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Same Sex Marriage Referendum Mega Thread - MOD WARNING IN FIRST POST

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  • Registered Users, Subscribers, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47,393 ✭✭✭✭Zaph


    Discodog wrote: »
    I am amazed that, especially after the comments from the referendum commission, that the No campaign are still allowed to use surrogacy, children etc on their posters.

    The posters that refer to a man not being able to give the love of a mother is a gross insult to thousands of single parent families. If a wife dies does it mean that a husband isn't capable of showing love to his children ?

    Unfortunately there's no legislation that prohibits lying on campaign posters. If that were the case the politicians would be screwed at every election.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,435 ✭✭✭✭endacl


    Cuban Pete wrote: »
    So we've had paedophilia, bestiality, polygamy and now incest. Makes ya wonder what the next red herring could be.

    Marrying fish.

    Obviously.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,458 ✭✭✭✭gandalf


    Cuban Pete wrote: »
    So we've had paedophilia, bestiality, polygamy and now incest. Makes ya wonder what the next red herring could be.

    The Iona "Institute" were waffling on about two same sex non homosexual friends marrying to dodge taxes during the week?

    I really am waiting with baited breath to see what these guys think up of next.

    They are like script writers on one of those bad weekday afternoon soaps :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,671 ✭✭✭Tin Foil Hat


    Discodog wrote: »
    I am amazed that, especially after the comments from the referendum commission, that the No campaign are still allowed to use surrogacy, children etc on their posters.

    The posters that refer to a man not being able to give the love of a mother is a gross insult to thousands of single parent families. If a wife dies does it mean that a husband isn't capable of showing love to his children ?

    There is, quite literally, no argument against gay marriage. What else are the homophobes supposed to put on their posters, if not these kinds of lies? "Vote NO because Gays are icky", probably wouldn't win too many votes.

    This referendum will be carried by more than 2 to 1. Ten years from now, when we are living in a country where gay marriage is an everyday event, and the sky hasn't fallen on our heads, 80% of of the 300-350k or so people who will vote no will be embarrassed to admit it in polite company.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,632 ✭✭✭mrsoundie




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    Ah for fecks sake are we back onto slippery slopes? I think the Referendum Commission has done the country a great disservice by failing to cater its information booklet to the lowest common denominator on the intelligence spectrum. Clearly there was a vital need to add that the referendum passing will not result in people marrying their vacuum cleaners, pet rabbits or sisters.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,632 ✭✭✭mrsoundie


    Kiwi in IE wrote: »
    Ah for fecks sake are we back onto slippery slopes? I think the Referendum Commission has done the country a great disservice by failing to cater its information booklet to the lowest common denominator on the intelligence spectrum. Clearly there was a vital need to add that the referendum passing will not result in people marrying their vacuum cleaners, pet rabbits or sisters.

    We are approaching the limits of the NO campaign, this week will be even more full of misdirection, muddying of the waters and outrageous lying. The thing to remember is that you should never argue with an idiot,, they will bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.

    I thought Alan Shatter was very good on the news at One. http://www.rte.ie/radio1/news-at-one/programmes/2015/0515/701392-news-at-one-friday-15-may-2015/?clipid=1880850


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 351 ✭✭Dimithy


    From my reading of the many, many different and sometimes contradictory reasons for not voting yes, I have come to the conclusion that those voting no would be in favour of the following changes being made to current marriage law:

    To qualify for marriage:
    All couples must prove their ability to produce children, as marriage only has one purpose in society.
    All couples must prove that they are not just friends by providing evidence of their sexual activities, as marriage only has one purpose in society.
    Any couple who does not produce the required children will have their marriage annulled, as marriage only has one purpose in society.

    Also, we cannot allow for gay marriage until I am allowed to marry 2 of my sisters, and my dead wife's mothers sister.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,531 ✭✭✭Wrongway1985


    gandalf wrote: »
    AGAIN JUST TO BE CLEAR THE REFERENDUM IS NOT ABOUT CHILDREN IT'S ABOUT EQUALITY OF MARRIAGE.

    Maybe you should ensure you know what you're voting on before you slither to the voting centre on Friday.

    Correct its about redefining marriage but denying that its a direct link to the family unit (family is what people become when they marry) is plain ignorance.

    A family is the principle institution for the socialization of children.

    Yeah people should know what they are voting for.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 351 ✭✭Dimithy


    Correct its about redefining marriage but denying that its a direct link to the family unit (family is what people become when they marry) is plain ignorance.

