!


    Now, if you just reverse the situation ............

    "Woman plays with man while he's asleep"

    Shock, horror and manufactured indignation? I don't think so.

    Banned.

    Shouldn't have to say this but do not make light of rape


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,484 ✭✭✭✭Ush1


    I listened to part of a radio interview with the victim yesterday, how she realised it was happening at all was because she woke one morning with no pyjama bottoms on and covered in semen.

    She didn't just find out because he told her.

    Didn't the relationship continue after? Even after she woke up with him next to her, masturbating watching porn on a laptop?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Menas


    Ush1 wrote: »
    Didn't the relationship continue after? Even after she woke up with him next to her, masturbating watching porn on a laptop?

    Yes, it did. She said that she had been worried about his excessive use of porn.
    It was only after they broke up that he sent her the email confessing what he had done.
    Fcks sake, imagine getting that email. Poor woman.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,946 ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    Ush1 wrote: »
    Didn't the relationship continue after? Even after she woke up with him next to her, masturbating watching porn on a laptop?

    It can take years for a rape victim to get their head round it and call it rape. Sometimes decades.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Menas


    Neyite wrote: »
    It can take years for a rape victim to get their head round it and call it rape. Sometimes decades.

    In this case it took Seven decades
    http://www.buzzfeed.com/annehelenpetersen/loretta-young#.oiB3gLg0AZ


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  • Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 23,257 Mod ✭✭✭✭GLaDOS


    Ush1 wrote: »
    Didn't the relationship continue after? Even after she woke up with him next to her, masturbating watching porn on a laptop?

    She said it took her awhile to come to terms with the fact she was in an abusive relationship. Not a unusual occurrence.

    Cake, and grief counseling, will be available at the conclusion of the test



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,946 ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    Menas wrote: »

    That's who I was thinking of after I wrote it. Some of Cosby's victims too took years to put a name on what had happened to them.


  • Posts: 53,068 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Ush1 wrote: »
    Didn't the relationship continue after? Even after she woke up with him next to her, masturbating watching porn on a laptop?

    It did, according to her interview yesterday, she spoke to him about it and told him that he couldn't have sex with her while she slept. He agreed not to do it again. She said that she didn't want to believe that it was rape, and kept trying to put that thought out of her head, as she didn't want to think of herself as a rape victim.

    She stated that she was also quite fearful of Hustveit, and was not a happy relationship at all.

    It's not always easy for people to walk away from abusive relationships, if it was, they wouldn't exist.


  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 51,685 Mod ✭✭✭✭Stheno


    Was the sentence so lenient due to his confession?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,562 ✭✭✭✭Sunnyisland


    Stheno wrote: »
    Was the sentence so lenient due to his confession?

    The facts of the case emerged only when Hustveit wrote to his former partner stating he had been using her "body for my gratification" for nearly a year.He continued: "I didn't want to hurt you, I just wanted to come. I used the fact I wasn't allowed watch porn or masturbate as an excuse. Now I've written this, you can have me prosecuted. I hope you won't."
    Mr Justice Patrick McCarthy said the most significant features of the case were the deceit, the repetition of the offences, and the effect on the victim.
    Mr Justice Patrick McCarthy said it was a very exceptional case. He said he had to consider the fact that there would be no rational case but for the confessions of the accused.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,621 ✭✭✭✭Buford T. Justice XIX


    Samaris wrote: »
    http://www.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/rape-victim-niamhs-shock-as-ex-walks-free-im-left-reeling-and-my-parents-are-too-and-all-my-friends-who-were-there-to-support-me-31375084.html

    I've thought a bit on how to phrase this. I can't make any rules, but I am asking if we can all keep it civil, and refrain from debate over whether she was raped. The courts have agreed that she was, and he has admitted it himself. Let's leave it at that, please.

    So the line of debate I'm aiming to open is whether the sentence was lenient to the point of implying that what happened to her didn't matter, whether it is any deterrent to rapes, and what this means for people reporting rape in this country.

    He admitted it, and without his confession, the case would not have gotten anywhere. Did he deserve such a reduced sentence based on that, particularly given that it was a repeated offence? It seems rather like throwing this woman under the bus to encourage other rapists to plead guilty in the future. Or is there an element of because she wasn't aware of it while it was happening, it was considered less serious?

