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Same Sex Marriage Referendum Mega Thread - MOD WARNING IN FIRST POST

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,084 ✭✭✭✭VinLieger


    dvdman1 wrote: »
    Not exclusively

    Neither do homosexuals


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    dvdman1 wrote: »
    Not exclusively

    Gay couples =/= male on male anal intercourse.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,625 ✭✭✭barry181091


    Ah lads, I can see this being very close now. I just cannot trust the polls. Nothing wrong with their statistics, but due to the nature of the referendum I think there really is a large proportion of 'closet' No's. The amount we are being bombarded with media relating to this, I can see a lot not bothering to vote and just assuming it will pass.

    I changed my vote and the council put me down as a British citizen. They are not getting off that easily :mad:

    Also, where is everyone getting all the Yes pins? I want one but can't bloody find one anywhere!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,664 ✭✭✭MrWalsh


    dvdman1 wrote: »
    Not exclusively

    Right, so what kind of gay sex are you concerned the kids will be taught?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,767 ✭✭✭✭molloyjh


    dvdman1 wrote: »
    Will they be teaching gay sex as part of school sex education if its yes?

    They don't teach hetero sex at the moment. They teach procreation and that's it. It's not like we were all taught about hetero foreplay and where the G spot was or anything like that.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,362 ✭✭✭K4t


    dvdman1 wrote: »
    Will they be teaching gay sex as part of school sex education if its yes?
    One would strongly hope they already do.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    dvdman1 wrote: »
    Will they be teaching gay sex as part of school sex education if its yes?

    Considering schools seem to abdicate sex education to the likes of the Pure at Heart group, I'd imagine not…

    http://www.irishtimes.com/news/education/sex-ed-in-ireland-it-s-all-disease-risk-and-crisis-pregnancy-1.2212770


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    molloyjh wrote: »
    They don't teach hetero sex at the moment. They teach procreation and that's it. It's not like we were all taught about hetero foreplay and where the G spot was or anything like that.

    Pfft, I'd hope they taught actual real sex stuff, not makey uppey stuff like that.

    :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 512 ✭✭✭dvdman1


    VinLieger wrote: »
    Neither do homosexuals

    True but surely consummation of a marriage isn't just kissing bj etc


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 512 ✭✭✭dvdman1


    Pfft, I'd hope they taught actual real sex stuff, not makey uppey stuff like that.

    :pac:

    We were thought real sex not just biology, thinking back I thought its way out of order and pretty pointless


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,682 ✭✭✭LookingFor


    molloyjh wrote: »
    They don't teach hetero sex at the moment. They teach procreation and that's it. It's not like we were all taught about hetero foreplay and where the G spot was or anything like that.

    Yeah - at least, in my case, it was heavily focused on the biological process of reproduction rather than marital sex in the general case. With a small side order of the flip side of that, in contraception. I mean, there were trimmings about 'love' etc. but it was very orientated around 'this is how a baby happens'.

    And as always, these things - even in that - were dependent on school ethos and individual parental consent. Even 20 years ago there were 'levels' of discussion on these things a child could opt in and out of, with parental consent.

    I don't see that changing just because there are a small amount more married couples doing 'the sex' while not making a baby. In the end, the overriding principle is that whatever kids are taught, it's dependent on the school ethos and the parent.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    K4t wrote: »
    One would strongly hope they already do.

    No, they don't have to. I think they might have to recognise the existence of same sex couples, along with other contentious topics like divorce, in Civics classes but sex education would be taught within the ethos of the school.
    There is a common RSE programme for all students, but schools can tweak it depending on their ethos.

    http://www.irishtimes.com/news/education/sex-on-the-syllabus-what-are-our-children-taught-1.1677796


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,682 ✭✭✭LookingFor


    No, they don't have to. I think they might have to recognise the existence of same sex couples, along with other contentious topics like divorce, in Civics classes

    Yes, in civics classes there's an obligation to educate people about the law, and that's were a change would have to be reflected. That's not sex education, however. And religious classes can teach whatever they want about marriage, no more or less than they already do.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 11,645 Mod ✭✭✭✭Hermy


    dvdman1 wrote: »
    Will they be teaching gay sex as part of school sex education if its yes?

    And what harm if they do?
    Sometimes not talking about things creates more problems than talking about them does.

