Describe yourself as you are right now.

x Purple Pawprints x · 17-04-2015 07:51PM

All alone (as usual).. All this loneliness better be bloody worth it if Mr. Right ever decides to show up..

Determined to get to my goal weight this year

Pensive.. As you can see above

greenfrogs · 17-04-2015 07:57PM

Starving
Sore
Worried

Autosport · 17-04-2015 08:15PM

Feeling better
Happy it's the start of the weekend
Delighted no alarm in the morning

Georgie.Girl · 17-04-2015 08:51PM

wanna go home

...problem is, there's no such place...

stop animal cruelty · 17-04-2015 10:34PM

Bored off my titties at work.

oseia · 17-04-2015 11:32PM

Confused. Sad. Drained.

lennyloulou · 18-04-2015 12:39AM

broken hearted- I am recently widowed at 34yrs
sad
lonely and scared

PaperWeight_88 · 18-04-2015 07:00PM

Hopeful. Lonely. Unfocused

PaperWeight_88 · 18-04-2015 07:02PM

Hopeful. Lonely. Unfocused

Hopeful that I will find a person to give my love to and he will be crazy about me in return.

Lonely because I have so much love to give. But he decided he didn't want or need it.

Unfocused on my work because he is all up in my thoughts!

Georgie.Girl · 18-04-2015 07:06PM

wish to be a hermit today...on a tropical island, where no phones can reach me.

Redhenrun · 18-04-2015 09:13PM

Surfing but bored.

loubian · 18-04-2015 11:26PM

Can I have more than 3 words just this once?

Dejected. Ugly. Fat. Exhausted. Lonely. Drained. Broke. Paranoid.

I know I am not ugly but I am so self conscious.

PaperWeight_88 · 19-04-2015 11:19AM

loubian wrote: »

I know I am not ugly but I am so self conscious.

Why do we do this to ourselves? We feel something about ourselves even when we know it is not completely true. We magnify it and it consumes us. I do it myself all the time.
Its a constant preoccupation with how other people may see you.

fistfights · 19-04-2015 01:49PM

Stressed.
Tired.
Depressed.

LegacyUser · 19-04-2015 10:02PM

really lonely
questioning myself
can't sleep

break ups suck

banie01 · 20-04-2015 08:33AM

lennyloulou wrote: »

broken hearted- I am recently widowed at 34yrs
sad
lonely and scared

LennyLouLou, 1st off my sincere condolences on your loss.
Its a horrible scary place to be and it will get a worse before it gets any better...
But, and I know this sounds patronizing, It really will get better.
You are mourning a lost future aswell as your lost husband. the hopes and dreams ye both shared for the future are gone.
It will take you time to cope with this, to learn how live without him.
It will take even more time to not feel anger, rage and resentment at the world, at God, at whatever higher power dealt you this sh!tty hand....
It will surprise yourself at how angry seeing other people happily getting on with their lives can make you(Why are they happy and together? When you and your husband were wrenched apart?)
But you will come through it, you will be changed by it.

Theres nothing anyone can say to you now to help you cope that won't sound like plain old BS....
How can anyone else understand? How can they even appreciate whats happened to you, what you've lost and more importantly who?
There's something I learned when I lost my wife....they don't need to understand our loss...
They love us and want to help us cope, we have to understand that and try not to shut out those that care and want to help us.
Don't shut yourself away, accept the help and support of friends and family.
Don't be afraid to talk about your husband, to talk about your feelings and above all don't think you need to grieve to a timetable.

There are some fantastic supports out there, from the bereavement forum here on boards.ie to a fantastic site @ www.widow.ie where people in similar situations share and support each other.

Zanablue · 20-04-2015 06:36PM

lennyloulou wrote: »

broken hearted- I am recently widowed at 34yrs
sad
lonely and scared

Oh I am so sorry, my heart goes out to you.xx

LadyAthame · 20-04-2015 07:12PM

lennyloulou wrote: »

broken hearted- I am recently widowed at 34yrs
sad
lonely and scared

So sorry. Beanie has some of the greatest advice I have read. Reach out to your family and friends. xx

Autosport · 20-04-2015 09:10PM

lennyloulou wrote: »

broken hearted- I am recently widowed at 34yrs
sad
lonely and scared

Sorry for your loss xxxxxx

Georgie.Girl · 21-04-2015 12:28AM

ta old friend

Georgie.Girl · 21-04-2015 12:56AM

take care lenny

Wobbly_Legs · 21-04-2015 11:02AM

Sad
Angry
Heartbroken

larrymickdick · 21-04-2015 11:08AM

GET OUT THERE!
(do it, do it, do it...)

Mallagio · 21-04-2015 11:23AM

Ready to be me again.

loubian · 22-04-2015 02:42PM

75 minutes left

x Purple Pawprints x · 22-04-2015 03:18PM

Relaxed
Proud
Determined

I'm getting to my goal weight once and for all this time. 17lbs to go as of this morning.

Zanablue · 22-04-2015 03:30PM

x Purple Pawprints x wrote: »

Relaxed
Proud
Determined

I'm getting to my goal weight once and for all this time. 17lbs to go as of this morning.

Well done! I am hoping to get to my goal soon too.

Determined and hanging onto the wagon:)

x Purple Pawprints x · 22-04-2015 03:38PM

Zanablue wrote: »

Well done! I am hoping to get to my goal soon too.

Determined and hanging onto the wagon:)

I'm setting a time - 17lbs before Electric Picnic. I'm hoping that's doable in 19 weeks!

Best of luck!

Mozzeltoff · 22-04-2015 03:40PM

Seething with anger :mad:

Georgie.Girl · 22-04-2015 08:17PM

envious
forlorn
...tired

Describe yourself as you are right now.

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