    It seems fairly appalling to me that he is being so publically supported by his company, and I reckon I wouldn't be too comfortable working for such a company. It smacks rather of the shaking-the-rapist's-hand disgusting business in Lisdowel a few years back.

    Edit: I did ask for and get permission to reopen this topic, in case anyone's wondering :)
    On that point, there was a lot more in that case than was reported by the media. And, tbh, I'm not even going to comment on what that was.

    It really opened my eyes to an agenda driven reporting that seems prevalent in Irish media these days.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,793 ✭✭✭tritium


    Tombi! wrote: »
    Good thing he was stupid enough to confess; terrible thing that without his confession, it wouldn't have been sent to court.

    Kind of understandable though. In the absence of the confession, and looking at the rest of the dynamic, it would seem pretty hard to get over the reasonable doubt hurdle.

    That's not to say the sentence isn't perplexing


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 DoniBrowne


    Any non consensual sex is considered as rape. So because she was asleep she didn't give her consent. Therefore it's rape and of course is a serious crime.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,173 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    So, I've been trying to reconcile this one a bit by taking the emotion out of it.

    Working back; at the end of the day, what is the purpose of punishment? To rehabilitate. To punish someone for a crime they have committed is to deny them of liberty in the hope that they will understand the impact of their crime and come out of their punishment reformed and not likely to commit another crime.

    The purpose of sentencing is not to make the criminal suffer. It is not to "make them pay". It is not to make a victim feel that justice has been done. It is not to serve as a deterrent to other would-be criminals.

    This is why guilty pleas get shorter sentences. The person got away with their crime until they were discovered. But then they put their hands up and said, "OK, fair cop, take me away". Incarceration in that case is to attempt to help the person realise that their mistake was not in getting caught, it was in committing the crime in the first place.

    This case goes one step further. The convicted man realised that what he did was wrong, and as the judge remarks, he extraordinarily came forward with his admission and his apology. He offered up the entire case because he already knew everything that he had done was wrong.

    With that in mind, what purpose would a jail term serve? The rehabilitation is "done" to a certain extent, it's clear from his actions that he understands the wrongness of what he's done.

    So as abhorrent as it "feels" that someone can rape another person multiple times and not be jailed, I can see the logic behind the judge imposing a completely suspended sentence. There's nothing to be accomplished by incarceration except to satisfy some concept of revenge or the outdated notion that penance should be paid for sinning.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,544 ✭✭✭Samaris


    I have difficulty in fully agreeing with the outcome, particularly for the sake of the woman who waived her anonymity to deal with this and who will be dealing with this whole horrible situation for a long time, but I can't really fault your logic.

    There is a question of if he knew it was wrong, why the hell didn't he stop when she confronted him? If he could agree he was wrong then and then -continued-, then he proved himself a danger because he couldn't control himself. Getting away with it again? I don't know, it doesn't seem like it can have much of an affect on him.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 127 ✭✭Buzz Meeks


    seamus wrote: »
    The purpose of sentencing is not to make the criminal suffer. It is not to "make them pay".


    Yeah, it is.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,537 ✭✭✭brevity


    seamus wrote: »
    So, I've been trying to reconcile this one a bit by taking the emotion out of it.

    Working back; at the end of the day, what is the purpose of punishment? To rehabilitate. To punish someone for a crime they have committed is to deny them of liberty in the hope that they will understand the impact of their crime and come out of their punishment reformed and not likely to commit another crime.

    The purpose of sentencing is not to make the criminal suffer. It is not to "make them pay". It is not to make a victim feel that justice has been done. It is not to serve as a deterrent to other would-be criminals.

    This is why guilty pleas get shorter sentences. The person got away with their crime until they were discovered. But then they put their hands up and said, "OK, fair cop, take me away". Incarceration in that case is to attempt to help the person realise that their mistake was not in getting caught, it was in committing the crime in the first place.

    This case goes one step further. The convicted man realised that what he did was wrong, and as the judge remarks, he extraordinarily came forward with his admission and his apology. He offered up the entire case because he already knew everything that he had done was wrong.

    With that in mind, what purpose would a jail term serve? The rehabilitation is "done" to a certain extent, it's clear from his actions that he understands the wrongness of what he's done.

