So I recently met a girl......

realdanbreen wrote: »

What are her initials? I think I know her.

Is there an E in her name?

Kermit.de.frog wrote: »

Thread title promised much, Op delivered so little.

He should have wrote but after girl :mad:

realdanbreen wrote: »

You don't have an E Samaris.

It was a joke on my real name, which does have one.

But your name has THREE e's! What are you hiding, realdanbreen?

Irishguy16 wrote: »

Does anyone have any advice? any tactics or guidance?

Threesome.

Sam Kade wrote: »

She comes back pregnant then you're committed

No. No.

If she gets pregas it's the boyfriends

Run away, she's just trying to use you as a pawn in her womanly games of jealousy and intrigue . A Pawn I say!!!! Now I must bid you adeu.


On a more serious note - if she is leaving yer man fair enough. If not leave her alone. How would you feel if some guy was spending time alone with your girl?

Irishguy16 wrote: »

Just as the title says, but the only problem is she has a boyfriend. We went out for a meal a few weeks ago, and during the meal she made reference to the fact that she's in a relationship,only once, besides that she was flirtatious and really engaging and it almost seemed like a date.

Honestly it sounds to me that you may be filling an emotional/conversational void her boyfriend may not be able to. Where she may not even consider being physically intimate it seems like there is a degree of emotional connectivity (perhaps even intimacy) forming.

Irishguy16 wrote: »

We met again today, and no word about her boyfriend this time,we spent most of the afternoon together.It seems that she's enjoying the company, and so am I, and I'm beginning to like her, I'm not sure what's happening, or going to happen.

The events that seem to have transpired today cement what I said above, in my opinion. I wouldn't at all worry about the future, or attempt to project possibilities or outcomes; instead I would trust your instincts, and most importantly not be afraid to be blunt with her for your own sake.

Irishguy16 wrote: »

Does anyone have any advice? any tactics or guidance?

With regards to advice; as I mentioned above if it continues in a manner you don't like, I would level with her and ask what she is trying to achieve through your various meetings.
Above all else though I would continuously try and align your hopes with reality, as she seems slightly questionable to be honest!

Well not sure if this is any good- 14 years ago I was working with this fairly tasty one at work. I, in fact we will knew she had a b/friend but we never met him. Never went near her but would chat away socially as we worked together and had mutual friends. I genuinely had no interest in her as she simply wasn't my type.

But anyway...at a Xmas do. She just pounced on me. Back to my place a shagged her good and rotten- this continued for 4-6 weeks until I left for another job and oh and the small matter of wearing the face off another work colleague in front of her- who I also shagged rotten....good times indeed...:D

Bottom line- it was just some fun she had with me, went back to b/friend- no emotions etc. As I am a cold heartless bastard with no soul, it worked fine for me...;)

Enjoy it BUT keep it arms length- she is playing it like a monkey- will not let go of one branch until she has a hold of another. It's all a mind game to her. In fact, I bet the bigger the bastard you are the more she will want you.

Get a few shags and run- at the end of the day she is an attention seeking whore...don't forget that and you will be grand.