    Genealogy Forum Mod



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,554 ✭✭✭bjork


    Will this give me equal rights to hang out in the "gay sauna"?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    LookingFor wrote: »
    Yes, in civics classes there's an obligation to educate people about the law, and that's were a change would have to be reflected. That's not sex education, however. And religious classes can teach whatever they want about marriage, no more or less than they already do.

    That's what I was saying with 'sex education would be taught within the ethos of the school.'


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    There is a common RSE programme for all students, but schools can tweak it depending on their ethos.

    That's insane! Is there any other subject that could be taught like that?

    Teacher: Now, in todays Maths class, we're going to learn about how 2 + 2 = 1987762904.z.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,682 ✭✭✭LookingFor


    That's what I was saying with 'sex education would be taught within the ethos of the school.'

    Yeah, sorry, was just adding color and emphasis to your point :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,897 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    There are 600+ rules in Leviticus, still followed by strict orthodox jews (although without the stonings and executions for rule-breakers, obviously). For no textual reason whatever, Christians pick out the anti-gay rule, and ignore the vast majority.

    Jim Jeffries has a great comedy bit where he's pretending he's God talking about gay people. "It's in my book. I fcuking hate f@ggots. It's in there twice. I also mentioned that I hate shellfish 7 times, but you seem to like shellfish so I've forgotten about that one" (Paraphrased a little bit)


  • Moderators, Music Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,740 Mod ✭✭✭✭Boom_Bap


    MOD
    I'm not sure why the birds and bees has come into this discussion. This is about same sex marriage, not what goes on in the bedroom.
    So can that discussion be canned please.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    That's insane! Is there any other subject that could be taught like that?

    Teacher: Now, in todays Maths class, we're going to learn about how 2 + 2 = 1987762904.z.

    Check out the article I linked to a couple of posts above about groups like Pure at Heart. Absolutely insane.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,951 ✭✭✭frostyjacks


    tigger123 wrote: »
    It really doesn't. It's their job to make the facts known in an impartial way. They can't take sides, they are stating the facts of the Referendum. Simple as. The No side have waged a campaign of lies, misinformation and scare mongering.

    Well why are they taking a viewpoint on it? If it's a fact, just state it as a fact. No wonder the no camp are making the most of this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    Well why are they taking a viewpoint on it? If it's a fact, just state it as a fact. No wonder the no camp are making the most of this.

    It's stated as their view as the impartial body.

    Just because you've gotten the wrong end of the stick doesn't make it the wrong stick.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,554 ✭✭✭bjork


    As no one has answered my question about the saunas, I'm going to presume these "equal rights" we're all bleating about, aren't all that "equal" after all


    Equality for some, more for others


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,775 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    John Mcguinness is voting no, as will other members in FF which is against the party's official position.
    In the by election, Bobby Aylward says he is voting yes but is unconvincing. But when you are power hungry, you do what the party tells you.

    There hasn't been any canvassing where I live on any of the referendums, but there has with the by election.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    Boom_Bap wrote: »
    MOD
    I'm not sure why the birds and bees has come into this discussion. This is about same sex marriage, not what goes on in the bedroom.
    So can that discussion be canned please.

    Considering it has been made one of the arguments from the No side over the last couple of days, is it not relevant to clarify how it affects schools?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,192 ✭✭✭✭drunkmonkey


    MrWalsh wrote: »
    Surrogacy isnt legislated for at all in this country so any issues that exist for same sex marriage also exist for opposite sex marriage.

    I cant see how it can ever be legislated for in Ireland as long as we have enforced pregnancies.

    It needs to be, this should really all be done first before altering marriage. Should be last not first.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    bjork wrote: »
    As no one has answered my question about the saunas, I'm going to presume these "equal rights" we're all bleating about, aren't all that "equal" after all


    Equality for some, more for others

    If you want to, I'm sure there's fook all stopping you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,605 ✭✭✭tigger123


    Well why are they taking a viewpoint on it? If it's a fact, just state it as a fact. No wonder the no camp are making the most of this.

    The No camp are making the most of it because they're grasping at straws. No other arguments that make any sense so they'll grab at anything.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,605 ✭✭✭tigger123


    bjork wrote: »
    As no one has answered my question about the saunas, I'm going to presume these "equal rights" we're all bleating about, aren't all that "equal" after all


    Equality for some, more for others

    No one is stopping you.


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