    So as abhorrent as it "feels" that someone can rape another person multiple times and not be jailed, I can see the logic behind the judge imposing a completely suspended sentence. There's nothing to be accomplished by incarceration except to satisfy some concept of revenge or the outdated notion that penance should be paid for sinning.

    What about the victim then? How are they supposed to cope with the fact that the person who has committed a crime against them walks because the judge feels they are honest in their apology?

    That's sort of ****ed up IMO.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,115 ✭✭✭✭wp_rathead


    Seamus I'm sorry I don't buy that
    He repeatedly raped her..
    Are we meant to go "Ah fair play, atleast you admitted to it, off you go, good lad"
    If he knows NOW what he did was wrong then he knew after the first time he did it- and he REPEATEDLY raped her..
    There is no excuse for fully suspended sentence, more I read about this case more mind boggling / fury inducing the sentence gets


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 390 ✭✭VisibleGorilla


    Buzz Meeks wrote: »
    Yeah, it is.
    No it isn't.

    And it works out worse for society if it was.

    Great post there Seamus.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 390 ✭✭VisibleGorilla


    brevity wrote: »
    What about the victim then? How are they supposed to cope with the fact that the person who has committed a crime against them walks because the judge feels they are honest in their apology?

    That's sort of ****ed up IMO.
    The victim doesn't come into it.

    The law should work on logic, not emotion. If that was the case you'd have people being murdered on the streets, e.g mob rule... do you want to live in a society similar to that? Go look at some videos of lynchings in Africa or India then get back to me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,544 ✭✭✭Samaris


    wp_rathead wrote: »
    Seamus I'm sorry I don't buy that
    He repeatedly raped her..
    Are we meant to go "Ah fair play, atleast you admitted to it, off you go, good lad"
    If he knows NOW what he did was wrong then he knew after the first time he did it- and he REPEATEDLY raped her..
    There is no excuse for fully suspended sentence, more I read about this case more mind boggling / fury inducing the sentence gets

    I think he might be correct in his logic though. I don't like or really buy the sentence either, and she -did- confront him before he repeated the act a number more times, so he ought to have known it was wrong then. A reduced sentence based on his confession and apparently sincere regret is appropriate, but completely suspended? I can see the logic that Seamus has talked about there, but it just feels like a kick in the teeth for a multiple rape victim and brave woman.

    Edit: Yes, the victim DOES come into it. Else why are there "victim impact statements" taken into account in sentencing?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,882 ✭✭✭Saipanne


    brevity wrote: »
    What about the victim then? How are they supposed to cope with the fact that the person who has committed a crime against them walks because the judge feels they are honest in their apology?

    That's sort of ****ed up IMO.

    It is messed up. Some people...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,537 ✭✭✭brevity


    The victim doesn't come into it.

    The law should work on logic, not emotion. If that was the case you'd have people being murdered on the streets, e.g mob rule... do you want to live in a society similar to that? Go look at some videos of lynchings in Africa or India then get back to me.

    There is no logic to me in what Seamus posted. It doesn't make sense to me that if someone says sorry (no matter how sorry they are) then they should walk.

    I'm sure there are plenty of sorry people in jail right now for a lot less than rape.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    I heard he moved back home, I wonder how much this played in the judge's decision. He's no longer resident here therefore not our problem.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,173 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    brevity wrote: »
    What about the victim then? How are they supposed to cope with the fact that the person who has committed a crime against them walks because the judge feels they are honest in their apology?
    Sentencing is not about retribution and making victims feel better. If it was, we'd be executing people for stealing handbags.

    Ultimately sentencing has to reflect the best outcome for society. There's no point in imposing a sentence which will result in detriment for society.

    Imposing a custodial sentence typically is seen as beneficial to society because it serves to take a potential re-offender out of the public circulation, and ideologically at the end will release someone back into public who will not reoffend because they understand why their crime was wrong.

    In this particular case, what would society gain by sending him to jail? At the end of it you'd have a man who would probably be sorry that he came forward rather than sorry about his crime, he would be jobless and potentially homeless and stigmatised from getting another job in future.

    Rather than benefit society you have in fact damaged it.

    I'm really struggling to think of a reason here why this guy should get a prison sentence, when there would be no purpose to it. As sh1tty as that sounds.


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