    A family is the principle institution for the socialization of children.

    Yeah people should know what they are voting for.

    Ok, and if we vote yes, what exactly is going to change for The Family?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 781 ✭✭✭Not a NSA agent


    Im expecting the Chewbacca defense any moment now.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,154 ✭✭✭silverfeather


    A friend on FB pointed this out to me. He can take his marriage cert on Fri as proof of identification to vote he couldn't with an "equal" civil partnership certificate. :-P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,643 ✭✭✭Woodville56


    Just spotted this little nugget on the tweet machine
    " Marriage is something that ordinary, loving couples do, it’s for this reason, and no other, that the No campaign want to see #MarRef fail"

    With this "profound" sound bite reasoning, how can the Yes side fail ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,899 ✭✭✭✭road_high


    mrsoundie wrote: »
    We are approaching the limits of the NO campaign, this week will be even more full of misdirection, muddying of the waters and outrageous lying. The thing to remember is that you should never argue with an idiot,, they will bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.

    I thought Alan Shatter was very good on the news at One. http://www.rte.ie/radio1/news-at-one/programmes/2015/0515/701392-news-at-one-friday-15-may-2015/?clipid=1880850

    I think Alan shatter is a great man, and I've been unpopular for saying it. He got an awful time but in fairmess I think the man has the best interests of all in society at heart with regards to social progression and protections. Conservative Ireland didn't like him and used his personality as a weapon to vilify him last year.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,458 ✭✭✭✭gandalf


    Correct its about redefining marriage but denying that its a direct link to the family unit (family is what people become when they marry) is plain ignorance.

    A family is the principle institution for the socialization of children.

    Yeah people should know what they are voting for.

    So by your definition people can only have children if they are married. Oh dear looks like the real world isn't listening.

    I know a large number of people who have married but have not decide to have children. Does that mean that they are "married lite" according to your definition?

    I also know a large number of people who have decided to have children without getting married. Does that mean they are "Parents lite" according to your definition as it appears that you are saying you are only allow have children if you are married?

    Also a family is defined as a married couple.

    From my perspective denying citizens the rights that some others get automatically is against our constitution.
    All citizens shall, as human persons, be held equal before the law.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 351 ✭✭Dimithy


    Just spotted this little nugget on the tweet machine
    " Marriage is something that ordinary, loving couples do, it’s for this reason, and no other, that the No campaign want to see #MarRef fail"

    With this "profound" sound bite reasoning, how can the Yes side fail ?

    Almost as good as this one

    "Given that two heterosexual men or women can marry each other if #MarRef passes, what will marriage then be?"

    Checkmate Yes voters!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,047 ✭✭✭✭Discodog


    Zaph wrote: »
    Unfortunately there's no legislation that prohibits lying on campaign posters. If that were the case the politicians would be screwed at every election.

    Election posters usually involve promises. The referendum posters should only be allowed to post the truth. This can be open to interpretation but blatant lies should be stopped.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,458 ✭✭✭✭gandalf


    Dimithy wrote: »
    Almost as good as this one

    "Given that two heterosexual men or women can marry each other if #MarRef passes, what will marriage then be?"

    Checkmate Yes voters!

    Ohh Ohh I know this one.......


    .
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    Marriage

    :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 781 ✭✭✭Not a NSA agent


    Discodog wrote: »
    Election posters usually involve promises. The referendum posters should only be allowed to post the truth. This can be open to interpretation but blatant lies should be stopped.

    To be honest I would rather see only a neutral party be allowed to advertise. Anyone else would only be talking about things that make their side sound good.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,664 ✭✭✭MrWalsh


    Discodog wrote: »
    Election posters usually involve promises. The referendum posters should only be allowed to post the truth. This can be open to interpretation but blatant lies should be stopped.

    Some of the No posters defy common sense.

    "Two men can't replace a mothers love" - by that logic two women will double it!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    SafeSurfer wrote: »
    I agree that surrogacy is a red herring. But it is also clear that tge referendum will extend greater freedom to marry to bisexuals than heterosexuals.
    SafeSurfer wrote: »
    No. A bisexual man can marry his late wife's uncle but a heterosexual man cannot marry his late wife's aunt.

    I am going to vote no now that this has been brought to to my attention. This is vitally important! I am printing flyers now so that I can start handing them out tomorrow to warn everyone that this could be about to occur!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,458 ✭✭✭✭gandalf


    Kiwi in IE wrote: »
    I am going to vote no now that this has been brought to to my attention. This is vitally important! I am printing flyers now so that I can start handing them out tomorrow to warn everyone that this could be about to occur!

    God can you imagine how fun the parties the "bleeding knuckles brigade" are having at the moment thinking up obscure "red herrings" to throw out for this referendum.

    Some of the latest ones sound like they were formulated towards the end of the night after a few too many glasses of sherry ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,899 ✭✭✭✭road_high


    Discodog wrote: »
    Election posters usually involve promises. The referendum posters should only be allowed to post the truth. This can be open to interpretation but blatant lies should be stopped.

    I think the whole lot of them should be banned outright.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    gandalf wrote: »
    God can you imagine how fun the parties the "bleeding knuckles brigade" are having at the moment thinking up obscure "red herrings" to throw out for this referendum.

    Some of the latest ones sound like they were formulated towards the end of the night after a few too many glasses of sherry ;)


    LGBT couples being able to call their house 'the family home' will cause your house to devalue!

    Toads will fall from the sky on Saturday.

    There will be an ice cream shortage this summer.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,531 ✭✭✭Wrongway1985


    gandalf wrote: »
    So by your definition people can only have children if they are married. Oh dear looks like the real world isn't listening

    People can of course have children but this relates to marriage...cohabiting couples do not have the same rights as those who are married


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    Discodog wrote: »
    I am amazed that, especially after the comments from the referendum commission, that the No campaign are still allowed to use surrogacy, children etc on their posters.

    The posters that refer to a man not being able to give the love of a mother is a gross insult to thousands of single parent families. If a wife dies does it mean that a husband isn't capable of showing love to his children ?

    It's because they don't care about the facts, and never have.

    It's just that the can't say what they really think, so need some sort of sham argument to hide behind. Occasionally, they let the mask slip though:
    Boyle, a lawyer and a mother of four, said her side is counting on a backlash to a new era in which homosexuality has become “normalized.” When even Catholic schools plan lessons around LGBT Awareness Week, she said, she needs to be on guard against attempts to indoctrinate her own children. “The idea of having two dads, they just go, ‘Eww, that’s not right,’ ” she said.

    http://www.washingtonpost.com/world/europe/after-decades-in-the-shadows-gays-in-ireland-ready-for-coming-out-party/2015/05/16/9e2bb6e4-f8ca-11e4-a47c-e56f4db884ed_story.html


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    SafeSurfer wrote: »
    Can you show me where in the constitution it states that I cannot marry my wife's mother's sister?

    It does not. That restriction is in statute (legislation). It is not being changed by the current referendum.

    The constitution does not refer to legislation; legislation refers to the constitution. Perhaps you should read about how our Constitution works?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    There is, quite literally, no argument against gay marriage. What else are the homophobes supposed to put on their posters, if not these kinds of lies? "Vote NO because Gays are icky", probably wouldn't win too many votes.

    This referendum will be carried by more than 2 to 1. Ten years from now, when we are living in a country where gay marriage is an everyday event, and the sky hasn't fallen on our heads, 80% of of the 300-350k or so people who will vote no will be embarrassed to admit it in polite company.

    I wish, but it won't be anywhere near that wide a margin.

    From my experience on the doors, this will be tight - and I have been canvassing in Dublin and surrounding areas which are more liberal than other places.

    If people don't show up, we will lose. So please don't think this is done, and please get out and vote! Those who don't vote are handing victory to the over-represented minority.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,458 ✭✭✭✭gandalf


    People can of course have children but this relates to marriage...cohabiting couples do not have the same rights as those who are married

    Like I have said numerous times voting yes does not change my marriage to my wife or my relationship to my son. It extends the protection that we have as a married couple to those who are only able to cohabit at the moment as you have stated above.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    gk5000 wrote: »
    You are in trouble if that is the extent of your reading .

    Ok I'll try another bad example - Say you had a favourite pub, which morphed into a gay bar/druggie bar/sports bar/yuppie bar... would you still like that bar?

    How pathetically insecure heterosexuals must be about marriage. If the simple fact that my relationship would be seen as equal to theirs would damage a heterosexual marriage, how horrendously insecure and fragile their relationship must be.

    If you only value marriage because other relationships are seen as inferior, you have no business marrying.


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